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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Cubsball13 on June 08, 2012, 01:57:00 PM
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Hi all name is Patrick, I checked out this site past couple of days-seems like a great network. I love baseball (sports in general) have been dipping Cope LC for past 12-13 years and only Iam 28. Its time... However I recently became engaged, and hoping Ill be strong enough during this time and not relapse. Tomorrow will be day 1... Also can anyone point me in the direction of a good group ( I am sure most are good regardless) Just wanted to get my face out there and say hello.. I am the type that will need the support-so hopefullly I can get to know you fella's a bit better here and will welcome any and all relevent advice/tips.
Thanks everyone.
Pat
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Patrick,
It's just 1 day at a time. Quit from the time you wake up until the time your head hits the pillow. Just worry about those 18 hours or so that you are awake. Everything else is for another day.
Read the Welcome Center (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=13) to find out how the site works and why it works. Trust me, it works.
Posting roll is your daily promise to you, me, and everyone else that you will refrain from any kind of nicotine for the day. Just promise to quit today, that's it. Posting roll is kind of tricky to get right, but once you get it, you get it. Click here (http://www.killthecan.org/roll) to watch a 2 min video on how to do it right. Once you figure it out, go post roll in the September '12 quit group. (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6493&st=0) September is the month when you would hit 100 days quit.
Strength to quit is what you make of it. If you want to be quit bad enough, you'll do what it takes to last until you finally close your eyes. You will have so many tools and so much support here on this site to quit that you will be utterly amazed.
Please send me a PM if you have any questions.
First 3 days, do the 3 W's.
Water
Walk
Willpower
Quit with you today.
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Being a Cubs fan for early days I feel your pain - Wedge nailed the high points
commit to this site and it will save your life-
You will only get as much out of this site as you invest into it
Check you in box (upper right)
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Welcome Cubsball13,
What Wedgie says times 1000!
Read everything you can. get to this site as much as you can.
Post roll in September 2012 quit group.
We quit here everyday, one day at a time. We will deal with tomorrow when it comes.
Welcome.
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Thanks for timely responses and nice words. I am excited to have support from those have have "been there" as well as those going through the same difficulites. Look forward to navigating through the site and you'll see me on roll call. Thanks again for the posts.
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Thanks for timely responses and nice words. I am excited to have support from those have have "been there" as well as those going through the same difficulites. Look forward to navigating through the site and you'll see me on roll call. Thanks again for the posts.
I don't like the future tense you are using.
I don't want to see you on roll call tomorrow. I want to see you on roll call NOW!
Promise us NOW that you will not use nicotine for the rest of the day. Get rid of all your chew and nicotine NOW.
Not one good thing will come from waiting until tomorrow. I do not think you will find one person on this site that would say "Gosh, I wish I would have gotten one last chew in before I quit". The nic bitch has been using that trick for years. But tomorrow will come and there will be another reason not to quit.
Dump your stash and post roll NOW.
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Thanks for timely responses and nice words. I am excited to have support from those have have "been there" as well as those going through the same difficulites. Look forward to navigating through the site and you'll see me on roll call. Thanks again for the posts.
I don't like the future tense you are using.
I don't want to see you on roll call tomorrow. I want to see you on roll call NOW!
Promise us NOW that you will not use nicotine for the rest of the day. Get rid of all your chew and nicotine NOW.
Not one good thing will come from waiting until tomorrow. I do not think you will find one person on this site that would say "Gosh, I wish I would have gotten one last chew in before I quit". The nic bitch has been using that trick for years. But tomorrow will come and there will be another reason not to quit.
Dump your stash and post roll NOW.
Look, I'm gonna post something here, yeah, cut and paste, from what I told another new quitter. Does it apply to you? Maybe not directly, but you make sure and read it for the meaning, not the small details. In that sense, it applies to you and every other quitter...
So, let another Dan - me - chime in here. Not only do I have a name in common with you, but I too was a dipper for 18+ years.
I'm also a former military member, currently a football and baseball coach, as well as a nurse. And I've been quit 835 days. What the fuck does that have to do with anything, you ask?
Well, it means that when I tell you all the things you have been told here are correct, it might make you take it a little more seriously. When I tell you it is fine to love your family enough to quit, but that the only thing...and I do mean ONLY THING that matters in the success of your quit is the answer to the following question:
DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO QUIT?
To quit, and stay quit, you have to be selfish...this quit has to be about you and you alone. Trust me...I know this as well as anyone...
You have to be willing and ready to quit and remain quit no matter what...family member dies, not a reason to dip. Wife divorces you, not a reason to dip. Don't get to see your kids very often, not a reason to dip. Lose a job...nope. Never again...for any reason...THAT is what this site is about. Are you ready? Are you Willing?
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Fist off- love you picture... Tobias! Youre right-Not much I can say to that, I just found out how and where to post roll.. headed to a meeting, will post and commit today... Thanks again fellas see you soon.
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Fist off- love you picture... Tobias! Youre right-Not much I can say to that, I just found out how and where to post roll.. headed to a meeting, will post and commit today... Thanks again fellas see you soon.
first lesson: Addicts leave without producing anything. If you are sincere in quitting, really really really want to quit... Start now. Post roll and join the 12,000 other bad asses that quit every day.
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Well I hope/think I did my role call correctly...? I did it for Sept?? Thanks for the comments/help!
-Pat
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Fist off- love you picture... Tobias! Youre right-Not much I can say to that, I just found out how and where to post roll.. headed to a meeting, will post and commit today... Thanks again fellas see you soon.
first lesson: Addicts leave without producing anything. If you are sincere in quitting, really really really want to quit... Start now. Post roll and join the 12,000 other bad asses that quit every day.
I agree 100 %! Dump it now!
I had a quit day KTC convinced me I bumped my quit up 2 weeks! Thank You!
Tommorrow doesn't work. I've quit for everyone but me, never worked. Finally I quit for me, and I'm proud of myself and I truely like myself for a change. One day at a time!!!
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Hey Cubs -- welcome aboard. Just make sure you understand that this site is about quitting...not wanting to...or giving it a try for a couple days....or quitting when you feel like it. Either QUIT OR SPLIT bro. If you quit I'll be right there with you and I'll support you. Post Roll EVERYDAY without fail early so that your promise is out there. Listen to the vets on the site - everyone of them has your best interests in mind. How many other groups can say that? Check your inbox - I sent you my number. Text me yours and we will quit together. Welcome bro!
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Its time... However I recently became engaged, and hoping Ill be strong enough during this time and not relapse. Tomorrow will be day 1...Â
I am the type that will need the support-so hopefully I can get to know you fella's a bit better here and will welcome any and all relevant advice/tips.
Thanks everyone.
Pat
Okay I am pissed and you asked for advice so you are going to get it.
Patty,
You are already failed in your quit. This sentence, "I recently became engaged, and hoping i'll be strong enough during this time and not relapse."
Translation: My fiance hates tobacco but I love tobacco. I need to quit for her. She doesn't like it when I dip, she thinks it is disgusting. I am going to go through the motions and placate my guilt but I really want both. (A wife and tobacco.)
"Tomorrow will be day 1" (I just saw that you are posting roll. Good)
Translation: I need to get pumped up for this. I still have my can with me. I need to finish it off and have one last dip before I quit. So I will post tonight because I said so, I better run to my meeting "Dip like crazy and finish this can today."
I know your name is Pat, but until you show some real quit balls, determination, and spirit, You will be Patty to me.
Great you love baseball, a lot of people in her do. However, this is more than a sport. Quitters go to war every day. You never go to war to lose. You go to win. Simply, you spill nicotine's blood or it spills yours! You can be scared just let it motivate you, not paralyze you.
Here is some advice:
#1 When you want to quit for YOU, you will take that can to the toilet, dump that shit in there and flush it. You will be excited you did and you will tell tobacco to piss up wind and to leave you the hell alone!YOU ARE AN ADDICT, ADDICTS CAN'T QUIT OUT OF LOVE FOR GOD, WIFE, LOVED ONES, WORK ETC. ONLY YOU WILL QUIT IF YOU WANT TO. (I get the impression you will post roll and then lament your decision, you will entertain and glamorize tobacco. The nic bitch will seduce you and you will cave. You have to be disgusted that you are controlled by a plant loaded with carcinogens!!!!
#2 In or out. You either come her and do it or you don't. The process to quit is simple and effective. Some people think it needs to be some intricate design and mysterious rituals to quit. It is so simple some dumb fucks think they don't need it and cave. You flush it right now because you don't want a final dip. You don't worship the can of tobacco anymore. You post roll for today. Keep your promise, cry, rage, laugh and call for support when you need to be talked down but you stay quit that day. Never quit long term. Addicted minds will destroy your quit spirit if you think about quitting forever. Fight today. If you live, post roll tomorrow if you wake and repeat.
So everyone can be nice and encourage you. That's cute. Me, I am at war with this bitch and I prefer to stand shoulder to shoulder with quitters that want tobacco dead!
I would love to see you determined but I think you are going to put on some high heals and lipstick. Don't forget your purse, it has your dip in it.
Prove me wrong Patty, that's a challenge candy ass. If you make it to the hall of fame, rub this post in my face. I have no problem being wrong on this. In fact I hope I am. Time will tell.
'Finger'
Who am I? Today I am 87 and 0 with the nic bitch. Thanks to KTC support and me finally, once and for all deciding I wanted to quit. I have Scoreboard!
The tobacco industry is evil, dirty and a terrorist organization. You love it that much that you want to have one final tribute dip. Seriously man, quit humping tobacco. It is a lie.
Welcome to hell, now embrace the suck. Bitch! 'cs'
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Its time... However I recently became engaged, and hoping Ill be strong enough during this time and not relapse. Tomorrow will be day 1...Â
I am the type that will need the support-so hopefully I can get to know you fella's a bit better here and will welcome any and all relevant advice/tips.
Thanks everyone.
Pat
Okay I am pissed and you asked for advice so you are going to get it.
Patty,
You are already failed in your quit. This sentence, "I recently became engaged, and hoping i'll be strong enough during this time and not relapse."
Translation: My fiance hates tobacco but I love tobacco. I need to quit for her. She doesn't like it when I dip, she thinks it is disgusting. I am going to go through the motions and placate my guilt but I really want both. (A wife and tobacco.)
"Tomorrow will be day 1" (I just saw that you are posting roll. Good)
Translation: I need to get pumped up for this. I still have my can with me. I need to finish it off and have one last dip before I quit. So I will post tonight because I said so, I better run to my meeting "Dip like crazy and finish this can today."
I know your name is Pat, but until you show some real quit balls, determination, and spirit, You will be Patty to me.
Great you love baseball, a lot of people in her do. However, this is more than a sport. Quitters go to war every day. You never go to war to lose. You go to win. Simply, you spill nicotine's blood or it spills yours! You can be scared just let it motivate you, not paralyze you.
Here is some advice:
#1 When you want to quit for YOU, you will take that can to the toilet, dump that shit in there and flush it. You will be excited you did and you will tell tobacco to piss up wind and to leave you the hell alone!YOU ARE AN ADDICT, ADDICTS CAN'T QUIT OUT OF LOVE FOR GOD, WIFE, LOVED ONES, WORK ETC. ONLY YOU WILL QUIT IF YOU WANT TO. (I get the impression you will post roll and then lament your decision, you will entertain and glamorize tobacco. The nic bitch will seduce you and you will cave. You have to be disgusted that you are controlled by a plant loaded with carcinogens!!!!
#2 In or out. You either come her and do it or you don't. The process to quit is simple and effective. Some people think it needs to be some intricate design and mysterious rituals to quit. It is so simple some dumb fucks think they don't need it and cave. You flush it right now because you don't want a final dip. You don't worship the can of tobacco anymore. You post roll for today. Keep your promise, cry, rage, laugh and call for support when you need to be talked down but you stay quit that day. Never quit long term. Addicted minds will destroy your quit spirit if you think about quitting forever. Fight today. If you live, post roll tomorrow if you wake and repeat.
So everyone can be nice and encourage you. That's cute. Me, I am at war with this bitch and I prefer to stand shoulder to shoulder with quitters that want tobacco dead!
I would love to see you determined but I think you are going to put on some high heals and lipstick. Don't forget your purse, it has your dip in it.
Prove me wrong Patty, that's a challenge candy ass. If you make it to the hall of fame, rub this post in my face. I have no problem being wrong on this. In fact I hope I am. Time will tell.
'Finger'
Who am I? Today I am 87 and 0 with the nic bitch. Thanks to KTC support and me finally, once and for all deciding I wanted to quit. I have Scoreboard!
The tobacco industry is evil, dirty and a terrorist organization. You love it that much that you want to have one final tribute dip. Seriously man, quit humping tobacco. It is a lie.
Welcome to hell, now embrace the suck. Bitch! 'cs'
You need to listen to Mthomas. I feel strongly that he read between the lines of your post perfectly. I want to hear your answer....WHY are you quitting?
That question is crucial because as he said, if you don't quit for yourself, you will fail. Not only will you fail, but you'll be pissed at your fiance too. Pissed at her and dipping, that means that she'll be double pissed at you. ESPECIALLY when you start sneaking it so she doesn't know. Then you're lying to her too. TRIPLE pissed. Might as well go for a home run then and start leaving bottles by the side of the bed so she trips over them when she wakes up.
My point is, listen to the older guys on this site. I'm young, like you, but I read my ass off, listened to their words of wisdom, and learned from other retards mistakes. The story I described above has happened more than once.
If you're not ready, then don't quit. The more you fail at this, the harder it becomes. Tell your fiance you're not ready, and if she can't understand, pm me and I'll have my wife call her and tell her that she's going to have to wait for you to come around like she did.
If you do decide that you're quitting for you, then PLEASE have her read this (http://www.killthecan.org/community/spouse.asp). It's crucial for her to understand what the hell is happening to you and why you're such a raging jackass all of a sudden.
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Its time... However I recently became engaged, and hoping Ill be strong enough during this time and not relapse. Tomorrow will be day 1...Â
I am the type that will need the support-so hopefully I can get to know you fella's a bit better here and will welcome any and all relevant advice/tips.
Thanks everyone.
Pat
Okay I am pissed and you asked for advice so you are going to get it.
Patty,
You are already failed in your quit. This sentence, "I recently became engaged, and hoping i'll be strong enough during this time and not relapse."
Translation: My fiance hates tobacco but I love tobacco. I need to quit for her. She doesn't like it when I dip, she thinks it is disgusting. I am going to go through the motions and placate my guilt but I really want both. (A wife and tobacco.)
"Tomorrow will be day 1" (I just saw that you are posting roll. Good)
Translation: I need to get pumped up for this. I still have my can with me. I need to finish it off and have one last dip before I quit. So I will post tonight because I said so, I better run to my meeting "Dip like crazy and finish this can today."
I know your name is Pat, but until you show some real quit balls, determination, and spirit, You will be Patty to me.
Great you love baseball, a lot of people in her do. However, this is more than a sport. Quitters go to war every day. You never go to war to lose. You go to win. Simply, you spill nicotine's blood or it spills yours! You can be scared just let it motivate you, not paralyze you.
Here is some advice:
#1 When you want to quit for YOU, you will take that can to the toilet, dump that shit in there and flush it. You will be excited you did and you will tell tobacco to piss up wind and to leave you the hell alone!YOU ARE AN ADDICT, ADDICTS CAN'T QUIT OUT OF LOVE FOR GOD, WIFE, LOVED ONES, WORK ETC. ONLY YOU WILL QUIT IF YOU WANT TO. (I get the impression you will post roll and then lament your decision, you will entertain and glamorize tobacco. The nic bitch will seduce you and you will cave. You have to be disgusted that you are controlled by a plant loaded with carcinogens!!!!
#2 In or out. You either come her and do it or you don't. The process to quit is simple and effective. Some people think it needs to be some intricate design and mysterious rituals to quit. It is so simple some dumb fucks think they don't need it and cave. You flush it right now because you don't want a final dip. You don't worship the can of tobacco anymore. You post roll for today. Keep your promise, cry, rage, laugh and call for support when you need to be talked down but you stay quit that day. Never quit long term. Addicted minds will destroy your quit spirit if you think about quitting forever. Fight today. If you live, post roll tomorrow if you wake and repeat.
So everyone can be nice and encourage you. That's cute. Me, I am at war with this bitch and I prefer to stand shoulder to shoulder with quitters that want tobacco dead!
I would love to see you determined but I think you are going to put on some high heals and lipstick. Don't forget your purse, it has your dip in it.
Prove me wrong Patty, that's a challenge candy ass. If you make it to the hall of fame, rub this post in my face. I have no problem being wrong on this. In fact I hope I am. Time will tell.
'Finger'
Who am I? Today I am 87 and 0 with the nic bitch. Thanks to KTC support and me finally, once and for all deciding I wanted to quit. I have Scoreboard!
The tobacco industry is evil, dirty and a terrorist organization. You love it that much that you want to have one final tribute dip. Seriously man, quit humping tobacco. It is a lie.
Welcome to hell, now embrace the suck. Bitch! 'cs'
You need to listen to Mthomas. I feel strongly that he read between the lines of your post perfectly. I want to hear your answer....WHY are you quitting?
That question is crucial because as he said, if you don't quit for yourself, you will fail. Not only will you fail, but you'll be pissed at your fiance too. Pissed at her and dipping, that means that she'll be double pissed at you. ESPECIALLY when you start sneaking it so she doesn't know. Then you're lying to her too. TRIPLE pissed. Might as well go for a home run then and start leaving bottles by the side of the bed so she trips over them when she wakes up.
My point is, listen to the older guys on this site. I'm young, like you, but I read my ass off, listened to their words of wisdom, and learned from other retards mistakes. The story I described above has happened more than once.
If you're not ready, then don't quit. The more you fail at this, the harder it becomes. Tell your fiance you're not ready, and if she can't understand, pm me and I'll have my wife call her and tell her that she's going to have to wait for you to come around like she did.
If you do decide that you're quitting for you, then PLEASE have her read this (http://www.killthecan.org/community/spouse.asp). It's crucial for her to understand what the hell is happening to you and why you're such a raging jackass all of a sudden.
Thomas is a beast and he knows what he's talking about. Listen to him for he is wise..... Start drinking the Kool Aid my friend. There is no pussy footing around....
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Its time... However I recently became engaged, and hoping Ill be strong enough during this time and not relapse. Tomorrow will be day 1...Â
I am the type that will need the support-so hopefully I can get to know you fella's a bit better here and will welcome any and all relevant advice/tips.
Thanks everyone.
Pat
Okay I am pissed and you asked for advice so you are going to get it.
Patty,
You are already failed in your quit. This sentence, "I recently became engaged, and hoping i'll be strong enough during this time and not relapse."
Translation: My fiance hates tobacco but I love tobacco. I need to quit for her. She doesn't like it when I dip, she thinks it is disgusting. I am going to go through the motions and placate my guilt but I really want both. (A wife and tobacco.)
"Tomorrow will be day 1" (I just saw that you are posting roll. Good)
Translation: I need to get pumped up for this. I still have my can with me. I need to finish it off and have one last dip before I quit. So I will post tonight because I said so, I better run to my meeting "Dip like crazy and finish this can today."
I know your name is Pat, but until you show some real quit balls, determination, and spirit, You will be Patty to me.
Great you love baseball, a lot of people in her do. However, this is more than a sport. Quitters go to war every day. You never go to war to lose. You go to win. Simply, you spill nicotine's blood or it spills yours! You can be scared just let it motivate you, not paralyze you.
Here is some advice:
#1 When you want to quit for YOU, you will take that can to the toilet, dump that shit in there and flush it. You will be excited you did and you will tell tobacco to piss up wind and to leave you the hell alone!YOU ARE AN ADDICT, ADDICTS CAN'T QUIT OUT OF LOVE FOR GOD, WIFE, LOVED ONES, WORK ETC. ONLY YOU WILL QUIT IF YOU WANT TO. (I get the impression you will post roll and then lament your decision, you will entertain and glamorize tobacco. The nic bitch will seduce you and you will cave. You have to be disgusted that you are controlled by a plant loaded with carcinogens!!!!
#2 In or out. You either come her and do it or you don't. The process to quit is simple and effective. Some people think it needs to be some intricate design and mysterious rituals to quit. It is so simple some dumb fucks think they don't need it and cave. You flush it right now because you don't want a final dip. You don't worship the can of tobacco anymore. You post roll for today. Keep your promise, cry, rage, laugh and call for support when you need to be talked down but you stay quit that day. Never quit long term. Addicted minds will destroy your quit spirit if you think about quitting forever. Fight today. If you live, post roll tomorrow if you wake and repeat.
So everyone can be nice and encourage you. That's cute. Me, I am at war with this bitch and I prefer to stand shoulder to shoulder with quitters that want tobacco dead!
I would love to see you determined but I think you are going to put on some high heals and lipstick. Don't forget your purse, it has your dip in it.
Prove me wrong Patty, that's a challenge candy ass. If you make it to the hall of fame, rub this post in my face. I have no problem being wrong on this. In fact I hope I am. Time will tell.
'Finger'
Who am I? Today I am 87 and 0 with the nic bitch. Thanks to KTC support and me finally, once and for all deciding I wanted to quit. I have Scoreboard!
The tobacco industry is evil, dirty and a terrorist organization. You love it that much that you want to have one final tribute dip. Seriously man, quit humping tobacco. It is a lie.
Welcome to hell, now embrace the suck. Bitch! 'cs'
Outstanding post......Me 67, Nic Bitch 0.....I dig that
Bring the pain...c'mon on in Patricia....the water's warm....
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Hey man I appreciate the message, but I dont think you read it-the way I meant it... I can see why you think I am quitting for her (not the case) actually shes known that I do it, and doesnt even know that I WILL QUIT... I am doing it for me, obviously she'd rather me not do it. But seriously what I meant saying in that piece that you pointed out was that I hope this wedding process doesnt make me looney enough to revert... Nothing to do about how she feels (referring to my own stressors) and again I know you are trying to help, you can call me any name you'd like, but prolly not gonna get me anymore motivated. I am doing this for MY overall well-being and wouldnt hurt to save some $$. Sounds like you could take a jog.. get some of that energy out. Again I know youre trying to motivate me and I will need that (god knows Ill need it) but its got to come within. Learned that in college baseball and in the military (watch who you call a candy ass) its easy to be a tough guy over the screen, thanks for taking the time to message. Have a good friday! Peace and Strength..
We flexing internet muscles or trying to help? Fella's be good/safe tonight.
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Hey man I appreciate the message, but I dont think you read it-the way I meant it... I can see why you think I am quitting for her (not the case) actually shes known that I do it, and doesnt even know that I WILL QUIT... I am doing it for me, obviously she'd rather me not do it. But seriously what I meant saying in that piece that you pointed out was that I hope this wedding process doesnt make me looney enough to revert... Nothing to do about how she feels (referring to my own stressors) and again I know you are trying to help, you can call me any name you'd like, but prolly not gonna get me anymore motivated. I am doing this for MY overall well-being and wouldnt hurt to save some $$. Sounds like you could take a jog.. get some of that energy out. Again I know youre trying to motivate me and I will need that (god knows Ill need it) but its got to come within. Learned that in college baseball and in the military (watch who you call a candy ass) its easy to be a tough guy over the screen, thanks for taking the time to message. Have a good friday! Peace and Strength..
We flexing internet muscles or trying to help? Fella's be good/safe tonight.
I don't know what's goin on cause Im here to quit not read 1,000 page essays.
As a cubs fan I'm sure you're use to viewing someone quit on somethin, so this should be easy (joke). It's easy its a decision made everyday. Come here post roll everyday and drink the koolaide. If you need to rage go to chat, if you need help reach out, were here for you.
Pm me if you want to exchange numbers, and remember quit like fuck today!
Bruce
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Hey man I appreciate the message, but I dont think you read it-the way I meant it... I can see why you think I am quitting for her (not the case) actually shes known that I do it, and doesnt even know that I WILL QUIT... I am doing it for me, obviously she'd rather me not do it. But seriously what I meant saying in that piece that you pointed out was that I hope this wedding process doesnt make me looney enough to revert... Nothing to do about how she feels (referring to my own stressors) and again I know you are trying to help, you can call me any name you'd like, but prolly not gonna get me anymore motivated. I am doing this for MY overall well-being and wouldnt hurt to save some $$. Sounds like you could take a jog.. get some of that energy out. Again I know youre trying to motivate me and I will need that (god knows Ill need it) but its got to come within. Learned that in college baseball and in the military (watch who you call a candy ass) its easy to be a tough guy over the screen, thanks for taking the time to message. Have a good friday! Peace and Strength..
We flexing internet muscles or trying to help? Fella's be good/safe tonight.
All right. I don't know if I should fight you or kiss you. I do respect that you stood up to my attacks. Here is my promise to you. I quit with you today. I will not have any nicotine and I give you my word. I also will never call you a candy ass and I will respect your name.
If you miss posting roll, fade away from the site or cave, you come back to September and tell them you are a candy ass. Deal?
You posted roll and made a promise to us. That takes balls. You are a bad ass quitter!
You make it to the hall of fame, what do you want me to do?
Let's make this fun! 'Popcorn'
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Hey man I appreciate the message, but I dont think you read it-the way I meant it... I can see why you think I am quitting for her (not the case) actually shes known that I do it, and doesnt even know that I WILL QUIT... I am doing it for me, obviously she'd rather me not do it. But seriously what I meant saying in that piece that you pointed out was that I hope this wedding process doesnt make me looney enough to revert... Nothing to do about how she feels (referring to my own stressors) and again I know you are trying to help, you can call me any name you'd like, but prolly not gonna get me anymore motivated. I am doing this for MY overall well-being and wouldnt hurt to save some $$. Sounds like you could take a jog.. get some of that energy out. Again I know youre trying to motivate me and I will need that (god knows Ill need it) but its got to come within. Learned that in college baseball and in the military (watch who you call a candy ass) its easy to be a tough guy over the screen, thanks for taking the time to message. Have a good friday! Peace and Strength..
We flexing internet muscles or trying to help? Fella's be good/safe tonight.
Now that's what I like to hear. We can be "tough love" bunch around here and we have seen many people come and go (back to stuffing dip in their faces). That's why we want to make sure you really, really want to quit. Until that happens, no amount of help from us is going to make any difference.
Sounds like you are on board, welcome. This place is about accountability, I highly suggest you get to know the folks in your quit group and exchange phone numbers with some of them. This will give another method of communication when you are away from the computer and are thinking about caving, can't post roll that day, or just want to send sweet nothings to another quit brother.
Also, read the hall of fame speeches, words of wisdom and everything else you can on this site. Soak it in.
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Haha-know youre just looking out for a newbie, brother! Everyone needs tough love! I dont post role then call me candyass till the day i die! (so yes we got a deal)
-patty
I Dont mind earning it.
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Haha-know youre just looking out for a newbie, brother! Everyone needs tough love! I dont post role then call me candyass till the day i die! (so yes we got a deal)
-patty
I Dont mind earning it.
Hardened (http://beastmodaldomains.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/htfu.jpg)
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Welcome to your quit! you will only get what you want out of it. So far for me I have seen the light and am amazed at what i was missing while dipping. So much improvement. Hit me up if you ever need anything. I will always be around for support. Stay strong and QLF!