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Title: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: kerjkrdad on December 20, 2013, 03:25:00 PM
Hey fellow quitters. So glad to be with you guys.
I've had some excellent pms and texts with the March 14 quitters but wanted to add some background.
I started this crazy train 28 years ago in high school. Graduating from red man to Levi, to skoal and then the almighty Copenhagen.
Incredibly enough, went thru high school, college, and 20 years of marriage before a funny thing happened. I went out on the town a couple of weeks ago , drank myself silly and was so hung over the next day I could not even think about dipping.

I had been trying to quit and made some half ass decisions in the past to try but this felt different. My body was telling me to stop.
I thought, "MY god, what if I just don't dip today?"
I made it thru the day and the next morning found the KTC site. What a powerful idea, quit with somebody. Not just somebody, but people who understand my pain and my desire to make a change in my life.

I finally realize I can't do it by myself. The accountability is one thing, but the camaraderie for me has been the key. I'm 12 days quit today, it feels great.

Lots of Xmas gatherings coming up, have to keep an eye on the drinking and stay quit for today.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: T-Cell on December 20, 2013, 03:30:00 PM
Quote from: kerjkrdad
Hey fellow quitters. So glad to be with you guys.
I've had some excellent pms and texts with the March 14 quitters but wanted to add some background.
I started this crazy train 28 years ago in high school. Graduating from red man to Levi, to skoal and then the almighty Copenhagen.
Incredibly enough, went thru high school, college, and 20 years of marriage before a funny thing happened. I went out on the town a couple of weeks ago , drank myself silly and was so hung over the next day I could not even think about dipping.

I had been trying to quit and made some half ass decisions in the past to try but this felt different. My body was telling me to stop.
I thought, "MY god, what if I just don't dip today?"
I made it thru the day and the next morning found the KTC site. What a powerful idea, quit with somebody. Not just somebody, but people who understand my pain and my desire to make a change in my life.

I finally realize I can't do it by myself. The accountability is one thing, but the camaraderie for me has been the key. I'm 12 days quit today, it feels great.

Lots of Xmas gatherings coming up, have to keep an eye on the drinking and stay quit for today.
12 days is great, keep it up! You will find it keeps getting better.
Keep active on this site and building your quit. Spend time each day reading, learning, and building. One day at a time.
I'll quit with you today!
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: wmcatty on December 20, 2013, 03:44:00 PM
Welcome aboard the KTC quit train kerjkrdad. Amazing that it only took you 28 years of riding the train to figure out it was heading no where...and you had lots of company on that train my new friend..over 17,000 of us at last count. Since you have already posted Day 12 in the March group, I want to tell you a little about WHY we post roll. Roll is your daily promise to yourself and all of your new brothers and sisters that you will not use tobacco in any form that day. You will post your name and the number of days you are quit each day in the March, 2014 quit group. Each and every day you will post your promise. No exceptions. That is the price of admission to KTC. Nothing more and nothing less. The reason you are put in March is that will be the month that you will celebrate being 100 days free of nicotineÂ…your Hall of Fame date. Now, look up at the top right of your screen. You will see Inbox(1), which is a pm (personal message) from me. It has my telephone number on it, which I would request you save so that you can call it 24/7 when the urges to use again get overwhelming or you just need to talk to someone about this madness. This is your first step in accountability. Welcome again and congrats on making the best decision of your life.

You should really try to avoid the hooch the next couple of months, as alcohol will diminish your inhibitions and resolve to stay quit. It has also been involved in almost every cave reported. Just food for thought. Wayne
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Post by: golfpro9696 on December 20, 2013, 04:25:00 PM
Glad to be quit with you!
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: RAZD611 on December 20, 2013, 09:08:00 PM
we do not do things half assed around here, and we will not allow you to do this half assed either.

Welcome aboard and make sure and have a second helping of the Kool Aid.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on December 20, 2013, 10:52:00 PM
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we do not do things half assed around here, and we will not allow you to do this half assed either.

Welcome aboard and make sure and have a second helping of the Kool Aid.
K
Let's just keep texting each other every day and we will do this together. Life Is so much better without this bitch on our back. Never forget the pain of the first week! I for or one do not ever want to go thorough that shit again. Do you?
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: Evil_Won on December 20, 2013, 11:04:00 PM
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Quote from: razd611
we do not do things half assed around here, and we will not allow you to do this half assed either.

Welcome aboard and make sure and have a second helping of the Kool Aid.
K
Let's just keep texting each other every day and we will do this together. Life Is so much better without this bitch on our back. Never forget the pain of the first week! I for or one do not ever want to go thorough that shit again. Do you?
Lots of good info already and I can't stress the brotherhood and accountability pasts enough. The friendships that I have formed here have saved my quit more than a few times. I will not let them down.

I'm as local to you as someone can get. You have my number. Use it before you do something stupid. Post roll early every day and honor you word all day, especially when you don't want to.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on December 20, 2013, 11:35:00 PM
Quote from: Evil_Won
Quote from: rdad
Quote from: razd611
we do not do things half assed around here, and we will not allow you to do this half assed either.

Welcome aboard and make sure and have a second helping of the Kool Aid.
K
Let's just keep texting each other every day and we will do this together. Life Is so much better without this bitch on our back. Never forget the pain of the first week! I for or one do not ever want to go thorough that shit again. Do you?
Lots of good info already and I can't stress the brotherhood and accountability pasts enough. The friendships that I have formed here have saved my quit more than a few times. I will not let them down.

I'm as local to you as someone can get. You have my number. Use it before you do something stupid. Post roll early every day and honor you word all day, especially when you don't want to.
Kevin
My last 2 cents on this. Hook up with Evil! I'm in No. Cal and would love to have a brother close buy. I would jump all over Evils offer. This is why I love this group! Total strangers helping each other out of the bitch's clutch. I quit with you every day.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: Steakbomb18 on December 21, 2013, 07:56:00 AM
I am in your quit qroup and glad to have you quitting next to me day by day. Lets do this brother, there's no quittin' the quit.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: Winter Green on February 19, 2014, 05:27:00 PM
Kerj, another fine quitter, shows great enthusiasm in our quit group, it makes my quit stronger every day when i see somebody post something other than a number. Thanks for what you do KJerk. You'll have to explain to me your name though 'Crazy' but you still a bad ass ;Ironman:
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Post by: Sh4string on February 20, 2014, 09:21:00 AM
Quote from: Winter
Kerj, another fine quitter, shows great enthusiasm in our quit group, it makes my quit stronger every day when i see somebody post something other than a number. Thanks for what you do KJerk. You'll have to explain to me your name though 'Crazy' but you still a bad ass ;Ironman:
Keep rocking along brother....enjoy each day of freedom
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Post by: brettlees on February 20, 2014, 09:53:00 AM
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Quote from: Winter
Kerj, another fine quitter, shows great enthusiasm in our quit group, it makes my quit stronger every day when i see somebody post something other than a number.  Thanks for what you do KJerk.  You'll have to explain to me your name though  'Crazy'  but you still a bad ass  ;Ironman:
Keep rocking along brother....enjoy each day of freedom
Keep it going guys! K-rdad, what's the name all about? There's a place in Wildcard for explanations, too, if you prefer.

Keep quitting on!
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on March 18, 2014, 11:56:00 AM
Congrats on 100 Today. You are a fine asset to the Iron Men. Enjoy your day, you deserve it brother! ;Ironman:
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Post by: MonsterMedic on March 18, 2014, 12:24:00 PM
Congrats on 100!!!
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Post by: SAM83 on March 18, 2014, 01:47:00 PM
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Congrats on 100!!!
Congrats on reaching the milepost that is HOF, quit on!
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: golfpro9696 on March 18, 2014, 02:27:00 PM
Kerjkrdad is the 1st guy in our group that I shared my number with..... I got lucky that he's not totally bat shit crazy....

Congrats on the HOF brother!
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Post by: Evil_Won on March 18, 2014, 03:17:00 PM
Quote from: golfpro9696
Kerjkrdad is the 1st guy in our group that I shared my number with..... I got lucky that he's not totally bat shit crazy....

Congrats on the HOF brother!
Congrats. 100 days of freedom in a row is pretty sweet. Keep at it with us here on KTC.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: Winter Green on March 18, 2014, 03:18:00 PM
Quote from: Evil_Won
Quote from: golfpro9696
Kerjkrdad is the 1st guy in our group that I shared my number with.....  I got lucky that he's not totally bat shit crazy....

Congrats on the HOF brother!
Congrats. 100 days of freedom in a row is pretty sweet. Keep at it with us here on KTC.
Kerj is a fine quitter and Im proud that he is in March
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: Sh4string on March 18, 2014, 03:18:00 PM
Another Illinois badass quitter!!!! Congrats
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on June 26, 2014, 01:09:00 PM
Way to get that 2nd floor Kevin. You are ;Ironman:
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Post by: Steakbomb18 on June 26, 2014, 05:57:00 PM
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Way to get that 2nd floor Kevin. You are ;Ironman:
Proud of you bro; and glad to be posting with you EDD in March
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Post by: Banjosteve on June 26, 2014, 09:10:00 PM
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Way to get that 2nd floor Kevin. You are ;Ironman:
Proud of you bro; and glad to be posting with you EDD in March
Congrats on 200! Rock solid quitter right here folks.
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Post by: wastepanel on June 27, 2014, 02:53:00 AM
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Quote from: rdad
Way to get that 2nd floor Kevin. You are ;Ironman:
Proud of you bro; and glad to be posting with you EDD in March
Congrats on 200! Rock solid quitter right here folks.
Lots of you guys hitting the daily double today!

Outstanding.

Now....keep it up.
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on October 04, 2014, 11:06:00 AM
Well done Kevin! I have enjoyed walking this path with you. So glad you are still here withf the Ironmen! Congrats. You still are definitely an ;Ironman: !
Title: Re: kerjkrdad intro
Post by: rdad on December 08, 2014, 12:14:00 PM
Way to be Kevin. Hows it feel? One year is a great accomplishment. Thanks for staying with the Ironmen! Congrats. 'oh yeah' ;Ironman: 'oh yeah'
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Post by: AppleJack on December 08, 2014, 12:30:00 PM
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Way to be Kevin. Hows it feel? One year is a great accomplishment. Thanks for staying with the Ironmen! Congrats. 'oh yeah' ;Ironman: 'oh yeah'
Nice!!