KillTheCan.org Accountability Forum
Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Dirtpaw05 on July 12, 2018, 10:18:00 PM
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Well this is the first time I have ever reached out for help other than my doctor. First off my name is Blaine and I have some major concerns with killing the can at this time in my life but I don't think there is ever going to be a good time really. Me and my wife had our first beautiful daughter 5 months ago and we are blessed as can be, I got a massive raise at work for killing it every day and making shit happen and now we are buying are very first home. I'm not trying to rub anything in anyone's face at all I'm not that type of person I'm just telling everyone I need some steadfast advice on killing the can because this is the most I've ever had in life and I'm scared as fuck that quitting chew will break this apart. And there's the whole cancer paranoia thing that keeps me up at night if you know what I mean. I'm in need of some serious help here I am in a bind and afraid. Thanks for reading this and sorry for the the crappy typing.
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That was a bad ass intro! Congrats on the family and doing awesome at work!
You are right. There is never a perfect time...they are ALL perfect times! I have four kids and you have one, but we are both going to quot together.
Anxiety, paranoia, fear, etc are all normal. It sounds like you donÂ’t believe that you are the same
Person without dip. Well you arenÂ’t. You will be a BETTER person. You are going to be a bad ass that makes his promise and honors it everyday. We donÂ’t miss ANYTHING by not dipping! ItÂ’s all a lie!
We are all going through the same things you are. Let us help. Check your inbox then get into october and post roll
If you have any of that shit left flush it!!! ALL!!!
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This (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/30631963/105/) is a link to your October Quit Group.
Go there, post a promise to remain quit for the rest of the day, and post the same promise early tomorrow morning, and every morning after.
I used nicotine for 24 years. Quitting doesn't get easier as you get older, so RIGHT NOW is the best time to quit.
It's not easy, but it is simple. Post your promise in your group. Honor your promise. Refuse to cave. That's it.
The first three days suck ass, then they slowly get better. But, the freedom on the other side of the suck is worth the pain.
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Thanks guys I'm going to do this but I'm going to need to reach out for support all the time it feels
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saddle up cowboy!
You can fucking make it happen. It is your time, you need to make that decision.
Its not going to rip your life apart, it will make it better. It will allow you to enjoy moments that you may not have realized were there. You're life if young. Just make the move and make it happen.
Quit for you.
Digits in your inbox
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You need to post roll and you spelled lose wrong. I quit with people who post roll.
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So I need to post roll but people stop talking to me if I do ? I'm confused
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So I need to post roll but people stop talking to me if I do ? I'm confused
Yes you are.
Post roll.
It's what we do here.
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People are going to stop talking to you unless you post roll! You donÂ’t get to do an intro and then not post roll! Join the party!
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So I need to post roll but people stop talking to me if I do ? I'm confused
You can do it. I have two young kids and every reason I should have quit years ago too, just like everyone else here has reasons they regret not doing it sooner. DonÂ’t make my mistake and push it off until tomorrow. quit now, flush it all down the toilet like Capital said, check for hidden stash tins (we all know about those here) and post roll with us in October.
2 weeks in and IÂ’ll quit with you. You just need to post roll and make that promise to our group each day, one day at a time (ODAAT). If you join us and you. WeÂ’d my cell to text you through the first 72 hours of suck just let me know.
You got this. Make that promise and we have your back.
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Everyone keeps saying post roll ok I will but not one person has told me how to do it! Is there something I click that says post roll ? Do I write an essay? Tell me
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Everyone keeps saying post roll ok I will but not one person has told me how to do it! Is there something I click that says post roll ? Do I write an essay? Tell me
You go to quit groups. You go to Pre-HOF groups. You click on October. Then just post your username and day.
Example
BubbaM-128, I am quitting with my June Jackhammers today!
If you mess it up in your group of October it is not a big deal. You will learn. Someone will eventually send you better directions then what I am. When you post roll this is a promise for you to be quit for JUST TODAY. We quit One Day at at time! ODAAT! If you need digits hit me up with a PM and I will send them your way! You can do this! ODAAT!
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Thanks that's all I was simply trying to understand for a stop chewing support group people are not being very helpful
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See you on roll!!
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Here it is guys I'm stopping chew I've made that promise to myself I've got the drive and devotion no problem. I fight with type one diabetes every fucking day and if anyone knows anything about that shit they know that that's a lifelong no cure disease that takes time and care . I have no issues putting the time in for this but I'm not going to sit here and fight with this website all the time. Its fucking 2018 laptops and desktops are dying get an app people are handing out there phone numbers anyway. Administration don't tell me you haven't thought about this.
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Here it is guys I'm stopping chew I've made that promise to myself I've got the drive and devotion no problem. I fight with type one diabetes every fucking day and if anyone knows anything about that shit they know that that's a lifelong no cure disease that takes time and care . I have no issues putting the time in for this but I'm not going to sit here and fight with this website all the time. Its fucking 2018 laptops and desktops are dying get an app people are handing out there phone numbers anyway. Administration don't tell me you haven't thought about this.
32,370 members here.
So many people have quit using this site.
But I'll tell you what, since you're gonna pout and whine because YOU can't figure it out, I'll switch us over to a mobile friendly site.
It's gonna take me a few weeks to finalize.
In the meantime, post roll.
Geez....
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That roll call thing, ummm, it's an every day deal dude.