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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Mr Nice Guy on October 29, 2011, 01:11:00 PM
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Hey my name is Charles and I am 23. I live in Fort Collins, Colorado, right next to the rocky mountains. I am a student studying accounting. I enjoy fitness, shooting guns, reading, having coffee, playing frisbee golf, riding bikes, learning about investing, and doing donuts in my car when it snows.
I started smoking at age 15, and smoked up through about 20. From 20- present, I was mostly dipping but sometimes smoking (cause when I drink a cig is amazing.)
The reason I want to quit is because I am tired of living a lie, I am tired of having some fucked up plant control me, I am tired of my teeth turning yellow, I am tired of having my breath smell like shit, I am tired of having dry lips, I am tired of spending money, I am tired of losing confidence with girls because they wouldnt like a "guy like me." One of these reasons should be enough but I am a dumbass lol.
I found this website in an odd way. One day I was looking for ways to quit dipping on the internet and didn't find much as far as good resources, mostly testimonials (which are badass too, dont get me wrong.) After not finding much in the way of good resources, I picked up my Bible, read some scripture, and said some prayers and asked for deliverance. Now I don't think prayers alone can work for most, but maybe.
Anyways, the next day I bought some dip, totally fucking cracked, and chewed the usual amount I normally would the rest of the day. That night I got on facebook and my cousin had posted some video on youtube that was related to dipping. After I watched the video I saw in the related videos bar, this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83_H_Je-KZk (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83_H_Je-KZk)
The rest is history
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Glad you are here. Your story is no different than thousands of us here. How you got your fix is not important. What you need to understand is you are an addict. You are addicted to Nicotine, as we all are. Understanding that helped me tremendously.
You left out one very important reason to want to quit. How about staying alive!? Seems like a good one to me. Make no mistake tobacco shortens lives, period!
You have found the right place! The methods here work! Follow the program and you too can be free from the bitch! Post your promise and let's get you quit!
NEVER AGAIN
Greg
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Great job on taking your life back. Got a great group of quitters around here. See you already have quite a few posts so I take it you have posted roll?
Also, I thought you were from Jamaica? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWBcjZAKBJo (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWBcjZAKBJo)
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Timeless, already rallied to roll.
And yes Half Baked is where I got my name. I used to be a big stoner, and MNG was always my handle, and it still is, to this day.
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Nice man. Welcome aboard. I'm here a lot if you ever need to talk or anything let me know. 48 days today since I quit the shit. I've had some ups and downs, but nothing beats being quit.
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Welcome. Let's do this thing.
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
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I don't have alot for you here. Depression is pretty normal early on. Don't complicate things by adding meds. Just plow through it, this doesn't get fixed over night.
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
i liked to refer to them as the "couldgivashits"....and some of mine were off the charts.......
it is part of the healing....it just is....here's what i did....
i got pissed.
not just a little pissed....i got "i don't care how big you are, you totin an ass whuppin away from here" pissed
I directed my pissed-offedness at big tobacco. They intentionally make and market a product that produces not just loyal cutomers.....but addicts. Had they advertiesed that using thier product correctly will create an addiction that could very well kill you in a most horrible way....but will most certainly shorten your life.
They did it with malicious intent and bent us every one over and drove it home....they have profited off our stupidity and inablility to gain control on our own.....
After getting pissed and getting a target.....i began my own personal little war against big tobacco. I decided to hit them where it hurts.....in thier pocketbook. I do that by trying to take away all thier addicts......one at a time. By doing this, i protect my own quit and insure that "never again...for any reason" is a statement i can profess with pride.
My little war is 1410 days old today.......it is not won yet.....
Tomorrow morning....first thing I will post 1411......and continue my efforts. I look forward to quitting with you.....read, learn, get involved and lets win this war....one battle at a time.
let me know if i can help you
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
I had 4 seprate bouts over my first 120 days. I am on day 338. Fuck it. Freedom is worth it. Run. Read. Stay on the site. It sux but it is just nic bitch telling you she misses you. She is the devil.
There is nothing in your life nic will solve. I'm sure your addiction is telling you otherwise. Did I mention she is a liar? Hey, we can chat if necessary. Just shoot me a pm.
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
i liked to refer to them as the "couldgivashits"....and some of mine were off the charts.......
it is part of the healing....it just is....here's what i did....
i got pissed.
not just a little pissed....i got "i don't care how big you are, you totin an ass whuppin away from here" pissed
I directed my pissed-offedness at big tobacco. They intentionally make and market a product that produces not just loyal cutomers.....but addicts. Had they advertiesed that using thier product correctly will create an addiction that could very well kill you in a most horrible way....but will most certainly shorten your life.
They did it with malicious intent and bent us every one over and drove it home....they have profited off our stupidity and inablility to gain control on our own.....
After getting pissed and getting a target.....i began my own personal little war against big tobacco. I decided to hit them where it hurts.....in thier pocketbook. I do that by trying to take away all thier addicts......one at a time. By doing this, i protect my own quit and insure that "never again...for any reason" is a statement i can profess with pride.
My little war is 1410 days old today.......it is not won yet.....
Tomorrow morning....first thing I will post 1411......and continue my efforts. I look forward to quitting with you.....read, learn, get involved and lets win this war....one battle at a time.
let me know if i can help you
Fuck yes. Cheers to that, I'm only day 4 but feeling that. This website truly has made the difference.
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
This is what I posted about depression on day 37, go to the starting post:
Notdeadyet depression day 37 (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=5340&hl=)
I'm on day 76 now and haven't had the slightest hint of depression or rage for about a month.
It will get better.
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Not sure where else to put this where it is somewhat on topic yet still stands a chance of not being bumped out in roll calls.
Im on day 17 and have been feeling depressed ever since like day 5 or so (right after the rage stage.) Nothing too crazy and it comes and goes in spurts, but enough to notice. I kinda got played/lead-on by a girl I wanted right around the time I quit, but I don't think that is the cause, because bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
The thing that worries me is I have some kickass things going on in my life right now and I still feel down sometimes. I just got accepted into a university to finish my last two years of undergrad, and I just got offered a paid accounting internship for this tax season. I should be stoked all the time but some days I don't want to hang out with friends or leave the house which is weird for me.
I understand how eating a great diet and exercising helps.
For those who experienced depression in their quit, how long did it last? Did you use medication? Any natural stuff work besides eating well and working out?
Thanks for your help.
This is what I posted about depression on day 37, go to the starting post:
Notdeadyet depression day 37 (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=5340&hl=)
I'm on day 76 now and haven't had the slightest hint of depression or rage for about a month.
It will get better.
I've had this same issue, as well as Knuckledragger.
I have found that a lot of issues are internalized in the quitting process, and you feel like you are out of control everywhere in your life except for in your quit.
I originally stopped in 2006, and I carried the depression deep into that stoppage. Of course, I quit that time when my mom was diagnosed with cancer, and later passed away. I was also going through career changes, and having marital issues. My quit was the only thing I had control of.
I caved in 2009 after convincing myself I was not the same without my drug, and returned back to the site in June of this year. Depression hasn't been an issue this time around, but I have tried to be a lot more vocal here. I'm angrier this time, but I'm taking that day by day.
Read Knuckledragger's intro, and send him a pm. I sought professional help in 2007 but I stopped short of taking the medication.
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
I agree. I'm going on day 6 but I feel absolutely depressed. I've had a case of depression before so I can accurately say this is it, sometimes worse, sometimes better. But just know brother that when you're feeling low in the shit, and nothing makes you happy like it did. That there are others feeling the same way, and in it's irony, because we QUIT something that will end up saving our lives. Don't forget why you're depressed, it's the Nic bitch's last laugh. Fight it out, keep strength, and faith within yourself. If you will, as will I.
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
I agree. I'm going on day 6 but I feel absolutely depressed. I've had a case of depression before so I can accurately say this is it, sometimes worse, sometimes better. But just know brother that when you're feeling low in the shit, and nothing makes you happy like it did. That there are others feeling the same way, and in it's irony, because we QUIT something that will end up saving our lives. Don't forget why you're depressed, it's the Nic bitch's last laugh. Fight it out, keep strength, and faith within yourself. If you will, as will I.
I will.
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
I agree. I'm going on day 6 but I feel absolutely depressed. I've had a case of depression before so I can accurately say this is it, sometimes worse, sometimes better. But just know brother that when you're feeling low in the shit, and nothing makes you happy like it did. That there are others feeling the same way, and in it's irony, because we QUIT something that will end up saving our lives. Don't forget why you're depressed, it's the Nic bitch's last laugh. Fight it out, keep strength, and faith within yourself. If you will, as will I.
I will.
I will also. Welcome Mr Nice Guy, glad to have you here.
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
I agree. I'm going on day 6 but I feel absolutely depressed. I've had a case of depression before so I can accurately say this is it, sometimes worse, sometimes better. But just know brother that when you're feeling low in the shit, and nothing makes you happy like it did. That there are others feeling the same way, and in it's irony, because we QUIT something that will end up saving our lives. Don't forget why you're depressed, it's the Nic bitch's last laugh. Fight it out, keep strength, and faith within yourself. If you will, as will I.
I will.
Murak,
You are right on--it is the addiction, not who you are---remember this when it gets tough. Listen up, thousands of quitters here can testify to feeling depressed and anxious etc early on or even later in their quit---I refer to it as the FUNK. Hang tough, I sit here at day 202, yesterday I felt the funk, but did not have the funky feeling for 50 days prior to yesterday. The good days start taking control of the bad days. Each quit is different---hang tough.
I WILL!
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thasnk you guys. its not easy to talk about that shit, even with a bunch of strangers and scalliwags like yourselves
We're like girls getting our periods at the same time. I'm battling the same malaise.
I agree. I'm going on day 6 but I feel absolutely depressed. I've had a case of depression before so I can accurately say this is it, sometimes worse, sometimes better. But just know brother that when you're feeling low in the shit, and nothing makes you happy like it did. That there are others feeling the same way, and in it's irony, because we QUIT something that will end up saving our lives. Don't forget why you're depressed, it's the Nic bitch's last laugh. Fight it out, keep strength, and faith within yourself. If you will, as will I.
I will.
Murak,
You are right on--it is the addiction, not who you are---remember this when it gets tough. Listen up, thousands of quitters here can testify to feeling depressed and anxious etc early on or even later in their quit---I refer to it as the FUNK. Hang tough, I sit here at day 202, yesterday I felt the funk, but did not have the funky feeling for 50 days prior to yesterday. The good days start taking control of the bad days. Each quit is different---hang tough.
I WILL!
Read the starting post here: Notdeadyet Day 37 Depression (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=5340&hl=)
On day 77 now and haven't had much in the way of any depression for a while. Yesterday my wife said she was going to the store for a couple of hours and my ninja brain instantly shot me a "quick go grab your can and get one in" message. Those triggers used to bum me out, now they make me laugh in disgust.
Every day without dip makes it better.
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I will.
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In my case, depression was the result of using dip to avoid dealing with stressful issues. Nic never helped me but I thought it did.
Now that I'm quit, I'm learning to really deal with stress and occasionally it overwhelms me. Thus, the depression.
You'll recover and so will I. Keep pressing forward!
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I WILL TOO!!!!
Thanks again for the replies.
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
It's the ghey's...biatch..get it right...
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
It's the ghey's...biatch..get it right...
Because saying gay is ghey.
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
It's the ghey's...biatch..get it right...
Because saying gay is ghey.
Dooshes, all of you.
See? Its fun!
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
It's the ghey's...biatch..get it right...
Because saying gay is ghey.
Dooshes, all of you.
See? Its fun!
Gay is taking a veiny penis in your shaved anus.
Ghey is inserting your veiny penis in a hairy man anus. Ghey, but not really gay.
Fags.
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
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What is the meaning of this "ghey" you speak of. Why don't you call it gay?
Because saying gay is just rude and might offend the gays? :unsure:
It's the ghey's...biatch..get it right...
Because saying gay is ghey.
Dooshes, all of you.
See? Its fun!
Gay is taking a veiny penis in your shaved anus.
Ghey is inserting your veiny penis in a hairy man anus. Ghey, but not really gay.
Fags.
Excellent use of adjectives in this one
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
Oh yeah, there's a wildcard thread for random stuff. That should do the trick. There's ghey stuff in there all the time. It's NOLAQ's hangout. :)
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
Oh yeah, there's a wildcard thread for random stuff. That should do the trick. There's ghey stuff in there all the time. It's NOLAQ's hangout. :)
You know what's really ghey?
Quoting yourself.
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
Oh yeah, there's a wildcard thread for random stuff. That should do the trick. There's ghey stuff in there all the time. It's NOLAQ's hangout. :)
You know what's really ghey?
Quoting yourself.
FURTYAB
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
Oh yeah, there's a wildcard thread for random stuff. That should do the trick. There's ghey stuff in there all the time. It's NOLAQ's hangout. :)
You know what's really ghey?
Quoting yourself.
FURTYAB
:D
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How exactly does this question belong in the intro section? Are you coming out of the closet or something and looking for the proper terminology?
Where else is everyone gonna see it? Its not like I can start a new topic anywhere else.
Post it in your group, I am sure you get plenty of traffic or even make it a question of the day. Get a lot of hits there.
This section is open to visitors, I just don't want them getting the wrong idea when they sign up! :P
shit, i just used a smiley face thing.....that is ghey
You do pose a good question though, where can you really post questions that gets plenty of traffic. I think there is a member input section, but not sure it gets much use. Maybe a new thread in wildcard.
I don't think this needs a thread dedicated to it in wildcard. Plus it sounds like a pian in the ass anyway.
Mods go ahead and delete at will
no need to delete it, because it was actually a pretty good question,.
The only way to make this thread gheyer would be for wastepanel, glaad and fAglawyer to have one of their orgies in here.
Oh yeah, there's a wildcard thread for random stuff. That should do the trick. There's ghey stuff in there all the time. It's NOLAQ's hangout. :)
You know what's really ghey?
Quoting yourself.
FURTYAB
:D
you know the great thing about this? Quitting dipping is keeping us alive to be dumbasses on the Tuesday night. I love this place and the people here.....in a totally non ghey way.
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c'mon ghuys...
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This was the best shit I've read in a long time!
'crackup'
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:P
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This is what you fags wanted to see.......
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_N0BFQXoPUKs/S ... t-boys.jpg (http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_N0BFQXoPUKs/S8RmxUPPN8I/AAAAAAAABH4/aV99PPCJ2pk/s1600/lycra-hot-boys.jpg)
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:P
Go ahead ... call me Ghey ... Mutha Fuker ~ :rolleyes:
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This is what you fags wanted to see.......
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_N0BFQXoPUKs/S ... t-boys.jpg (http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_N0BFQXoPUKs/S8RmxUPPN8I/AAAAAAAABH4/aV99PPCJ2pk/s1600/lycra-hot-boys.jpg)
Something about steers and queers....
'arse'
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Dude, WTF is going on with you and December? 874 days quit and a cave in March, then random posts in December - you owe everyone some explanations.
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Bump.
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Bump.
Stay on him Twort.
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Bump.
Stay on him Twort.
I think he is just playing you guys.
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Bump.
Stay on him Twort.
I think he is just playing you guys.
Maybe so, but it cannot ever be said we didn't try. All we are asking for is an explanation, tomorrow will come and there will be someone else who needs our help. Hubie, maybe that's where you can jump in and save a persons life, pay it forward. It never gets old brother.
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Bump.
Stay on him Twort.
I think he is just playing you guys.
Maybe so, but it cannot ever be said we didn't try. All we are asking for is an explanation, tomorrow will come and there will be someone else who needs our help. Hubie, maybe that's where you can jump in and save a persons life, pay it forward. It never gets old brother.
Thumble ... you're the man. I get why you're after him!
Let's see ... posted March 19, 2014 (in June 2014's group):Mr nice guy- 1- hey June I'm now a re tread from mcarmos group Feb 2012. I caved this morning. I'm going to be posting here now as u guys know the rules by now. I'm going to stop using life as an excuse to be a pussy like caving or feel sorry for myself about the situation I'm in. Addiction is crazy, I almost had 9 HOFs under my belt until today so always post roll right away and keep thinking about it periodically through the day. I am a cool guy you can talk to so get my number if you feel like reaching out. Go ahead and ask any questions you have I'll be around all night. I'm 26 from northern Colorado so if you live in CO be especially sure to shout out. See you sorry sacks of shit tomorrow.
To yesterday in December's group: Mr nice guy- day 1- I'll explain in the morning
And still nothing re: explanation. What happened to the cool guy we can talk to? What happened to the guy who was done feeling sorry for himself about the situation he was in? What happened between joining and now that still convinces you that the three questions/answers just do not apply to you? I'm trying to understand the mentality of "What difference does it make if I answer any damn questions"? ... because I can't wrap my head around it. Then again, I'm not selfish, and here for me and me only. Answer what is asked, if not for you (obviously not important at this stage) then for those who have caved and are looking in here as a "guest" trying to figure out what to do ... how to swallow pride and return to the home they NEED! Lead by example ... why are you here?
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Last post from me. MNG, I think you have a lot to offer the first time quitters here in terms of what went wrong after 2 years of quit.
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You sure seem to be sticking to your plan, "being all zealous and shit." Keep up the mediocrity brother.
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Last post from me. MNG, I think you have a lot to offer the first time quitters here in terms of what went wrong after 2 years of quit.
He has ZERO to offer here.
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Last post from me. MNG, I think you have a lot to offer the first time quitters here in terms of what went wrong after 2 years of quit.
He has ZERO to offer here.
Yep. Coulda been, shoulda been woulda been.
Still to this day doesn't give a shit about anything but himself and I wonder if that even applies.
MNG. you should seriously consider fucking off!
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Last post from me. MNG, I think you have a lot to offer the first time quitters here in terms of what went wrong after 2 years of quit.
He has ZERO to offer here.
Yep. Coulda been, shoulda been woulda been.
Still to this day doesn't give a shit about anything but himself and I wonder if that even applies.
MNG. you should seriously consider fucking off!
900 days of wasting time... can't say I see any change.
Wish you would show that you give a shit about his quit. What are you doing here MNG? How exactly is refusing brotherhood and accountability going to help your quit?
Perhaps you think your 900 days of experience makes you above the members of your quit group? By the way, that is December 2014, you dropped out of Feb 2012. Perhaps you could learn about brotherhood and accountability from your brothers in Dec 2014. You sure as hell didn't get it the first time around.
Ironically your selfishness proved to be your undoing... when you shoved that lipper in, your quit brothers didn't even make more than a fleeting thought, did they? Or maybe you didn't think about them at all. Integrity, accountability, brotherhood - these are the 3 legs a successful quit stands on. Without them you will fall... it is simply a matter of time.