KillTheCan.org Accountability Forum
Community => Introductions => Topic started by: No-Can-Do on March 24, 2015, 03:33:00 PM
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I quit because the shit was ruining my life. I could not function without it and it pissed me off. I love myself enough to not do stupid shit but this was never going to let go of me so I had to give myself a reason to quit. I chose to quit on my daughters 4th birthday. One reason was to obviously be around for many more of them and the other was to back up my "anniversary" with proof positive of why I quit....for her AND ME. I want to be here when she skins her knee, does well in school, meets a boy she likes (oh man) and someday I want to dance at her wedding. I know chewing was putting all of that in jeopardy so it made my will to quit strong.
I wish all you luck and Godspeed. It is tough but I believe you can do it on your own terms. Just decide what those are.
Peace,
Todd
PS GO FUCK YOURSELF SKOAL!!!!!!!!!!! 'Finger'
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I quit because the shit was ruining my life. I could not function without it and it pissed me off. I love myself enough to not do stupid shit but this was never going to let go of me so I had to give myself a reason to quit. I chose to quit on my daughters 4th birthday. One reason was to obviously be around for many more of them and the other was to back up my "anniversary" with proof positive of why I quit....for her AND ME. I want to be here when she skins her knee, does well in school, meets a boy she likes (oh man) and someday I want to dance at her wedding. I know chewing was putting all of that in jeopardy so it made my will to quit strong.
I wish all you luck and Godspeed. It is tough but I believe you can do it on your own terms. Just decide what those are.
Peace,
Todd
PS GO FUCK YOURSELF SKOAL!!!!!!!!!!! 'Finger'
Bravo - congrats. GREAT gift to give yourself and your daughter!
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Looks like you posted roll back in February 2014? What happened then? Look like you posted roll twice, and had a Day 35?
I don't know if this website still makes cavers answer the 3 questions, so I will defer to someone with that knowledge.
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Looks like you posted roll back in February 2014? What happened then? Look like you posted roll twice, and had a Day 35?
I don't know if this website still makes cavers answer the 3 questions, so I will defer to someone with that knowledge.
Two roll posts in 2014. One on day 5 and another status update on Day 35.
Your intentions about quitting for your daughter are all well and good, but those are merely intentions. Your cold, cruel, reality-based addiction likes to eat good intentions for breakfast and shit them out before lunch.
You quit for your daughter once before, on your last go-around here, and look what happened. Since you weren't active here and didn't use any of the tools, you promptly let the nic bitch talk you back into humping a can.
So, what are you doing differently this time? You're still "quitting for your daughter" in spite of how successful that venture was a year ago.
Here's a hint: you have to want to quit for you. Not for your daughter, wife, or life partner. Y-O-U. Being around to kiss boo-boos and give her future boyfriends the stinkeye is benefit to quitting, but it's not why you are quitting.
Remember, quit for you first, because it is only YOU that can keep YOU quit.
We'll address the nature of your cave and how KTC works once you decide to post roll and actually get down to business.
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So no answer here..............no roll post either. Looks like how you "quit" a year ago. There are many things in the world you can half ass, quitting isn't one of them.
You can also type a nice paragraph about quitting, but that isn't quit. Why bother posting here if your aren't going to join 100%?
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I quit because the shit was ruining my life. I could not function without it and it pissed me off. I love myself enough to not do stupid shit but this was never going to let go of me so I had to give myself a reason to quit. I chose to quit on my daughters 4th birthday. One reason was to obviously be around for many more of them and the other was to back up my "anniversary" with proof positive of why I quit....for her AND ME. I want to be here when she skins her knee, does well in school, meets a boy she likes (oh man) and someday I want to dance at her wedding. I know chewing was putting all of that in jeopardy so it made my will to quit strong.
I wish all you luck and Godspeed. It is tough but I believe you can do it on your own terms. Just decide what those are.
Peace,
Todd
PS GO FUCK YOURSELF SKOAL!!!!!!!!!!! 'Finger'
I dipped for me. I quit for me.
get it? There is no other way...unless you're dead.
You gotta really want it.
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I quit because the shit was ruining my life. I could not function without it and it pissed me off. I love myself enough to not do stupid shit but this was never going to let go of me so I had to give myself a reason to quit. I chose to quit on my daughters 4th birthday. One reason was to obviously be around for many more of them and the other was to back up my "anniversary" with proof positive of why I quit....for her AND ME. I want to be here when she skins her knee, does well in school, meets a boy she likes (oh man) and someday I want to dance at her wedding. I know chewing was putting all of that in jeopardy so it made my will to quit strong.
I wish all you luck and Godspeed. It is tough but I believe you can do it on your own terms. Just decide what those are.
Peace,
Todd
PS GO FUCK YOURSELF SKOAL!!!!!!!!!!! 'Finger'
I dipped for me. I quit for me.
get it? There is no other way...unless you're dead.
You gotta really want it.
the guys above are all right. I have two young daughters myself, so admire the incentive. There's just too much time in a day away from your kids where the nic bitch can take hold. If' you tried this site before and it didn't work, my guess is that you didn't embrace and befriend your fellow quitters. It's all about support here and accountability. The first week is definitely tough, but there's a lot of success stories here. I am just past 505 days and still post roll daily; I feel that I owe it to myself, fellow quitters and of course my family. Stay strong and please reach out for help if needed.
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I quit because the shit was ruining my life. I could not function without it and it pissed me off. I love myself enough to not do stupid shit but this was never going to let go of me so I had to give myself a reason to quit. I chose to quit on my daughters 4th birthday. One reason was to obviously be around for many more of them and the other was to back up my "anniversary" with proof positive of why I quit....for her AND ME. I want to be here when she skins her knee, does well in school, meets a boy she likes (oh man) and someday I want to dance at her wedding. I know chewing was putting all of that in jeopardy so it made my will to quit strong.
I wish all you luck and Godspeed. It is tough but I believe you can do it on your own terms. Just decide what those are.
Peace,
Todd
PS GO FUCK YOURSELF SKOAL!!!!!!!!!!! 'Finger'
I dipped for me. I quit for me.
get it? There is no other way...unless you're dead.
You gotta really want it.
the guys above are all right. I have two young daughters myself, so admire the incentive. There's just too much time in a day away from your kids where the nic bitch can take hold. If' you tried this site before and it didn't work, my guess is that you didn't embrace and befriend your fellow quitters. It's all about support here and accountability. The first week is definitely tough, but there's a lot of success stories here. I am just past 505 days and still post roll daily; I feel that I owe it to myself, fellow quitters and of course my family. Stay strong and please reach out for help if needed.
Congratulations Todd you definitely made right decision joining this site! Quitting is quitting as long as you stay quit for you or your daughter! Post roll EDD! ODAAT