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Title: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 15, 2013, 09:19:00 PM
Hi there my name is Jake Larson from Iowa and my quit date was 4/13/2013. I am approaching 48 hours and was reaching out to my facebook friends for support. A friend of mine referred me to this website, so here I am. I was a tin a day user of Cope Wintergreen. I met a pretty lady and decided it was time to quit. This fog is brutal....
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Wt57 on April 15, 2013, 09:33:00 PM
Quote from: frathoss
Hi there my name is Jake Larson from Iowa and my quit date was 4/13/2013. I am approaching 48 hours and was reaching out to my facebook friends for support. A friend of mine referred me to this website, so here I am. I was a tin a day user of Cope Wintergreen. I met a pretty lady and decided it was time to quit. This fog is brutal....
The fog will clear soon, then you can get really pissed of at everything. Just keep posting roll and read all you can online, get contacts to go to for support. It gradually gets better and the freedom is great!
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: 05wrxing on April 15, 2013, 09:56:00 PM
Quote from: Wt57
Quote from: frathoss
Hi there my name is Jake Larson from Iowa and my quit date was 4/13/2013. I am approaching 48 hours and was reaching out to my facebook friends for support. A friend of mine referred me to this website, so here I am. I was a tin a day user of Cope Wintergreen. I met a pretty lady and decided it was time to quit. This fog is brutal....
The fog will clear soon, then you can get really pissed of at everything. Just keep posting roll and read all you can online, get contacts to go to for support. It gradually gets better and the freedom is great!
Congrats on quitting and welcome to ktc. I hope that pretty lady isn't the only reason your quitting. you have to quit for you! You have to want it, just doing it to make someone else happy is setting yourself up for failure. I was their a hundred times just quitting to make my wife happy and I never lasted more than a few days. If you need anything at all feel free to pm me. I will quit with you everyday.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Evil_Won on April 15, 2013, 11:41:00 PM
Quote from: 05wrxing
Quote from: Wt57
Quote from: frathoss
Hi there my name is Jake Larson from Iowa and my quit date was 4/13/2013. I am approaching 48 hours and was reaching out to my facebook friends for support. A friend of mine referred me to this website, so here I am. I was a tin a day user of Cope Wintergreen. I met a pretty lady and decided it was time to quit. This fog is brutal....
The fog will clear soon, then you can get really pissed of at everything. Just keep posting roll and read all you can online, get contacts to go to for support. It gradually gets better and the freedom is great!
Congrats on quitting and welcome to ktc. I hope that pretty lady isn't the only reason your quitting. you have to quit for you! You have to want it, just doing it to make someone else happy is setting yourself up for failure. I was their a hundred times just quitting to make my wife happy and I never lasted more than a few days. If you need anything at all feel free to pm me. I will quit with you everyday.
I'll second what he said.

If you aren't quitting for you, don't bother. You need to be pissed, angry, bitter, violent, and resilient to not back down against the nic bitch. If you approach her because you are smitten for some dame that batted her eyelashes at you, you stand zero chance.

What's it going to be?
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 15, 2013, 11:48:00 PM
Go big or go home! I only have one shot at life, I would prefer to keep my jaw for all of it.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Ajacks23 on April 16, 2013, 07:19:00 AM
Quote from: frathoss
Go big or go home! I only have one shot at life, I would prefer to keep my jaw for all of it.
That's the attitude we are looking for! I see you posted roll, have you exchanged any numbers yet? The goal is accountability, you don't want to make it past 12 before receiving a text from a quit brother asking if you need help posting roll. If you fail at doing this you can sneak your addict ass away from the site and back to the can without anyone noticing. And if you don't mind me asking, how old are you and how long DID you dip for?

PM me if you need some accountability

QLFuck!
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: kkljinc on April 16, 2013, 09:38:00 AM
Quote from: frathoss
Go big or go home! I only have one shot at life, I would prefer to keep my jaw for all of it.
Welcome, lots of support here for you. Were a bunch of bad ass quitters one day at a time. Now so are you, I quit with you today.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Radman on April 16, 2013, 09:50:00 AM
Quote from: KKLJINC
Quote from: frathoss
Go big or go home! I only have one shot at life, I would prefer to keep my jaw for all of it.
Welcome, lots of support here for you. Were a bunch of bad ass quitters one day at a time. Now so are you, I quit with you today.
Yes, I quit with this guy.

Hoss, be careful about quitting for that pretty lady. I did that many times, and it never worked. Luckily for me, she hung around a filthy, disgusting addict for probably 17 or 18 years until I got my shit together and decided to quit for good.

I warn you because like Evil said below: you will get angry, bitter, etc. That emotion will seek out a victim, which is usually the source of the quit. You gots to isolate that sweet gal from your rage. If she's the reason, you're likely to take it out on her. It's not her fault you're in this situation. Same held true for my wife and kids. It wasn't their fault. We cannot take our rage out on our family and friends. You want to rage? Bring it here. Rant and carry on all you want with quitters. We can take it. Just be prepared for what may be returned. It's a two-way street.

Quit on, sir.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 16, 2013, 01:29:00 PM
Ajacks- I am 20 years old and I had been dipping for 3 years. Polish workhorse and I have the same quit day, so we have been holding each other accountable..hopped in live chat last night and met some stand up people.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 16, 2013, 02:10:00 PM
Fucking shit...day 3 sucks. Sure am glad I found this site. I am just so angry at the world today...still quit, never again for any reason
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: jhaenel23 on April 16, 2013, 02:16:00 PM
Quote from: frathoss
Fucking shit...day 3 sucks. Sure am glad I found this site. I am just so angry at the world today...still quit, never again for any reason
Heard there was another Hawk on this site from the Loo area!! You've got mail brother!! Welcome to the Suck!! Remember how much it "SUCKS" so you wont put yourself thru this stupid shit again!! Never Again For Any Reason.....NAFAR. And One Day At A Time...ODAAT.

Give me a holler!!!


J
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 16, 2013, 02:31:00 PM
NAFAR...sounds like one hell of a mission statement to me. Good to have a fellow Iowan.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Bean on April 16, 2013, 04:25:00 PM
Day 3 sucks? Well, it's time for a new attitude. You need to turn the tables on the Nic Bitch. Quitting is a privilege reserved to those who have the guts to say, "that's it" to the Nic Bitch. It is an honor...a right of passage. See, you GET to feel this shitty because you CHOSE to be quit.

Embrace the suck. It is the feeling of recovery. It is the best shitty feeling you will ever have. Notice it. Remember it. And swear that you will NEVER have to go through this again. YOU CAN DO THIS!

How? By posting roll and keeping your word today. Take it one day at a time. Don't get ahead of yourself. We'll worry about tomorrow, next week, next month, whatever when they get here. Just focus on keeping your word today. Stay strong and stay quit today, brother!
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: frathoss on April 18, 2013, 06:32:00 PM
Update:
Day 6..things are getting better since day 3..slowly but surely getting sleep at night. Been exchanging numbers left and right..100% roll..go July Fucksticks!!!!! Quit with WarE and Polish Workhorse today.
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: srans on April 18, 2013, 07:11:00 PM
Quote from: frathoss
Update:
Day 6..things are getting better since day 3..slowly but surely getting sleep at night. Been exchanging numbers left and right..100% roll..go July Fucksticks!!!!! Quit with WarE and Polish Workhorse today.
Your so right frathoss. Things are getting better, you know why??? Because you decided 7 days ago to get rid of that poison. You are taking your life back one day at a time. You and me have decided that life is to good to be ruled by nicotine. We decide when we are taking a break, when we go to bed, when we want to go to the store, what we want to spend our money on,,, FUCK!!!!! We were idiots. I quit with you today,, nicotine pisses me off!!!!
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Wt57 on April 18, 2013, 07:37:00 PM
Quote from: srans
Quote from: frathoss
Update:
Day 6..things are getting better since day 3..slowly but surely getting sleep at night. Been exchanging numbers left and right..100% roll..go July Fucksticks!!!!! Quit with WarE and Polish Workhorse today.
Your so right frathoss. Things are getting better, you know why??? Because you decided 10 days ago to get rid of that poison. You are taking your life back one day at a time. You and me have decided that life is to good to be ruled by nicotine. We decide when we are taking a break, when we go to bed, when we want to go to the store, what we want to spend our money on,,, FUCK!!!!! We were idiots. I quit with you today,, nicotine pisses me off!!!!
Damn right you are catching the quit fever!
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: DanNoCan on April 18, 2013, 09:12:00 PM
Quote from: frathoss
Update:
Day 6..things are getting better since day 3..slowly but surely getting sleep at night. Been exchanging numbers left and right..100% roll..go July Fucksticks!!!!! Quit with WarE and Polish Workhorse today.
Congrats Frathoss,

One Day At a Time...It can be done
Title: Re: Had enough of that dip in my lip!!
Post by: Zeus on May 02, 2020, 12:39:04 PM
You had a had a decent quit going and lot of support, yet you threw it all away for a can of dead dried up leaves.

Maybe you can tell us how nicotine changed your life since 2013. Did all your problems magically get solved?

Yeah, that was 7 years ago but what you did then will cause you to fail this time around, too. And what you should have done will work for you today. Chose wisely and put your choice to work.