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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Kwarner2012 on August 09, 2012, 01:25:00 AM
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Decided I wanted to quit tonight, Im 22 and have been chewing since about 16 recently about 2 months ago I tried quiting made it about 4 days then caved in, if theres any tips or storys you want to share it would be appreciated!
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Flush the shit if you want to quit. You quit for 4 days thats the hardest part. Get rid of the shit and post roll
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Just got rid of my last can, hoping for encouragement and strength through this page!
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Good for you . You can do this LOts of good people here to help you
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Thanks!
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Decided I wanted to quit tonight, Im 22 and have been chewing since about 16 recently about 2 months ago I tried quiting made it about 4 days then caved in, if theres any tips or storys you want to share it would be appreciated!
Welcome Kwarner. Bottom line, if you want to quit, you will. Not stop, actually quit. And you are way ahead of a lot of us here. Smart quitting as early as you are. Don't wait until you can see the roots of your teeth, teeth falling out, white bumps showing up everywhere, or even worse, getting cancer! Be strong, it will take a lot of personal will and strength to get by. KTC won't do it for you, but it will help you. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Read the welcome center, post roll and let's quit!!
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Just got rid of my last can, hoping for encouragement and strength through this page!
Okay man, here is the deal. get on this site read every thing you can until your eyes hurt. Get with your quit group and POST ROLL every day one day at a time.
Remove the word hope from your vocabulary, we don't hope around here we quit. Follow the following formula and you are home free
POST ROLL
KEEP YOUR WORD
REPEAT
Pm me if i can help you in any way. Congrats on saving your own life....
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Way to go for making the best decision of your life. You will find tons of resources within this site to help you quit.
Read up on all of the Words of Wisdom and the Hall of Fame speaches as these are from men just like you and me who have kicked the nic bitch in the nads for more than 100 days and have succeeded in the day to day dealings.
Don't be discouraged by some of the things people will say as take what you need. You are 22 and have too much of your life ahead to kick this now...and don;t let anything stand in your way to doing so.
yell if ya need anything and show us here that you have the 'mables', the cajones, the guts, to stay strong.
And remember, if we try we fail, we just do.
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KWarner...
I made the same decision as you. Im 26 and have been dipping on and off since I was 18. I was always an addict, sometimes I just hid it.. But an addict all the same.
Let's do this together. First step is always the hardest. Post roll and let's do this!
Brink
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Day - 1 woke up and it wasn't so bad my first thought was to put in a chew but so far no serious problems.
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Day - 1 woke up and it wasn't so bad my first thought was to put in a chew but so far no serious problems.
didn't see you on the roll??? Have you posted your promise today. You better. A shit storm is coming your way. You just declared war and its time to battle. Get your sword and shield out .
POST ROLL and keep your word!
Welcome to hell. It is an adventure!
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Day - 1 woke up and it wasn't so bad my first thought was to put in a chew but so far no serious problems.
didn't see you on the roll??? Have you posted your promise today. You better. A shit storm is coming your way. You just declared war and its time to battle. Get your sword and shield out .
POST ROLL and keep your word!
Welcome to hell. It is an adventure!
Mthomas is EXACTLY RIGHT. Craves come in waves. Post up and give your word now. Then fight like your life depends on it (because it does) all day to keep your word.
Don't worry about anything other than staying quit TODAY. We've got your back. Live on this site. Come up with plans on how to fight the craves now...before they get really bad. Get numbers, PM quitters, print off "the contract" or cancer pics or whatever you need to. Read all you can on this site.
You can do this! You're not the only addict who is fighting this. We're all right there with you. Post roll, keep your word!!!
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Wheres the thread to post roll?
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Wheres the thread to post roll?
November 2012 Pre HOF Group. (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6793)
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Wheres the thread to post roll?
November 2012 Pre HOF Group. (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6793)
Nice work on day 1 bro.
Make sure you hit the warm, inviting salmon colored 'Welcome Center' link in the upper left.
And get to know folks. They'll have your back when you need it.
Read everything on this site as well. Be proactive about quitting. Know your enemy. Prepare for your fight from all the experience here.
And reach out. When shit hits the fan any of these fuckers will answer the call but you have to let them know.
Welcome.
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What are some effective ways to get rid of the cravings, and can anyone tell me when it starts to slowly get better in only on day 1.
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Has any ever had anxiety problems and still KTC if so message me or pm for my number to help coach me, I would really appreciate it thanks!
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You gotta stay busy, chew some gum, drink water, do whatever you want but don't sit idle. Go to bed as soon as you get that first nod...sleep may be restless but at least you may get a little more than you're used to because you won't get that last dip in before bed. Then you're done. Wake up tomorrow quit, post roll and cunt-punch your addiction. Not gonna lie and tell you it's gonna be easy, if it was everyone with half a brain would be quit.
The quit is for the bad motherfuckers...are you....a bad fucker of mothers?
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Has any ever had anxiety problems and still KTC if so message me or pm for my number to help coach me, I would really appreciate it thanks!
I had anxiety issues up the ass. Check my intro post on page 3 "anxiety issues".
I can give u my digits but I cant coach you through your issues as everyone is different. For me talk therapy and anti anxiety meds turned me from a hopeless blubbering fool to a confident quitting mother fucker. Granted I'm still only 67 days quit but quitting is hard enough without anxiety fucking with you.
I suggest strongly you see your doctor. There's no shame in it and its certainly better than going back to finger banging a can. He can either prescribe you some anti anxiety meds to take the edge off or recommend you to a psychiatrist or psychologist, if he thinks you need it.
That's my best advice. Pm me if you have any other questions.
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You gotta stay busy, chew some gum, drink water, do whatever you want but don't sit idle. Go to bed as soon as you get that first nod...sleep may be restless but at least you may get a little more than you're used to because you won't get that last dip in before bed. Then you're done. Wake up tomorrow quit, post roll and cunt-punch your addiction. Not gonna lie and tell you it's gonna be easy, if it was everyone with half a brain would be quit.
The quit is for the bad motherfuckers...are you....a bad fucker of mothers?
I totally agree with Bigdave. Cunt-punch your addiction for sure. That'll show it.
Damn man, I didn't even know my addiction had a cunt. This site is useful AND educational. Thanks Bigdave!
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Has any ever had anxiety problems and still KTC if so message me or pm for my number to help coach me, I would really appreciate it thanks!
I had anxiety issues up the ass. Check my intro post on page 3 "anxiety issues".
I can give u my digits but I cant coach you through your issues as everyone is different. For me talk therapy and anti anxiety meds turned me from a hopeless blubbering fool to a confident quitting mother fucker. Granted I'm still only 67 days quit but quitting is hard enough without anxiety fucking with you.
I suggest strongly you see your doctor. There's no shame in it and its certainly better than going back to finger banging a can. He can either prescribe you some anti anxiety meds to take the edge off or recommend you to a psychiatrist or psychologist, if he thinks you need it.
That's my best advice. Pm me if you have any other questions.
I agree hundred percent with Diesel! He was definitely a blabbering lost soul, so was I! Anxiety depression and nicotine go hand-in-hand. The longer you're here and quit the more you'll realize how many others have the same feelings as you! Thanks for the number I'll text you and Then you will have my number.
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I was wondering if there is any way to slow down the cravings I feel like I just want to go cave in but I know in my heart I dont need too!
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And everytime I think about chewing I also try and convince myself I cant see myself without chew anymore and it almost makes me cave!
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And everytime I think about chewing I also try and convince myself I cant see myself without chew anymore and it almost makes me cave!
Chat... now... do it.
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And everytime I think about chewing I also try and convince myself I cant see myself without chew anymore and it almost makes me cave!
Chat... now... do it.
Meet us in chat
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Im in there now
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Talked to a few guys tonight that gave me alot of inspiration. Feels like ive lost my bestfriend but that " bestfriend " was some one I use too know! STAYING QUIT! Thanks KTC!!
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Has any ever had anxiety problems and still KTC if so message me or pm for my number to help coach me, I would really appreciate it thanks!
Guess you weren't very serious!! Started out good now you are avoiding my text and pretending you don't know who I am or why I'm texting you!! Sounds like a good solid cave to me! Sorry ill delete you from my contacts!
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Hi y'all I'm officially 1 hour and 12 minutes quit and wanted to introduce my self my name is Korey and I'm 23 years old and have been chewing for a solid 6 years but today is the day I take my life away from nicotine. So any information and help that you guys could possibly provide would be appreciated. And for all of you veterans that would like to help me out through out this journey please pm so that I can give you my number thanks guys!f
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Hi y'all I'm officially 1 hour and 12 minutes quit and wanted to introduce my self my name is Korey and I'm 23 years old and have been chewing for a solid 6 years but today is the day I take my life away from nicotine. So any information and help that you guys could possibly provide would be appreciated. And for all of you veterans that would like to help me out through out this journey please pm so that I can give you my number thanks guys!f
Welcome on the greatest decision ever, quitting. This site has both changed and saved my life, and itÂ’s really quite simple:
Evilology 101
Fine job posting Day 1 in Roll: Why (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=120)? This is the single most important thing we do here. This is your promise, a pledge to your quit brothers and sisters, to yourself, and to everyone else here on KTC to not use nicotine in any way, shape, or form, for the next 24 hours. Keep your promise. A man is nothing if his word is no good.
Get Involved: Read: Introductions (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=25) and HOF Speeches (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=90). Read the banter in other groups. Read the non-dip discussions in the Wilcard (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=11) section when you want to get away from thoughts of dip. By doing this you will realize that you are not alone in the feeling you are having. You will gain strength through others. And, you will get to know these people on a personal level, which adds accountability.
Send out a few PMs: Send out a PM to someone in your group, or to someone that posted something that you related to. Offer your phone number. I bet you will get a phone number in return. Store those numbers in your phone and USE THEM in a moment of weakness. Sending a text out has prevented me from caving more than a few times. Sometimes I didn’t even need a response, just taking a few seconds to text was all it took to get me thinking straight again. Other times the response I got was, “you do NOT have permission to cave”, which I took to heart.
Every tool you need to QUIT and remain QUIT is here, for free, but you have to want it. No one can quit for you, but we can offer support whenever you need it.
PM me if you need anything or if I can be of any help to you today or any other day that you are quit.
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I see you did post roll so now I suggest you spend time just reading, HOF, words of wisdom and others intros. You will probably have plenty of time since sleeping can be difficult for a few days. I applaud you for quitting while you are still young. Don't be fooled into thinking this wont be to bad it will be one of the hardest things you've ever done. That being said it is done everyday by many of us and that's what we expect from you. Putting your name on roll is a promise to keep nicotine out of your life for today! 1 day at a time!!
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I was wondering if you bad ass quitters out there have had good experinance with the herbal chew and if so what brands are good and wich aren't?
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I was wondering if you bad ass quitters out there have had good experinance with the herbal chew and if so what brands are good and wich aren't?
Smokey Mountain worked for me.
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These reviews (http://www.killthecan.org/yourquit/reviews.asp) may help you some.
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Evil_Won pretty much summed up the process below. Follow those instructions.
First things first: get your head in the game and get 100% committed to your quit. It has to come before everything else. That doesn't mean it interferes. But, in every single situation there will be triggers, so you have to ready at all times. Get involved here. Get to know some folks. Gather some numbers. USE THEM!! Digits are useless if you don't know the person on the other end before you need help. Read, post, rant, rave...... just generally make your presence known. Don't sit quietly in the corner. Build some accountability.
Reach out via PM if you need help with anything.
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I agree with SDH. I'm on day 22 and I've been plowing through the Smokey Mountain wintergreen. Also ordered some Jake's (not herbal - made from mint apparently). Sometimes I get crazy and mix the two. For me it's super helpful. Every time I chew it I am amazed at how I feel like there is really nothing "missing". Seems like the only difference is the nicotine, which I don't miss. Otherwise, it's exactly like chewing the real thing. It's like, why would I ever go back to the unsafe stuff if this stuff exists? There would really be no point. Anyway, I highly recommend you try all kinds of shit and see what you like.
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I was a cope idiot in the past, so I went with wintergreen Smokey Mt. Nothing tasted "close enough" to cope to make me think it was cope, and wintergreen was far enough away in taste that I was always comparing it to Cope. Does that make sense? Didn't think so. Anyway, before the obvious discussion on the merits/pitfalls of fake dip come up: I used SM like a madman at times, the wife wondered if I was gonna get addicted to mint. I never made an effort to cut back on fake, but 455 days later I haven't used any in maybe 2 or three months. I do have some in my glove box, just in case. Moral of the story: Use it as much as you want, IMHO. Whatever it take to keep nic off the table. Don't worry about fake becoming a new "habit".
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I might try some fake, who sells it like Walmart or something. Stay quit Warner its getting a bit easier with each day. Good job and good luck
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Well unfourtnely I hate to admit I failed not only myself but my family and you guys as well, I made it until day 4 when I woke up in the middle of the night feeling like I couldn't breathe. Scared me so bad that I had caved.
I'm ready to tackle this again but this time deciding to quit for myself and not because some one wanted me to. This will be a challenge because of having anxiety/panic attacks already. But I need to do this for my wife my two daughters to prove to myself that I can do it.
Please if anyone has any advice other then to man up I would greatly appreciate it. Pm me for my number and if you want harass the hell of me every day to make sure I stay true to this.
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Well unfourtnely I hate to admit I failed not only myself but my family and you guys as well, I made it until day 4 when I woke up in the middle of the night feeling like I couldn't breathe. Scared me so bad that I had caved.
I'm ready to tackle this again but this time deciding to quit for myself and not because some one wanted me to. This will be a challenge because of having anxiety/panic attacks already. But I need to do this for my wife my two daughters to prove to myself that I can do it.
Please if anyone has any advice other then to man up I would greatly appreciate it. Pm me for my number and if you want harass the hell of me every day to make sure I stay true to this.
What the fucks going to be different this time 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger' 'Finger'
That's your first mistake, you do this shit for YOU, not anyone else you dumbass.
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I didn't do this shit last time because I wanted it I did it out of pure nagging from my wife this time I'm motivated and want it for myself.
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What happend?
Why did it happen?
Whats going to be different this time?
Answer these questions for yourself and others so we can see what happened and what to avoid? Its the price of re admittance.
'Popcorn'
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Lol readmittance? I'm quit regardless if you include me or not. I just asked for some help along the way. If that's not acceptable then tell me that instead of asking me to plea for forgiveness.
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Did you post roll yesterday? I haven't looked because at this point it doesn't seem you are worth the time. If you did and caved then you are not a man of your word. If you are not a man of your word then what the hell are you then? This is the way it works around here. We can say man up but what it really means is you post roll and say I will not dip today. You see, this takes it off the table. You can't dip.
When you had your panic attack that is understandable. It has happened before. Instead of reaching for a can you could have got on this site and read what others did in this exact same situation. In order to quit, you need to educate yourself and this site is full of that.
You see, you are not a special butterfly. We all deal with the same symptoms and problems. Use the site for what it is or leave it to those that want to quit.
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Lol readmittance? I'm quit regardless if you include me or not. I just asked for some help along the way. If that's not acceptable then tell me that instead of asking me to plea for forgiveness.
Price for help bro and not that big a deal! Just answer and let's get started again.
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No I did not post roll yesterday kinda defeats the purpose of posting roll right if your going to quit.
As far as what caused it was waking up in the middle of night with trouble breathing and not knowing what was wrong, what will I do different? Label everything as a withdrawal symptom. Not worry about the what if and stay focused and determined.
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Lol readmittance? I'm quit regardless if you include me or not. I just asked for some help along the way. If that's not acceptable then tell me that instead of asking me to plea for forgiveness.
Price for help bro and not that big a deal! Just answer and let's get started again.
Get on the train KWarner. I am bagger on day 37 and it has sucked. But I am very proud to quit each and every day for me. Sack Up, Answer the questions and post roll everyday.
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Here's the problem that I see that you might not get yet. You woke up having a panic attack because nicotine had whipped your body so badly when you were using that your body felt like it needed poison to function. And you obliged? You put more poison in your body so that your body could go back to functioning on poison. See the problem? You didn't come out of the womb with dip in your lip. You probably didn't even have dip until you were at least 12 or 13. That means your body went 12 or 13 years without nicotine, and you gave in after 3 days this time?
I know you don't want to hear this so feel free to stop reading if you want to keep burying your head in the sand, but the biggest component of quitting is how badly you want it. Sure there will be tough times where leaning on another will save your ass, but day in and day out, YOU need to have the balls to do this thing. It's not easy sometimes and you were probably at the worst of it when you caved, but instead of powering through like thousands before you, you chose to give in. That's it. You gave up. You simply were too weak. Your body didn't need nicotine. You allowed it to happen. You weren't going to die that night if you didn't cave, but you didn't care because your desire to return to slavery outweighed your desire to be free from that slavery.
Also, if you didn't have any nic in your house, you woke up in the middle of the night and drove to some all nighter gas station to get this stuff and in that entire time you couldn't convince yourself that you didn't need it. I highly doubt you were still gasping for air when you went into the c store and bought the can. You had so many opportunities to not give up, but you didn't take advantage of a single one. What has changed in the last four weeks or so that you WILL quit this time, not you hope you can?
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No I did not post roll yesterday kinda defeats the purpose of posting roll right if your going to quit.
As far as what caused it was waking up in the middle of night with trouble breathing and not knowing what was wrong, what will I do different? Label everything as a withdrawal symptom. Not worry about the what if and stay focused and determined.
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No I did not post roll yesterday kinda defeats the purpose of posting roll right if your going to quit.
As far as what caused it was waking up in the middle of night with trouble breathing and not knowing what was wrong, what will I do different? Label everything as a withdrawal symptom. Not worry about the what if and stay focused and determined.
This is a really really really bad attempt. You woke up in the middle of the night with trouble breathing and you decided that dipping would help you breathe? Answer the three questions that Norm posted. Be thoughtful about it. This is for YOUR sake. This is for you to gain some self-understanding so you don't explosive diarrhea all over November too.
There are 8 people in your intro right now because they want you to succeed. We can't quit for you though. Ball's in your court sunshine, post up your answers with some well reasoned analysis, and get to quitting. Your life depends on it.
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Here's the problem that I see that you might not get yet. You woke up having a panic attack because nicotine had whipped your body so badly when you were using that your body felt like it needed poison to function. And you obliged? You put more poison in your body so that your body could go back to functioning on poison. See the problem? You didn't come out of the womb with dip in your lip. You probably didn't even have dip until you were at least 12 or 13. That means your body went 12 or 13 years without nicotine, and you gave in after 3 days this time?
I know you don't want to hear this so feel free to stop reading if you want to keep burying your head in the sand, but the biggest component of quitting is how badly you want it. Sure there will be tough times where leaning on another will save your ass, but day in and day out, YOU need to have the balls to do this thing. It's not easy sometimes and you were probably at the worst of it when you caved, but instead of powering through like thousands before you, you chose to give in. That's it. You gave up. You simply were too weak. Your body didn't need nicotine. You allowed it to happen. You weren't going to die that night if you didn't cave, but you didn't care because your desire to return to slavery outweighed your desire to be free from that slavery.
Also, if you didn't have any nic in your house, you woke up in the middle of the night and drove to some all nighter gas station to get this stuff and in that entire time you couldn't convince yourself that you didn't need it. I highly doubt you were still gasping for air when you went into the c store and bought the can. You had so many opportunities to not give up, but you didn't take advantage of a single one. What has changed in the last four weeks or so that you WILL quit this time, not you hope you can?
^^^Well said
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Here's the problem that I see that you might not get yet. You woke up having a panic attack because nicotine had whipped your body so badly when you were using that your body felt like it needed poison to function. And you obliged? You put more poison in your body so that your body could go back to functioning on poison. See the problem? You didn't come out of the womb with dip in your lip. You probably didn't even have dip until you were at least 12 or 13. That means your body went 12 or 13 years without nicotine, and you gave in after 3 days this time?
I know you don't want to hear this so feel free to stop reading if you want to keep burying your head in the sand, but the biggest component of quitting is how badly you want it. Sure there will be tough times where leaning on another will save your ass, but day in and day out, YOU need to have the balls to do this thing. It's not easy sometimes and you were probably at the worst of it when you caved, but instead of powering through like thousands before you, you chose to give in. That's it. You gave up. You simply were too weak. Your body didn't need nicotine. You allowed it to happen. You weren't going to die that night if you didn't cave, but you didn't care because your desire to return to slavery outweighed your desire to be free from that slavery.
Also, if you didn't have any nic in your house, you woke up in the middle of the night and drove to some all nighter gas station to get this stuff and in that entire time you couldn't convince yourself that you didn't need it. I highly doubt you were still gasping for air when you went into the c store and bought the can. You had so many opportunities to not give up, but you didn't take advantage of a single one. What has changed in the last four weeks or so that you WILL quit this time, not you hope you can?
^^^Well said
You can't get pissed and move on, or you can man up grab your sac and get you a real quit going. This is not Facebook this is serious shit and if you don't take it seriously you fail! Be a damn man drink the kool-aid and get your ass back in ,it could and probably will be the difference between life and death! It's obvious we give a shit or there wouldn't be 9 people waiting in line to help!
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What happend?
Why did it happen?
Whats going to be different this time?
Answer these questions for yourself and others so we can see what happened and what to avoid? Its the price of re admittance.
'Popcorn'
What happened? I caved because I didn't have enough will power to keep saying no after having all the right reasoning and facts that outweighed the mental withdrawals. I talked my self into caving by giving the nictotine the benifet of the doubt and thinking something else was wrong and that I would remedy it by chewing, was I right? Hell no, did I want it that bad? Must not have, scared? Defiantly!
What will I do different this time? What makes this different from when I quit last time? Because I'm tired of being a slave to this damn can and letting it dictate my happiness and having to rely on it too "Feel normal" I'm tired of worrying about having to rely on it to make me less anxious. All it is too me anymore is a burden not once does it actually sold a damn thing and I'm over living my life worrying about when the next chew is going to be.
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Here's the problem that I see that you might not get yet. You woke up having a panic attack because nicotine had whipped your body so badly when you were using that your body felt like it needed poison to function. And you obliged? You put more poison in your body so that your body could go back to functioning on poison. See the problem? You didn't come out of the womb with dip in your lip. You probably didn't even have dip until you were at least 12 or 13. That means your body went 12 or 13 years without nicotine, and you gave in after 3 days this time?
I know you don't want to hear this so feel free to stop reading if you want to keep burying your head in the sand, but the biggest component of quitting is how badly you want it. Sure there will be tough times where leaning on another will save your ass, but day in and day out, YOU need to have the balls to do this thing. It's not easy sometimes and you were probably at the worst of it when you caved, but instead of powering through like thousands before you, you chose to give in. That's it. You gave up. You simply were too weak. Your body didn't need nicotine. You allowed it to happen. You weren't going to die that night if you didn't cave, but you didn't care because your desire to return to slavery outweighed your desire to be free from that slavery.
Also, if you didn't have any nic in your house, you woke up in the middle of the night and drove to some all nighter gas station to get this stuff and in that entire time you couldn't convince yourself that you didn't need it. I highly doubt you were still gasping for air when you went into the c store and bought the can. You had so many opportunities to not give up, but you didn't take advantage of a single one. What has changed in the last four weeks or so that you WILL quit this time, not you hope you can?
^^^Well said
You can't get pissed and move on, or you can man up grab your sac and get you a real quit going. This is not Facebook this is serious shit and if you don't take it seriously you fail! Be a damn man drink the kool-aid and get your ass back in ,it could and probably will be the difference between life and death! It's obvious we give a shit or there wouldn't be 9 people waiting in line to help!
Like pab said, if we didn't care we wouldn't be here. I stopped everything I was doing at work to help and support you buddy. Man up, grow a pair and QLF.
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Here's the problem that I see that you might not get yet. You woke up having a panic attack because nicotine had whipped your body so badly when you were using that your body felt like it needed poison to function. And you obliged? You put more poison in your body so that your body could go back to functioning on poison. See the problem? You didn't come out of the womb with dip in your lip. You probably didn't even have dip until you were at least 12 or 13. That means your body went 12 or 13 years without nicotine, and you gave in after 3 days this time?
I know you don't want to hear this so feel free to stop reading if you want to keep burying your head in the sand, but the biggest component of quitting is how badly you want it. Sure there will be tough times where leaning on another will save your ass, but day in and day out, YOU need to have the balls to do this thing. It's not easy sometimes and you were probably at the worst of it when you caved, but instead of powering through like thousands before you, you chose to give in. That's it. You gave up. You simply were too weak. Your body didn't need nicotine. You allowed it to happen. You weren't going to die that night if you didn't cave, but you didn't care because your desire to return to slavery outweighed your desire to be free from that slavery.
Also, if you didn't have any nic in your house, you woke up in the middle of the night and drove to some all nighter gas station to get this stuff and in that entire time you couldn't convince yourself that you didn't need it. I highly doubt you were still gasping for air when you went into the c store and bought the can. You had so many opportunities to not give up, but you didn't take advantage of a single one. What has changed in the last four weeks or so that you WILL quit this time, not you hope you can?
^^^Well said
You can't get pissed and move on, or you can man up grab your sac and get you a real quit going. This is not Facebook this is serious shit and if you don't take it seriously you fail! Be a damn man drink the kool-aid and get your ass back in ,it could and probably will be the difference between life and death! It's obvious we give a shit or there wouldn't be 9 people waiting in line to help!
Like pab said, if we didn't care we wouldn't be here. I stopped everything I was doing at work to help and support you buddy. Man up, grow a pair and QLF.
BOOM! what he said.
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What happend?
Why did it happen?
Whats going to be different this time?
Answer these questions for yourself and others so we can see what happened and what to avoid? Its the price of re admittance.
'Popcorn'
What happened? I caved because I didn't have enough will power to keep saying no after having all the right reasoning and facts that outweighed the mental withdrawals. I talked my self into caving by giving the nictotine the benifet of the doubt and thinking something else was wrong and that I would remedy it by chewing, was I right? Hell no, did I want it that bad? Must not have, scared? Defiantly!
What will I do different this time? What makes this different from when I quit last time? Because I'm tired of being a slave to this damn can and letting it dictate my happiness and having to rely on it too "Feel normal" I'm tired of worrying about having to rely on it to make me less anxious. All it is too me anymore is a burden not once does it actually sold a damn thing and I'm over living my life worrying about when the next chew is going to be.
This is a lot better KW. My next suggestion is to post these answers in October and November. This is part of the accountability piece. Ask for support, then post roll EDD so they can start to trust that you are in fact a man of your word. DO it this time, don't try.
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No I did not post roll yesterday kinda defeats the purpose of posting roll right if your going to quit.
As far as what caused it was waking up in the middle of night with trouble breathing and not knowing what was wrong, what will I do different? Label everything as a withdrawal symptom. Not worry about the what if and stay focused and determined.
This is a really really really bad attempt. You woke up in the middle of the night with trouble breathing and you decided that dipping would help you breathe? Answer the three questions that Norm posted. Be thoughtful about it. This is for YOUR sake. This is for you to gain some self-understanding so you don't explosive diarrhea all over November too.
There are 8 people in your intro right now because they want you to succeed. We can't quit for you though. Ball's in your court sunshine, post up your answers with some well reasoned analysis, and get to quitting. Your life depends on it.
I am stuck on you being 4 days quit, yet having a can so readily available that you can just pop one in, in the middle of the night. So "A" you either had an emergency stash in case you couldn't go without. That tells me you weren't committed to anything in the first place. Or "B" you woke up in a near panic attack and chose to walk drive run to the nearest poison dealer to get your fix. Which in the same 30 minutes you took to get dressed and break your word, you could have jumped on here for support. I suspect we could have helped ease your crave enough to avoid your cave.
I am 7 days in and often struggling like hell. I assure you that I am no stronger willed than you. I have taken a fucking sledgehammer to those around me over the past week which hurts like hell. Those ripples from my quit are the reason why I must continue. To fail now makes all of it for nothing. You need to see things through that prism or you will fail again and again.
Make up your mind, we are not going anywhere, and I will quit with you again. I will be looking for your day 1 post.
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What happend?
Why did it happen?
Whats going to be different this time?
Answer these questions for yourself and others so we can see what happened and what to avoid? Its the price of re admittance.
'Popcorn'
What happened? I caved because I didn't have enough will power to keep saying no after having all the right reasoning and facts that outweighed the mental withdrawals. I talked my self into caving by giving the nictotine the benifet of the doubt and thinking something else was wrong and that I would remedy it by chewing, was I right? Hell no, did I want it that bad? Must not have, scared? Defiantly!
What will I do different this time? What makes this different from when I quit last time? Because I'm tired of being a slave to this damn can and letting it dictate my happiness and having to rely on it too "Feel normal" I'm tired of worrying about having to rely on it to make me less anxious. All it is too me anymore is a burden not once does it actually sold a damn thing and I'm over living my life worrying about when the next chew is going to be.
This is a lot better KW. My next suggestion is to post these answers in October and November. This is part of the accountability piece. Ask for support, then post roll EDD so they can start to trust that you are in fact a man of your word. DO it this time, don't try.
I'm going to post roll day one king nothing that is if I can after failing all if you.
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No I did not post roll yesterday kinda defeats the purpose of posting roll right if your going to quit.
As far as what caused it was waking up in the middle of night with trouble breathing and not knowing what was wrong, what will I do different? Label everything as a withdrawal symptom. Not worry about the what if and stay focused and determined.
This is a really really really bad attempt. You woke up in the middle of the night with trouble breathing and you decided that dipping would help you breathe? Answer the three questions that Norm posted. Be thoughtful about it. This is for YOUR sake. This is for you to gain some self-understanding so you don't explosive diarrhea all over November too.
There are 8 people in your intro right now because they want you to succeed. We can't quit for you though. Ball's in your court sunshine, post up your answers with some well reasoned analysis, and get to quitting. Your life depends on it.
I am stuck on you being 4 days quit, yet having a can so readily available that you can just pop one in, in the middle of the night. So "A" you either had an emergency stash in case you couldn't go without. That tells me you weren't committed to anything in the first place. Or "B" you woke up in a near panic attack and chose to walk drive run to the nearest poison dealer to get your fix. Which in the same 30 minutes you took to get dressed and break your word, you could have jumped on here for support. I suspect we could have helped ease your crave enough to avoid your cave.
I am 7 days in and often struggling like hell. I assure you that I am no stronger willed than you. I have taken a fucking sledgehammer to those around me over the past week which hurts like hell. Those ripples from my quit are the reason why I must continue. To fail now makes all of it for nothing. You need to see things through that prism or you will fail again and again.
Make up your mind, we are not going anywhere, and I will quit with you again. I will be looking for your day 1 post.
^^^^^Damn nicely stated from a fellow Nympho. I especially like the part of the hell you put everyone else through and not wanting to do that again.
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What happend?
Why did it happen?
Whats going to be different this time?
Answer these questions for yourself and others so we can see what happened and what to avoid? Its the price of re admittance.
'Popcorn'
What happened? I caved because I didn't have enough will power to keep saying no after having all the right reasoning and facts that outweighed the mental withdrawals. I talked my self into caving by giving the nictotine the benifet of the doubt and thinking something else was wrong and that I would remedy it by chewing, was I right? Hell no, did I want it that bad? Must not have, scared? Defiantly!
What will I do different this time? What makes this different from when I quit last time? Because I'm tired of being a slave to this damn can and letting it dictate my happiness and having to rely on it too "Feel normal" I'm tired of worrying about having to rely on it to make me less anxious. All it is too me anymore is a burden not once does it actually sold a damn thing and I'm over living my life worrying about when the next chew is going to be.
This is a lot better KW. My next suggestion is to post these answers in October and November. This is part of the accountability piece. Ask for support, then post roll EDD so they can start to trust that you are in fact a man of your word. DO it this time, don't try.
I'm going to post roll day one king nothing that is if I can after failing all if you.
If you're quit right now, get in there and post. There are two new guys that just joined up over there as well, and another that caved last night and is going to "try to quit again on Monday." You aren't alone. Get in there, quit your ass off and show us why we should believe you.
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One thing to remember, every man, woman and kait that comes in here have white knuckling ,foam at the mouth,dreaming of a fat lip cravings for weeks! Well you know what I dipped 38 frigging years (what a dumbass! ) you don't think I had anxiety and sleepless nights and days of being a dickhead?! The point is we all struggle it's just a matter of how bad you want it. Hell you can defeat this, it's 99 percent mental! So like one of the brothers said earlier, you're not a special butterfly. When you post roll their probably gonna rip you a new asshole, drink the kool-aid and answer damn questions. Don't be a dick to your family! You done this shit again to yourself, you wanna bitch? Bitch at me! Now do this shit right, failure sucks not just for you but your family also!
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Today is the day that I finally quit. I'm 25 and have been chewing for about 8 years. I started back in highschool when I thought I would never be addicted and that chewing would be so cool to do little did I know that it would control my life by degrading my health and taking my money. I'm here to quit with you all today and hope that I can meet some good friends along this battle. Feel free to pm so that we do this together!
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My 2 cents. Did you have a can waiting for you that night, or did you jump in a car and get one? Because if you had one in the house already, you were destined to fail. No trophy cans, no full cans either, dump the shit and quit.
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My 2 cents. Did you have a can waiting for you that night, or did you jump in a car and get one? Because if you had one in the house already, you were destined to fail. No trophy cans, no full cans either, dump the shit and quit.
Thumblewort, they're all gone. Spit cans, bottles, old empty cans. Gone! And I am going to go as far as cleaning out my truck to get the lingering smell of chew from spilled cans through out the years, I promise I am quit today. Let me prove this to all of you.
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You have three fucking intros???
topic/11281428/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11281428/1/?x=90)
topic/11242186/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11242186/1/?x=90)
There are your other two. Own your history.
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You have three fucking intros???
topic/11281428/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11281428/1/?x=90)
topic/11242186/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11242186/1/?x=90)
There are your other two. Own your history.
This is his 3rd quit in 24 days, if he doesn't get it this time perhaps we ban him.
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You have three fucking intros???
topic/11281428/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11281428/1/?x=90)
topic/11242186/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11242186/1/?x=90)
There are your other two. Own your history.
This is his 3rd quit in 24 days, if he doesn't get it this time perhaps we ban him.
No this isn't my third time quitting I posted today twice, one intro for being back to day 1 and another to let all know I had caved. You don't even know what the hell you are talking about so if you want to ban some one then do it but get your shit straight first.
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You have three fucking intros???
topic/11281428/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11281428/1/?x=90)
topic/11242186/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11242186/1/?x=90)
There are your other two. Own your history.
This is his 3rd quit in 24 days, if he doesn't get it this time perhaps we ban him.
No this isn't my third time quitting I posted today twice, one intro for being back to day 1 and another to let all know I had caved. You don't even know what the hell you are talking about so if you want to ban some one then do it but get your shit straight first.
Jul 18 2015, 09:29 PM Post #1
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Hi guys my name is Korey and im less than 24 hours quit. I started chewing around 17 and am now 25, main reason im wanting to quit is because I have to beautiful baby girls and wife that needs me. I suffer from anxiety so this is going to be a journey. Please anyone that can text me or call me to continue to push me through this so that I dont give up. Number is ***-***-**** (PM me for Number) . I'd love to have some friends through this.
OH YEA!! Can some help with this postin roll call thing???
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You have three fucking intros???
topic/11281428/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11281428/1/?x=90)
topic/11242186/1/?x=90 (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11242186/1/?x=90)
There are your other two. Own your history.
This is his 3rd quit in 24 days, if he doesn't get it this time perhaps we ban him.
No this isn't my third time quitting I posted today twice, one intro for being back to day 1 and another to let all know I had caved. You don't even know what the hell you are talking about so if you want to ban some one then do it but get your shit straight first.
Jul 18 2015, 09:29 PM Post #1
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Posts:
22
Group:
Members
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Joined:
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Hi guys my name is Korey and im less than 24 hours quit. I started chewing around 17 and am now 25, main reason im wanting to quit is because I have to beautiful baby girls and wife that needs me. I suffer from anxiety so this is going to be a journey. Please anyone that can text me or call me to continue to push me through this so that I dont give up. Number is ***-***-**** (PM me for Number) . I'd love to have some friends through this.
OH YEA!! Can some help with this postin roll call thing???
That was my original post from when I said I was going to quit, then I came in here today and let every one know that I had caved. Then they said post roll so after I did that I posted another day 1 intro. I didn't cave twice in one damn day.
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I am all for you. Is the above you though? If so that is 1, your cave last night ended number 2 and then your new attempt today makes 3.
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My original post which was July 18th was my first comitment. I had cave so I came in here and posted a intro telling every one that I bitched out and had caved. if you want to "ban" me then go ahead but like I said be nice if you helped out more then wanting to get rid of people.
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The point is, if you truly want to quit then you need to prove it. You need to give a 100% commitment to yourself that you will not use that crap. Multiple attempts to me on this site proves weakness. That's why we come here. We can't do it alone. We need help and we invest our time to helping others quit. That is how it worked with me and now I am passing it on. If someone caves, it pisses us off because we hate that shit so much. It also shows weakness and failure is not an option. We don't want to waste our time if you are not fully committed. There is a site that will pat you on your back if you cave. Not happening here, we don't fail.
You post roll EDD and I will be watching,
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The point is, if you truly want to quit then you need to prove it. You need to give a 100% commitment to yourself that you will not use that crap. Multiple attempts to me on this site proves weakness. That's why we come here. We can't do it alone. We need help and we invest our time to helping others quit. That is how it worked with me and now I am passing it on. If someone caves, it pisses us off because we hate that shit so much. It also shows weakness and failure is not an option. We don't want to waste our time if you are not fully committed. There is a site that will pat you on your back if you cave. Not happening here, we don't fail.
You post roll EDD and I will be watching,
I get it and roll has been posted.
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My original post which was July 18th was my first comitment. I had cave so I came in here and posted a intro telling every one that I bitched out and had caved. if you want to "ban" me then go ahead but like I said be nice if you helped out more then wanting to get rid of people.
Here is my offer. I'll put myself on the line here. I'll will take responsibility to help hold kwarner accountable. I'll make sure he posts, shows up, and doesn't cave. If he fails this time, then it'll be on me too.
With that being said, kwarner, if you cave I'll be beyond disappointed. I'll go as far as you need me to go before you cave but ultimately this is it for everyone here. I believe in you and I believe in extra chances. If you cave its going to make me look real shitty, man. Is it a deal?
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My original post which was July 18th was my first comitment. I had cave so I came in here and posted a intro telling every one that I bitched out and had caved. if you want to "ban" me then go ahead but like I said be nice if you helped out more then wanting to get rid of people.
Here is my offer. I'll put myself on the line here. I'll will take responsibility to help hold kwarner accountable. I'll make sure he posts, shows up, and doesn't cave. If he fails this time, then it'll be on me too.
With that being said, kwarner, if you cave I'll be beyond disappointed. I'll go as far as you need me to go before you cave but ultimately this is it for everyone here. I believe in you and I believe in extra chances. If you cave its going to make me look real shitty, man. Is it a deal?
I like the accountability, but more importantly, so will both of you. I will be looking forward to seeing both your posts EDD
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My original post which was July 18th was my first comitment. I had cave so I came in here and posted a intro telling every one that I bitched out and had caved. if you want to "ban" me then go ahead but like I said be nice if you helped out more then wanting to get rid of people.
Here is my offer. I'll put myself on the line here. I'll will take responsibility to help hold kwarner accountable. I'll make sure he posts, shows up, and doesn't cave. If he fails this time, then it'll be on me too.
With that being said, kwarner, if you cave I'll be beyond disappointed. I'll go as far as you need me to go before you cave but ultimately this is it for everyone here. I believe in you and I believe in extra chances. If you cave its going to make me look real shitty, man. Is it a deal?
I like the accountability, but more importantly, so will both of you. I will be looking forward to seeing both your posts EDD
Supple hands I quit with you today and everyday from here on we can do this brother, pm me for my number.
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My original post which was July 18th was my first comitment. I had cave so I came in here and posted a intro telling every one that I bitched out and had caved. if you want to "ban" me then go ahead but like I said be nice if you helped out more then wanting to get rid of people.
Here is my offer. I'll put myself on the line here. I'll will take responsibility to help hold kwarner accountable. I'll make sure he posts, shows up, and doesn't cave. If he fails this time, then it'll be on me too.
With that being said, kwarner, if you cave I'll be beyond disappointed. I'll go as far as you need me to go before you cave but ultimately this is it for everyone here. I believe in you and I believe in extra chances. If you cave its going to make me look real shitty, man. Is it a deal?
I like the accountability, but more importantly, so will both of you. I will be looking forward to seeing both your posts EDD
Supple hands I quit with you today and everyday from here on we can do this brother, pm me for my number.
I know you got this. I don't think you want to trade a 15 minute buzz for cancer. I quit with you today.
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After finally getting home and being a little less irritable and what not I do appreciate all of what you guys said. All of you have been 100% right. I was a little bitch for caving, but without you guys and you guys being dicks I would probably would still being trying to convince my self that one more won't hurt. I appreciate the love you hall of famers have for us newbies even after being quit for so long you are all still here for us! Thanks a a lot!
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After finally getting home and being a little less irritable and what not I do appreciate all of what you guys said. All of you have been 100% right. I was a little bitch for caving, but without you guys and you guys being dicks I would probably would still being trying to convince my self that one more won't hurt. I appreciate the love you hall of famers have for us newbies even after being quit for so long you are all still here for us! Thanks a a lot!
Good introspection here KW. These guys are helping you get it. Supple has stuck his neck out for you to help YOU and to help HIM. That's the accountability leading to brotherhood leading to success. You have EVERYTHING you need to quit either between your ears, between your legs, on your phone, or on this site. You now have ZERO reasons to cave today.
I'm with you KW and I quit with you today. Only YOU can quit FOR you today though. Do not hesitate to reach out to anybody on this site if you're struggling. It takes strength, not weakness, to ask for help.
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Welcome to KTC and congrats on posting roll twice so far with your November group. Glad that you have seen the light at age 25. The way life goes by faster as you get older, blink and you will still have dip in your mouth at age 35. Dip didn't just affect my health and my wallet-- it dictated how I planned every hour of the day. It is a nasty addiction, and will control your life more and more the longer you use. I quit with you today.
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Day 2- woke up tried to remain pretty busy, things have slowed down and I'm starting to see myself focus a little more on the cravings. They're not that intense just mouth watering almost like a tease. I seem a bit foggy kinda like everything is unreal and the world around me seems different, walking also seems weird as I feel like I've been drinking for a weekend straight. Oh well I look at this way things could be a lot worse from nictotine if I didn't decide to quit so why not stay focused and make a better me. Proud to be quit with you, and a big thanks to PAB, Kingnothing Norm for riding my ass.
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Day 2- woke up tried to remain pretty busy, things have slowed down and I'm starting to see myself focus a little more on the cravings. They're not that intense just mouth watering almost like a tease. I seem a bit foggy kinda like everything is unreal and the world around me seems different, walking also seems weird as I feel like I've been drinking for a weekend straight. Oh well I look at this way things could be a lot worse from nictotine if I didn't decide to quit so why not stay focused and make a better me. Proud to be quit with you, and a big thanks to PAB, Kingnothing Norm for riding my ass.
Embrace it. This is your body healing. This makes these first few days even more sweet to look back upon and realize that the +1's during this time were difficult. It will make your quit stronger to remember what you went through to achieve the freedom.
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Day 2- woke up tried to remain pretty busy, things have slowed down and I'm starting to see myself focus a little more on the cravings. They're not that intense just mouth watering almost like a tease. I seem a bit foggy kinda like everything is unreal and the world around me seems different, walking also seems weird as I feel like I've been drinking for a weekend straight. Oh well I look at this way things could be a lot worse from nictotine if I didn't decide to quit so why not stay focused and make a better me. Proud to be quit with you, and a big thanks to PAB, Kingnothing Norm for riding my ass.
And I will keep riding your ass until your ass needs no more riding 'sos2'
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Day 2- woke up tried to remain pretty busy, things have slowed down and I'm starting to see myself focus a little more on the cravings. They're not that intense just mouth watering almost like a tease. I seem a bit foggy kinda like everything is unreal and the world around me seems different, walking also seems weird as I feel like I've been drinking for a weekend straight. Oh well I look at this way things could be a lot worse from nictotine if I didn't decide to quit so why not stay focused and make a better me. Proud to be quit with you, and a big thanks to PAB, Kingnothing Norm for riding my ass.
And I will keep riding your ass until your ass needs no more riding 'sos2'
'bangin' 'rem'
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Day 2- woke up tried to remain pretty busy, things have slowed down and I'm starting to see myself focus a little more on the cravings. They're not that intense just mouth watering almost like a tease. I seem a bit foggy kinda like everything is unreal and the world around me seems different, walking also seems weird as I feel like I've been drinking for a weekend straight. Oh well I look at this way things could be a lot worse from nictotine if I didn't decide to quit so why not stay focused and make a better me. Proud to be quit with you, and a big thanks to PAB, Kingnothing Norm for riding my ass.
And I will keep riding your ass until your ass needs no more riding 'sos2'
'bangin' 'rem'
'boob' 'oh yeah'
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
Do what you gotta do. Done explained myself one to many times. I'm quit regardless if you are anyone give a shit or not. This is for me so either quit with me today or 'Finger'
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
Do what you gotta do. Done explained myself one to many times. I'm quit regardless if you are anyone give a shit or not. This is for me so either quit with me today or 'Finger'
Are you going to explain about the members Kwarner2012, Kwarner2013, Kwarner2014 as well?? Or have you already explained that to everyone? Multiple ID's, multiple intros ... yeah, you're a dude to quit with all right. 'Finger'
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
Do what you gotta do. Done explained myself one to many times. I'm quit regardless if you are anyone give a shit or not. This is for me so either quit with me today or 'Finger'
Are you going to explain about the members Kwarner2012, Kwarner2013, Kwarner2014 as well?? Or have you already explained that to everyone? Multiple ID's, multiple intros ... yeah, you're a dude to quit with all right. 'Finger'
Then don't quit with me. I'll do you a favor and leave the sight then! Peace out guys. I'll still text the numbers I have and keep yall updated
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
Do what you gotta do. Done explained myself one to many times. I'm quit regardless if you are anyone give a shit or not. This is for me so either quit with me today or 'Finger'
Are you going to explain about the members Kwarner2012, Kwarner2013, Kwarner2014 as well?? Or have you already explained that to everyone? Multiple ID's, multiple intros ... yeah, you're a dude to quit with all right. 'Finger'
Then don't quit with me. I'll do you a favor and leave the sight then! Peace out guys. I'll still text the numbers I have and keep yall updated
Easier to run from the truth than admit it? Thanks for proving my point ... I call you out so that MAYBE you'll grab a hold of your marbles, clear the air and get down to quitting. Not surprised at all you would take the pussy way out. Good riddance. This is a place of integrity, and you've shown you have none. You could stay and prove me wrong ... but we both know how that's going to turn out. I'm just exposing you so other bad-ass quitters don't invest in you. You're not for this site pal. Lates
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You are only allowed one intro here. This needs to be merged with your other two intros. Maybe if you see all the bullshit you spewed in the past together under one intro you'll pull your head out of your ass and actually get to quitting this time. Until then, you've got some explaining to do. What the fuck do you hope to achieve by faking out more people about your quit (stoppage)this time? Are you finally ready? The fact you decided to post a new intro, and act as this is your first time quitting speaks volumes about your character. 'facepalm'' is the only emoticon applicable is this intro. Get serious, or get the fuck out.
Do what you gotta do. Done explained myself one to many times. I'm quit regardless if you are anyone give a shit or not. This is for me so either quit with me today or 'Finger'
Are you going to explain about the members Kwarner2012, Kwarner2013, Kwarner2014 as well?? Or have you already explained that to everyone? Multiple ID's, multiple intros ... yeah, you're a dude to quit with all right. 'Finger'
Then don't quit with me. I'll do you a favor and leave the sight then! Peace out guys. I'll still text the numbers I have and keep yall updated
Easier to run from the truth than admit it? Thanks for proving my point ... I call you out so that MAYBE you'll grab a hold of your marbles, clear the air and get down to quitting. Not surprised at all you would take the pussy way out. Good riddance. This is a place of integrity, and you've shown you have none. You could stay and prove me wrong ... but we both know how that's going to turn out. I'm just exposing you so other bad-ass quitters don't invest in you. You're not for this site pal. Lates
Explain what?? I've done talked to admins, explained in the chat room, admitted the shit in November HOF. I've grabbed my "Marbles" and been quit for what has been the 3rd day now. I've got my numbers and talk with the people that are with me and supporting. All you done is talk shit, I don't have anything to prove to you the only person Im quitting for is my self so until I actually quit posting roll and stick that shit in my mouth then you can talk shit until then either quit with me or 'Finger' 'Finger' and if any one else wants to ask me a hundred different questions and make me explain the shit for the 20th time then you can pm me. Till then I'm going to post roll every damn day and stay quit!
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Day 3- last night as I was laying in bed thinking about my ex normal routine I started getting real anxious almost in panic attack mode. But forcefully I made my self close my eyes and just fight through telling myself that the nic bitch was just leaving my system still pissed off. I never chewed these last few years just because I had the craving now that I look back I chewed because that was my coping method of anxiety/panic attacks. Now I need to find myself another coping method other then the one that was taking my life away. As I sit here and look back I regret every time I put in a chew not only did I lie several times to wife saying it would be the last one to only find my self buying another can but I actually believed that it was some sort of saving mechanism. I quit today because I need to prove to myself that I can do it. This isn't a game, this is a battle and like many of people have already seen I get defensive and I won't let myself down again. I lost my dad in 2012 and made several promises after that I hadn't followed through with quitting chew being my main one. So today being 3 days quit I'm giving you all of my word that you will never see another cave or read another post the is discouraging about me again.
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Day 1
Don't you mean, like Day 5?
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Today is the day that I finally quit.
Are you going to explain about the members Kwarner2012, Kwarner2013, Kwarner2014 as well??
What happened those other three times? Please explain these three user names.
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bump (to facilitate merging)
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bump (to facilitate merging)
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All three intros merged. Kwarner2013 didn't have anything to say, but Kwarner 2012, Kwarner2014 and Kwarner2015 had regaled us on how he was finally ready to quit.
Don't waste our time.
Decided I wanted to quit tonight, Im 22 and have been chewing since about 16 recently about 2 months ago I tried quiting made it about 4 days then caved in, if theres any tips or storys you want to share it would be appreciated!
single/?p=1717968t=11284217 (http://forum.killthecan.org/single/?p=1717968&t=11284217)
Hi y'all I'm officially 1 hour and 12 minutes quit and wanted to introduce my self my name is Korey and I'm 23 years old and have been chewing for a solid 6 years but today is the day I take my life away from nicotine. So any information and help that you guys could possibly provide would be appreciated. And for all of you veterans that would like to help me out through out this journey please pm so that I can give you my number thanks guys!f
single/?p=2096094t=11284217 (http://forum.killthecan.org/single/?p=2096094&t=11284217)
Today is the day that I finally quit. I'm 25 and have been chewing for about 8 years. I started back in highschool when I thought I would never be addicted and that chewing would be so cool to do little did I know that it would control my life by degrading my health and taking my money. I'm here to quit with you all today and hope that I can meet some good friends along this battle. Feel free to pm so that we do this together!
single/?p=9252150t=11284217 (http://forum.killthecan.org/single/?p=9252150&t=11284217)
You clearly don't understand how we do things around here or why this is completely unacceptable.
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Someone pointed out a fourth intro . . rolled it in.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me on for #
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me quote]Just sent you a text.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
Just sent you a text.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
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Do yourself a favor and edit your post so your number is hidden. Delete it. Intros are public. Trolls could see it.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
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Do yourself a favor and edit your post so your number is hidden. Delete it. Intros are public. Trolls could see it.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
Just sent you a text.
Will a admin or mod please take this number off!
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
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Do yourself a favor and edit your post so your number is hidden. Delete it. Intros are public. Trolls could see it.
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Cjoy- can you edit the message you replied to Kwarner and delete his number in the post. He already did for his and I did for mine. Thanks.
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Sorry for the new intro but I need help asap some one text me
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Do yourself a favor and edit your post so your number is hidden. Delete it. Intros are public. Trolls could see it.
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Cjoy- can you edit the message you replied to Kwarner and delete his number in the post. He already did for his and I did for mine. Thanks.
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Glad you reached out bro. The anxiety only has as much power as you allow it. Being chew free is not a negative. It is freedom. Recognize the anxiety for what it is. The Nic Bitches whisper for you to give in. Your stronger then those whispers. You have my number, use it anytime you need to talk again. Remember what I told you though. My number comes with the expectation that you will be a man of your word even in the tough moments. Stay positive. I QLF with you today.
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Thanks IMDC,
Went back to work this for morning it feels weird not having a chew for the 20 minute drive.
this morning has been like a vacation compared to last night, I'm having the usual mouth watering cravings and what seems like a tired run down brain. Other then that I'm trying to keep the anxiety at bay. Had some pretty weird sensation dreams last night not quite sure on how to explain them though!?
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Just bringing this to the top so anyone else that thinks about caving can see all the shit and embarrassment I put my self through. This should be enough reading material for a newby or guest to not want to cave, let my past fail be someone's encouragement today. Quit on! 'oh yeah'
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Just bringing this to the top so anyone else that thinks about caving can see all the shit and embarrassment I put my self through. This should be enough reading material for a newby or guest to not want to cave, let my past fail be someone's encouragement today. Quit on! 'oh yeah'
I enjoyed the read KWarner and I am quit with you. It's great reading all the trials and tribulations the newbies go through because it reminds us all of we went through not too long ago. I forgot about the strong craves to dip while driving to work or home from work. I forgot about how much I loved putting in a dip while walking the dogs. I forgot about not eating lunch so I could sneak in a dip. I forgot about not being able to sleep so I put in a dip and stayed up for two more hours. I forgot about worrying about white marks in my mouth. I forgot about dreading going to the dentist to see if I had cancer or not. I forgot about how much the vets got on my ever last nerve. Today, I woke up and the first thing I thought about was the fact that my dogs wanted to go for a walk, then I drove to work, next went out for lunch (Mexican), I will sleep the whole night without waking (usually), I've been through three dentist visits since I quit and the last one I was not worried in the least, unfortunately the vets still get on my nerves (especially the ones that strive on banning good people that want to quit or are helping others to quit). My point is, I didn't spend one moment thinking about dipping today and it was fucking awesome. I can't wait to hear you say the same thing, but its going to take a lot of hard work to forget this shit.
Keep up the quit, one day you wont be spending 99% of your day thinking about this shit, you will forget most of it and then you can live your live with a new found freedom that is truly wonderful.