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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: AgapePhileros on December 26, 2012, 01:29:00 AM

Title: Intro
Post by: AgapePhileros on December 26, 2012, 01:29:00 AM
Hey everyone-never introduced myself. I'm AgapePhileros, Greek for in love with my God. Looks like i'm the one of the youngest members on the site. As a college student on my winter break, I decided to make a change for the better over vacation and just quit already. I was tired of having the nic bitch on me all day and wanted to stop having a dependency. Found this site, and saw that it will provide all the accountability that I need to stay quit, but I realized you have to search it out too... so that's what I'm doing now; I need that brotherhood. In the March 2013 quit group and even know I don't know all of the guys yet, I still want to commit every bit of myself to staying quit and hold my promise to all of them. Feel free to pm me whenever;
Agape
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Evil_Won on December 26, 2012, 11:43:00 AM
I'm glad you kept your word that you gave in Live Chat last night and decided to quit. It will be the best decision of your life.
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: jhaenel23 on December 26, 2012, 11:59:00 AM
Congrats Homie!! Its all about keeping a promise to all of us! Trust me! If you dont post it wont just be your class checking on you. It will be anyone that you have reached out to so make sure to reach out as much as possible!

Stay Strong! Remember, when you go back to school you will have to continue to keep your promise to us and conquer all of those triggers. It will be like starting over again with out the fog. Trust me!! I tried quitting over break one year. Infinite fail because once I got back to school, I was surrounded by all of the influences I avoided by quitting at home! Be strong and pass the word to your friends at school on how this site works! Dont preach it, offer it! Be a leader and an example to your friends. You will be surprised who will reach out to you if you are strong. No better feeling than helping someone else quit and it will make your quit that much stronger!!


Peace!!

J
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Bean on December 26, 2012, 02:15:00 PM
Congrats on making a great choice, Agape. Post roll everyday, keep your word, and repeat. That is all there is to it. Simple...not easy, but simple.

One day at a time is your new way of life. Plan in advance for the tough times. What are you going to do...seeds, fake stuff, whatever...but plan now. Roll Call, exercise, water and tons of Breathsavers (green) helped me.

Stay strong and stay quit, brother!
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: jhaenel23 on December 27, 2012, 09:28:00 AM
Anyone hear from this guy?? I sent him a couple of PM's.
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: AgapePhileros on December 27, 2012, 01:57:00 PM
Thanks everyone for the support. I'm starting to get accustomed to the site and even though each day seems to get tougher, I feel with each day, my strength to beat the nic bitch gets stronger and stronger. It's amazing to know that each one of you is fighting this thing right along side of me even though none of us have ever met. It's awesome. Once again, thanks for the support and I am always open to as much as I can get. I quit today with all of you!
Agape
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: jhaenel23 on December 27, 2012, 02:07:00 PM
Quote from: AgapePhileros
Thanks everyone for the support. I'm starting to get accustomed to the site and even though each day seems to get tougher, I feel with each day, my strength to beat the nic bitch gets stronger and stronger. It's amazing to know that each one of you is fighting this thing right along side of me even though none of us have ever met. It's awesome. Once again, thanks for the support and I am always open to as much as I can get. I quit today with all of you!
Agape
If you quit then why are you not posted in March? I confused. Is this guy a poser or am I missing something.
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: AgapePhileros on December 27, 2012, 03:01:00 PM
might want to check. I am posted in March
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: ffmoofus on December 27, 2012, 03:18:00 PM
Quote from: jhaenel23
Quote from: AgapePhileros
Thanks everyone for the support. I'm starting to get accustomed to the site and even though each day seems to get tougher, I feel with each day, my strength to beat the nic bitch gets stronger and stronger. It's amazing to know that each one of you is fighting this thing right along side of me even though none of us have ever met. It's awesome. Once again, thanks for the support and I am always open to as much as I can get. I quit today with all of you!
Agape
If you quit then why are you not posted in March? I confused. Is this guy a poser or am I missing something.
He is posted today in March. I checked because I thought I was losing it too. He posted a day 8
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Coach Steve on December 27, 2012, 03:21:00 PM
Quote from: AgapePhileros
Thanks everyone for the support. I'm starting to get accustomed to the site and even though each day seems to get tougher, I feel with each day, my strength to beat the nic bitch gets stronger and stronger. It's amazing to know that each one of you is fighting this thing right along side of me even though none of us have ever met. It's awesome. Once again, thanks for the support and I am always open to as much as I can get. I quit today with all of you!
Agape
Yes you are on the roll in March, great job.

I bolded part of your last post. It is amazing. Accountability between people that have only shared written words on an internet forum. But it doesn't stop there. Indeed several of us have spoken on the phone, share texts and emails regularly and have even met in person. Let's put it this way, if you can feel the accountability from internet strangers, imagine how far you can go by developing internet relationships into personal friendships.
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: jhaenel23 on December 27, 2012, 03:48:00 PM
Whew!!! I feel better now! West Coast College kids on Break! Should have known! I quit with you bro!!
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: AgapePhileros on December 31, 2012, 04:21:00 PM
Day 12 and I'm feeling good. Got through vacation with my friends without nic and today is the first day without bad cravings. However, still realizing the nic bitch is on the prowl but now I feel a little more prepared for what she has ready for me as I go dip free into the new year. I quit today!
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: jhaenel23 on December 31, 2012, 04:47:00 PM
Quote from: AgapePhileros
Day 12 and I'm feeling good. Got through vacation with my friends without nic and today is the first day without bad cravings. However, still realizing the nic bitch is on the prowl but now I feel a little more prepared for what she has ready for me as I go dip free into the new year. I quit today!
Awesome to hear bud!! Have an awsome new year!!
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: wastepanel on January 09, 2015, 12:57:00 PM
bump the bear

What's your plan, retread?
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Scowick65 on January 09, 2015, 12:59:00 PM
Quote from: wastepanel
bump the bear

What's your plan, retread?
'Popcorn'
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Thumblewort on January 09, 2015, 02:41:00 PM
Quote from: Scowick65
Quote from: wastepanel
bump the bear

What's your plan, retread?
'Popcorn'
So you made it 2 weeks 2 years ago, and now are back to quitting. Please do enlighten us with what you will be doing differently this time.