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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Backwoods901 on August 28, 2016, 11:10:00 AM
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Damn, I realize i never posted an Intro on here.
My names is Seth, I reside in North eastern NC, I have 4 kids under 7 who keep me busy on a regular basis and with being in the Coast guard My off time is dedicated to them. I have been quit since January 7th 2016 it hit me while i stuffed my face at work one night that i was dwindling My life away by stuffing my face i walked into the bathroom flushed the can and walked away without looking back. It has been a tough ride and will be there have been weekends where i feel like i just need to throw a lip in but that's where the contacts come into place and trolling on this site. I believe accountability is key and it goes from the newest member to the oldest and this is why we all need to place ourselves out there for the new guys.
I personally was done after 100 then i was talked into 200 and i almost failed at that, then I realized if i can scroll through facebook i could actually dedicate myself to this site and doing something useful with my time, so I gave up facebook and came here instead. It has been the most rewarding thing I could do and it has helped me in My own quit. Now I realize why vets are constantly pissed at some new guys because we all acted like no one ever went through this and it was to hard. We were the kids in the checkout line at the store screaming I want candy now, we had no patience to let the time help us in our quit. Dedicating ourselves to this site and letting time take the rest has been the biggest key. I no longer thing about chew anymore I have my focus on checking here and seeing if anyone else needs help. It has become a passion of mine to help anyone who needs it on here and to assist in this battle because I want to return what was given to me.
With that i would like to thank Cornholio personally he has been there for me from the start and he has constantly shown dedication to helping me with anything i needed and was always available if i needed it. he sent me this PM when i was ready to be done and was thinking about heading to the C-store and calling it quits.
"I am going to make this quit happen harder then anyrhing else I have done in life and am ready for the next chapter without a can in my pocket or late night runs to the gas station for a can. No more drinking coffee with a chew in I'm done. I will be posting in roll call everyday and insuring I make this happen. I will be a quitter"
Do it man. Go ALL IN. Fight, Fight, Fight for the first 100. Give it EVERYTHING you have. You want to beat the living shit out of nic. Shock and awe approach.
It will not have to be that way forever. Although you will need to remind yourself that you're an addict and as tempting as it may be later to have just one, you just have to remember you can't have that one.
But that's the future. Right now you're in the ring and fighting hard. Find some additional weapons to bring to the fight. You are in to kill, not hurt.
There's two things you can do to put some serious injury on nic
1. Post up every day first thing. Wake, piss, roll. Start your day with a battle cry.
2. swap numbers
Push hard now and you'll be very glad you did.
Let's do this!
Mike
From then on i knew i had to not get complacent and here i am, So for any newbies out there reach out it may be the best decision you make in your quit I know if it wasn't for Mike i would of been posting a Day 1 again and would be going through the hell and disappointment in myself for not using what was put in front of me.
-Seth
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Hell yeah Seth! Glad you have decided to jump in and show that it's never too late to add some real value.
Keep it coming brother!
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Hell yeah Seth! Glad you have decided to jump in and show that it's never too late to add some real value.
Keep it coming brother!
So glad you're still here, in quitting badassery, and also paying it forward every day.
I quit with you brother.
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Hell yeah Seth! Glad you have decided to jump in and show that it's never too late to add some real value.
Keep it coming brother!
So glad you're still here, in quitting badassery, and also paying it forward every day.
I quit with you brother.
Thanks to both of you proud to be quit with you PKY and CHICK
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Your input and help and encouragement on this site has not been lost on any of us snot-nosed newbies behind you, Seth. Proud to be quit with you EDD!
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You've spread some bad ass knowledge around dude. Well done.
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Your input and help and encouragement on this site has not been lost on any of us snot-nosed newbies behind you, Seth. Proud to be quit with you EDD!
I'm here to help you snot nosed newbies always
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You've spread some bad ass knowledge around dude. Well done.
Thank you always striving to be like you bad ass vets
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You've spread some bad ass knowledge around dude. Well done.
Thank you always striving to be like you bad ass vets
You know I'm sorry to say I never knew who backwoods was. Then one day out of the blues I'm posting up support in other groups I see, backwoods in almost every one I posted in. I start watching a little closer and I say WOW we have a genuine quitter here! You see just like I was told one day it just snaps and you realize, I am a quitter and I can beat this bitch! ODAAT! Keep giving back and thanks for supporting my group! Damn proud to be quit with you!
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You've spread some bad ass knowledge around dude. Well done.
Thank you always striving to be like you bad ass vets
You know I'm sorry to say I never knew who backwoods was. Then one day out of the blues I'm posting up support in other groups I see, backwoods in almost every one I posted in. I start watching a little closer and I say WOW we have a genuine quitter here! You see just like I was told one day it just snaps and you realize, I am a quitter and I can beat this bitch! ODAAT! Keep giving back and thanks for supporting my group! Damn proud to be quit with you!
Thanks Pab always glad to be quit with you
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Nice to see this intro after meeting you in chat. You are a bad ass quitter, and an excellent quit brother! Keep doing what your doing, you are helping so many to succeed.
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Thanks for always stopping into October and saying hello!
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Nice to see this intro after meeting you in chat. You are a bad ass quitter, and an excellent quit brother! Keep doing what your doing, you are helping so many to succeed.
Nomo, I always enjoy our chats and am glad i stumbled on you in there its been great!!
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Nice brother!! Glad to see you so active in helping out with our quit. It really helps.
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Nice brother!! Glad to see you so active in helping out with our quit. It really helps.
Thanks man I have been trying my best to put myself out there for you guys and whoever needs it. Maybe Walmart bingo would help peoples quits.
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Thanks for always stopping into October and saying hello!
Armydan,
I enjoy your group the most it reminds me of how April use to be, You guys need to stay dedicated here and keep the ball busting going it makes my day so much better to jump in with you guys and enjoy this place
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Cool. I was wondering what sparked your sudden and very welcome increase in activity. I had been very active in a personal finance forum before getting active here. I rarely visit that site now. I had always felt like a fraud getting and giving personal finance advice while I was spending so much on the Grizzly.
I have four kids, too. Ages range from 6 - 14. My oldest will start her HS freshman year this fall.
Proud to be quit with you backwoods.
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Throwing a thank you out to backwoods for the short chats already, and for being one of many inspirational bad ass quitters on this site! You rock, along with Chick and Nomore, and so many others on here!
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Cool. I was wondering what sparked your sudden and very welcome increase in activity. I had been very active in a personal finance forum before getting active here. I rarely visit that site now. I had always felt like a fraud getting and giving personal finance advice while I was spending so much on the Grizzly.
I have four kids, too. Ages range from 6 - 14. My oldest will start her HS freshman year this fall.
Proud to be quit with you backwoods.
It clicked about 2 weeks ago and i realized i need to be her and try to help instead of posting and ghosting. Its good to see so many April brothers on here helping as much as they can.
Always glad to be quit with you!
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Cool. I was wondering what sparked your sudden and very welcome increase in activity. I had been very active in a personal finance forum before getting active here. I rarely visit that site now. I had always felt like a fraud getting and giving personal finance advice while I was spending so much on the Grizzly.
I have four kids, too. Ages range from 6 - 14. My oldest will start her HS freshman year this fall.
Proud to be quit with you backwoods.
It clicked about 2 weeks ago and i realized i need to be her and try to help instead of posting and ghosting. Its good to see so many April brothers on here helping as much as they can.
Always glad to be quit with you!
This is the best decision you've made.
We let ourselves down for years. The idea of disappointing and failing all of the people that respect you on KTC.... No way. No way a plant in a can will take away your integrity.
Brotherhood.
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Way to get involved brother! Helping other quitters is the real shit!
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Always a breath of fresh air when we get to see a guy grab the bull by its horns and jump head first into his quit. Its that drive that helps continue to fuel the drive of both new and old quitters. Keep it up BW - you've got the attention of a lot of Badass quitters - which is exactly what you need to keep doing. The more accountability, the stronger your bonds, and the stronger your quit.
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Always a breath of fresh air when we get to see a guy grab the bull by its horns and jump head first into his quit. Its that drive that helps continue to fuel the drive of both new and old quitters. Keep it up BW - you've got the attention of a lot of Badass quitters - which is exactly what you need to keep doing. The more accountability, the stronger your bonds, and the stronger your quit.
Thank you i appreciate it i am trying my damn best here to make a long lasting impression on here.
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So tonight sucked 241 days in and I felt great about going out to work on my project truck for the first time since i quit (73 f100) well lo and behold there was a trigger and a major one. I own 6 cars only 2 don't run, so you can imagine what i spent alot of time doing. I don't even have to change my oil anymore my 6 year old does.
While tonight was no different was starting on the heads for my other none running car an 06 kia that needs heads rebuilt and i thought how easy that job would be to knock out then head out to the truck to spend some quality time with a 6 pack of Carolina blonde and my truck. I was pumped getting back into the flow of what i enjoy spending time doing me the radio and car work. well that did not work out very well i legitamently sat down in my stool and started to work and was instantly in a daze and well i turned around came inside.
Well as you see now here I Am sitting at my table typing this out and drinking my 6 pack with no work completed but another win for the ole not letting the nic bitch back in. But damn it sucks I was so pumped to have that job done and to start on my truck again.
one day i will finish up something like that without having to have a crave other then that I am quit with all of you
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So tonight sucked 241 days in and I felt great about going out to work on my project truck for the first time since i quit (73 f100) well lo and behold there was a trigger and a major one. I own 6 cars only 2 don't run, so you can imagine what i spent alot of time doing. I don't even have to change my oil anymore my 6 year old does.
While tonight was no different was starting on the heads for my other none running car an 06 kia that needs heads rebuilt and i thought how easy that job would be to knock out then head out to the truck to spend some quality time with a 6 pack of Carolina blonde and my truck. I was pumped getting back into the flow of what i enjoy spending time doing me the radio and car work. well that did not work out very well i legitamently sat down in my stool and started to work and was instantly in a daze and well i turned around came inside.
Well as you see now here I Am sitting at my table typing this out and drinking my 6 pack with no work completed but another win for the ole not letting the nic bitch back in. But damn it sucks I was so pumped to have that job done and to start on my truck again.
one day i will finish up something like that without having to have a crave other then that I am quit with all of you
It gets better. A lot.
You'll get there. Nice win dude.
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So tonight sucked 241 days in and I felt great about going out to work on my project truck for the first time since i quit (73 f100) well lo and behold there was a trigger and a major one. I own 6 cars only 2 don't run, so you can imagine what i spent alot of time doing. I don't even have to change my oil anymore my 6 year old does.
While tonight was no different was starting on the heads for my other none running car an 06 kia that needs heads rebuilt and i thought how easy that job would be to knock out then head out to the truck to spend some quality time with a 6 pack of Carolina blonde and my truck. I was pumped getting back into the flow of what i enjoy spending time doing me the radio and car work. well that did not work out very well i legitamently sat down in my stool and started to work and was instantly in a daze and well i turned around came inside.
Well as you see now here I Am sitting at my table typing this out and drinking my 6 pack with no work completed but another win for the ole not letting the nic bitch back in. But damn it sucks I was so pumped to have that job done and to start on my truck again.
one day i will finish up something like that without having to have a crave other then that I am quit with all of you
It gets better. A lot.
You'll get there. Nice win dude.
It takes time. 240-50 days quit compared to how many YEARS you spent polluting your brain with enough nicotine to kill a lab rat on a daily basis? No wonder we are all foggy from time to time even months into a quit. You keep doing what you're doing and as WTW said, it'll get better. A LOT better. It doesn't ever completely go away, but I have a hunch within a year or so, that F100 will be back on the road! (Not that I'm a blue oval fan, but I like old cars too).
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So tonight sucked 241 days in and I felt great about going out to work on my project truck for the first time since i quit (73 f100) well lo and behold there was a trigger and a major one. I own 6 cars only 2 don't run, so you can imagine what i spent alot of time doing. I don't even have to change my oil anymore my 6 year old does.
While tonight was no different was starting on the heads for my other none running car an 06 kia that needs heads rebuilt and i thought how easy that job would be to knock out then head out to the truck to spend some quality time with a 6 pack of Carolina blonde and my truck. I was pumped getting back into the flow of what i enjoy spending time doing me the radio and car work. well that did not work out very well i legitamently sat down in my stool and started to work and was instantly in a daze and well i turned around came inside.
Well as you see now here I Am sitting at my table typing this out and drinking my 6 pack with no work completed but another win for the ole not letting the nic bitch back in. But damn it sucks I was so pumped to have that job done and to start on my truck again.
one day i will finish up something like that without having to have a crave other then that I am quit with all of you
It gets better. A lot.
You'll get there. Nice win dude.
It takes time. 240-50 days quit compared to how many YEARS you spent polluting your brain with enough nicotine to kill a lab rat on a daily basis? No wonder we are all foggy from time to time even months into a quit. You keep doing what you're doing and as WTW said, it'll get better. A LOT better. It doesn't ever completely go away, but I have a hunch within a year or so, that F100 will be back on the road! (Not that I'm a blue oval fan, but I like old cars too).
Cavman, I know i spend 8 years dipping which, will take a long time to heal up and get rid of the mental games. I am working day by day to get the quit strong, I got a Phone call from JonM yesterday who was having a rough day and that helped to put everything into perspective more for me cause i was there but now i dont have to to deal with the 15 day suck anymore just battling small triggers that only come on certain projects.
i picked up the Blue oval for 800 bucks including motor and transmission, Only blue oval i own but im not brand loyal im cheap!
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
So sorry backwoods, that is a heart wrencher.
I hope you guys can work through it now that its out in the open. Lots of us hid the fact we dipped for years, i feel free and more apt to witness about my quit now with those i kept it from.
I'm proud to call you quit brother, that's some adversity to fight through. Stay strong, stay the course, stay connected.
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
So sorry backwoods, that is a heart wrencher.
I hope you guys can work through it now that its out in the open. Lots of us hid the fact we dipped for years, i feel free and more apt to witness about my quit now with those i kept it from.
I'm proud to call you quit brother, that's some adversity to fight through. Stay strong, stay the course, stay connected.
Backwoods from my experience with my wife she had some very bad things that happened to her when she was young and it still rears its ugly head after 33 years. It's hard my friend and I contemplated to leave several times but it seems to always work out. Its hard my friend for you and her. It takes special kind of people to work through it but it's not impossible. Don't give up if you truly love each other. Prayers to you my friend.
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
So sorry backwoods, that is a heart wrencher.
I hope you guys can work through it now that its out in the open. Lots of us hid the fact we dipped for years, i feel free and more apt to witness about my quit now with those i kept it from.
I'm proud to call you quit brother, that's some adversity to fight through. Stay strong, stay the course, stay connected.
Backwoods from my experience with my wife she had some very bad things that happened to her when she was young and it still rears its ugly head after 33 years. It's hard my friend and I contemplated to leave several times but it seems to always work out. Its hard my friend for you and her. It takes special kind of people to work through it but it's not impossible. Don't give up if you truly love each other. Prayers to you my friend.
I appreciate it all, It is rough we hit patches here and there where everything is fine and runs smooth then times like now where it has been hell since Tuesday and my body finally shut off today and made me sit inside all day. I haven't given up on her yet and will not like her family did to her so many times in the past, It just makes some days more rough then others, luckily i sustain from alcohol when these things happens and I keep my head clear and free. She knows that with our four kids and how much I have grown with her over the years I am not going anywhere anytime soon.
Tonight has been better, first night where I am not in a deep emotional conversation with her, She calmed down and is working with an actual friend of hers who know how she is, She tries to push me farther and farther away because something in her past flared up with her mother.
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
So sorry backwoods, that is a heart wrencher.
I hope you guys can work through it now that its out in the open. Lots of us hid the fact we dipped for years, i feel free and more apt to witness about my quit now with those i kept it from.
I'm proud to call you quit brother, that's some adversity to fight through. Stay strong, stay the course, stay connected.
Backwoods from my experience with my wife she had some very bad things that happened to her when she was young and it still rears its ugly head after 33 years. It's hard my friend and I contemplated to leave several times but it seems to always work out. Its hard my friend for you and her. It takes special kind of people to work through it but it's not impossible. Don't give up if you truly love each other. Prayers to you my friend.
I appreciate it all, It is rough we hit patches here and there where everything is fine and runs smooth then times like now where it has been hell since Tuesday and my body finally shut off today and made me sit inside all day. I haven't given up on her yet and will not like her family did to her so many times in the past, It just makes some days more rough then others, luckily i sustain from alcohol when these things happens and I keep my head clear and free. She knows that with our four kids and how much I have grown with her over the years I am not going anywhere anytime soon.
Tonight has been better, first night where I am not in a deep emotional conversation with her, She calmed down and is working with an actual friend of hers who know how she is, She tries to push me farther and farther away because something in her past flared up with her mother.
I will keep her, and you, in my prayers brother. Affairs of the heart can be the most difficult things we have to deal with on this earth. I pray you both get through this and come out stronger and more deeply committed to each other once you do.
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It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.
So sorry backwoods, that is a heart wrencher.
I hope you guys can work through it now that its out in the open. Lots of us hid the fact we dipped for years, i feel free and more apt to witness about my quit now with those i kept it from.
I'm proud to call you quit brother, that's some adversity to fight through. Stay strong, stay the course, stay connected.
Backwoods from my experience with my wife she had some very bad things that happened to her when she was young and it still rears its ugly head after 33 years. It's hard my friend and I contemplated to leave several times but it seems to always work out. Its hard my friend for you and her. It takes special kind of people to work through it but it's not impossible. Don't give up if you truly love each other. Prayers to you my friend.
I appreciate it all, It is rough we hit patches here and there where everything is fine and runs smooth then times like now where it has been hell since Tuesday and my body finally shut off today and made me sit inside all day. I haven't given up on her yet and will not like her family did to her so many times in the past, It just makes some days more rough then others, luckily i sustain from alcohol when these things happens and I keep my head clear and free. She knows that with our four kids and how much I have grown with her over the years I am not going anywhere anytime soon.
Tonight has been better, first night where I am not in a deep emotional conversation with her, She calmed down and is working with an actual friend of hers who know how she is, She tries to push me farther and farther away because something in her past flared up with her mother.
I will keep her, and you, in my prayers brother. Affairs of the heart can be the most difficult things we have to deal with on this earth. I pray you both get through this and come out stronger and more deeply committed to each other once you do.
thanks brother, Its been an emotional rough 5 days and luckily we kept it away from the kids but i tell you if it wasn't for posting roll everyday there is no doubt I would of caved.
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
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'party' Getting out in front of everyone to congratulate Backwoods on his kick ass journey to the THIRD FLOOR!!! So crazy proud of you and so happy to call you a fellow quitter and friend!!!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
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'party' Getting out in front of everyone to congratulate Backwoods on his kick ass journey to the THIRD FLOOR!!! So crazy proud of you and so happy to call you a fellow quitter and friend!!!
thank you very much as always, You are great support and friend, Keep up the badass quit
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
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Congrats on the 300, prayers for your family!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
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Congrats on the 300, prayers for your family!
Congrats Backwoods!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
?
Congrats on the 300, prayers for your family!
Congrats Backwoods!
Congrats! keep the quit strong!
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
?
Congrats on the 300, prayers for your family!
Congrats Backwoods!
Congrats! keep the quit strong!
300 Days is Badass! Keep it going.
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Backwoods, I am not able to add much more to what these three very wise folks have already said. So many of us walk this earth harboring very old emotional wounds, unhealed injuries from years gone by. I pray for your entire family healing and happiness and love.
Just a text away if you need anything.
FLLip
Thanks Patty, it was a rough day today with a fall festival and still feeling dejected in a way. Thank God for kids and their way of helping wounds to not hurt so much and for this place for helping me keep my quit and focus. I'll continue taking my aggression out on april
In my prayers as well sir BW901.
The nic B#$@h trying to kill us.
And something always trying to seperate what He ^ put together....
May not be all her fault... Or yours.
Here to help fight all your battles if needed.
Dont Quit....THE FIGHT!
Digits in Pm
Rawls 714
Congrats on the third floor you are truly a BAQ!!! Praying that everything works out with the wife!
3rd floor greatness!
Congrats to a bad ass quitter!
thanks everyone, It means a lot to have this much support in my corner, for 300 days and the personal issues
Whoa wait a minute, I almost missed congratulating this badass quitter! Keep getting after these groups and help keep them on track. One of these days, they will thank you. Well probably after several cussings, oh well there only words! Quit on my friend and remember, it's not always about the thorns on a rose but the smell is worth the prick!
Big 300!
Congrats backwoody!!
?
Congrats on the 300, prayers for your family!
Congrats Backwoods!
Congrats! keep the quit strong!
300 Days is Badass! Keep it going.
thanks again everyone.
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
You also have much more!!! Those babies are your world. Nothing more important. BUT you also have a LOT of people here who are in your corner, backwoods. You are going to take the mother of all deep breaths and you are going to take this horseshit laid at your feet just like you took your quit, one day at a time. You WILL overcome this! Again, +1, don't think too far ahead.
You have my digits. Please reach out if you need anything. I mean it!
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
You also have much more!!! Those babies are your world. Nothing more important. BUT you also have a LOT of people here who are in your corner, backwoods. You are going to take the mother of all deep breaths and you are going to take this horseshit laid at your feet just like you took your quit, one day at a time. You WILL overcome this! Again, +1, don't think too far ahead.
You have my digits. Please reach out if you need anything. I mean it!
You got my digits too brother! Reach out
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
You also have much more!!! Those babies are your world. Nothing more important. BUT you also have a LOT of people here who are in your corner, backwoods. You are going to take the mother of all deep breaths and you are going to take this horseshit laid at your feet just like you took your quit, one day at a time. You WILL overcome this! Again, +1, don't think too far ahead.
You have my digits. Please reach out if you need anything. I mean it!
You got my digits too brother! Reach out
Man, Backwoods, I hate to read this. I don't know you, but I read your thread, and you've supported my quit. All I can say is keep those little midgets in the front of your thoughts. Kids are important and fragile and innocent. However your relationship with your wife evolves, think of the midgets first. Or, just go buy some Borat-inspired man-lingerie and seduce your wife. Whatever works.
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
You also have much more!!! Those babies are your world. Nothing more important. BUT you also have a LOT of people here who are in your corner, backwoods. You are going to take the mother of all deep breaths and you are going to take this horseshit laid at your feet just like you took your quit, one day at a time. You WILL overcome this! Again, +1, don't think too far ahead.
You have my digits. Please reach out if you need anything. I mean it!
You got my digits too brother! Reach out
Man, Backwoods, I hate to read this. I don't know you, but I read your thread, and you've supported my quit. All I can say is keep those little midgets in the front of your thoughts. Kids are important and fragile and innocent. However your relationship with your wife evolves, think of the midgets first. Or, just go buy some Borat-inspired man-lingerie and seduce your wife. Whatever works.
Hello sir. First things first... there are all kinds of people on ktc,but you are the cream of the crop... you are the real deal. You quit in a way that builds brotherhood and accountability. Thank you for inspiring a lot of us.
Second, I'm so sorry to read this. I'm hoping and praying that you find the happiness in your personal life that you clearly deserve. I don't know what the path to happiness looks like for you, but I do know it doesn't look like what transpired Friday night. I'll be hoping that some counseling helps, or that bridges quickly mend, or that you find another path to happiness. Because you, sir, deserve it.
If you ever need anything, PM me.
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So I thought i was being considerate tonight, I let the wife go out to a movie she talked about wanting to see and getting a day away from the kids and the house. So i let her and i take care of the dishes, the laundry, get all the kids to bed and finally sit down to take care of the other things.
she walks in early after the movie to tell me she had ill intentions of going to the movie and that she was actually going to meet up with someone who she had been talking to and lying to me about it. She says she watched part of the movie with him and then left to come home...........
I dont know what to do with my life anymore.
I can say that all I have besides my kids right now is my quit.
You also have much more!!! Those babies are your world. Nothing more important. BUT you also have a LOT of people here who are in your corner, backwoods. You are going to take the mother of all deep breaths and you are going to take this horseshit laid at your feet just like you took your quit, one day at a time. You WILL overcome this! Again, +1, don't think too far ahead.
You have my digits. Please reach out if you need anything. I mean it!
You got my digits too brother! Reach out
Man, Backwoods, I hate to read this. I don't know you, but I read your thread, and you've supported my quit. All I can say is keep those little midgets in the front of your thoughts. Kids are important and fragile and innocent. However your relationship with your wife evolves, think of the midgets first. Or, just go buy some Borat-inspired man-lingerie and seduce your wife. Whatever works.
Hello sir. First things first... there are all kinds of people on ktc,but you are the cream of the crop... you are the real deal. You quit in a way that builds brotherhood and accountability. Thank you for inspiring a lot of us.
Second, I'm so sorry to read this. I'm hoping and praying that you find the happiness in your personal life that you clearly deserve. I don't know what the path to happiness looks like for you, but I do know it doesn't look like what transpired Friday night. I'll be hoping that some counseling helps, or that bridges quickly mend, or that you find another path to happiness. Because you, sir, deserve it.
If you ever need anything, PM me.
Backwoods- stay strong, don't know you, but got your back as a fellow quitter. Definitely a shitty thing done to you. 100% pulling for the option that is best for you and the kids, whether that's reconciling or leaving.
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Thank you everyone, no worries about my quit, it's a strong as it has ever been. I just am rolling with a sore heart and a fogged up head,but so far the kids have had am awesome day on this beautiful Saturday morning. Besides the 4 year old being chased by the rooster. I asked her the simple question this morning when she was sitting at the table, remember who you daughter wants to be like.
But I'm quit with all of you today and I appreciate all the support if anyone feels I'm slipping at all blow my phone up
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What a day again, first thanks to all who ensured i was alright and checked up on me, Its been fine craving wise and I honestly havent had one. I played with the kids and a trampoline really is not for adults. I cleaned up the whole yard and got a lot of stuff done i wouldn't usually get done. The wife took my daughter out clothes shopping and took her to a baby shower, So i spent the whole day until 5 with my boys and it was probably one of the best times I had.
Now I dont understand where the hell she is coming from telling me I should appreciate the fact she choose me and came home and talked to me about it? I feel like either im a pawn in her damn game or that I am a damn game show prize. How can someone after 8 years of being together who has it better then any other women she is friends with.
We are a single income family, She is a stay at home mom, Who wanted to homeschool our kids which is not cheap at all. She has everything handed to her she needs or wants. I spend my time at home The last time I went out to do anything without her or one of the kids was probably when i bought plywood to build the chicken coop. I just don't understand this at all It feels like this is all being placed on me and somehow because i am not over last night its absurd because she chose me? like why is that even a thing or a thought? I was here legitametly here on KTC posting on here and sitting at my dining room table while she was out on a date, but somehow its me???? somehow she feels i should be happy she chose me over being dumb?
Well I quit with all of you and will be back again in the morning for roll 304 days and counting!
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What a day again, first thanks to all who ensured i was alright and checked up on me, Its been fine craving wise and I honestly havent had one. I played with the kids and a trampoline really is not for adults. I cleaned up the whole yard and got a lot of stuff done i wouldn't usually get done. The wife took my daughter out clothes shopping and took her to a baby shower, So i spent the whole day until 5 with my boys and it was probably one of the best times I had.
Now I dont understand where the hell she is coming from telling me I should appreciate the fact she choose me and came home and talked to me about it? I feel like either im a pawn in her damn game or that I am a damn game show prize. How can someone after 8 years of being together who has it better then any other women she is friends with.
We are a single income family, She is a stay at home mom, Who wanted to homeschool our kids which is not cheap at all. She has everything handed to her she needs or wants. I spend my time at home The last time I went out to do anything without her or one of the kids was probably when i bought plywood to build the chicken coop. I just don't understand this at all It feels like this is all being placed on me and somehow because i am not over last night its absurd because she chose me? like why is that even a thing or a thought? I was here legitametly here on KTC posting on here and sitting at my dining room table while she was out on a date, but somehow its me???? somehow she feels i should be happy she chose me over being dumb?
Well I quit with all of you and will be back again in the morning for roll 304 days and counting!
Just keep that head held hide and push through this man. Everybody whether they are open about it or not faces tough challenges in life. Life sucks sometimes but it is only these times that make us appreciate the really good times. I am glad to consider you as a friend, I know we have never met in real life and all that but since the very beginning you have been in my corner when it comes to my quit. If you need to chat or talk to somebody man you have my digits give me a call or shoot me a text.
What you are going through isn't the "end" or "worst" part of your life. It is just a phase of life and it too like everything on this earth will come and go. Keep doing the best you can and be the best man you can be for your kids and everybody that does truly care about you.
Here is to hoping things turn around for the better, keep on keeping on, one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. You can solve this problem just like you have solved this QUIT. I am proud to be quit with you today!
PS: Be open to your wife and tell her how you feel, I know it is not the manly thing to do, but the badass route isn't always the way to go with delicate things. Just my two cents. Stay strong!
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What a day again, first thanks to all who ensured i was alright and checked up on me, Its been fine craving wise and I honestly havent had one. I played with the kids and a trampoline really is not for adults. I cleaned up the whole yard and got a lot of stuff done i wouldn't usually get done. The wife took my daughter out clothes shopping and took her to a baby shower, So i spent the whole day until 5 with my boys and it was probably one of the best times I had.
Now I dont understand where the hell she is coming from telling me I should appreciate the fact she choose me and came home and talked to me about it? I feel like either im a pawn in her damn game or that I am a damn game show prize. How can someone after 8 years of being together who has it better then any other women she is friends with.
We are a single income family, She is a stay at home mom, Who wanted to homeschool our kids which is not cheap at all. She has everything handed to her she needs or wants. I spend my time at home The last time I went out to do anything without her or one of the kids was probably when i bought plywood to build the chicken coop. I just don't understand this at all It feels like this is all being placed on me and somehow because i am not over last night its absurd because she chose me? like why is that even a thing or a thought? I was here legitametly here on KTC posting on here and sitting at my dining room table while she was out on a date, but somehow its me???? somehow she feels i should be happy she chose me over being dumb?
Well I quit with all of you and will be back again in the morning for roll 304 days and counting!
Just keep that head held hide and push through this man. Everybody whether they are open about it or not faces tough challenges in life. Life sucks sometimes but it is only these times that make us appreciate the really good times. I am glad to consider you as a friend, I know we have never met in real life and all that but since the very beginning you have been in my corner when it comes to my quit. If you need to chat or talk to somebody man you have my digits give me a call or shoot me a text.
What you are going through isn't the "end" or "worst" part of your life. It is just a phase of life and it too like everything on this earth will come and go. Keep doing the best you can and be the best man you can be for your kids and everybody that does truly care about you.
Here is to hoping things turn around for the better, keep on keeping on, one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. You can solve this problem just like you have solved this QUIT. I am proud to be quit with you today!
PS: Be open to your wife and tell her how you feel, I know it is not the manly thing to do, but the badass route isn't always the way to go with delicate things. Just my two cents. Stay strong!
thanks again for everything, So far so good here, It is just another page to another chapter of my book. Time change sucks with kids though holy crap i have already been up for well over 3 hours.
We are working through things and the ultimate way to start that is with forgiveness, Trust and everything else will take more time but it cant start without forgiveness.
My manliness has been gone the last few days and it hasn't been easy.
Im quit with all of you and always will be, this quit wont end because of this at all!!!!
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I'm so sorry backwoods...I had no idea you were going through this...let me know if you every need anything.
Just my 2 cents...maybe therapy for you and for the both of you. It might help to get everything out in the open with a mediator to help you through your issues.
Whatever happens...just remember that your kids still need all the love and support from you and your wife.
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
Congrats on one year quit!
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
Congrats on one year quit!
Hell yeah! Great first lap with no right turns. Keep up the great work ODAAT
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
Congrats on one year quit!
Hell yeah! Great first lap with no right turns. Keep up the great work ODAAT
Congrats man! Keep on keepin on, you are donig great bro
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
Congrats on one year quit!
Hell yeah! Great first lap with no right turns. Keep up the great work ODAAT
Congrats man! Keep on keepin on, you are donig great bro
"DO it man. Go ALL IN. Fight, Fight, Fight for the first 100. Give it EVERYTHING you have."
Well done brother... Practicing what he is preaching!
Dropping the Hammer..ODAAT!
Lap on.....
Rawls 792
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Backwoody
Congrats on your 1 year quit.
You've outlasted a bunch of tough obstacles...you're still quit.
Keep it up.
Stay the course. Stay connected. Stay strong. Quit hard.
Congrats on the first lap!
Congrats on one year quit!
Hell yeah! Great first lap with no right turns. Keep up the great work ODAAT
Congrats man! Keep on keepin on, you are donig great bro
"DO it man. Go ALL IN. Fight, Fight, Fight for the first 100. Give it EVERYTHING you have."
Well done brother... Practicing what he is preaching!
Dropping the Hammer..ODAAT!
Lap on.....
Rawls 792
Congratulations on the year and thanks for the support! It does matter
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Thanks to everyone for the one year wishes and the support. I know I have been missing lately from posting support to all of you. The wife and I were having struggles as you all know so I took the time from here and put it all to her.
Everything is looking up and it has changed ten fold she has worked through some of the trials in her life and I can say that it has for once in a longtime never looked better.
So I thank you all for the support daily and especially to Bicycleptic for texting daily it meant a lot to help keep me at 100% and on track.
I should be back on here daily now I have missed this place.still better then Facebook!!!
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Thanks to everyone for the one year wishes and the support. I know I have been missing lately from posting support to all of you. The wife and I were having struggles as you all know so I took the time from here and put it all to her.
Everything is looking up and it has changed ten fold she has worked through some of the trials in her life and I can say that it has for once in a longtime never looked better.
So I thank you all for the support daily and especially to Bicycleptic for texting daily it meant a lot to help keep me at 100% and on track.
I should be back on here daily now I have missed this place.still better then Facebook!!!
Great to hear .
IQWYT
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Thanks to everyone for the one year wishes and the support. I know I have been missing lately from posting support to all of you. The wife and I were having struggles as you all know so I took the time from here and put it all to her.
Everything is looking up and it has changed ten fold she has worked through some of the trials in her life and I can say that it has for once in a longtime never looked better.
So I thank you all for the support daily and especially to Bicycleptic for texting daily it meant a lot to help keep me at 100% and on track.
I should be back on here daily now I have missed this place.still better then Facebook!!!
Great to hear .
IQWYT
Really great to hear! So glad you have made it through this rough patch! And you were missed!
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
Four floors is awesome man congrats!!! Glad things are smoothing out at home too!
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
Four floors is awesome man congrats!!! Glad things are smoothing out at home too!
Welcome to the 4th floor and congratulations sir!
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
Four floors is awesome man congrats!!! Glad things are smoothing out at home too!
Welcome to the 4th floor and congratulations sir!
Backwoody, congrats on 400!
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
Four floors is awesome man congrats!!! Glad things are smoothing out at home too!
Welcome to the 4th floor and congratulations sir!
Backwoody, congrats on 400!
Welcome to the 4th man! You have a great quit going here, proud to be killing this EDD alongside you
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Congratulations on reaching the fourth floor! 'party' !!!!!
Congrats my man on 400!
Well done sir.
Rawls 814
Four floors is awesome man congrats!!! Glad things are smoothing out at home too!
Welcome to the 4th floor and congratulations sir!
Backwoody, congrats on 400!
Welcome to the 4th man! You have a great quit going here, proud to be killing this EDD alongside you
Thanks to all of you for the support over the last 400 days it means alot this place gives back what you put into it. The more support you offer the more support you get back in your own quit!!
I am proud to be quit with all of you!!!
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
hey backwoody. still quit with you.
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
hey backwoody. still quit with you.
*too late...
Semper Peradus.
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
hey backwoody. still quit with you.
*too late...
Semper Peradus.
I'm still looking for that lost shaker of salt.
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
hey backwoody. still quit with you.
*too late...
Semper Peradus.
I'm still looking for that lost shaker of salt.
But I Know.... Its my own damn fault.
Welcome back brother!
I quit with you today.
Rawls 967
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I realize I haven't been on here in a while, I have been posting Roll EDD like we require here but I slacked off with my personal life and had to take a step back from the site. I can say that these last 551 days would not be possible without all of you and your support here.
So thank you again to all of you who have made this quit possible if it wasn't for all the support no doubt I wouldn't be here today!!!
Proud to be quit with you, backwoods! But miss seeing you around, stirring up things!!!
hey backwoody. still quit with you.
*too late...
Semper Peradus.
I'm still looking for that lost shaker of salt.
But I Know.... Its my own damn fault.
Welcome back brother!
I quit with you today.
Rawls 967
BW, I will with you EDD.
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600!!!!
Congratulations!! 6th floor!!! Proud as can be to be quit with you today as you hit another milestone, backwoods!
'party2' 'party2' 'party2'
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Well, heck, I'll say it again...!
700!!!!
Congratulations!! 7th floor!!! Proud to quit with you EDD!!!
'party2' 'party2' 'party2'
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Well, heck, I'll say it again...!
700!!!!
Congratulations!! 7th floor!!! Proud to quit with you EDD!!!
'party2' 'party2' 'party2'
Backwoody! 7th floor is nice!
IQWYT!
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Congrats on 2 years quit backwoody!!
Quit with you EDD!
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Congrats on 2 years quit backwoody!!
Quit with you EDD!
Congratulations my brother! 2 years is badass!
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Congrats on 2 years quit backwoody!!
Quit with you EDD!
Congratulations my brother! 2 years is badass!
Congrats on 2 years of badass quit!
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Congrats on 2 years quit backwoody!!
Quit with you EDD!
Congratulations my brother! 2 years is badass!
Congrats on 2 years of badass quit!
Congratulations on 2 YEARS!!!!
'party2'
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Congrats on 2 years quit backwoody!!
Quit with you EDD!
Congratulations my brother! 2 years is badass!
Congrats on 2 years of badass quit!
Congratulations on 2 YEARS!!!!
'party2'
Well done woooods....!
Rawls 1148
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'Birthday' backwoody!!
Enjoy the freedom.