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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: grizzlygirl333 on January 29, 2013, 06:22:00 PM
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Today is my first day with out a dip. Ive been dipping since I was 14. I am sad to say I went through a can of mint grizzly a day. Im sick of the lpoks I get for being a girl and dipping. My fiance dips too and its.hard to see his face when people look at me funny fordipping. Hope I can make him proud and quit
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Good for you on taking your life back and quitting. Day 1 is great. We have all been there. But you should worry about making yourself proud for quitting first and foremost. Not your fiance. Oh and get rid of this hope shit. We don't hope for anything. We work our ass off and do it everyday
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Hope I can make him proud and quit
Great intro, but wanted to point out two things:
1) We don't hope we do, either you quit or you don't. One day at a time. Post your pledge early in the morning. Keep your word. Repeat. You will see as the days compile, life gets better. Use this site and read a ton, you will be amazed at how much it will help you with your quit.
2) Make him proud, should be changed to make you proud. Quit for yourself. Quit because of what it does to your health. Quit becasue you hate being chained to the can. He is an anciallary piece of your quit. Is it a bad thing to want to make him proud? No. But you have to quit for yourself.
Welcome to KTC and PM me if you need anything!!!
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Welcome and congrats on your choice.
I hate to be a bag full of downers here but you need to prepare yourself in event that he will not be proud of you. Addicts like company and he will most likely be pissed that you are not on the same side of the fence anymore.
Quit for you and only you.
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Welcome and congrats on your choice.
I hate to be a bag full of downers here but you need to prepare yourself in event that he will not be proud of you. Addicts like company and he will most likely be pissed that you are not on the same side of the fence anymore.
Quit for you and only you.
If you choose to be quit, be quit now. This group is for people who are quit today (one day at a time). Nuttin different bout a gal who chews than a guy. I don't think, but I guess that might depend on where you're frum. I am only 35 days quit, after smoking and chewing for 53 years. Since I quit with the April group, I have not been TRYING to quit. I am quit. You be too.
(by the way nicotine can be a very jealous bitch and may try to mess with you and your fiance's deep rooted struggles with addiction. Both of you willo be stronger if you can ignore tne nicotine bitches lies. I would not have understood this 5 weeks ago. Now I have experienced this, so I'll pass it on. Best wishes in your quit life.
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Today is my first day with out a dip. Ive been dipping since I was 14. I am sad to say I went through a can of mint grizzly a day. Im sick of the lpoks I get for being a girl and dipping. My fiance dips too and its.hard to see his face when people look at me funny fordipping. Hope I can make him proud and quit
Hmmm. Quitting because of the looks you get and the look on your boyfriends face when he sees the looks you get. You want to make him proud...
Answer me this question. If you didn't get any "looks" for being a girl dipper that upset your boyfriend, would you still want to quit?
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These guys are right. While your fiancee might be your world, quitting now can save your life. If you truly want to quit, and quit for you, you have found the place to do it. It takes patience and work just like anything else worth fighting for.
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I'm the downer prick today! So here goes, what if your fiancée left tomorrow, what would happen to your quit? For 32 years I made attemps to quit for my wife. Every time she caught me I saw the pain in her face that I cared more about a can of poison than I did for her. Finally, 304 days ago I got it! I quit for me and enjoy the side benefit that she has joined in my satisfaction. I am so proud of my quit and my sweethearts pride isn't too bad either. Quit today for #1!
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Today is my first day with out a dip. Ive been dipping since I was 14. I am sad to say I went through a can of mint grizzly a day. Im sick of the lpoks I get for being a girl and dipping. My fiance dips too and its.hard to see his face when people look at me funny fordipping. Hope I can make him proud and quit
I agree with all of my quit peeps on all points! We are not trying to run you off!! We deal in brutal honesty on here. We see dozens of new quitters everyday and we are just trying to point out why peeps fail to you right up front. We want nothing more than to get another person quit!! Trust Me. So get your mind right, Quit Today for you!! Go to the Welcome Center. (pink button on the top left of this page.) Read up on how and why we do things here. Post Roll, Keep your word and we will see you here tomorrow!!
If you need help reach out! we are all only a PM away!
J
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333........all these quitters make good points. each and every one of us would quit for you if we could. but, you have to quit for yourself. we are here to support your quit, and everyone is trying to pass forward what has been proven to work. this network of support is second to none. mindset is a key component to quit. just merely hoping is a recipe for a failed quit. ya need to get yerself some pissed-offed-ness to aid in your quit...and you have to be the one to make that happen, and as a result, make yourself proud. trust all these quitters, they know what it takes to quit. PM me, I'll do whatever I can to help out too...
I hope you make it back to the site, and post roll...Post your promise daily to not use nic, keep your word, and do that exact same thing every day. Read anything and everything on this site. get that 'quit fire' burnin'...........
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333........all these quitters make good points. each and every one of us would quit for you if we could. but, you have to quit for yourself. we are here to support your quit, and everyone is trying to pass forward what has been proven to work. this network of support is second to none. mindset is a key component to quit. just merely hoping is a recipe for a failed quit. ya need to get yerself some pissed-offed-ness to aid in your quit...and you have to be the one to make that happen, and as a result, make yourself proud. trust all these quitters, they know what it takes to quit. PM me, I'll do whatever I can to help out too...
I hope you make it back to the site, and post roll...Post your promise daily to not use nic, keep your word, and do that exact same thing every day. Read anything and everything on this site. get that 'quit fire' burnin'...........
No post, No promise = No quit
To Bad! She didn't even come back to read any replies!
My bet, it takes another 14 years to quit.
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333........all these quitters make good points. each and every one of us would quit for you if we could. but, you have to quit for yourself. we are here to support your quit, and everyone is trying to pass forward what has been proven to work. this network of support is second to none. mindset is a key component to quit. just merely hoping is a recipe for a failed quit. ya need to get yerself some pissed-offed-ness to aid in your quit...and you have to be the one to make that happen, and as a result, make yourself proud. trust all these quitters, they know what it takes to quit. PM me, I'll do whatever I can to help out too...
I hope you make it back to the site, and post roll...Post your promise daily to not use nic, keep your word, and do that exact same thing every day. Read anything and everything on this site. get that 'quit fire' burnin'...........
No post, No promise = No quit
To Bad! She didn't even come back to read any replies!
My bet, it takes another 14 years to quit.
Quitting's hard work.
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333........all these quitters make good points. each and every one of us would quit for you if we could. but, you have to quit for yourself. we are here to support your quit, and everyone is trying to pass forward what has been proven to work. this network of support is second to none. mindset is a key component to quit. just merely hoping is a recipe for a failed quit. ya need to get yerself some pissed-offed-ness to aid in your quit...and you have to be the one to make that happen, and as a result, make yourself proud. trust all these quitters, they know what it takes to quit. PM me, I'll do whatever I can to help out too...
I hope you make it back to the site, and post roll...Post your promise daily to not use nic, keep your word, and do that exact same thing every day. Read anything and everything on this site. get that 'quit fire' burnin'...........
No post, No promise = No quit
To Bad! She didn't even come back to read any replies!
My bet, it takes another 14 years to quit.
Quitting's hard work.
Sounded like she was quitting for "cosmetic reasons". She didn't like the looks she got. No mention of being sick of being a slave, tired of spending the money, afraid of health risks, etc...just didn't like the looks she got because she was a girl and it bothered her boyfriend. That's not even enough to come back and read the replies, let alone quit. Too bad.
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