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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: dales on September 12, 2012, 10:55:00 AM
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.
BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.
BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.
Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...
How to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=50)
Where to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6639)
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.
BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.
Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...
How to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=50)
Where to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6639)
Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.
1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?
We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!
Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.
Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.
BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.
Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...
How to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=50)
Where to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6639)
Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.
1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?
We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!
Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.
Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!
Is the issue because you quit dipping? Or because you have no balls?
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.
BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.
Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...
How to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=50)
Where to post roll (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6639)
Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.
1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?
We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!
Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.
Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!
Is the issue because you quit dipping? Or because you have no balls?
Time to Fess up to your old group!!! Sounds like you need to go buy some Viagra.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Just a question between October Brothers:
Where ya been?
you say a combat vet, you say you are sending friends here to quit...
then why haven't you been here?
a battle tested SOB who cares.....would have been a great asset to the group.
Just would have thought it would have helped.....being around and being there for others...
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Just a question between October Brothers:
Where ya been?
you say a combat vet, you say you are sending friends here to quit...
then why haven't you been here?
a battle tested SOB who cares.....would have been a great asset to the group.
Just would have thought it would have helped.....being around and being there for others...
Posting you promise/Roll is the backbone of this site. You have caught a lot of shit because you have only 6 posts. This is an internet quit site so don't take it personally. Folks tend to be more blunt in a group like this. If you become more active and share what is happening in your world of quit, it will become personal. You might even make a friend or two along the way if you use this site as directed. Congrats on 70 days quit!!!!!
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My apologies for not posting roll. I had computer troubles, got busy and dealing with life and just didn't post. But I will.
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My apologies for not posting roll. I had computer troubles, got busy and dealing with life and just didn't post. But I will.
do you have a phone to let someone know that you were quit, that works if the computer doesn't. Not trying to be an ass, just looking for some real reason. We all get busy, we all have computer trouble occasionally. Just remember, door swings both ways around here
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Just remember, door swings both ways around here
Eric probably does as well
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Just remember, door swings both ways around here
Eric probably does as well
Fuck off Gordy, self indulgent little prick
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Just remember, door swings both ways around here
Eric probably does as well
Fuck off Gordy, self indulgent little prick
Oh my, can't take a little joke? LOL fucking pussy!!
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Just remember, door swings both ways around here
Eric probably does as well
Fuck off Gordy, self indulgent little prick
Oh my, can't take a little joke? LOL fucking pussy!!
nope, just joking right back at ya
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Just remember, door swings both ways around here
Eric probably does as well
Fuck off Gordy, self indulgent little prick
Oh my, can't take a little joke? LOL fucking pussy!!
nope, just joking right back at ya
Progress I like it.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.
Saying that you have no balls may be the nicest thing I've said to anyone on this site in a long fucking time. Sack up and deal with it... if you have balls.
The "I'm a vet, respect me" line is tired. Don't throw it at me like you deserve my respect. I would venture that at least half this site is vets. I wanted to serve but can't. I mean no disrespect to any of those men with what I'm going to say next, and I'm thankful for all of the men that have served to defend my freedoms.
But the term "combat vet" does nothing to describe a man's character, so please don't call me out on mine. Before you argue that point please read up on what happened at Abu Ghraib (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Ghraib_torture_and_prisoner_abuse) for one example of "combat vets" acting as scum.
I'm not saying that combat vets are all scum, and I like to think that most of them aren't, but some are. So calling me on my character and backing it up with that really doesn't mean shit to me.
Now, if you want to post with us every day, and show that you're a man of integrity, then I'll judge your character on that. But so far all you do is whine and throw your vet status in my face, so I'm not impressed.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.
Saying that you have no balls may be the nicest thing I've said to anyone on this site in a long fucking time. Sack up and deal with it... if you have balls.
The "I'm a vet, respect me" line is tired. Don't throw it at me like you deserve my respect. I would venture that at least half this site is vets. I wanted to serve but can't. I mean no disrespect to any of those men with what I'm going to say next, and I'm thankful for all of the men that have served to defend my freedoms.
But the term "combat vet" does nothing to describe a man's character, so please don't call me out on mine. Before you argue that point please read up on what happened at Abu Ghraib (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Ghraib_torture_and_prisoner_abuse) for one example of "combat vets" acting as scum.
I'm not saying that combat vets are all scum, and I like to think that most of them aren't, but some are. So calling me on my character and backing it up with that really doesn't mean shit to me.
Now, if you want to post with us every day, and show that you're a man of integrity, then I'll judge your character on that. But so far all you do is whine and throw your vet status in my face, so I'm not impressed.
I was wrong to mention the vet thing. I had a real quetion to ask and all I got was the "NO Balls" thing. I thought this was a formun to help each other not blast each other,
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My apologies for not posting roll. I had computer troubles, got busy and dealing with life and just didn't post. But I will.
Apology accepted. But excuses are like assholes...we all have one and they all stink. So keep yours to yourself and post roll everyday.
To answer your question...quit thinking about it. Easier said than done, but that's the answer. It is all in you mind...you fine. Or you could do what I did and switch hands... :P
Also, I am truly thankful for all who serve. You folks are my idols. Thank you.
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dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
sm
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.
Saying that you have no balls may be the nicest thing I've said to anyone on this site in a long fucking time. Sack up and deal with it... if you have balls.
The "I'm a vet, respect me" line is tired. Don't throw it at me like you deserve my respect. I would venture that at least half this site is vets. I wanted to serve but can't. I mean no disrespect to any of those men with what I'm going to say next, and I'm thankful for all of the men that have served to defend my freedoms.
But the term "combat vet" does nothing to describe a man's character, so please don't call me out on mine. Before you argue that point please read up on what happened at Abu Ghraib (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Ghraib_torture_and_prisoner_abuse) for one example of "combat vets" acting as scum.
I'm not saying that combat vets are all scum, and I like to think that most of them aren't, but some are. So calling me on my character and backing it up with that really doesn't mean shit to me.
Now, if you want to post with us every day, and show that you're a man of integrity, then I'll judge your character on that. But so far all you do is whine and throw your vet status in my face, so I'm not impressed.
I was wrong to mention the vet thing. I had a real quetion to ask and all I got was the "NO Balls" thing. I thought this was a formun to help each other not blast each other,
Thank you for your service.
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dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
sm
Have your blood pressure checked. Get tested for diabetes.
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dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
sm
Have your blood pressure checked. Get tested for diabetes.
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.
Saying that you have no balls may be the nicest thing I've said to anyone on this site in a long fucking time. Sack up and deal with it... if you have balls.
The "I'm a vet, respect me" line is tired. Don't throw it at me like you deserve my respect. I would venture that at least half this site is vets. I wanted to serve but can't. I mean no disrespect to any of those men with what I'm going to say next, and I'm thankful for all of the men that have served to defend my freedoms.
But the term "combat vet" does nothing to describe a man's character, so please don't call me out on mine. Before you argue that point please read up on what happened at Abu Ghraib (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Ghraib_torture_and_prisoner_abuse) for one example of "combat vets" acting as scum.
I'm not saying that combat vets are all scum, and I like to think that most of them aren't, but some are. So calling me on my character and backing it up with that really doesn't mean shit to me.
Now, if you want to post with us every day, and show that you're a man of integrity, then I'll judge your character on that. But so far all you do is whine and throw your vet status in my face, so I'm not impressed.
I was wrong to mention the vet thing. I had a real quetion to ask and all I got was the "NO Balls" thing. I thought this was a formun to help each other not blast each other,
Thank you for your service.
Dale, as stated posting roll is the backbone of what we do...accountability. if you just stop by, post somethin about your winky not working then the site you need to be is not this one. We post roll. If you can't then gather some numbers and have someone else post. Derek is right, some of the biggest badasses on this site are vets, you could be a huge asset to your group if you choose. But you're not, most of them don't even know you or if you're even quit. How are we suppose to hold you accountable if you're not posting roll? If you're not letting us know you're quit bro?
Get in there, post roll and kick the nic bitch's ass ODAAT
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dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
sm
great post all around, sm.
1. stress. also see a doc. they go to school for shit like this, and i haven't stayed in a holiday inn express for a while. fair to ask the question here, but go to your doctor, who will know more... both about your history and about medicine in general.
2. thank you for your service. i'm damned proud of my servicemen and women, and i'd be happy to buy you a beer anytime you're in the western maryland area. seriously.
3. you know better, dales. you signed up here and have posted 6 times. you know the expectations, what matters here, and why we do it. if not, click on that salmon colored 'welcome' link at the top left. there's no reason not to post. none. i've driven an hour+ to get cell coverage to send a text to a brother to post roll for me. an that's nothing. folks have fucking snow-shoed out of igloos in the yukon to send texts to post roll every day during hunting trips. computer problems are lame excuses. what would your CO have said if you gave him a weak ass excuse? probably something similar to "no balls."
4. on the lighter side, use your "problem" to your advantage. want her in sexy outfits? tell her it'll help. want that extra somethin' during foreplay? tell her it'll help. want her to clean the kitchen? tell her it'll help. (and ladies, i'm all in favor of similar tactics with the hubbies...)
5. post roll. keep your promise. repeat daily.
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dales-
nicotine is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it narrows the blood vessels and thus limits the blood flow. Obviously blood flow is a good thing when it comes to bedroom activities. The majority will see increased circulation and thus an improvement in that area.
Thus quitting nicotine did not cause your problem, from at least a physical standpoint. Stress could easily be the culprit, that being said, when in doubt talk to the family physician. Bedroom issues can be a first warning for more serious stuff.
Now regarding your service, thankyou sir. Regarding your failure to post roll? inexcusable. This is a quit site, not an advice column. Your either in or out.
Get in
sm
great post all around, sm.
1. stress. also see a doc. they go to school for shit like this, and i haven't stayed in a holiday inn express for a while. fair to ask the question here, but go to your doctor, who will know more... both about your history and about medicine in general.
2. thank you for your service. i'm damned proud of my servicemen and women, and i'd be happy to buy you a beer anytime you're in the western maryland area. seriously.
3. you know better, dales. you signed up here and have posted 6 times. you know the expectations, what matters here, and why we do it. if not, click on that salmon colored 'welcome' link at the top left. there's no reason not to post. none. i've driven an hour+ to get cell coverage to send a text to a brother to post roll for me. an that's nothing. folks have fucking snow-shoed out of igloos in the yukon to send texts to post roll every day during hunting trips. computer problems are lame excuses. what would your CO have said if you gave him a weak ass excuse? probably something similar to "no balls."
4. on the lighter side, use your "problem" to your advantage. want her in sexy outfits? tell her it'll help. want that extra somethin' during foreplay? tell her it'll help. want her to clean the kitchen? tell her it'll help. (and ladies, i'm all in favor of similar tactics with the hubbies...)
5. post roll. keep your promise. repeat daily.
Very good responses you two. You both have inspired me with your tactics and approach. Thanks