KillTheCan.org Accountability Forum
Community => Introductions => Topic started by: eaxson on January 19, 2012, 10:56:00 PM
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Took the plunge a week ago after about 13 years. It's funny seeing that number written, I never intended for it to be that long and always told myself i could stop. I hope the group can keep me accountable. I believe that I also continued because i thought i could stop when i wanted to. Anyway, finally decided that now is the time and cant wait for this nicotine haze to leave my brain.
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I'm not nearly versed enough to get you where you need to be...
Hopefully a few vets will get here and get you some info on posting roll, not being a douche bag, being a man, etc.
Proud to be quit with you today. Good luck. PM me if you are in need of support.
PMac
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Have you posted roll? Click on the "Welcome Center" link above and learn what we do here.
If you really want to quit, you've come to the right place. Embrace it.
Welcome aboard.
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Eaxson -
You could have just as easily been describing me. I went 20 years before I quit...20 YEARS believing I was really in control, could quit whenever I wanted, blah, blah, blah.
That is addict speak...and there's no shame in it. The shame falls on those who don't have the guts to quit. The shameful people are the ones intentionally inflict the worst pain...the loss of a parent, child, brother/sister, or friend...on the people who love them most.
Funny how the Nic Bitch warps your brain, huh? But you're in the right place. Post roll and get ready for the fight of your life...literally. Emberace the haze. That is the feeling of healing. You spent 13 years getting in. It's gonna take longer than 1 day getting out. But rejoice in the pain of recovery. At least you're here to feel it.
Post roll, keep your word, and repeat. That is all that matters. Ignore tomorrow, next week, and forever. We'll deal with them when they get here. You just focus on right now. You don't need "hope" if your word is worth anything. "Hope" is for people who are "trying," "taking a break," or "about to do something."
You are a quitter. If that shit isn't in your mouth right now, they you're quit. If you gave your word, then you're quit all day. Now all you have to do is keep your word and repeat. Welcome to freedom, brother.
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Hoping and trying are for wimps. IN order to be successful you had better grow a pair and start with a more dominant outlook. You WILL succeed, you WILL kick that nic bitch in the teeth, and you WILL keep your word no matter what.
Glad to have you here
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Listen to Tarp. That's the secret sauce right there.
You want this, you damn well better fight for it. Hope? Wish? Luck? FOR PUSSIES. Grab your balls and say "I QUIT" out loud. Then get on the site and start flexing your quit muscles and toughing your spine.
We got work to do.
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Welcome, I am a newbie myself but I cling to the other brothers that have been where we are, use it the best you can. Fight that bitch (I like to call cunt) for your life.
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