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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: CC268 on March 01, 2013, 09:22:00 AM
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
Don't think DO!!! Throw that shit in the shitter and go post roll in June quit group. Reach down in those pretty pink panties you have on and grab that sack like it's yours and not the Nic Bitches. Come back tomorrow and do the same, one day at a time, 24 hours, 1,440 minutes, no more no less.
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CC268, You can do it. I quit on Wednesday and I am still quit. It totally sucks, but you can do it. Go out and buy some gum or sunflower seeds to keep your mind off the dip. This site is a great resource. Read the stories, be inspired, and do this for yourself. Don't let this dirty brown shit own you. I'll stay quit with you today.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
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Please add me to the list of mean old dickheads.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
x 3
Please add me to the list of mean old dickheads.
Mrs Evil calls me a dick, or worse, on a daily basis so allow me to jump in.
An annoyance? Try communicating by tapping your fingers on a table or by blinking because you have no tonuge or throat. Try eating through a tube that goes directly into your stomach. Try walking into a store and seeing kids run away screaming because half your face has been removed and you look like a monster.
Those are "annoying". Dipping is stupid. Not quitting is being a big stinky puss.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
x 3
Please add me to the list of mean old dickheads.
Mrs Evil calls me a dick, or worse, on a daily basis so allow me to jump in.
An annoyance? Try communicating by tapping your fingers on a table or by blinking because you have no tonuge or throat. Try eating through a tube that goes directly into your stomach. Try walking into a store and seeing kids run away screaming because half your face has been removed and you look like a monster.
Those are "annoying". Dipping is stupid. Not quitting is being a big stinky puss.
We have quitters here that have remained quit through some very tough times, up to and including the passing their very own children. So don't give us this bullshit of "personal issues". If whatever you have going on your life is exactly equal to that, then you have my condolences.
Otherwise, sack up.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I myself "quit" over a year ago through the "I will quit tomorrow" method and then I actually stopped for a few weeks when I ran out of tobacco and didn't buy any more. Then, after a few weeks the temptation got strong and I started buying nicotine gum, and then when that gum wasn't strong enough, I rolled straight back to the cancer candy.
I honestly think the key to a real quit is that you just do it. You don't say "tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow." You just have to hit a moment where you say "fuck you, I'm done" and then quit right then and there.
I'm a total n00b, but on Sunday night I just got absolutely disgusted with myself. I mean purely and totally disgusted that I could fucking do that to my body. I googled "chew alternatives" or something like that and a bunch of reviews/descriptions on KTC was one of the first pages that came up and so I checked out the forums. The dudes here have it straight, you just gotta quit. None of this "I want to quit" or "I will quit tomorrow" bullshit. That shit doesn't amount to anything, you gotta just do it.
Fuck, I spent an hour reading the stories on here and perusing the cancer pics. If you can read those stories and look at those pics and still go back to the can, you should become familiar with the works of Darwin because natural selection is gonna take your ass out of the gene pool because you are fucking weak. For fuck's sake, there is a member on here who just had a biopsy and who will find out in a week if he has CANCER. This cancer isn't like the shit "oh, I worked on asbestos lined buildings for 30 years and no one knew it was dangerouts" - no dude, this shit is SELF INFLICTED CANCER that is medically documented. If you have found this site, there is no fucking excuse for you to continue that shit, you have total notice of the dangers.
And think of the money you are blowing. Seriously. I was spending between $84 and $90 a week on General Snus ($6 a can times 14-15 cans a week) and when I thought about pissing over $4k a year down the toilet with abso-fucking-lutely nothing to show for it, my anger became even bigger. You gotta get fucking mad, dude. You're a god damned mark who has been played for a buster by some fucking tobacco company for years and the only things you have to show for it are (i) a fucked up spot on your gums (ii) some brown in your teeth, (iii) higher risk of various types of cancer, (iv) damage to your cardiovascular system, (v) an addiction that is a pain in the ass to kick and (vi) a bunch of other bad shit.
And if getting pissed at the tobacco company doesn't work, think of how much money you are giving to fucking government in taxes on that shit. Holy shit, the taxes on tobacco where I live are so high and they just go to lining some connected crony pocket. That pisses me off even more than the tobacco company.
Please, dude, get fucking mad and quit.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
x 3
Please add me to the list of mean old dickheads.
Mrs Evil calls me a dick, or worse, on a daily basis so allow me to jump in.
An annoyance? Try communicating by tapping your fingers on a table or by blinking because you have no tonuge or throat. Try eating through a tube that goes directly into your stomach. Try walking into a store and seeing kids run away screaming because half your face has been removed and you look like a monster.
Those are "annoying". Dipping is stupid. Not quitting is being a big stinky puss.
We have quitters here that have remained quit through some very tough times, up to and including the passing their very own children. So don't give us this bullshit of "personal issues". If whatever you have going on your life is exactly equal to that, then you have my condolences.
Otherwise, sack up.
Can I be a dick and join the sausage fest? I am so sick of nicotine and the power she has on the blind. Yeah your mind and understanding is blind!!! 'bang head'
You are an addict and you can't just will a quit, you can't hope a quit, God doesn't save you in addiction, he leads you to a place where you can be strong and powerful over your addiction. Once you put the work in, you will thank God that he taught you to be powerful and not hopeless.
What do you fear? That you can never have just one pinch of chew again? SO FUCKING WHAT! BIG DEAL! Why so loyal champ? What does the can of shit do for you? For me I can say nothing! It damned my progression and my successes.
"Personal Issues", "I was drunk", "In first grade, mommy didn't care about the fire truck I drew so I was never validated" So I chewed!
Are you reading this princess? Quit and we will empathize with family issues, we will share the burden of getting over this terrorist in your life. Until then you are a coward that prefers bondage over the unknown feeling of freedom.
Blowing nicotine because you feel sorry for yourself? PLEASE, I used to be you and it sucked.
WAKE UP YOU ADDICTED FUCK! STOP YOUR PITTY PARTY AND JUST QUIT. POST DAY ONE NOW and tell all the nicotine junkies to fuck off. You came here for 30 days and has a good run? No it wasn't. You didn't even fight to be a HOFamer. Your run sucked and what are you going to do. Feel sorry that you surrendered and went back to hell or are you ready to follow the plan?
Post roll every day! (Without fail) Keep your promise and repeat. You do that and you will not fail. I'll even be your friend.
Until then, Tobacco humpers are not my friends. My addicted mind is not my friend. I will fight and battle until my final breath! You sir are lost, quit the can and realize your strength!
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man what a bunch a dicks here... and evry one of um dissided that they wood rather be dicks then rong. you lissin to these dicks.
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I posted roll
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I posted roll
Good job! Welcome!
Don't fuck this up.
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Buncha meanies
Welcome cc
Pay attention to the zealots
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I posted roll
Good job! Welcome!
Don't fuck this up.
Very nice. Maybe our ranting and general dickiness has paid off.
I quit with you.
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poof
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I posted roll
Good job! Welcome!
Don't fuck this up.
Very nice. Maybe our ranting and general dickiness has paid off.
I quit with you.
Well, well, well. CC268 got himself a pair of balls. Home Depot was having a sale?
Now, you posted roll and made a promise to not use nic in any form toay. Keep your word. Wake up tomorrow and repeat.
Welcome to the suck. Let the madness begin.
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I posted roll
Good job! Welcome!
Don't fuck this up.
Very nice. Maybe our ranting and general dickiness has paid off.
I quit with you.
Well, well, well. CC268 got himself a pair of balls. Home Depot was having a sale?
Now, you posted roll and made a promise to not use nic in any form toay. Keep your word. Wake up tomorrow and repeat.
Welcome to the suck. Let the madness begin.
no no Evil, He got the balls at Dick's Sporting Goods (fitting... see below),
lets hope that instead of a catchers mitt he got a couple of bats so he can swing and hit the crap out of the lady nic.
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Well I quit in December for about 34 days. I was doing really well, in fact my first few days weren't bad since I was sick when I quit. My quit was going quite well and then I started again due to some personal issues that came up. My roommate smokes as well which triggered it a bit. I have been dipping on a regular basis for over a year and a half. I am getting really tired of it and it is becoming a major annoyance. However, I am having a really tough time quitting again. Every time I tell myself I want to quit I wake up in the morning and go back to it. I want to quit though and I am thinking about just quitting today.
When I quit it was awesome to be free of it and my appetite was much better and I just felt a lot healthier in general, however this stuff just keeps me hooked no matter what I tell myself
I hate to rain on the parade and look like the biggest DICK in the world, but let's get a few things straight:
First, you never QUIT.
You took a break....decided to "experiment with not using".........didn't feel like it for a few days.....had better things to spend your money on....
Whatever it was, it wasn't quit and you didn't think it important enough to continue.
Second, if all you think of this is as "a annoyance," then you will never take it as serious as you need to in order to be QUIT.
You don't quit again....you QUIT. And if all you are doing is thinking about just quitting, then you are not committed to the quit and are doomed t be repeating the same pattern you have been following for who knows how long.
The stuff doesn't keep you hooked no matter what you tell yourself. YOU keep yourself hooked because of what you tell yourself - "It's just an annoyance...."
Now, before you run off and vow to not use this site because it is full of mean old dickheads - AKA CoachDoc et al - you need to understand that this site is about owning the truth, facing the truth and getting this nasty, DEADLY addiction out of your LIFE.
If you decide to QUIT, then QUIT. Right now. And I promise you you will have the support of all here....Give your word. Make the promise to not use and post roll.
x2.
And if you think we're being dicks, then you don't really want to quit. The point that doc is trying to make is that you have to change your mindset. We all have to stop blaming our problem on every situation and unpleasant thing that comes along. That's not the problem. The problem is that we're addicts. We have to address that. EVERYTHING is a trigger. There will always be something to blame our failures on, but those failures are always going to be cause by our inablity to address the addiction.
My addiction was MY PROBLEM. You wanna know who fixed it? Me. I overcame it. Each quitter here can say that, so they are all badasses. Yes, KTC helped, but it comes down to the addict. A wise quitter, Scowick said a while back: ".....in the end, there is only one way out - no nicotine today".
Never again..... for any reason.
x 3
Please add me to the list of mean old dickheads.
Mrs Evil calls me a dick, or worse, on a daily basis so allow me to jump in.
An annoyance? Try communicating by tapping your fingers on a table or by blinking because you have no tonuge or throat. Try eating through a tube that goes directly into your stomach. Try walking into a store and seeing kids run away screaming because half your face has been removed and you look like a monster.
Those are "annoying". Dipping is stupid. Not quitting is being a big stinky puss.
We have quitters here that have remained quit through some very tough times, up to and including the passing their very own children. So don't give us this bullshit of "personal issues". If whatever you have going on your life is exactly equal to that, then you have my condolences.
Otherwise, sack up.
Can I be a dick and join the sausage fest? I am so sick of nicotine and the power she has on the blind. Yeah your mind and understanding is blind!!! 'bang head'
You are an addict and you can't just will a quit, you can't hope a quit, God doesn't save you in addiction, he leads you to a place where you can be strong and powerful over your addiction. Once you put the work in, you will thank God that he taught you to be powerful and not hopeless.
What do you fear? That you can never have just one pinch of chew again? SO FUCKING WHAT! BIG DEAL! Why so loyal champ? What does the can of shit do for you? For me I can say nothing! It damned my progression and my successes.
"Personal Issues", "I was drunk", "In first grade, mommy didn't care about the fire truck I drew so I was never validated" So I chewed!
Are you reading this princess? Quit and we will empathize with family issues, we will share the burden of getting over this terrorist in your life. Until then you are a coward that prefers bondage over the unknown feeling of freedom.
Blowing nicotine because you feel sorry for yourself? PLEASE, I used to be you and it sucked.
WAKE UP YOU ADDICTED FUCK! STOP YOUR PITTY PARTY AND JUST QUIT. POST DAY ONE NOW and tell all the nicotine junkies to fuck off. You came here for 30 days and has a good run? No it wasn't. You didn't even fight to be a HOFamer. Your run sucked and what are you going to do. Feel sorry that you surrendered and went back to hell or are you ready to follow the plan?
Post roll every day! (Without fail) Keep your promise and repeat. You do that and you will not fail. I'll even be your friend.
Until then, Tobacco humpers are not my friends. My addicted mind is not my friend. I will fight and battle until my final breath! You sir are lost, quit the can and realize your strength!
It's not too late to be a dick is it? CC we understand your story all to well and recognize the pussy excuses because we've used them all. Your nicotine use is an 'Annoyance'? 'crackup' jock itch is an annoyance! 'crackup' sorry guy but you didn't quit before! You can quit if you are willing to suffer the pain. Man-up and do what everyone tells you one day at a time and you will begin to regain freedom. Personal issues and triggers are part of life "deal with it"!!!
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I feel like I don't want to quit now...this is shitty
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I feel like I don't want to quit now...this is shitty
WTF!!!!!
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I feel like I don't want to quit now...this is shitty
I guess cancer is a much easier and better option. Man the fuck up, get in the chat room or reach out to someone in your group. It will get easier everyday. You may feel like you don't want to quit right now, but that's just the Nic bitch fucking with your head. Feeling shitty now sure beats the hell out of having your tongue, jaw or half your face gone for the remainder of your life. PM me if you need anything. Quit with you today!
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I just was in chat with you for 20 min. Yogi got a ton of people to come in there to talk to you and try and help you out. We all offered you solutions and advice to help you stay quit. Everything we suggested you had an excuse or a reason why that wouldnt work. After putting that time in with you all I have to say is this. "Take ownership of your fucking QUIT" If you are going to cave then come on here and give us all of the reason why not being quit is a better solution. If you find one that we agree on the you can cave. Here is a secret....There isnt one!! Open up a desk drawer and slam your nuts in it everytime you want to put that shit in your lip. Repeat until crave goes away. Keep your promise to your group and to yourself. I quit with you!! J
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Hey CC, never met ya but I know right where you are coming from. The 1st 2-3 weeks were so incredibly hard for me. I whined and cried, I tried to reason my way back to the bitch. I cannot believe these guys on here never gave up on me. I didnt think I was capable of doing it. Now I am at 62 days and very grateful.
I am sure you have plenty to read but feel free to read my intro from the begining. What you will hear is a big pussy that didnt sound very likely to succeed. index.php?showtopic=7677 (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=7677)
It does get easier. Just keep going man. 1 day at a time is all it takes. You can do this. But I think you are realizing the something, YOU HAVE TO WANT IT. If you don't want to quit, and I mean really WANT TO QUIT, than it aint gonna happen. Just remember man, this shit is life or death. Don't wait until it is too late. No one ever said it would be easy, but damn everyone I know will you tell it is worth it.
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I feel like I don't want to quit now...this is shitty
Hey man, you have to want to quit and you have to own that quit! This is a dark and tough path, but the good news is you don't have to do it alone! By choosing to continue to lose you are showing yourself that you don't have to the guts to fight! Tobacco is a dangerous substance, make the right choice and stay quit!
Own your quit! I'm about 10 days in and I feel great, not without cravings and such, but I own those cravings and make them my bitch! I encourage you to read some oral cancer stories... they opened my eyes and made my quit that much more of what I wanted!
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I just was in chat with you for 20 min. Yogi got a ton of people to come in there to talk to you and try and help you out. We all offered you solutions and advice to help you stay quit. Everything we suggested you had an excuse or a reason why that wouldnt work. After putting that time in with you all I have to say is this. "Take ownership of your fucking QUIT" If you are going to cave then come on here and give us all of the reason why not being quit is a better solution. If you find one that we agree on the you can cave. Here is a secret....There isnt one!! Open up a desk drawer and slam your nuts in it everytime you want to put that shit in your lip. Repeat until crave goes away. Keep your promise to your group and to yourself. I quit with you!! J
Nice 2 see the post this AM!! Proud to be quit with you!!
J
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Seeing your strength to add one more day makes my quit rage against the nicotine bitch. When I decided I was quit the bitch even made me afraid of whether I'd be OK if i were quit. I was afraid to succeed in quitting. I thought I depended on nicotine more than I really did, I am finding out now. It is taking a while for me to get a feeling for what my brain might be like as I step away from this object of addiction. I'm just saying that your strengths like promising and posting today make a difference to other people too. Thanks and I'm quit with you today.
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Awesome to see you posted day 4 after yesterday. Proud to be quit with you. Give a shout if you need anything.
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I was on here about a year ago around Christmas time...I stopped dipping for 36 days but started again. I am 20 years old and I am getting more and more scared that I have cancer. I am scared to death because I can't seem to quit and I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not sure what to do anymore...
My roommate had strep throat and I don't know if I have it but my throat hurts a little and my voice is hoarse...he had the same thing. So either I have strep or I have cancer and then I'm fucked....
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I was on here about a year ago around Christmas time...I stopped dipping for 36 days but started again. I am 20 years old and I am getting more and more scared that I have cancer. I am scared to death because I can't seem to quit and I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not sure what to do anymore...
My roommate had strep throat and I don't know if I have it but my throat hurts a little and my voice is hoarse...he had the same thing. So either I have strep or I have cancer and then I'm fucked....
So do you want to quit or do you just want to not get cancer? Percent of you getting cancer isn't 100%. I played the odds and excepted them for 40 + years and went through numerous scared, lost a hand full of teeth, had gum grafts and may still get cancer but I got sick and tired of a stupid little round can controlling everything I did. It didn't matter what came up my first priority was how I would satisfy my addiction!
You say you don't know what to do? Make up your mind of what you want and do it! If you want to dip, keep right on paying your money into big tabacco and throw the dice. If you want to quit, put your name down EVERY morning and promise us and yourself that you won't poison yourself today! Honestly, it's as simple as that! Thousands of us do it every day.
Start by answering the questions of what happened, why it happened and what your going to different this time.
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I was on here about a year ago around Christmas time...I stopped dipping for 36 days but started again. I am 20 years old and I am getting more and more scared that I have cancer. I am scared to death because I can't seem to quit and I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not sure what to do anymore...
My roommate had strep throat and I don't know if I have it but my throat hurts a little and my voice is hoarse...he had the same thing. So either I have strep or I have cancer and then I'm fucked....
You were here before. You even said you STOPPED for 36 days.
You know exactly what to do. You knew it then and you know it now. You just gotta grab you nuts and man the fuck up.
Dump your shit, start posting roll, take it one day at a time , and lean on this site when things get tough
Quitting for fear of cancer is a good starting point, but you gotta want to quit, not just quit because you feel like you have to quit. You tried that last year...didn't work out to well.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Wrong attitude. "I NEED to quit" needs to be "I WANT to quit".
If you don't want to, you're dead in the water. You need to take a serious look in the mirror and decide what you really WANT to do.
To me it sounds like you want to be quit, but don't want to put in the work to do so.
Up to you sport. We are here for you.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Man, with vocabulary like that and an already defeated attitude, of course you're going to fail. Like Diesel said, you already know what to do... Do it. It's pretty damn simple. Do. It. Stop letting a weed dictate who you are. I chewed for 25 years bro... 2 cans a day for the most part. I'm 202 days quit. Seriously... If I can do this, you can do this. Sac up dude. Let's do this. I'll help you any way I can... Send me a pm if you're serious about this.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Man, with vocabulary like that and an already defeated attitude, of course you're going to fail. Like Diesel said, you already know what to do... Do it. It's pretty damn simple. Do. It. Stop letting a weed dictate who you are. I chewed for 25 years bro... 2 cans a day for the most part. I'm 202 days quit. Seriously... If I can do this, you can do this. Sac up dude. Let's do this. I'll help you any way I can... Send me a pm if you're serious about this.
You signed up April 2012 and that is my quit group, I actually quit January 1, 2012 and I now have 674 days quit and it's all because I wanted to just like Diesel said. I had a bunch of scares like you mentioned, never did turn them into a quit until I was ready, until I manned up and grew some testicular fortitude.
Here is a link to my HOF speech, I "wanted" to index.php?showtopic=6617hl= (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=6617&hl=)
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I just know the risks aren't worth it...I got some Smokey Mountain Chew left over from last time I stopped dip. It just sucks every time I try to quit my brain just tells me to go buy more dip. Anyways...haven't dipped since yesterday.
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I just know the risks aren't worth it...I got some Smokey Mountain Chew left over from last time I stopped dip. It just sucks every time I try to quit my brain just tells me to go buy more dip. Anyways...haven't dipped since yesterday.
Congrats on quitting! If you want to stay quit, then stop putting cancer-causing crap in your mouth. Its that simple.
When you get a voice in your brain to go buy some chew - DONT. Stop letting that voice control your actions. You need to learn to tell that voice to F**K OFF as soon as it comes. If you want to stay quit you will make yourself do this. You are in control of your quit. Withdrawal symptoms are temporary and will pass - they dont control your actions unless you let them.
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I just know the risks aren't worth it...I got some Smokey Mountain Chew left over from last time I stopped dip. It just sucks every time I try to quit my brain just tells me to go buy more dip. Anyways...haven't dipped since yesterday.
I have had several voices in my head that tell me to do shit, most of which I would certainly get arrested for. However, I quit 113 days ago and has she tried to lure me back, hell yeah. However, she is learning that I am a hard headed prick.
You should try it, works great. Plus I urge you to consider how mu money you have spent on the shit in your life, want that back? Toolook up the word bad.
Next, I would urge you to ACCOUNTABILITY then be just that daily. Quit for you but see if you can help another quitter too. KTC is a brotherhood not just a quit group.
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Thanks guys...I have my sunflower seeds and fake smokey mountain. Going to the dunes this weekend with my friends....that's going to be the big challenge, but I will stock up on fake dip
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CC,
I still think that you should answer the questions Wt57 asked you. The questions are more for you than us. YOU need to want it not because you are scared you need to want it because you are done. Fear is a short term motivator, quitting for someone else all short term motivators. Knowing you are really done is long term. You quitting for you is the key be selfish with your quit let no one or thing jeopardize it.
Also keep one thread so that you can go back and reflect when the fog lifts.
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I just know the risks aren't worth it...I got some Smokey Mountain Chew left over from last time I stopped dip. It just sucks every time I try to quit my brain just tells me to go buy more dip. Anyways...haven't dipped since yesterday.
Well, at least you quit. Great job!!!
You still sound kind of weak and defeated, though. When I read your words, the image of a wet noodle comes to mind.
Be the hammer. Not the nail.
Fire up!!!!!
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You admitted this is stronger than you. It is! That is what addiction is. Just quit today, and repeat the plan tomorrow!
Don't be so defeated. We have your back if you are a man of your word. You can keep a promise for 24 hours...right?
If so, get reading and educate yourself on addiction and what to expect. If you have family, involve them and show them where you hide your cans. Get serious and tell the nic bitch to fuck off once and for all.
She doesn't do anything. You buy a can and in return you feel guilt, lose teeth, risk cancer and look like a chump to non-addicts. She is a great lie and you don't need her today.
If you wake tomorrow, post roll and fight another glorious battle!
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Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
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Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
Stay the course! Good fight and be the man of your word. If you wake tomorrow, the first thing you do is post roll, then brush your teeth and shower.
Make the promise priority and keep your word. You can fight and do this!
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Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
Stay the course! Good fight and be the man of your word. If you wake tomorrow, the first thing you do is post roll, then brush your teeth and shower.
Make the promise priority and keep your word. You can fight and do this!
Sounds good!
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Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
Stay the course! Good fight and be the man of your word. If you wake tomorrow, the first thing you do is post roll, then brush your teeth and shower.
Make the promise priority and keep your word. You can fight and do this!
Sounds good!
It does sound good but do it! Don't leave yourself vulnerable. Put on your knights armour and then face the day.
Post roll 100%. Especially before the HOF!
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
Trip has been planned for a while...not going to "pass it up"...I am in school for Mechanical Engineering and it is about as stressful as a degree can get. I value the time I get to do other things besides school. Sorry
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
Trip has been planned for a while...not going to "pass it up"...I am in school for Mechanical Engineering and it is about as stressful as a degree can get. I value the time I get to do other things besides school. Sorry
I realllllly hope all goes well. I want you to suceed... Believe me.
Yet I have seen this story play out before.
Don't bring your ass in here on Monday with some sad ass excuse that you slipped on the sand rolled down the hill, jumped up and had a dip in your cakehole.
It won't play out well.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
Trip has been planned for a while...not going to "pass it up"...I am in school for Mechanical Engineering and it is about as stressful as a degree can get. I value the time I get to do other things besides school. Sorry
I realllllly hope all goes well. I want you to suceed... Believe me.
Yet I have seen this story play out before.
Don't bring your ass in here on Monday with some sad ass excuse that you slipped on the sand rolled down the hill, jumped up and had a dip in your cakehole.
It won't play out well.
Fuck you and your fucking college degree stress.
Wanna know what's stressful?
Cancer.
That shit stresses me the fuck out.
Fucking puss. Go on your fucking trip. I hope you have the fucking balls to come back here on Monday with your new Day 1.
Cancer doesn't plan trips 'for a while' either.
You don't know shit about stress.
Sorry.
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
Trip has been planned for a while...not going to "pass it up"...I am in school for Mechanical Engineering and it is about as stressful as a degree can get. I value the time I get to do other things besides school. Sorry
I realllllly hope all goes well. I want you to suceed... Believe me.
Yet I have seen this story play out before.
Don't bring your ass in here on Monday with some sad ass excuse that you slipped on the sand rolled down the hill, jumped up and had a dip in your cakehole.
It won't play out well.
Fuck you and your fucking college degree stress.
Wanna know what's stressful?
Cancer.
That shit stresses me the fuck out.
Fucking puss. Go on your fucking trip. I hope you have the fucking balls to come back here on Monday with your new Day 1.
Cancer doesn't plan trips 'for a while' either.
You don't know shit about stress.
Sorry.
Dont feed the trolls. 'bang head'
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Yea I need to quit I am just worried I won't be able to stick to the quit.
Why not? You a big ole Puss? Don't have any character or integrity?
Still haven't dipped today, going on 24 hours here pretty soon
How about " I refuse to put that shit in my face!
You must change your mindset!!!
Havent dipped so far....and all my damn friends smoke cigarettes...going on a dune trip this weekend...gonna be tough with all of them smoking!
Fuck Em. Tell them you quit. If they are any friends at all they will support you.
Take note of how often they smoke and how addiction is ruling them. Also realize every time they take that long drag off their lung dart that they are literally killing themselves. Picture their black and tarred up lungs getting filled with smoke. Fucking NASTY, brah.
Google image search "smokers lung" and stare at that shit.
You don't need that shit. Truth.
Quit on...
Maybe, if you really think about it and actually give a shit about your quit, the advice your given, and your integrity, you should pass on going to the dunes with your friends and stay home away from the obvious trigger that you have stated.
You know the trigger and the likely cause and effect. You stated them. What are you gonna do about it. Got a plan?
It all comes down to ONE THING.........
What Are You Willing To Do To Stay Quit??????
If it is not whatever it takes.......You are wasting both your time and ours...
Blunt and direct....Yes
True....Yes
Trip has been planned for a while...not going to "pass it up"...I am in school for Mechanical Engineering and it is about as stressful as a degree can get. I value the time I get to do other things besides school. Sorry
I realllllly hope all goes well. I want you to suceed... Believe me.
Yet I have seen this story play out before.
Don't bring your ass in here on Monday with some sad ass excuse that you slipped on the sand rolled down the hill, jumped up and had a dip in your cakehole.
It won't play out well.
Fuck you and your fucking college degree stress.
Wanna know what's stressful?
Cancer.
That shit stresses me the fuck out.
Fucking puss. Go on your fucking trip. I hope you have the fucking balls to come back here on Monday with your new Day 1.
Cancer doesn't plan trips 'for a while' either.
You don't know shit about stress.
Sorry.
I'm so fucking stressed out; I'm a 57 year old with nothing to think about but dying, my old wife suffers from diabetes and MS, I just finished 5 months of 18 hour days 7 days a week and for 40 damn years I used nicotine to cope with life (or so I thought) and now I don't have that crutch! Oh yea I almost forgot I've only hade sex 5 times this past 7 days. But with all my problems I posted roll this morning and decided not to put dip in my mouth today. Oh yea I've done the same damn thing everyday for 584 days so fuck your stressful life, grow some balls!!
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
nah,
You got hammered because the way your thinking.
Your worried your trip is going to cause you to cave and yet you still want to go.
If you don't invest in your quit how can you expect success? or even support?
You ask " What WOULD I do to stay quit" a
You should be asking " What WOULDN'T I do to stay quit.
Most of these guys hammering you would do just about anything short of murder to stay quit. If you want unconditional love and support instead of brutal honesty try heading over to LITE they like words like hope and try. If you want success? then stick around, start protecting your quit and get your mind right.
sM
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
nah,
You got hammered because the way your thinking.
Your worried your trip is going to cause you to cave and yet you still want to go.
If you don't invest in your quit how can you expect success? or even support?
You ask " What WOULD I do to stay quit" a
You should be asking " What WOULDN'T I do to stay quit.
Most of these guys hammering you would do just about anything short of murder to stay quit. If you want unconditional love and support instead of brutal honesty try heading over to LITE they like words like hope and try. If you want success? then stick around, start protecting your quit and get your mind right.
sM
SM is right, we here are gonna tell you straight up. But got another for you.
You have said that you have had this upcoming trip planned. Well here is the perfect time to educate yourself and plan to remain quit. So what will you need?
seeds? fake (if you use)? trident gum? sugarfree candy/fireballs?
How about a few phone numbers for fellow quitters? This way you can stay in touch. Keep that daily accountability with yourself and your group.
We all quit one day at a time. We can never look too far ahead, but what we can do is plan for what we can control ahead. And then think before we take action.
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Yes I have a bunch of fake dip and some seeds plus I will be riding most the day...obviously wouldn't be dipping while riding lol
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
nah,
You got hammered because the way your thinking.
Your worried your trip is going to cause you to cave and yet you still want to go.
If you don't invest in your quit how can you expect success? or even support?
You ask " What WOULD I do to stay quit" a
You should be asking " What WOULDN'T I do to stay quit.
Most of these guys hammering you would do just about anything short of murder to stay quit. If you want unconditional love and support instead of brutal honesty try heading over to LITE they like words like hope and try. If you want success? then stick around, start protecting your quit and get your mind right.
sM
SM is right, we here are gonna tell you straight up. But got another for you.
You have said that you have had this upcoming trip planned. Well here is the perfect time to educate yourself and plan to remain quit. So what will you need?
seeds? fake (if you use)? trident gum? sugarfree candy/fireballs?
How about a few phone numbers for fellow quitters? This way you can stay in touch. Keep that daily accountability with yourself and your group.
We all quit one day at a time. We can never look too far ahead, but what we can do is plan for what we can control ahead. And then think before we take action.
Bingo, now we are geting somewhere.
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obviously wouldn't be dipping while riding lol
Did I miss something somewhere? I dipped 24/7 for years, yep even eating and sleeping. I didn't know there was obvious times you didn't dip. I dipped up until 5 mins before the put me under for a colonoscopy.
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
This should go into words of wisdom for every 20 year old to read. This is exactly why I've been such a dick, I wasted 40+ fucking years, lost teeth, had gum grafts and missed my daughter growing up (sure I was there but I really wasn't because the bitch was always the priority).
I hate you too!
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If there is anything you will take from Great advice. (Props to all that commented so far)
We take the quit serious here. If you want support, you will have many quitters standing in line to kick the living shit out of tobacco and help you quit.
Just because you are going on a trip? Hell no. We all would love to go on the trip with you and fill every circle of tobacco addicts with uppercuts!
You are dancing with the devil! Goal: I want to quit. Problem: I am going to hang out on a trip with nicotine addicts.
You are way to new and young to go on this trip without a wingman. We don't want you to regret your decision to cancel but why walk into the very captor you want to be released from?
We are pissed because we are the ones cheering you for quitting and know you are in danger. Those guys that are your friends. They are knee deep in slavery and will mock us for worrying about your resolve.
You can't hate and love tobacco at the same time. If you go this early in your quit, you are dancing with the devil without feeling the greatness of freedom from evils grasp.
We can't do anything but tell you that your choice is failure. Tell us, sell us and promise us....At all cost. Would you rather die than break a promise to us?
We are worried about you fucking up your declaration of quit. If you think we are dramatic and over the top....We aren't this is a battle and you need more focus to beat this!
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Fucking young whipper snappers. Always rolling through here talking big and delivering a handful of dick as they disapear like a fart in the wind.
You are probably thinking, "who the FUCK are these crazy mother fuckers. Fuck them. They don't know me, and this sure as hell isn't the support I was looking for when I joined this site. These guys are all Assholes!!"
We aren't. We care. I wish someone would have taken me by the scruff of my neck when I was 20 and not only slapped the shit out of me, yelling at me to quit, but offered all the advice and support to help me. Problem is , I was such a young punk then, I probably couldn't have gotten past the yelling part.
Don't be a punk like I was. Listen to us. We know our shit.
I bet when your college profs are waxing poetic about mechanical engineering, you are taking notes like a mother fucker.
You need to be doing the same thing here. A degree ain't gonna do shit for you when you have cancer and are in and out of chemo with half a God Damn face.
Wise the fuck up. Get your shit on high alert and be ready.
You need anything. Hit me up 24/7.
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
This should go into words of wisdom for every 20 year old to read. This is exactly why I've been such a dick, I wasted 40+ fucking years, lost teeth, had gum grafts and missed my daughter growing up (sure I was there but I really wasn't because the bitch was always the priority).
I hate you too!
this is fucking brilliant as a guy who quit when i was 41 and chewed for 21 years, i would love to go back in time and beat the living shit out of my 21 year old self that thought dipping was cool and enjoyable. You don't even know what you don't know. You should print out TGA's words , put them in your wallet and quit with him everyday
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
This is an amazing read.
Put your ego aside and learn from us. I guarantee you won't regret it. Ever.
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I can't give you life advice or say how much you'll regret not quitting like these guys since I'm in my early 20s just like you, but I can offer to be there when things get tough. If you PM me your number we can hold each other accountable. Words from the older and wiser are great, but sometimes it takes a peer to help you through a tough spot.
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I was going to stay away from this thread after I saw what happened to it over the course of a day I thought you were a troll. I sure as hell didn't think you would be here today. I thought you would have used the excuse oh those old fuckers were mean to me they didn't care about me and leave just like some many your age have come before you.
There is a wealth of information here in this thread I also echo an earlier post that TgaFish's post should be put in a special section for young'uns I feel it is exactly the thoughts of most of us here. Man listen you can learn this, you my friend are an addict just full of addict speak.
20's really you are an engineering student really break down your life first 18 still hanging on mommy's titty. Also with the costs of school I highly doubt all the money you made flipping burgers for clown was enough to sustain you in engineering school. So what I am saying is you haven't been around that long so you don't have much of a yardstick to compare life too. We have what we are offering you is a way out your freedom and that my friend is priceless.
I would love to see you here hypothetically speaking 1000 days from now posting after you got your comma with all those knot heads that you convert this weekend. You are young your body can bounce back from the evils you have put it through. Just think about it man just use that melon that you have been storing useless facts and figures and solve the real problem addiction.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
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Holy christ....just because I am going on a trip that has been planned and I am the bad guy...what the hell?
Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
This is an amazing read.
Put your ego aside and learn from us. I guarantee you won't regret it. Ever.
Bump. Got damn that fired me up. Couldn't have said it better myself.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
i was going to quit next Monday for a solid 5 years. this is addict speak fucking with your head. There is no right frame of mind. Either you are quit or not quit. Either you recognize the evil or you don't.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
You'll be back Monday...?
Fuck off. It doesn't work like that here. Take your head out of your ass for one minute and try to read and truly understand what is being said to you. There is a whole thread of guys here who essentially regret the last 15-20+ years of their life. And you are choosing to ignore all the advice, all the support, and all the opportunity given to you so you can enjoy a weekend with your buddies. You can't always say you'll quit tomorrow, because tomorrow never comes.
Sack up and quit being a bitch
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
i was going to quit next Monday for a solid 5 years. this is addict speak fucking with your head. There is no right frame of mind. Either you are quit or not quit. Either you recognize the evil or you don't.
I can't tell you how many times I "planned to quit." I threw out so many 3/4 full tins of dip saying "this is the last one", but it never was until I threw out 3 full cans of untouched and unopened poison. Surrender to the fact that you're an addict, take some deep breaths and quit. Once you get through the 3-4 days of suck, it gets easier. Granted, you'll have some strong craves along the way, but they won't be physical, even though they may seem that way at times. Make your quit your addiction.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
Weakest shit I ever heard. Way to put some effort into this.
Go to the dunes and chew your balls off. The person you will be letting down the most is yourself.
"Be back Monday"....fuck me.
You can't get serious when its convenient for you, because it NEVER will be. There will ALWAYS be something...final exams, then Thanksgiving and Christmas break is coming up, you can't quit during that time. Might as well wait til January 1st, oh wait... The super bowl, I can't not chew during that, etc..
Next thing you know 20+ years will fly by and you will either finally realize what an enslaved asshole you were and how much money you wasted and damage you did to your brain, mouth, and tounge, or you will have cancer and be dead, which I believe you said was your biggest fear in your first post.
You are a pussy.
You wasted my time.
Fuck off.
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Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.Â
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.Â
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
I'm 49, and i was this young guy once. tgafish I couldn't have said it better myself how I feel now. I so wish that back then, almost three decades ago, somebody would have cared enough to wise my a** up by sharing this and what the rest of you have share with this guy. I can only dream how life would have been different!
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You can either take the advice of SUCCESSFUL QUITTERS... or you can keep listening to the addict voice in your head lying to you, telling you that you can't do it because its too stressful right now. We've all listened to that voice a million frickin times, bro.
You can't BS a BSer. Everybody on this board knows exactly the "addict-speak" you're using right now. They aren't being mean to you - they are screaming at that addict voice in your head. STOP LISTENING TO IT, OR IT WILL KILL YOU.
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Not a bad guy. Just a stupid fucking kid who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. PS I fucking hate you!! I hate you because I see myself 22 years ago. 20 years old and having a flash in the pan thought about quitting because I was scared of xyz. Instead of getting serious I thought one of a thousand things that justified me having one more and then in the blink of an eye I was 22 years older, $50K poorer and had done years of damage to my body, my relationships, my whole fucking world. What I wouldn't give to go back and punch myself in the nuts so fucking hard I couldn't get up for a month and say "Hey you stupid asshole. Quit this stuff, you're wasting your life in slavery!"
I fucking hate you because I see a constant string of 20 something year old kids coming in here and having the chance to save themselves from all the shit I went through. But you always fuck it up cause you're just as stupid as I was. So you'll wait just like I did until you've fucked yourself enough that you finally have had enough. You finally feel down into your soul that you are done and that there is NOTHING that will keep you from being quit. Your quit is as important to you as your next fucking breath.Â
But I still come in here and think maybe this guys different, maybe I can talk him into getting it. I devote my time, my soul, my word into helping you stay quit and then you fucking throw it all away like it's an old tshirt.Â
Well FUCK YOU and your half assed stoppage you stupid asshole!!! Not going on a weekend trip is too much to ask to keep yourself quit? You're not ready. Go ask Kenzie Kern how many weekends she would give up to have her dad back. Go ask outdoortexan how many weekends he would give up to have parts of his face back. Ask ME how many weekends I would give up to have back 22 years of slavery to that fucking can.
Go ahead and take this shit lightly. Maybe you'll stay quit, maybe you won't. Obviously it matters to you as much as a flip of the coin.
I'll be here on Monday posting up day 901 quit. What's your plan?
I'm 49, and i was this young guy once. tgafish I couldn't have said it better myself how I feel now. I so wish that back then, almost three decades ago, somebody would have cared enough to wise my a** up by sharing this and what the rest of you have share with this guy. I can only dream how life would have been different!
'crackup'
If what tgafish posted didn't spark a small flame in your brain I agree you probably aren't ready but MONDAY will be no different. You will wait years before that right MONDAY comes. If you were really in the right frame of mind you could go with your buddy's and you'd be fine but your the one that said you couldn't do it.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
We'll see you Monday. 19 years from now. Slave.
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I can't give you life advice or say how much you'll regret not quitting like these guys since I'm in my early 20s just like you, but I can offer to be there when things get tough. If you PM me your number we can hold each other accountable. Words from the older and wiser are great, but sometimes it takes a peer to help you through a tough spot.
That's some fucking Quit Wisdom right there men!
Quitting with someone else who is in college, same age, similar experiences may be just the ticket.
I would at least see what he's offering.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
You chicken dick pink panty wearing sac-less coward. You got to fuking be shitting me....
Are you really that stupid or do you really believe you are indestructible. You have no idea what commitment is, do you?
Have you ever held someones hand when they took their last breath? Have you ever had that person look you in the eye and hear them say "How could I have been so stupid to take my own life? Not with a gun or a hand full of pills but from MY OWN ignorance and stupidity?"
Yes I am pissed the fuk off at you. You walked into these halls, (not your first time I might add) and said I am ready without understanding the ramifications of your decisions. You knew what to expect and this is the half-assed bullshit attempt you give us?
A motherfuking weekend in the dunes with your butt budies is more important than your future and your life. Bullshit!!!
You may think I am being a Dick. GOOD! I am. I really hope you do. I am talking to your weak sniveling ass just like I wished someone would have talked to mine 23 years ago when I was you. Instead of pampering my ass and being nice saying you know you gotta quit, but you will when you are ready I guess. FUCK THAT!!!!
If I see anything one this roll on Monday other than CC268 - Day 9. Your ass will personally be mine.
Fuking grow up!!!
'blowup'
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Dude... That next dip might just be the "one" that turns that healthy skin into cancer ridden skin. You really wanna pull that trigger... Again?
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
You chicken dick pink panty wearing sac-less coward. You got to fuking be shitting me....
Are you really that stupid or do you really believe you are indestructible. You have no idea what commitment is, do you?
Have you ever held someones hand when they took their last breath? Have you ever had that person look you in the eye and hear them say "How could I have been so stupid to take my own life? Not with a gun or a hand full of pills but from MY OWN ignorance and stupidity?"
Yes I am pissed the fuk off at you. You walked into these halls, (not your first time I might add) and said I am ready without understanding the ramifications of your decisions. You knew what to expect and this is the half-assed bullshit attempt you give us?
A motherfuking weekend in the dunes with your butt budies is more important than your future and your life. Bullshit!!!
You may think I am being a Dick. GOOD! I am. I really hope you do. I am talking to your weak sniveling ass just like I wished someone would have talked to mine 23 years ago when I was you. Instead of pampering my ass and being nice saying you know you gotta quit, but you will when you are ready I guess. FUCK THAT!!!!
If I see anything one this roll on Monday other than CC268 - Day 9. Your ass will personally be mine.
Fuking grow up!!!
'blowup'
I just looked at his join date. Huh.
'troll'
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I just looked at his join date. Huh.
'troll'
its his second "intro", he cried in this one about everyone being mean to him also after being wishy washy about quitting...
index.php?showtopic=7945st=15 (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=7945&st=15)
This whole thing reminds me of Shawshank Redemption where Tim Robbings says "I don't waste time on losers tommy, if we do this, we do it all the way"
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
Yea your right. If I'm taking up space here I can try to do this without this place
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
Yea your right. If I'm taking up space here I can try to do this without this place
If you could, you would have done it already. But you only will "try" to do it...here or elsewhere. That is why you will fail. With or without KTC, you will never quit until you stop trying.
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CC, Listen up. This is how it's done. Watch and learn.
My name is CC. I am quit. No, I am fucking quit. For good. For ever. I can't imagine anything that can make me change my mind. But I know that I am an addict and because I'm an addict, there are tricks that the nick bitch has that I haven't seen before and it is a sneaky bitch. It is for that reason that I am going to prepare as best I can for the weekend to come. I have a commitment to my friends and because I am a man of my word, I won't back out. BUT I have told every one of them that I have quit. I have also told them that the first person to offer me a cigarette gets kicked in the balls. Seriously, they all know that I will badly hurt anyone that doesn't honor my commitment to my quit. I have also gathered 10 or more phone numbers of fellow quitters both old and new and I will be using them several times a day. They all know to expect to hear from me. Everyone in my group knows that I'll be texting my commitment to a fellow quitter that will be posting on my behalf.
I have done all of this because I know that my quit is worth the extra time. I value my quit more than almost anything in the world. I also know that I am new at this and that there are others here that have seen hundreds of successful quits and thousands of failures. It is for that reason that I ask those that came before me to let me know how I can improve on my attitude. I will follow your instructions because doing it on my own failed before. Now I'm in your hands. Help me and I'll follow your instructions.
Now I'm going to take some time and really think over those three questions and I'll answer them to the best of my ability as soon as I can be honest about my answers.
Thanks to every one here.
That is the take no prisoners, have no doubts, take responsibility type of attitude that everyone is looking for from you. I don't hate you. I hate the position that you are coming from because at this point, it is a position of weakness. Your addiction is strong. You need to be stronger. You are the only person that can quit for you. You are also the only person on the planet that can put a lip in your mouth. If you decide that you want to inch yourself a bit closer to death, you will only have yourself to blame. We can help but when you cross that line of 100 days, don't forget to take credit yourself because you will deserve it. Either that or you will be dead. Think that thru. To reach 100 days quit, you will either quit for 100 days or you will have been dead for 100 days. Make the decision for yourself. Are you going to reach the milestone dead or alive?
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
Yea your right. If I'm taking up space here I can try to do this without this place
And there it is. He's taking his ball and going home. Those were actually the most honest words you've written. That's just proof you don't want to quit.
Best of LUCK to you. I'm sure you will be successful on your own.
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
Yea your right. If I'm taking up space here I can try to do this without this place
And there it is. He's taking his ball and going home. Those were actually the most honest words you've written. That's just proof you don't want to quit.
Best of LUCK to you. I'm sure you will be successful on your own.
Thanks man
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how am I troll? At least I am here trying to stop....even if it takes me 5 tries I am here...I got the fake dip and some seeds for the trip like I said
I'm not sure you've got what it takes to "quit" if you've read this entire thread and you still have to ask this question.
You need to stop "trying" and grow some balls and quit.
Why waste 5 more "tries".... do you think it will get easier, more fun or more convenient later? It won't.... You either want to be quit or you don't, I would advise you make that decision before you keep taking up space around here.
Yea your right. If I'm taking up space here I can try to do this without this place
And there it is. He's taking his ball and going home. Those were actually the most honest words you've written. That's just proof you don't want to quit.
Best of LUCK to you. I'm sure you will be successful on your own.
Thanks man
That was Sarcasm, the odds of you making it on your own is about .00002% and that's being generous.
Shame you have no balls...
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If you could, you would have done it already. But you only will "try" to do it...here or elsewhere. That is why you will fail. With or without KTC, you will never quit until you stop trying.
Troof.
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I think I need to come back when I have my priorities right because right now I am just not in the right frame of mind. I need to be here when I know I am serious about this. I'd rather do this when I know I won't let the people here down. I will be back on Monday
Hey CC. That's what I said to Chewie the last time I was here 4 years ago in 2009. I of course came back 4 years late with the possibility of more cancer. Don't let this addiction rule your life man. And don't get pissy with the guys here because they really want to help you. If they aren't getting through to you don't come back here posting about dipping. Nobody here wants to listen to dip stories. I have an idea for you. Post roll for the first time and promise never to dip that day! Then do it again the next day. And the next. And the next. Before you kn ow you will be rid of this shit!!!
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CC, Listen up. This is how it's done. Watch and learn.
My name is CC. I am quit. No, I am fucking quit. For good. For ever. I can't imagine anything that can make me change my mind. But I know that I am an addict and because I'm an addict, there are tricks that the nick bitch has that I haven't seen before and it is a sneaky bitch. It is for that reason that I am going to prepare as best I can for the weekend to come. I have a commitment to my friends and because I am a man of my word, I won't back out. BUT I have told every one of them that I have quit. I have also told them that the first person to offer me a cigarette gets kicked in the balls. Seriously, they all know that I will badly hurt anyone that doesn't honor my commitment to my quit. I have also gathered 10 or more phone numbers of fellow quitters both old and new and I will be using them several times a day. They all know to expect to hear from me. Everyone in my group knows that I'll be texting my commitment to a fellow quitter that will be posting on my behalf.
I have done all of this because I know that my quit is worth the extra time. I value my quit more than almost anything in the world. I also know that I am new at this and that there are others here that have seen hundreds of successful quits and thousands of failures. It is for that reason that I ask those that came before me to let me know how I can improve on my attitude. I will follow your instructions because doing it on my own failed before. Now I'm in your hands. Help me and I'll follow your instructions.
Now I'm going to take some time and really think over those three questions and I'll answer them to the best of my ability as soon as I can be honest about my answers.
Thanks to every one here.
That is the take no prisoners, have no doubts, take responsibility type of attitude that everyone is looking for from you. I don't hate you. I hate the position that you are coming from because at this point, it is a position of weakness. Your addiction is strong. You need to be stronger. You are the only person that can quit for you. You are also the only person on the planet that can put a lip in your mouth. If you decide that you want to inch yourself a bit closer to death, you will only have yourself to blame. We can help but when you cross that line of 100 days, don't forget to take credit yourself because you will deserve it. Either that or you will be dead. Think that thru. To reach 100 days quit, you will either quit for 100 days or you will have been dead for 100 days. Make the decision for yourself. Are you going to reach the milestone dead or alive?
agreed to this post. Well done. In fact, its hard core, hard core every damn day. The day you think you've got this, decide not to post or decide to sniff you buddies tin, is the day you fail.
Being an addict is takes diligence. Some guys have left this site saying it reminds them too much of their addiction. Damn right, I need that daily affirmation. I'm going to quit like fuck every damn day, I need that daily reminder.
I see you've chosen to think about this decision, and thats fair. We're offering you freedom and the support you will not get anywhere else. To me thats an easy decision, but your responses thus far indicate the nic bitch is massaging your nuggets. So until you decide to kick her out of your bed, you'll still be a slave to the master.
When you're ready you can be the master. To borrow from the world of poker, when you're ready to go all in, then you're ready for this fight.
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One last time and then I'm gone.
When your at the dunes laying in the sand with your boyfriend and he breaks the news to you that he was just diagnosed with aids and wips out his scabby penis and says he'd like to have sex but doesn't have a condem. Just tell him this once will be ok you'll start using condems on Monday. Have fun at the dunes!
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One last time and then I'm gone.
When your at the dunes laying in the sand with your boyfriend and he breaks the news to you that he was just diagnosed with aids and wips out his scabby penis and says he'd like to have sex but doesn't have a condem. Just tell him this once will be ok you'll start using condems on Monday. Have fun at the dunes!
Damn I wanted to come up with this one but couldn't!
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Your soft dude. Man up or just leave. I have no time for weak ass attempts. You have an army willing and ready to get you through every step of this process, but you'd rather throw that away for a few dips. That's soft.
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Well, did you have a nice weekend at the dunes, sucking on cancer candy????
It's Monday...You still clean or you starting day 1?
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Well, did you have a nice weekend at the dunes, sucking on cancer candy????
It's Monday...You still clean or you starting day 1?
yeah, like we didn't already know how this was going to turn out _
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I dunno I am just losing hope...I got a sore throat last week...my roommate had strep but my throat glands or whatever have been feeling like they are swollen and it worsens if I dip. I probably already have cancer and am screwed.
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I dunno I am just losing hope...I got a sore throat last week...my roommate had strep but my throat glands or whatever have been feeling like they are swollen and it worsens if I dip. I probably already have cancer and am screwed.
Yeah. Just throw in the towel then. Don't go to the doctor or anything, or GOD FORBID not dip at the dunes with you butt buddies. I had sore throats when I dipped and guess what, IT MADE IT WORSE, but I kept doing it because I was an addicted fuck face.
Just ASSUME you have cancer and walk around like fucking Eor and cry, "whoa is me"
GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS MAN!!!!!!
DO SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK!!!!!!!!!
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Poof
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
Post now, so you will be quit for the rest of the day
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
Post now, so you will be quit for the rest of the day
Nice day 1.... glad I had a sack and got through it. Your quit resolve is so strong!!! 'Finger'
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
Post now, so you will be quit for the rest of the day
Nice day 1.... glad I had a sack and got through it. Your quit resolve is so strong!!! 'Finger'
This is so weak and pathetic.
Quit.
It's that easy. Make up your mind, be a man, and do it. You won't regret it. Ever
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
Post now, so you will be quit for the rest of the day
Nice day 1.... glad I had a sack and got through it. Your quit resolve is so strong!!! 'Finger'
This is so weak and pathetic.
Quit.
It's that easy. Make up your mind, be a man, and do it. You won't regret it. Ever
Do us all a favor before you post roll again. Stick your hand down you pants, move the frank off to the side, and check to make sure that you have a scrotum...if that test is successful, go wash your hands.
Then go to your quit group post roll and remember that is you making a promise to stay quit that day only. You have 24 hours that you are promising for. Also, remember that you are promising for yourself but you will learn that Accountability, Brotherhood and Commitment are. If you lack any understanding of the meaning of those words, refer to a google search or go old school and pull a Mariam-Webster Dictionary off the shelf.
You have some of the most badass quitters from this site sitting here waiting for you to find your resolve and quit, WTF else are you waiting for?
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
Why not post roll TODAY???
It is 8 oclock? figure I post roll in the morning for a full day?
Post now, so you will be quit for the rest of the day
Nice day 1.... glad I had a sack and got through it. Your quit resolve is so strong!!! 'Finger'
This is so weak and pathetic.
Quit.
It's that easy. Make up your mind, be a man, and do it. You won't regret it. Ever
Do us all a favor before you post roll again. Stick your hand down you pants, move the frank off to the side, and check to make sure that you have a scrotum...if that test is successful, go wash your hands.
Then go to your quit group post roll and remember that is you making a promise to stay quit that day only. You have 24 hours that you are promising for. Also, remember that you are promising for yourself but you will learn that Accountability, Brotherhood and Commitment are. If you lack any understanding of the meaning of those words, refer to a google search or go old school and pull a Mariam-Webster Dictionary off the shelf.
You have some of the most badass quitters from this site sitting here waiting for you to find your resolve and quit, WTF else are you waiting for?
Wait. He went to 'the dunes' and dipped all weekend, then when 'Monday' came around, he didn't actualy QUIT?!?!?!
If you could see the shock on my face.... _
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1) I merged your two intros.
2) Good seeing your name on roll today
3) Why did cbird have to post roll for you. Not fix it, but he actually posted your most current day 1? That's messed up unless there are some spectacular circumstances that prevented you from doing it. It's like watching your buddy poke the prom queen and then thinking you are no longer a virgin. Some things you just need to do yourself.
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1) I merged your two intros.
2) Good seeing your name on roll today
3) Why did cbird have to post roll for you. Not fix it, but he actually posted your most current day 1? That's messed up unless there are some spectacular circumstances that prevented you from doing it. It's like watching your buddy poke the prom queen and then thinking you are no longer a virgin. Some things you just need to do yourself.
Yeah, like develop some integrity.....
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I dunno I am just losing hope...I got a sore throat last week...my roommate had strep but my throat glands or whatever have been feeling like they are swollen and it worsens if I dip. I probably already have cancer and am screwed.
Dude... have you ever read this?
http://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/wha ... t-dipping/ (http://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/what-to-expect-when-you-quit-dipping/)
Tons of us get sore throats when we quit.. and to use that as an excuse to start dipping again is insane "I am afraid I have cancer.. lets see what happens if I rub some tobacco on it"
When you see the doctor ask him if he will help you pull your head out of your ass so you can serious with the rest of us quitters..
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I wanna dip man! Give me some canca!!! Really after reading these posts was one of the first times in a while I thought about dipping skoal. DAMN!!!!!! Stop IT!!!!!!!
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
and when friday comes and you're cancer free??? then what sugarbritches?
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1) I merged your two intros.
2) Good seeing your name on roll today
3) Why did cbird have to post roll for you. Not fix it, but he actually posted your most current day 1? That's messed up unless there are some spectacular circumstances that prevented you from doing it. It's like watching your buddy poke the prom queen and then thinking you are no longer a virgin. Some things you just need to do yourself.
What are you talking about? I posted roll today??
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
and when friday comes and you're cancer free??? then what sugarbritches?
Exactly...
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1) I merged your two intros.
2) Good seeing your name on roll today
3) Why did cbird have to post roll for you. Not fix it, but he actually posted your most current day 1? That's messed up unless there are some spectacular circumstances that prevented you from doing it. It's like watching your buddy poke the prom queen and then thinking you are no longer a virgin. Some things you just need to do yourself.
What are you talking about? I posted roll today??
Cbird65 just contacted me. I appears that you were bumped. What I saw was cbird adding you back onto roll. I did scroll down and back looking for your post but didn't see it. Apparently I did not go back far enough.
So, my fault and I am sorry.
As I said in my post, "...unless there are some spectacular circumstances...". I think a bump falls under this category. Holler if I can be or service or assistance.
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
and when friday comes and you're cancer free??? then what sugarbritches?
Exactly...
Or another trip to the dunes! Make a plan for everything! If you don't have a contingency plan you'll fail.
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Binary code quit 0101010101010101010101
So you make it past the suck and then actually CHOOSE to go thru it all over again?
I hope your mom makes you wear a helmet when you go outside 'Crazy'
Kinda like snapping your junk in a mousetrap, removing it, and then doing it again expecting it not to hurt this time.
" Why I say Boy.Your kinda dense." - "Fog Horn Leg Horn"
" I would not invest in this quit" " EF Hutton "
"Administration of a drug to an addict will cause reestablishment of chemical dependence upon the addictive substance."
There is no just one , the clock resets to ZERO every slip. There is no reduction of use, no moderation, no halfway quit. It only takes one CC , enjoy the suck a second time. Oh and yes DRUG ADDICT is the appropriate term for you.
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Yea I am posting roll tomorrow and seeing the doctor friday hoping i dont have cancer already...
and when friday comes and you're cancer free??? then what sugarbritches?
Exactly...
Or another trip to the dunes! Make a plan for everything! If you don't have a contingency plan you'll fail.
We were his age once.
Scared of the consequences of our actions but lacks the courage required to take a stand handle his shit to set a new course.
"Oh KTC, please please please save me in my addiction...not from it!"
We are open to help you from your addiction but if you wish there was a way to chew and not get cancer....that must be on another planet.
The fact is this weed is a killer. You either hump it and promote or you quit it and fight.
Fence sitter. No Promoter! You either dip or you don't there is no room on a fence to sit. No hate here but I recruit addicts. I don't fuck with junkies. When you can seriously see the lies of nicotine and want it out of your life. We will know. Your talk is an addict wanting to keep dipping but get a stamp that says you will never get cancer. Russian Roulette. Addicts fear death but not enough to quit. You have to be sick of all the bullshit.
Tell your dunes friend to go fuck themselves too. Giving money to a terrorist organization. Government greedy fucks taking their cut. Its all just filthy. I hope you and your friends don't do this around kids and if you do...Shame on your coolness. YOU AND YOUR ADDICT FRIENDS ARE DRONES TO SOCIETY. Stand up and quit with us or fight me on why its worth it!
Nevermind. Done with this. You have more friends and angels plead with you to just do it. Nothing more can be said. Balls in your court and your actions tell it all. If you wanted help, there is enough already to get your fucking head in the game. I think you just like the attention.
I side with quitters not promoters of nic. Fuck off Troll or prove me wrong and stay quit today and post roll tomorrow.
Shame that you just don't see through the addiction and fear. One day you will quit by force or choice. This parasite you hump will destroy who you really are.
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1) I merged your two intros.
2) Good seeing your name on roll today
3) Why did cbird have to post roll for you. Not fix it, but he actually posted your most current day 1? That's messed up unless there are some spectacular circumstances that prevented you from doing it. It's like watching your buddy poke the prom queen and then thinking you are no longer a virgin. Some things you just need to do yourself.
What are you talking about? I posted roll today??
so what ?? what does that mean.... Any idiot can come in here and post multiple day ones.
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I'm doing my part and posting roll and doing this so I don't see the need for you guys to be saying the stuff your saying. You can post that kind of stuff on other peoples intros and leave me alone. I posted roll and will continue...
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I'm doing my part and posting roll and doing this so I don't see the need for you guys to be saying the stuff your saying. You can post that kind of stuff on other peoples intros and leave me alone. I posted roll and will continue...
Good see you tomorrow.
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I'm doing my part and posting roll and doing this so I don't see the need for you guys to be saying the stuff your saying. You can post that kind of stuff on other peoples intros and leave me alone. I posted roll and will continue...
Good see you tomorrow.
Keep stringing em...
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I'm doing my part and posting roll and doing this so I don't see the need for you guys to be saying the stuff your saying. You can post that kind of stuff on other peoples intros and leave me alone. I posted roll and will continue...
Good see you tomorrow.
I believe he is gone
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Prove me wrong cc, I don't think you have it in you.
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I'm doing my part and posting roll and doing this so I don't see the need for you guys to be saying the stuff your saying. You can post that kind of stuff on other peoples intros and leave me alone. I posted roll and will continue...
We say these things because
1) You've caved on us twice
2) You spend more time feeling sorry for yourself than taking steps forward
3) Obviously you don't have anyone outside of this site that will whip your ass into shape
4) Believe it or not, we really want to help you
Personally I'm getting tired of the excuses. I have busted my ass to stay strong in my quit. I've faced plenty of tough cravings, but I haven't caved. Huzsker and I have leaned on each other to fight through the tough times to prove that we younger guys can be strong too. Each time you come in here boo hooing after another breakdown you just reinforce the stereotype that all men in their 20s are cocky and think they're bulletproof. This time either step it up and commit to joining us or quit wasting our time.
We can't help you if you don't buy into the system and place your trust with us. We will smack you around, especially early on, but we do it with the sole intention of making sure you stay quit. Get pissed at us, then channel that anger toward tobacco.
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
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Good to see you here for Day 2.
Now get busy quitting. It will be easier for you if you get involved.
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See you made roll call, keep it up, and don't let the group down.
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
CC268, you are welcome here....quit. That's what you don't seem to understand. The battle with this shit is life and death, when you come in here half ass "well, at least I'm trying" doesn't cut it here.
If your willing to post roll, everyday and mean it! I was in chat, you had some fine quitters trying to help you, but you have yet to be honest with yourself. Can you honestly read back through this thread and claim you've given any effort to truly being quit here?
So far you have chosen to whine that everyone is mean and that you didn't have the guts to stay quit on a weekend trip. No one here owes you anything, we hold you to the same standard as we hold ourselves.
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
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Jeez cc , we WANT you quit . If you want to BE QUIT , then simply drink the kool aid, listen to what these guys are telling you , and don't throw away your quit again because your going on a trip.
There is always going to be a reason why it's not a good time to quit. There are many trips, and trials, and long drives, and reasons you will create to justify dipping. It's all bullshit. This includes taking your ball and going home .
You at least came back after the weekend . We will see ........
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Jeez cc , we WANT you quit . If you want to BE QUIT , then simply drink the kool aid, listen to what these guys are telling you , and don't throw away your quit again because your going on a trip.
There is always going to be a reason why it's not a good time to quit. There are many trips, and trials, and long drives, and reasons you will create to justify dipping. It's all bullshit. This includes taking your ball and going home .
You at least came back after the weekend . We will see ........
Damn CC you're lucky anyone gives a shit about you.
Me, I don't even want to know a pussy like you...I don't have the kind of patience to coddle someone who lies to themselves....do yourself and your place on earth a favor and grow a pair.
Cheers.
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
Maybe, just Maybe you should start embracing the lessons you are being taught from those that have rolled the dice before you.
Stop fighhting the path, dirink it and walk with your shoulders up.
Anyone can be a bitch to something. It takes a man to stand up to your addiction.
When do you chose to be a man?
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
Maybe, just Maybe you should start embracing the lessons you are being taught from those that have rolled the dice before you.
Stop fighhting the path, dirink it and walk with your shoulders up.
Anyone can be a bitch to something. It takes a man to stand up to your addiction.
When do you chose to be a man?
Proud of Ace. The young grasshopper gets it.
Nice support and resolve. Inspiring and getting stronger!
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Proud of Ace. The young grasshopper gets it.
Nice support and resolve. Inspiring and getting stronger!
Thanks, I will continue to Stay strong and attempt to keep my group strong.
Appreciate the help early on in this battle
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
Maybe, just Maybe you should start embracing the lessons you are being taught from those that have rolled the dice before you.
Stop fighhting the path, dirink it and walk with your shoulders up.
Anyone can be a bitch to something. It takes a man to stand up to your addiction.
When do you chose to be a man?
10 pages for a multiple caver...if nobody cared you would have about 2 pages.
When I read your shit, I just get an overall feeling of weakness and defeat. Like you're half assing it.
Half ass effort gets half asses results.
Get pissed. Show us you WANT it.
My son is 10 and a pretty big kid, but he's soft. So sometimes when we wrestle I really push him to the point where he gets pissed, spazzes out, and literally swings on me with all his strength. He won't go there unless I push him there, but when he does I can tell he is kind of like "DAMN, I didn't know I had THAT in me".
Same thing with baseball this year. He was still a little afraid of the ball when he would catch it. I kept telling/yelling at him to "not be afraid" as I continually lobbed the ball to him. Finally I said fuck it and just started whipping the fucker right at his face. At first he was scared shitless and barely got his glove up, but eventually as I kept whipping it at him...he not only was catching every one, he was catching it in front of his body and whipping it back at MY face. He played first base the entire season.
This might be a bad analogy, but if I didn't care about my son, or didn't think he could do things like that, I simply wouldn't care and just leave him be.
Dont mistake people pushing you for them not caring. The minute people stop posting to your intro is when you know nobody gives a shit if you're here or not.
Go back a good 10 pages on the intros and see where a lot of people fell off the map. THEY were the ones who gave up on themselves. Nobody gave up on them.
You gotta grow a sack and man the fuck up, bud. Otherwise, you will give up on yourself and we will all fall in line with YOU.
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
Maybe, just Maybe you should start embracing the lessons you are being taught from those that have rolled the dice before you.
Stop fighhting the path, dirink it and walk with your shoulders up.
Anyone can be a bitch to something. It takes a man to stand up to your addiction.
When do you chose to be a man?
10 pages for a multiple caver...if nobody cared you would have about 2 pages.
When I read your shit, I just get an overall feeling of weakness and defeat. Like you're half assing it.
Half ass effort gets half asses results.
Get pissed. Show us you WANT it.
My son is 10 and a pretty big kid, but he's soft. So sometimes when we wrestle I really push him to the point where he gets pissed, spazzes out, and literally swings on me with all his strength. He won't go there unless I push him there, but when he does I can tell he is kind of like "DAMN, I didn't know I had THAT in me".
Same thing with baseball this year. He was still a little afraid of the ball when he would catch it. I kept telling/yelling at him to "not be afraid" as I continually lobbed the ball to him. Finally I said fuck it and just started whipping the fucker right at his face. At first he was scared shitless and barely got his glove up, but eventually as I kept whipping it at him...he not only was catching every one, he was catching it in front of his body and whipping it back at MY face. He played first base the entire season.
This might be a bad analogy, but if I didn't care about my son, or didn't think he could do things like that, I simply wouldn't care and just leave him be.
Dont mistake people pushing you for them not caring. The minute people stop posting to your intro is when you know nobody gives a shit if you're here or not.
Go back a good 10 pages on the intros and see where a lot of people fell off the map. THEY were the ones who gave up on themselves. Nobody gave up on them.
You gotta grow a sack and man the fuck up, bud. Otherwise, you will give up on yourself and we will all fall in line with YOU.
CC... We welcome quitters. If you are not all in --- you will be called out and for good reason. Those that use this site fight every day to stay quit and there is no room for weakness. You are not weak, just acting weak. You can quit. Jump in the pool and join us. QLF brother!
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This intro reminds me of why I'm quit. I will never be a slave to that bitch ever again. At least not today. Read through this intro carefully you see that she's active and she is very strong.Â
Strength in numbers wins, going solo hasn't been very productive here. Time to choose.
It has been pretty clear I am not welcomed among the people on chat or here so I just post roll and keep to myself. Thanks
Totally False!! I never said nor did anyone else say they didn't want you to quit this addiction with us. There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try..
Maybe, just Maybe you should start embracing the lessons you are being taught from those that have rolled the dice before you.
Stop fighhting the path, dirink it and walk with your shoulders up.
Anyone can be a bitch to something. It takes a man to stand up to your addiction.
When do you chose to be a man?
10 pages for a multiple caver...if nobody cared you would have about 2 pages.
When I read your shit, I just get an overall feeling of weakness and defeat. Like you're half assing it.
Half ass effort gets half asses results.
Get pissed. Show us you WANT it.
My son is 10 and a pretty big kid, but he's soft. So sometimes when we wrestle I really push him to the point where he gets pissed, spazzes out, and literally swings on me with all his strength. He won't go there unless I push him there, but when he does I can tell he is kind of like "DAMN, I didn't know I had THAT in me".
Same thing with baseball this year. He was still a little afraid of the ball when he would catch it. I kept telling/yelling at him to "not be afraid" as I continually lobbed the ball to him. Finally I said fuck it and just started whipping the fucker right at his face. At first he was scared shitless and barely got his glove up, but eventually as I kept whipping it at him...he not only was catching every one, he was catching it in front of his body and whipping it back at MY face. He played first base the entire season.
This might be a bad analogy, but if I didn't care about my son, or didn't think he could do things like that, I simply wouldn't care and just leave him be.
Dont mistake people pushing you for them not caring. The minute people stop posting to your intro is when you know nobody gives a shit if you're here or not.
Go back a good 10 pages on the intros and see where a lot of people fell off the map. THEY were the ones who gave up on themselves. Nobody gave up on them.
You gotta grow a sack and man the fuck up, bud. Otherwise, you will give up on yourself and we will all fall in line with YOU.
CC... We welcome quitters. If you are not all in --- you will be called out and for good reason. Those that use this site fight every day to stay quit and there is no room for weakness. You are not weak, just acting weak. You can quit. Jump in the pool and join us. QLF brother!
I can't believe were still beating our heads against this brick wall. 'bang head'
I honestly don't know how our concern for you and your quit could be explained any better. It seems to me that there is a hell of a lot more effort from outside than from within you to quit. I'm at 590 days today and have been less active over the past few months and then when the fucking bitch started harassing me again I fought back full force and one of my ways of fighting is to help support younger addicts fight for there freedom. Put on your big boy pant, tighten your belt and through some punches, fight the bitch as much as you are fighting our helping hand.
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And that's why I am posting roll
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CC268,
Congrats on making the HOF! It's still crazy to me that we are both in the same small town and quit within a week of each other! When do you turn 21 so we can go grab that beer? I also wanted to say way to let your actions speak louder than your words! I was reading some of the stuff below and Ace121x says, "There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try.."
Where's that puss now? Looking at the spreadsheet he went MIA within 15 days of quitting! Stay strong and check in once in a while to let us know you are doing well! I've got your number so I'll be checkin in with ya and let me know when birthday time rolls around and we will get that beer!
Josh
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CC268,
Congrats on making the HOF! It's still crazy to me that we are both in the same small town and quit within a week of each other! When do you turn 21 so we can go grab that beer? I also wanted to say way to let your actions speak louder than your words! I was reading some of the stuff below and Ace121x says, "There is just simply no room for pussyfootin' around wishing and whining about quitting.. Like I said earlier glad to have you in my group stay strong and stay quit. Do or Do Not, don't Try.."
Where's that puss now? Looking at the spreadsheet he went MIA within 15 days of quitting! Stay strong and check in once in a while to let us know you are doing well! I've got your number so I'll be checkin in with ya and let me know when birthday time rolls around and we will get that beer!
Josh
Yea man for sure! Next semester in September I will be 21! Thanks!
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Congrats CC
please accept this gold embossed docking sleeve as a reward for hitting 100 days!!!!
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Congrats CC
please accept this gold embossed docking sleeve as a reward for hitting 100 days!!!!
Slug likes to see young quitters!
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Congrats CC
please accept this gold embossed docking sleeve as a reward for hitting 100 days!!!!
Lol thanks!
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Well I have come here to regretfully inform my fellow quitters that I caved at a little over 6 months of being quit. Stupid. I was with some friends scouting for deer in the woods...had some drinks and a friend offered me some dip. I told him no. He said "Ahh no one likes a quitter!". After some haggling I had a dip. After a few weeks I was in full swing again. I have been back on the crap for probably 3 months. It is time to get the show back on the road and this time for good.
Sorry to my fellow quit group. I was doing very well and hardly had any cravings anymore.
Here's to the upcoming suck. Posting day 1 in the morning.
PM me for my number so I can get a support group going.
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Hey CC, welcome back buddy. Sorry you caved under that intense pressure. We totally understand. Oh well, I guess all you can do is try try again. Hey, you had my number. And you had the number of some other guys I know as well. Some pretty good dudes if I recall. Oh yeah, I remember you didn't need a support group. That's right. Oh well.
Anyway, welcome back. Please shoot me a text. I look forward to supporting your upcoming stoppage. Hopefully it sticks this time. But hey, it's only your life. I'm sure some other quitters will be along to give you a shoulder rub and tell you everything will be okay. Not a huge deal. Everyone slips every now and then. We understand. Hopefully you'll get it done this time.
Welcome back
Good luck!
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I need a gallon of Clorox just to get back to sleep.
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Hey CC, welcome back buddy. Sorry you caved under that intense pressure. We totally understand. Oh well, I guess all you can do is try try again. Hey, you had my number. And you had the number of some other guys I know as well. Some pretty good dudes if I recall. Oh yeah, I remember you didn't need a support group. That's right. Oh well.
Anyway, welcome back. Please shoot me a text. I look forward to supporting your upcoming stoppage. Hopefully it sticks this time. But hey, it's only your life. I'm sure some other quitters will be along to give you a shoulder rub and tell you everything will be okay. Not a huge deal. Everyone slips every now and then. We understand. Hopefully you'll get it done this time.
Welcome back
Good luck!
Cavers find a way to cave.
Quitters find a way to quit.
Lets all play the violins for the caver...his life is so difficult...was with the boys, peer presssure got to me, wah, wah, wah.
Really?
and you put the poison in your mouth for months and "now" you want to "try" again??
what makes you think that you deserve this site or the support here?
You're lame.
This is not a game.
Go where they will coddle your balls and rationalize your weakness.
Good luck.
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Hey CC, welcome back buddy. Sorry you caved under that intense pressure. We totally understand. Oh well, I guess all you can do is try try again. Hey, you had my number. And you had the number of some other guys I know as well. Some pretty good dudes if I recall. Oh yeah, I remember you didn't need a support group. That's right. Oh well.
Anyway, welcome back. Please shoot me a text. I look forward to supporting your upcoming stoppage. Hopefully it sticks this time. But hey, it's only your life. I'm sure some other quitters will be along to give you a shoulder rub and tell you everything will be okay. Not a huge deal. Everyone slips every now and then. We understand. Hopefully you'll get it done this time.
Welcome back
Good luck!
Cavers find a way to cave.
Quitters find a way to quit.
Lets all play the violins for the caver...his life is so difficult...was with the boys, peer presssure got to me, wah, wah, wah.
Really?
and you put the poison in your mouth for months and "now" you want to "try" again??
what makes you think that you deserve this site or the support here?
You're lame.
This is not a game.
Go where they will coddle your balls and rationalize your weakness.
Good luck.
Answering the damn questions is your only ticket back to the fold or else you are doomed to cave again. If you got any balls, you'll answer them honestly and own your quit. If not, don't let the door hit you on the way out. We all wait for your answers and be quick about it!
(1) What happened to make you cave?
(2) Why did it happen?
(3) What are you gonna do differently in this quit, to avoid the same thing happening?
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I was with some friends scouting for deer in the woods...had some drinks and a friend offered me some dip. I told him no. He said "Ahh no one likes a quitter!". After some haggling I had a dip.
This excuse sounds like the plot to an After School Special, and certainly won't pass muster with the November group.
You need to answer the three questions openly, honestly, and with utter humility. Take any measure of ego or false pride and flush that shit right down the toilet along with whatever stray cans you have lying about. Given the high rate half-assed responses to the three questions lately, I prefer if you wait and take all the time you need in order to answer them satisfactorily. Otherwise, it's proven to be a huge waste of time.
Good luck.
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I was with some friends scouting for deer in the woods...had some drinks and a friend offered me some dip. I told him no. He said "Ahh no one likes a quitter!". After some haggling I had a dip.
This excuse sounds like the plot to an After School Special, and certainly won't pass muster with the November group.
You need to answer the three questions openly, honestly, and with utter humility. Take any measure of ego or false pride and flush that shit right down the toilet along with whatever stray cans you have lying about. Given the high rate half-assed responses to the three questions lately, I prefer if you wait and take all the time you need in order to answer them satisfactorily. Otherwise, it's proven to be a huge waste of time.
Good luck.
Listen to SFGE and Tuco's Grill...they speaketh the truth of freedom.
oh yeah, wait for Deisel to get in here...he will have an earful of reality especially for You. Always inspirational and insightful.
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I was with some friends scouting for deer in the woods...had some drinks and a friend offered me some dip. I told him no. He said "Ahh no one likes a quitter!". After some haggling I had a dip.
This excuse sounds like the plot to an After School Special, and certainly won't pass muster with the November group.
You need to answer the three questions openly, honestly, and with utter humility. Take any measure of ego or false pride and flush that shit right down the toilet along with whatever stray cans you have lying about. Given the high rate half-assed responses to the three questions lately, I prefer if you wait and take all the time you need in order to answer them satisfactorily. Otherwise, it's proven to be a huge waste of time.
Good luck.
Listen to SFGE and Tuco's Grill...they speaketh the truth of freedom.
oh yeah, wait for Deisel to get in here...he will have an earful of reality especially for You. Always inspirational and insightful.
'Popcorn' Sleeping his hangover off, I suppose!
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Good to see you too friends!
(1) What happened to make you cave?
Already explained above. That is the story.
(2) Why did it happen?
Let my guard down and thought I could have one.
(3) What are you gonna do differently in this quit, to avoid the same thing happening?
Don't dip under pressure, or ever
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Good to see you too friends!
(1) What happened to make you cave?
Already explained above. That is the story, take it or leave it bud.
(2) Why did it happen?
Let my guard down and thought I could have one.
(3) What are you gonna do differently in this quit, to avoid the same thing happening?
Don't dip under pressure, or ever
Blah blah blah, blah blah blah,
Still the same lame attitude as before. Wish you were a quitter man...
Thought you could have one? What the hell does that mean? This isn't a joke dude. Nobody should have just one dip ever. Haven't you learned anything? You got a long way to go to get this quit....
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Holy shit what do you want me to say? I have been straight forward no excuses. Do you want me to come up with a romantic story or something?
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Holy shit what do you want me to say? I have been straight forward no excuses. Do you want me to come up with a romantic story or something?
That right there tells me you are 100% not accountable and already planning for your next cave. Go back and reread everything you've written from an objective point of view. Do you even detect the slightest hint of introspection or sincerity?
You're asking us to invest our time in you, to believe in you, and you know it. Do your part.
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Holy shit what do you want me to say? I have been straight forward no excuses. Do you want me to come up with a romantic story or something?
That right there tells me you are 100% not accountable and already planning for your next cave. Go back and reread everything you've written from an objective point of view. Do you even detect the slightest hint of introspection or sincerity?
You're asking us to invest our time in you, to believe in you, and you know it. Do your part.
Carlen, how many times have you caved while using kill the can?
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Holy shit what do you want me to say? I have been straight forward no excuses. Do you want me to come up with a romantic story or something?
It's a TOUGH crowd Carlen... And no, we don't need a romantic story. We just want to know how bad you want it? Hearing of your cave encourages me to stay QUIT b/c I don't want to face the wrath of my fellow KTC brothers. I've come too far to throw in the towel over some peer pressure or a fight w/ the Wife. You gotta MAN up stay quit. How come you didn't get more involved w/ KTC while you were quit? You know this battle is REAL so why not take it seriously?
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CC were you in August 12? Have you gone to them? Does posting roll mean much to you?
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Yes, I was quit every day I posted roll so it does work and is serious.
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Yes, I was quit every day I posted roll so it does work and is serious.
We are not doing this because we like to. We want you to stay quit so it does not waste our time. We want to ensure that our time with you this second time is going to be worth our while.
I thought the same way as a re-tread. I though f**k you, I'm not answering these lame assed questions. Think about the questions and dig deep in giving your answers. I don't want to support you a second time around only for you to waste my time when I can be helping a newbe.
I'm not trying to be a dick... But, it has to be this way or it won't work... And this should probably be painful so you don't do this again... Like burning you hand on the stove as a child. Normal children won't go back and try it again.
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Its not wasting your time and in fact I don't think the last time was a waste of time. It was my mistake. This won't be a waste of time and I am not asking anybody to do anything? I am posting roll and meeting people along the way.
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Carlen, I will ask again (BTW, I already know the answer). How many times have you caved while using killthecan?
I ask this seriously because, at this point in time, I do not believe that killthecan is the solution for you. It hasn't worked for you in the past, and I seriously doubt this website will help you quit this time. It would be nice if you actually quit this time, but there are serious concerns that you don't understand this program. You weren't able to abide by the protocol for some reason on your previous attempts here. Is there something that is not clicking? Have you read the welcome center thoroughly? Do you understand how this program works? If not, please take the time to learn and truly digest the KTC philosophy.
Also, after your repeated failures here at KTC. The fact that you won't seriously answer the three questions and take some time to evaluate yourself is insulting to those of us who do take our quits seriously. It's also probably extremely self-defeating for you. I implore you to look deeply at yourself, look deeply how the KTC system works, and ask yourself if you are truly up for it. From where I stand I do not think you are up for it. Granted, I only have your repeated past failures as evidence with which to base this on. The fact that you have yet to thoroughly examine the reasons for your past repeated failures, and additionally not appearing to really take a moment to think about how you will be doing it differently this time, leads me to believe that you are destined for another failed quit attempt.
Please drop the attitude and get serious. It's quit or early death. Your choice.
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
I was part of a group chat of about 6 or 7 people - didn't have anyones saved in my phone but kept the group chat up.
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
I was part of a group chat of about 6 or 7 people - didn't have anyones saved in my phone but kept the group chat up.
Really? So, you can get 6 or 7 of your chat peeps in here and let everyone know that you don't need to put anymore thought into answering three simple questions. I'll take just one of those chat peeps to tell me that and I'll be satisfied! Next step is answering those questions for those in November 2014 because these answers won't fly. Has your way worked yet?
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
I was part of a group chat of about 6 or 7 people - didn't have anyones saved in my phone but kept the group chat up.
Really? So, you can get 6 or 7 of your chat peeps in here and let everyone know that you don't need to put anymore thought into answering three simple questions. I'll take just one of those chat peeps to tell me that and I'll be satisfied! Next step is answering those questions for those in November 2014 because these answers won't fly. Has your way worked yet?
CC, just for clarification's sake, you asked specifically to be removed from that group text chat several months ago. You said you were different and that you didn't need the support anymore because you were a younger guy and not as addicted as everyone else (I'm paraphrasing, but I know others who can attest to the jist). Also, and correct me if I'm wrong, you had an extra failure (your second cave) early in your tenure with the Feb 2014 group. So by my count this recent stoppage is your 4th attempt with KTC.
Anyway, good luck stopping again this time. I hope you make it. Hopefully you get some good support this time and you can stick to the program.
I'm done banging my head against a wall.
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
I was part of a group chat of about 6 or 7 people - didn't have anyones saved in my phone but kept the group chat up.
Really? So, you can get 6 or 7 of your chat peeps in here and let everyone know that you don't need to put anymore thought into answering three simple questions. I'll take just one of those chat peeps to tell me that and I'll be satisfied! Next step is answering those questions for those in November 2014 because these answers won't fly. Has your way worked yet?
CC, just for clarification's sake, you asked specifically to be removed from that group text chat several months ago. You said you were different and that you didn't need the support anymore because you were a younger guy and not as addicted as everyone else (I'm paraphrasing, but I know others who can attest to the jist). Also, and correct me if I'm wrong, you had an extra failure (your second cave) early in your tenure with the Feb 2014 group. So by my count this recent stoppage is your 4th attempt with KTC.
Anyway, good luck stopping again this time. I hope you make it. Hopefully you get some good support this time and you can stick to the program.
I'm done banging my head against a wall.
Sounds good
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This is my 3rd attempt. I don't know what else to say, don't have anything else to say about the situation...it was a quick off hand thing and there isn't an elaborate answer to anything. I believe in myself, but if you guys don't want to help then alright. I will post roll and hold myself accountable to the November group.
There is more to say! That's what I'm talking about. It's more than doing this yourself. Accountability is number one. How many numbers of people here at KTC do you have in your phone in your previous failed 2 attempts and how many did you attempt to contact in your "failed" attempts to believe in yourself?
I was part of a group chat of about 6 or 7 people - didn't have anyones saved in my phone but kept the group chat up.
Really? So, you can get 6 or 7 of your chat peeps in here and let everyone know that you don't need to put anymore thought into answering three simple questions. I'll take just one of those chat peeps to tell me that and I'll be satisfied! Next step is answering those questions for those in November 2014 because these answers won't fly. Has your way worked yet?
CC, just for clarification's sake, you asked specifically to be removed from that group text chat several months ago. You said you were different and that you didn't need the support anymore because you were a younger guy and not as addicted as everyone else (I'm paraphrasing, but I know others who can attest to the jist). Also, and correct me if I'm wrong, you had an extra failure (your second cave) early in your tenure with the Feb 2014 group. So by my count this recent stoppage is your 4th attempt with KTC.
Anyway, good luck stopping again this time. I hope you make it. Hopefully you get some good support this time and you can stick to the program.
I'm done banging my head against a wall.
Sounds good
You just don't know when to stop digging, do you, dude?
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Carlen, I was one of those guys in your text group that you chose to leave. I have an answer for you dude, and it goes against everything I feel is right but you are the exception. Please continue to chew. Go buy a roll of cans and leave. You have the quitting nicotine capacity of a whore to dick and dollar. If you care to discuss this further my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. KTC is for quitters and men and women who believe in themselves. Not trolls and pond suckers like you who feed off of the positive vibes of others. I know I'm harsh but the truth only hurts if it should.
Mogul
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Carlen, I was one of those guys in your text group that you chose to leave. I have an answer for you dude, and it goes against everything I feel is right but you are the exception. Please continue to chew. Go buy a roll of cans and leave. You have the quitting nicotine capacity of a whore to dick and dollar. If you care to discuss this further my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. KTC is for quitters and men and women who believe in themselves. Not trolls and pond suckers like you who feed off of the positive vibes of others. I know I'm harsh but the truth only hurts if it should.
Mogul
Please don't post personal numbers on the main forum. Feel free to share them via PM, though.
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CC, what exactly are you looking for? You caved under virtually zero pressure, and come back with a crappy attitude, and get butthurt when real men of quit get on you. So I ask again, what are you looking for here?
Brother, a little (or a lot) of humility goes a long way, look at how November blew up today, and what happened when the person in question showed some humility. You had a brotherhood here, and it sounds like it's a p-hair away from being a memory..........is that what you want?
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Carlen, I was one of those guys in your text group that you chose to leave. I have an answer for you dude, and it goes against everything I feel is right but you are the exception. Please continue to chew. Go buy a roll of cans and leave. You have the quitting nicotine capacity of a whore to dick and dollar. If you care to discuss this further my number is XXX XXX XXXX. KTC is for quitters and men and women who believe in themselves. Not trolls and pond suckers like you who feed off of the positive vibes of others. I know I'm harsh but the truth only hurts if it should.
Mogul
Wtf is wrong with you...gtfo
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Carlen,
I too was in your text group and in your town! We still need to get that beer when you turn 21 next month! It's not supposed to be easy coming back. You are supposed to get beat on. I'm a retread from 5 years ago. I got beat up on as well. The funny part about getting beat on is you usually have to deal with it in your first week of quit when you are the most pissed off and irritable.
Take your beating, swallow your pride, put a bit more effort into the 3 questions (You can see my answers here: topic/1004438/1/) (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/1004438/1/%29). and come back swinging. We had another guy in our group acting like you are now and he's come back to be a big part of my quit (Cornice). Maybe for now you need to keep your head down and post. Actions speak louder than words. You still have my number if you want some local support. It's the one that starts with 928.
Josh
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Carlen,
I too was in your text group and in your town! We still need to get that beer when you turn 21 next month! It's not supposed to be easy coming back. You are supposed to get beat on. I'm a retread from 5 years ago. I got beat up on as well. The funny part about getting beat on is you usually have to deal with it in your first week of quit when you are the most pissed off and irritable.
Take your beating, swallow your pride, put a bit more effort into the 3 questions (You can see my answers here: topic/1004438/1/) (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/1004438/1/%29). and come back swinging. We had another guy in our group acting like you are now and he's come back to be a big part of my quit (Cornice). Maybe for now you need to keep your head down and post. Actions speak louder than words. You still have my number if you want some local support. It's the one that starts with 928.
Josh
Thanks man, going to post roll for now and look at the three questions again.
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Carlen, I was one of those guys in your text group that you chose to leave. I have an answer for you dude, and it goes against everything I feel is right but you are the exception. Please continue to chew. Go buy a roll of cans and leave. You have the quitting nicotine capacity of a whore to dick and dollar. If you care to discuss this further my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. KTC is for quitters and men and women who believe in themselves. Not trolls and pond suckers like you who feed off of the positive vibes of others. I know I'm harsh but the truth only hurts if it should.
Mogul
Wtf is wrong with you...gtfo
WTF is wrong with me???? well, I have psoriasis, slightly high blood pressure, receding hairline, and a hair overweight. But, I haven't had any nicotine in 280 days. WTF is wrong with you???
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Carlen, I was one of those guys in your text group that you chose to leave. I have an answer for you dude, and it goes against everything I feel is right but you are the exception. Please continue to chew. Go buy a roll of cans and leave. You have the quitting nicotine capacity of a whore to dick and dollar. If you care to discuss this further my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. KTC is for quitters and men and women who believe in themselves. Not trolls and pond suckers like you who feed off of the positive vibes of others. I know I'm harsh but the truth only hurts if it should.
Mogul
Wtf is wrong with you...gtfo
WTF is wrong with me???? well, I have psoriasis, slightly high blood pressure, receding hairline, and a hair overweight. But, I haven't had any nicotine in 280 days. WTF is wrong with you???
I don't quite know what's going on with you buddy. If you are serious about quitting then you need to listen to these vets. I was like you when I caved back in Jan. I am 182 days strong for listening. Stop being an arrogant prick and be a man. Until you prove your serious no one is going to help you. First help yourself.
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ok look, not here going to bash you, but there is something going on where you have been here and are just not learning yet. So am going to try and lay it out for you.
Time to look deep into that mirror, change your mind set and think about these 3 questions and be detailed in your responses from deep inside you:
1 - What was the situations that led you to caving? Be specific. Remember the sights, sounds smells. When doing this you will learn what had happened and you will learn what is the danger zone when you move forward.
2 - Why did you let those caves happen? What was wrong with how you were approaching it? Is there anything that you missed doing? What was not in place? What were you thinking?
3 - And the Biggest: What will you do to keep it from happening again? Look around and think, what can I do to protect myself from failing again. What plans can I put in place that I will swear to follow this time? Is it posting roll (this should be #1 on the list), Is it contacting quit brothers (high on the list), is it reading on the site? Is it telling a loved one that you care more for the poison than them? Think of all of these and more and the WRITE THEM DOWN, as that will be your plan so that you do not fail again. Only by creating this plan and honoring it will you succeed moving ahead.
This time create that plan and have another look over it, share it, then post it here....another accountability step.
Follow that and be honest and true to yourself and show that you are serious and want to be quit. I just want to see this poison out of a younger persons life. So show me that you will do it.
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ok look, not here going to bash you, but there is something going on where you have been here and are just not learning yet. So am going to try and lay it out for you.
Time to look deep into that mirror, change your mind set and think about these 3 questions and be detailed in your responses from deep inside you:
1 - What was the situations that led you to caving? Be specific. Remember the sights, sounds smells. When doing this you will learn what had happened and you will learn what is the danger zone when you move forward.
2 - Why did you let those caves happen? What was wrong with how you were approaching it? Is there anything that you missed doing? What was not in place? What were you thinking?
3 - And the Biggest: What will you do to keep it from happening again? Look around and think, what can I do to protect myself from failing again. What plans can I put in place that I will swear to follow this time? Is it posting roll (this should be #1 on the list), Is it contacting quit brothers (high on the list), is it reading on the site? Is it telling a loved one that you care more for the poison than them? Think of all of these and more and the WRITE THEM DOWN, as that will be your plan so that you do not fail again. Only by creating this plan and honoring it will you succeed moving ahead.
This time create that plan and have another look over it, share it, then post it here....another accountability step.
Follow that and be honest and true to yourself and show that you are serious and want to be quit. I just want to see this poison out of a younger persons life. So show me that you will do it.
Please post these responses in November 2014 before you post roll again.
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1. I was with a group of friends, scouting for deer in the woods. A friend in the truck took a can of dip out – after a while he and his buddy asked if I wanted some dip. I told him no as I quit about 6 months ago. He said, “Ahh no one likes a quitter”. After resisting a few times, I finally gave in and thought I could have one. Ended up in full swing about 2 weeks later.
2. At the time I wasn’t posting roll on KTC anymore. The cave was sort of a stupid spontaneous decision (a “fuck it” moment). I should have simply said no and left it at that. I thought I could sneak one in and be good after. Of course drinking later did not help the situation – however I have drank in the past with NO problems with NOT dipping before.
3. Post roll, say NO when offered dip – plain and simple – no explanations, just a no. Think about the consequences more next time – realize there is no “one” dip. Post roll and maintaining some sort of KTC friend list on my phone for these situations is the plan.
Thanks.
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1. I was with a group of friends, scouting for deer in the woods. A friend in the truck took a can of dip out – after a while he and his buddy asked if I wanted some dip. I told him no as I quit about 6 months ago. He said, “Ahh no one likes a quitter”. After resisting a few times, I finally gave in and thought I could have one. Ended up in full swing about 2 weeks later.
2. At the time I wasn’t posting roll on KTC anymore. The cave was sort of a stupid spontaneous decision (a “fuck it” moment). I should have simply said no and left it at that. I thought I could sneak one in and be good after. Of course drinking later did not help the situation – however I have drank in the past with NO problems with NOT dipping before.
3. Post roll, say NO when offered dip – plain and simple – no explanations, just a no. Think about the consequences more next time – realize there is no “one” dip. Post roll and maintaining some sort of KTC friend list on my phone for these situations is the plan.
Thanks.
Those guys offering you nicotine are NOT friends. Until you get that, you will continue to cave.
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Hello all,
Many of you know me here as I have been around a while. I was part of a quit group about a year ago that provided me with the opportunity to quit. I stopped for 6 months and started again. I came back to join another quit group in August where I stopped for 3 months and began dipping again, about three weeks ago. Before these quit groups I had quit off and on with no serious intention and a weak attitude.
In my first group I posted roll for about 180 days, always staying true to my word when I posted. I also was a part of a great texting group who provided support outside of the KTC environment. Unfortunately I got lackadaisical about my quit and stopped posting roll as well as leaving the text group. I thought I could manage the quit on my own without the support of KTC. I was obviously wrong.
My second group was back in August where I posted for about the first two weeks and began to post roll on a spotty basis. I never made connections with the other members and never joined any texting group. Once again I caved (about three weeks ago).
I am sure many of you have lost faith in my quit and I guess at this point I don't blame you. I am sorry to the group members/members I have let down including MN_Ben, mogul, nolaq, doc2quit4good, diesel2112, Evil_Won, mthomas3824, spartonron, Wt57, ScrewYouCope, grizzylhasclaws, and countless others.
I don't know if KTC will take me back again, but I would like to state a few things I have learned, if not only for me, for the benefit of new quitters:
1. Posting roll is essential. Even after HOF. The day you stop posting roll is the day when things go downhill. My two "serious quits" (for lack of a better term) lasted over 100 days and caved due to my lazy approach.
2. Some sort of support group outside of KTC such as a text group or chat group is an essential part of your quit. This is VERY important, if not just as important as posting roll.
3. Don't quit because you're scared or because of a girlfriend, family member, etc; quit for your own self
4. Take advantage of all the resources available to you on KTC - there are many.
For me points 1 2 were my downfalls as I didn't take them seriously. I didn't come in with the right attitude from the beginning as many of you know.
I would like to start a new journey with a new attitude and a new perspective; however this is at the discretion of the members of KTC. If so, I would like to begin posting roll and get back to some sort of text group for support outside of the KTC environment.
Thanks,
CC268
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Hello all,
Many of you know me here as I have been around a while. I was part of a quit group about a year ago that provided me with the opportunity to quit. I stopped for 6 months and started again. I came back to join another quit group in August where I stopped for 3 months and began dipping again, about three weeks ago. Before these quit groups I had quit off and on with no serious intention and a weak attitude.
In my first group I posted roll for about 180 days, always staying true to my word when I posted. I also was a part of a great texting group who provided support outside of the KTC environment. Unfortunately I got lackadaisical about my quit and stopped posting roll as well as leaving the text group. I thought I could manage the quit on my own without the support of KTC. I was obviously wrong.
My second group was back in August where I posted for about the first two weeks and began to post roll on a spotty basis. I never made connections with the other members and never joined any texting group. Once again I caved (about three weeks ago).
I am sure many of you have lost faith in my quit and I guess at this point I don't blame you. I am sorry to the group members/members I have let down including MN_Ben, mogul, nolaq, doc2quit4good, diesel2112, Evil_Won, mthomas3824, spartonron, Wt57, ScrewYouCope, grizzylhasclaws, and countless others.
I don't know if KTC will take me back again, but I would like to state a few things I have learned, if not only for me, for the benefit of new quitters:
1. Posting roll is essential. Even after HOF. The day you stop posting roll is the day when things go downhill. My two "serious quits" (for lack of a better term) lasted over 100 days and caved due to my lazy approach.
2. Some sort of support group outside of KTC such as a text group or chat group is an essential part of your quit. This is VERY important, if not just as important as posting roll.
3. Don't quit because you're scared or because of a girlfriend, family member, etc; quit for your own self
4. Take advantage of all the resources available to you on KTC - there are many.
For me points 1 2 were my downfalls as I didn't take them seriously. I didn't come in with the right attitude from the beginning as many of you know.
I would like to start a new journey with a new attitude and a new perspective; however this is at the discretion of the members of KTC. If so, I would like to begin posting roll and get back to some sort of text group for support outside of the KTC environment.
Thanks,
CC268
What is causing you to be so dishonorable? I think you should identify, pinpoint, and then obliterate the reason for your multiple KTC caves. Only you know the reason. Are you an honorable person or not? If you are not honorable, can you change? I have no idea, but I do know that your multiple stoppages smell like pure hot wet runny dog shit at this point.
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Hello all,
Many of you know me here as I have been around a while. I was part of a quit group about a year ago that provided me with the opportunity to quit. I stopped for 6 months and started again. I came back to join another quit group in August where I stopped for 3 months and began dipping again, about three weeks ago. Before these quit groups I had quit off and on with no serious intention and a weak attitude.
In my first group I posted roll for about 180 days, always staying true to my word when I posted. I also was a part of a great texting group who provided support outside of the KTC environment. Unfortunately I got lackadaisical about my quit and stopped posting roll as well as leaving the text group. I thought I could manage the quit on my own without the support of KTC. I was obviously wrong.
My second group was back in August where I posted for about the first two weeks and began to post roll on a spotty basis. I never made connections with the other members and never joined any texting group. Once again I caved (about three weeks ago).
I am sure many of you have lost faith in my quit and I guess at this point I don't blame you. I am sorry to the group members/members I have let down including MN_Ben, mogul, nolaq, doc2quit4good, diesel2112, Evil_Won, mthomas3824, spartonron, Wt57, ScrewYouCope, grizzylhasclaws, and countless others.
I don't know if KTC will take me back again, but I would like to state a few things I have learned, if not only for me, for the benefit of new quitters:
1. Posting roll is essential. Even after HOF. The day you stop posting roll is the day when things go downhill. My two "serious quits" (for lack of a better term) lasted over 100 days and caved due to my lazy approach.
2. Some sort of support group outside of KTC such as a text group or chat group is an essential part of your quit. This is VERY important, if not just as important as posting roll.
3. Don't quit because you're scared or because of a girlfriend, family member, etc; quit for your own self
4. Take advantage of all the resources available to you on KTC - there are many.
For me points 1 2 were my downfalls as I didn't take them seriously. I didn't come in with the right attitude from the beginning as many of you know.
I would like to start a new journey with a new attitude and a new perspective; however this is at the discretion of the members of KTC. If so, I would like to begin posting roll and get back to some sort of text group for support outside of the KTC environment.
Thanks,
CC268
What is causing you to be so dishonorable? I think you should identify, pinpoint, and then obliterate the reason for your multiple KTC caves. Only you know the reason. Are you an honorable person or not? If you are not honorable, can you change? I have no idea, but I do know that your multiple stoppages smell like pure hot wet runny dog shit at this point.
Wow, pathetic. I hate that you refer to your failed attempts as quits...they were pauses at best. Why would anyone believe that things will be different this time round? You sound downtrodden but not really changed. I don't even know how long you would have to be the baddest fucking quitter around to prove that you are worthy of someone like Gizzclaws' support.
Seems to me that you need to really work on the 3rd question. What are you going to do differently. Your answer is lip service. You need to change your thought process.
I guess the proof is in the pudding but I know of very few multiple cavers that are worth a shit.
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Hello all,
Many of you know me here as I have been around a while. I was part of a quit group about a year ago that provided me with the opportunity to quit. I stopped for 6 months and started again. I came back to join another quit group in August where I stopped for 3 months and began dipping again, about three weeks ago. Before these quit groups I had quit off and on with no serious intention and a weak attitude.
In my first group I posted roll for about 180 days, always staying true to my word when I posted. I also was a part of a great texting group who provided support outside of the KTC environment. Unfortunately I got lackadaisical about my quit and stopped posting roll as well as leaving the text group. I thought I could manage the quit on my own without the support of KTC. I was obviously wrong.
My second group was back in August where I posted for about the first two weeks and began to post roll on a spotty basis. I never made connections with the other members and never joined any texting group. Once again I caved (about three weeks ago).
I am sure many of you have lost faith in my quit and I guess at this point I don't blame you. I am sorry to the group members/members I have let down including MN_Ben, mogul, nolaq, doc2quit4good, diesel2112, Evil_Won, mthomas3824, spartonron, Wt57, ScrewYouCope, grizzylhasclaws, and countless others.
I don't know if KTC will take me back again, but I would like to state a few things I have learned, if not only for me, for the benefit of new quitters:
1. Posting roll is essential. Even after HOF. The day you stop posting roll is the day when things go downhill. My two "serious quits" (for lack of a better term) lasted over 100 days and caved due to my lazy approach.
2. Some sort of support group outside of KTC such as a text group or chat group is an essential part of your quit. This is VERY important, if not just as important as posting roll.
3. Don't quit because you're scared or because of a girlfriend, family member, etc; quit for your own self
4. Take advantage of all the resources available to you on KTC - there are many.
For me points 1 2 were my downfalls as I didn't take them seriously. I didn't come in with the right attitude from the beginning as many of you know.
I would like to start a new journey with a new attitude and a new perspective; however this is at the discretion of the members of KTC. If so, I would like to begin posting roll and get back to some sort of text group for support outside of the KTC environment.
Thanks,
CC268
The words from your prior cave still ring in my ears.. That your buddy offered you some and said no one likes a quitter and thats the story.. Its a shitty story, but thats the story..
I see a lot of guys come and go.. And I like you CC, but I am feeling pretty disappointed right now..
Just because you didn't post didn't mean that all that time we spent in chat together didn't mean anything, its a shitty excuse really. I mean, based on results I guess the time we've spent talking didn't mean anything.. How could it have.. Did the bond you were breaking cross your mind when you were stuffing your lip? Did it matter to you? Do you ever think of the fact that you would be over 400 days quit now had you not chosen to cave 3 times? Lets not forget smoking while going cycling in the dunes.. Do you think how you would feel as a person if you did have 400 days under your belt? Was it worth it?
Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
Whether anyone here believes in you or not.. I think its time to start walking the walk.. Its time to be honest with yourself about why you hold yourself to such a low standard.. Its time to make things right... So do it..
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
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What is causing you to be so dishonorable? I think you should identify, pinpoint, and then obliterate the reason for your multiple KTC caves. Only you know the reason. Are you an honorable person or not? If you are not honorable, can you change? I have no idea, but I do know that your multiple stoppages smell like pure hot wet runny dog shit at this point.
The problem is I have not been consistent with my posting roll. I was in the first group, but like I said, after about 180 days I stopped posting. This is when things went down hill. The second group I was very inconsistent with my posting and things quickly went downhill again. Like I stated in my post, posting roll is where I became dishonorable and that is where I need to stay on the ball. I know that I am an honorable person, but I have to stick with this program and not bail on it after so many days. The texting group that I was in was very good and allowed me to stay consistent with roll, but I got out of the group. When I post roll and become an active member I stay very true to my word.[/quote]
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The words from your prior cave still ring in my ears.. That your buddy offered you some and said no one likes a quitter and thats the story.. Its a shitty story, but thats the story..
I see a lot of guys come and go.. And I like you CC, but I am feeling pretty disappointed right now..
Just because you didn't post didn't mean that all that time we spent in chat together didn't mean anything, its a shitty excuse really. I mean, based on results I guess the time we've spent talking didn't mean anything.. How could it have.. Did the bond you were breaking cross your mind when you were stuffing your lip? Did it matter to you? Do you ever think of the fact that you would be over 400 days quit now had you not chosen to cave 3 times? Lets not forget smoking while going cycling in the dunes.. Do you think how you would feel as a person if you did have 400 days under your belt? Was it worth it?
Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
Whether anyone here believes in you or not.. I think its time to start walking the walk.. Its time to be honest with yourself about why you hold yourself to such a low standard.. Its time to make things right... So do it..
I thought about stopping by in the chat many times as I actually thought about the many talks we had. Although you weren't in my quit group you were the friend who stood out most on here due to our talks and sometimes amusing chats. It is very unfortunate that I could be at 400 days, and I really threw away my first quit at 180 days. I was on the high road at the point and I threw it away.
I believe I can make a strong quit, especially with seeing and realizing the mistakes I have made along the way. I plan on posting roll bright and early tomorrow.[/quote]
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
I was indeed unfaithful when I stopped posting roll completely. I was NOT however unfaithful when posting roll, or even if I missed a day. It was when I completely stopped posting that I became unfaithful. I'm not excusing my unfaithfulness and not posting roll but I did not immediately start dipping when I stopped posting roll. It took me about 2 months before I started up again. I should have jumped back onto roll and corrected that and stayed quit.
I plan on using the resources of KTC and I would like to join another text group.
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
I was indeed unfaithful when I stopped posting roll completely. I was NOT however unfaithful when posting roll, or even if I missed a day. It was when I completely stopped posting that I became unfaithful. I'm not excusing my unfaithfulness and not posting roll but I did not immediately start dipping when I stopped posting roll. It took me about 2 months before I started up again. I should have jumped back onto roll and corrected that and stayed quit.
I plan on using the resources of KTC and I would like to join another text group.
My point of view is that I post roll and attend weekly addiction recovery meetings because I want to be quit! My wife was a huge support for me early on but then she drifted as a constant support. Why did she fade? She doesn't understand the power of this addiction. After 40 years of trying to quit and failing I've learn about myself and my inability to stay away from nicotine on my own, that's why I still post roll. I am still pestered by the bitch if I let my guard down.
There is a lesson for not only CC in this string of failures but a very valuable lesson for everyone, nicotine addiction is a bitch and lasts forever. The longer I'm here the more I realize these truths. Some of us are slow learners, CC you're obviously one of us. I will say that someone that finds KTC and understands the plan and their weakness to nicotine, should be equipped to battle the bitch. Those that cave should even understand it better, after a second cave? 'Crazy'
For me I will do what I need to do to avoid another failure in my fight against this addiction. I believe that anyone can quit once they are committed and understand what is required. CC you are the only one that can know if you are truly there, obviously you haven't been there before now.
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What is causing you to be so dishonorable? I think you should identify, pinpoint, and then obliterate the reason for your multiple KTC caves. Only you know the reason. Are you an honorable person or not? If you are not honorable, can you change? I have no idea, but I do know that your multiple stoppages smell like pure hot wet runny dog shit at this point.
The problem is I have not been consistent with my posting roll. I was in the first group, but like I said, after about 180 days I stopped posting. This is when things went down hill. The second group I was very inconsistent with my posting and things quickly went downhill again. Like I stated in my post, posting roll is where I became dishonorable and that is where I need to stay on the ball. I know that I am an honorable person, but I have to stick with this program and not bail on it after so many days. The texting group that I was in was very good and allowed me to stay consistent with roll, but I got out of the group. When I post roll and become an active member I stay very true to my word.
Grizz is not asking you regurgitate the same weak sauce again. WHY did you stop posting roll? You knew posting roll was necessary, and you chose to stop doing that again. I believe your first and second, or whatever the hell you are up to now cave was a conscious decision. You knew what you were doing and you didn't give a shit. You need to dig really deep and lay out why in the fuck anyone here should believe you ever again.
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
I was indeed unfaithful when I stopped posting roll completely. I was NOT however unfaithful when posting roll, or even if I missed a day. It was when I completely stopped posting that I became unfaithful. I'm not excusing my unfaithfulness and not posting roll but I did not immediately start dipping when I stopped posting roll. It took me about 2 months before I started up again. I should have jumped back onto roll and corrected that and stayed quit.
I plan on using the resources of KTC and I would like to join another text group.
Well here's the deal. Text groups are great, but we post ROLL here every day, on the board, as our decision to quit. That is the price of admittance to the freak show, or in your case, the price of re-re-admittance. Right now, your words aren't making it through, friend. And as a two-time retread, you're not hlping with how you are approaching this. "I got high and mighty"? "I let my guard down"? Please take a look closer...
What really happened? Why did it happen?
When you answer those two questions, come back to the third. You will find the answer amazingly obvious.
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
I was indeed unfaithful when I stopped posting roll completely. I was NOT however unfaithful when posting roll, or even if I missed a day. It was when I completely stopped posting that I became unfaithful. I'm not excusing my unfaithfulness and not posting roll but I did not immediately start dipping when I stopped posting roll. It took me about 2 months before I started up again. I should have jumped back onto roll and corrected that and stayed quit.
I plan on using the resources of KTC and I would like to join another text group.
My point of view is that I post roll and attend weekly addiction recovery meetings because I want to be quit! My wife was a huge support for me early on but then she drifted as a constant support. Why did she fade? She doesn't understand the power of this addiction. After 40 years of trying to quit and failing I've learn about myself and my inability to stay away from nicotine on my own, that's why I still post roll. I am still pestered by the bitch if I let my guard down.
There is a lesson for not only CC in this string of failures but a very valuable lesson for everyone, nicotine addiction is a bitch and lasts forever. The longer I'm here the more I realize these truths. Some of us are slow learners, CC you're obviously one of us. I will say that someone that finds KTC and understands the plan and their weakness to nicotine, should be equipped to battle the bitch. Those that cave should even understand it better, after a second cave? 'Crazy'
For me I will do what I need to do to avoid another failure in my fight against this addiction. I believe that anyone can quit once they are committed and understand what is required. CC you are the only one that can know if you are truly there, obviously you haven't been there before now.
Well said I will make sure to follow this advice and post roll every day. I will build upon my mistakes of the past and make sure to use all the resources of KTC!
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Let me get this straight...
In your first group, you had about 180 days, but yet you only have 173 posts, including the one in this Intro. And you shit on them. Then you went for another 2 weeks in another group, and you shit on them.
Have I got this right? And, you said you were always true to your word when you posted. If you didn't post every damn day, where you unfaithful when you didn't post?
So basically, you are a liar, a cheater, someone who actually drops name in an intro that is 2 years too late, and you want us to feel sorry for you? Have you leaned nothing from this site along your journey?
You want to quit, fine. But you are going to have to come up with better answers than the drivel you just spewed out. Go back to your previous groups, and tell them what you've done. Then go into a new group and tell people how not to be like you. Then study your point #4 and actually get this shit down so you live it and breathe it.
So, you know the drill...give us something that actually means something instead of a pile of puke on the floor.
I was indeed unfaithful when I stopped posting roll completely. I was NOT however unfaithful when posting roll, or even if I missed a day. It was when I completely stopped posting that I became unfaithful. I'm not excusing my unfaithfulness and not posting roll but I did not immediately start dipping when I stopped posting roll. It took me about 2 months before I started up again. I should have jumped back onto roll and corrected that and stayed quit.
I plan on using the resources of KTC and I would like to join another text group.
Well here's the deal. Text groups are great, but we post ROLL here every day, on the board, as our decision to quit. That is the price of admittance to the freak show, or in your case, the price of re-re-admittance. Right now, your words aren't making it through, friend. And as a two-time retread, you're not hlping with how you are approaching this. "I got high and mighty"? "I let my guard down"? Please take a look closer...
What really happened? Why did it happen?
When you answer those two questions, come back to the third. You will find the answer amazingly obvious.
I know that posting ROLL is what is done. However, ALONG with roll is other resources of KTC such as the chat, text groups, etc...these things do help!
What really happened?
I STOPPED posting roll and began to use on and off when I was around a friend of mine who smokes (I would dip). This soon turned into dipping on a daily basis.
Why did it happen?
I was tempted by my friend and I knew that I hadn't been posting roll for a while. I became unfaithful to the "quit"/"stoppage" and did not stick to my word.
I need to post roll and honor my word!
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Not sure why my name came up as one that you disappointed. I guess I must have conversed with you or in the early days said something in our group to make you think that. Oh yeah, by the way I hate cavers!!!! Maybe that's it!!!
Here is what I think:
1. Don't ever stop posting roll every damn day. Think of it as your quit. Not something you have to do to stay quit. Make it the first thing you do, and do it in as many groups as you can stand every damn day!!!
2. Don't be forgotten. Find somebody to support, and let them know you are thinking about them in their quit. Stay on the minds of other quitters either in your group, their group, text group, or any other outlet to communicate with other quitters out there. If you make yourself forgotten your are as good as caved!
3. Never forget what you are. Plain and simple... an addict that thinks they need something to make life better for them. I used nicotine to get out of all kinds of situations before and to "enhance" my life. I also abused alcohol to get my way or to be the person I thought I deserved to be drunk. When I quit skoal it took me a while but then I quit drinking so much alcohol after about 90 days of quitting skoal. I am not saying I am a better person(and believe me I'm not) than anyone still struggling with these things, but just to say that my mind changed... over time.... but I had to stay with it....
4. Remember where you are. We are all hiding behind keyboards. I have contacted some people via phone but that has been a rarity. You have to do what you can to get through to the quitters here without being a prick. You also have to think about what you say to people before you type it and send.... Be fucking fair because no matter what you think, you are no better than anybody else here.
I hope you can make this stick this time. It sounds like you will have a long hard road ahead of you.
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Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
That right there tells me all I need to know.
Your ass will fail again if this is what you really feel.
Get your head on straight, your attitude right and stop fuking around!!!
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Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
That right there tells me all I need to know.
Your ass will fail again if this is what you really feel.
Get your head on straight, your attitude right and stop fuking around!!!
I doubt he is even real. This can't be real. This level of lack of understanding. I smell troll. He probably is a dip can collector wih a giant wall of tins in his mom's basement. This website for him is just a way to have a little fun. That to me is the only explanation for a 4 time Ktc caver. Either that or just dumber than a box of rocks.
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Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
That right there tells me all I need to know.
Your ass will fail again if this is what you really feel.
Get your head on straight, your attitude right and stop fuking around!!!
Woah Woah Woah...I never said " I don't know if I can be stronger than my desire to use nicotine"??? That was quoted from someone else's quote.
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Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
That right there tells me all I need to know.
Your ass will fail again if this is what you really feel.
Get your head on straight, your attitude right and stop fuking around!!!
Woah Woah Woah...I never said " I don't know if I can be stronger than my desire to use nicotine"???
and the follow through...?
If you didn't say that, what do you say now?
Don't miss an opportunity to state that you are quit.
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Can you be stronger than your desire to use nicotine? I don't know..
That right there tells me all I need to know.
Your ass will fail again if this is what you really feel.
Get your head on straight, your attitude right and stop fuking around!!!
Woah Woah Woah...I never said " I don't know if I can be stronger than my desire to use nicotine"???
and the follow through...?
If you didn't say that, what do you say now?
Don't miss an opportunity to state that you are quit.
single/?p=8773825t=10849827 (http://forum.killthecan.org/single/?p=8773825&t=10849827)
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What was the date of your cave so I can update our Spreadsheet? Thanks for stopping by! ;)
Edit... Here is your Quit Group (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/10622370/131/?x=90#new)
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
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Don't mind me, I'm just here not contributing.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
I was thinking the same thing
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
I was thinking the same thing
as was I.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
I was thinking the same thing
as was I.
Maybe he just needs to read (and understand) this part so he can keep it simple:
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
I was thinking the same thing
as was I.
Maybe he just needs to read (and understand) this part so he can keep it simple:
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat
After 3 tries already...I would hope that 1. is obvious. He needs to work on 2 and 3 in this 4th one.
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Feeling pretty down today, but almost got Day 1 over with...
Not gonna feel sorry for you. Wondering if you have honor and guts.
CC I feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for you because you got your ass reamed for caving. That should be a learning experience- that there is no acceptable reason to cave. Roll call is simple, it takes very little time. Honoring your promise for 24 hours... also not a big deal, especially as you get farther and farther from a day 1.
I don't feel sorry for you because your day 1 was shitty. I hope it was shitty, so shitty that you never want to go through it again... so shitty that you wake up in a cold sweat thinking about what it would be like if you ever had to go through it again.
I don't feel sorry because you have feelings of shame over your cave- you should be ashamed, there was no reason for it.
I feel sorry for you because despite all of these things I still wonder if you truly understand what went wrong.... I spent decades trying to shed this addiction. Each time I "quit" for a few hours to a few days, I crawled my way back into the can wondering why I couldn't stay quit... why the fear of cancer wasn't enough, why I would go back knowing fully well that some day the white sores on my bottom lip might not heal... I wondered why it wasn't enough seeing people who had to cover the hole in their trach to speak. I wonder if this is still you? That each cave has been an "accident" that you couldn't help?
You can post roll every damn day at 12:01 am, give 500 quitters your number and get involved with 30 different texting groups and read the site from front to back every waking hour. The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail. If your word means less than seeking temporary relief from withdrawal symptoms- you will fail. I see you promising the same things that so many others promise when they return... I'll post roll, i'll do it early, I'll be involved, I'll exchange numbers... yada yada yada... all good things to do, but so often they are just hot air expelled giving the answers that you know are what you SHOULD do.
In the morning when you come to post roll, I want you to take 5 minutes to think about what you are doing. Look down the list of names and envision yourself shaking their hands, giving them your word, just as if you were looking them in the eye. Think about what roll call MEANS- not just a place to put your name and number, but a PROMISE made. Before you put your name and number on that line, think about how many people you will let down if you lie to them on rollcall. If you find that you cannot make the promise for CERTAIN that you will not use nicotine for the day, do not put your name on rollcall. Go over to general discussion or emergency cave prevention and admit that you cannot make your promise for the day because the need to feed your addiction has overpowered your will to stay quit.
The key to staying quit is very simple in concept.
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat.
There are no conditional steps. all 3 are to be done without fail, no matter what is going on in life, no matter how bad the crave is. 24 hours is all we ask. It can be done.
Shit or get off the pot. Never Again, For Any Reason.
Copy that! I will make sure to the things that you stated above. I know posting roll is very important to my quit.
I'm not sure you read 30's entire post or you just didn't understand what he was saying.
I was thinking the same thing
as was I.
Maybe he just needs to read (and understand) this part so he can keep it simple:
1. Post Roll
2. Honor your promise
3. Repeat
After 3 tries already...I would hope that 1. is obvious. He needs to work on 2 and 3 in this 4th one.
I actually think he needs to go back to 30's original point and truly understand it.
"The bottom line is if you don't want this bad enough, you will fail."
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I fully understand it guys, I am just a man of few words focusing on the quit!
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I fully understand it guys, I am just a man of few words focusing on the quit!
Start small. Post roll and then let it really sink in what that means. In essence, you're promising 20K+ people that you will NOT dip today. No matter what.
Try that the first few days. Post roll. Then remember that you've got 20K+ virtual brothers and sisters that need you to keep your promise as badly as you need them to keep their's.
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Congrats on 200 CC!!
quitting with you today.
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Congrats on 200 CC!!
quitting with you today.
Great job my April brother! See you at 300
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Congrats on 200 CC!!
quitting with you today.
Great job my April brother! See you at 300
Congrats CC, 200 days!
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Congrats on 200 CC!!
quitting with you today.
Great job my April brother! See you at 300
Congrats CC, 200 days!
Damn, Started reading this thread from the start today when I saw it bumped up the page. I was thinking it was gonna be a train wreck by time I finished. It had it's moments. But I ended up skipping to the end because I was running out of time. It was a great surprise to see the outcome. 200 days QUIT! That is Bad Ass. Congrats and thanks for not destroying my faith in humanity today.
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Congrats! I read this thread from the beginning to find out what was going on... you are proof that even when a screwup is made, even several times, success can happen! Proud to be a quitter with you!
D
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Sorry guys never saw the posts! Thanks!
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
Thanks although not quite one year haha..I am at 352
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
Thanks although not quite one year haha..I am at 352
well, only 13 days until you receive your diamond encrusted docking sleeve to commemorate your year
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
Thanks although not quite one year haha..I am at 352
well, only 13 days until you receive your diamond encrusted docking sleeve to commemorate your year
Yea almost there :p
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
Thanks although not quite one year haha..I am at 352
well, only 13 days until you receive your diamond encrusted docking sleeve to commemorate your year
Yea almost there :p
Ok, so.... Now?!!
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Congrats on the 1 year quit CC!!!
'party2'
'40' 'fireman'
Thanks although not quite one year haha..I am at 352
well, only 13 days until you receive your diamond encrusted docking sleeve to commemorate your year
Yea almost there :p
Ok, so.... Now?!!
Congratulations on the year my brother! Awwwweeeesomeeee!
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Congrats ol boy. The second lap surely has to be easier. Make sure to celebrate with the family.
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Congrats on the year. Sorry I'm late.
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congrats on your 400 days (kinda late, but badass)
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Thanks!
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Happy 1000 days!
Cheers to all the fellow quitters and April 2015 group!
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No offense but with this "you haven't ever quit" logic, technically neither have any of you because you're not dead yet. LOL