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Title: i need help
Post by: workinprogress on January 15, 2010, 12:36:00 AM
i chew 3 tins a day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ? what should i do im lost in a world of chew every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser cant post if you fail any help would be graitfully appreciated
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: nkt on January 15, 2010, 12:51:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
i  chew 3 tins a  day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ?  what should i do  im lost in a world of chew  every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser  cant post if you fail  any help would be graitfully  appreciated
It will never feel like the right time to quit.
Now is as good a time as any - it will never be any easier than it is right now.
You may go through more chew than most, but don't think your addiction is special or unique; it is not. For almost everyone here, quitting is the hardest thing they have ever had to do, but they all have one thing in common: they face their addictions head-on every single day and do everything it takes to win that day.

The foundation of this site is making a promise to other quitters who are going through the exact same thing that you will not use tobacco today. Then you keep your promise, and come back tomorrow and do it again. Just stay quit today, right now, and worry about tomorrow when it gets here.

read everything on the welcome page (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=13)

and this will give you a pretty good idea of what to expect (http://www.killthecan.org/yourquit/what.asp)

You can do this. But you must start some time, and now is as good a time as any.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Smokeyg on January 15, 2010, 01:13:00 AM
Quote from: NKT
Quote from: workinprogress
i  chew 3 tins a  day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ?  what should i do   im lost in a world of chew   every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser  cant post if you fail  any help would be graitfully  appreciated
It will never feel like the right time to quit.
Now is as good a time as any - it will never be any easier than it is right now.
You may go through more chew than most, but don't think your addiction is special or unique; it is not. For almost everyone here, quitting is the hardest thing they have ever had to do, but they all have one thing in common: they face their addictions head-on every single day and do everything it takes to win that day.

The foundation of this site is making a promise to other quitters who are going through the exact same thing that you will not use tobacco today. Then you keep your promise, and come back tomorrow and do it again. Just stay quit today, right now, and worry about tomorrow when it gets here.

read everything on the welcome page (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=13)

and this will give you a pretty good idea of what to expect (http://www.killthecan.org/yourquit/what.asp)

You can do this. But you must start some time, and now is as good a time as any.
Excellent post WIP. You don't mind if I call you WIP, do you? That's the first step to recovery.

"I'm lost in a world of chew" - that's possibly the best description of life with tobacco that I've read on these boards.

I chewed nearly one can per day at the time when I finally found the strength and resolve to quit. Prior to that day, I looked at my friends who chewed once or twice per day and convinced myself that my use was so advanced that there was no way I could quit. It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. Truth is, you can quit. You're no different from any of us.

It takes a firm commitment to your self. You need to understand that your life is valuable and that you are personally stronger than anything nicotine can throw your way. Take some time to browse through the different quit groups. Look at all the names and all the numbers of days quit. This can be done if you honor your commitment and respect yourself above all else.

The first step is the hardest. Throw that shit away (not just the chew, but everything chewing related) and post roll in the April 2010 quit group. They are a bunch of pansies, but they are some damn fine pansies.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: manbearpig on January 15, 2010, 01:59:00 AM
Work in progress- I have tried to quit the crap for over a year and only with the help of this site was I able to realize that "quitting" is simply a matter of choosing not to dip ONE DAY at a time. Don't look too far in the future, just concentrate on each day as it comes. YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE. Don't believe the lie that you are "too far gone" because you dip three cans a day. I did the same thing you did, every night for a year I said this is my last one, and threw my tin away only to start back up the next day. I've even dug my half full can of skoal out of the trash a day later!! I have made it three days now, which may not seem like a lot, but to me it is after a year of failing to go three hours. Throw that shit away and post roll with me.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Skoal Monster on January 15, 2010, 02:26:00 AM
Quote from: Smokeyg
Quote from: NKT
Quote from: workinprogress
i  chew 3 tins a  day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ?  what should i do   im lost in a world of chew   every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser  cant post if you fail  any help would be graitfully  appreciated
It will never feel like the right time to quit.
Now is as good a time as any - it will never be any easier than it is right now.
You may go through more chew than most, but don't think your addiction is special or unique; it is not. For almost everyone here, quitting is the hardest thing they have ever had to do, but they all have one thing in common: they face their addictions head-on every single day and do everything it takes to win that day.

The foundation of this site is making a promise to other quitters who are going through the exact same thing that you will not use tobacco today. Then you keep your promise, and come back tomorrow and do it again. Just stay quit today, right now, and worry about tomorrow when it gets here.

read everything on the welcome page (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=13)

and this will give you a pretty good idea of what to expect (http://www.killthecan.org/yourquit/what.asp)

You can do this. But you must start some time, and now is as good a time as any.
Excellent post WIP. You don't mind if I call you WIP, do you? That's the first step to recovery.

"I'm lost in a world of chew" - that's possibly the best description of life with tobacco that I've read on these boards.

I chewed nearly one can per day at the time when I finally found the strength and resolve to quit. Prior to that day, I looked at my friends who chewed once or twice per day and convinced myself that my use was so advanced that there was no way I could quit. It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. Truth is, you can quit. You're no different from any of us.

It takes a firm commitment to your self. You need to understand that your life is valuable and that you are personally stronger than anything nicotine can throw your way. Take some time to browse through the different quit groups. Look at all the names and all the numbers of days quit. This can be done if you honor your commitment and respect yourself above all else.

The first step is the hardest. Throw that shit away (not just the chew, but everything chewing related) and post roll in the April 2010 quit group. They are a bunch of pansies, but they are some damn fine pansies.
Work, You can do this . I thought I was a big addict at 2 cans until I got here. Your not the worst by far. Heavier users than you have walked away from that world of chew, and if we could do it so can you. I remember the nightly promise that tomorrow was the day of my quit. I thought that way for years. Like you I wanted to quit, I hated being a slave to that shit, I was embarrased by it. I had no idea the depths that it was truly affecting my life. Then I did three things.

I decided in my heart and soul that I was done, forever. I decided that I would quit and to hell with the consequences. I didn't care if I lost my job, my relationships, or my sanity, I would quit and take whatever came my way. I would quit cold turkey and ride the fucking lightning. I was quit regardless of any and all consequences. I was quit regardless of all of lifes raging storms of despair or joy or crisis or celebration.

Second, was I found Kill The Can. Over 23yrs I quit alot. I caved in always. I used the Gum, the patch, lozenges, hypnosis, books u name it. This place is the only thing that ever worked. I will be quit for one year on Jan 27. I can't tell you how big that is for me. I read and read and read and read when I got here. I read all the Hall of fame speeches and the quitter and cancer stories, I read entire threads 100's of pages long, I looked at the cancer pictures. I read the Tom Kern story and knew I couldn't do that to my wife and kids. I read thru the intros and the collections of wisdom and struggles there. I learned, the more I learned the easier it got. I began to understand how the addiction worked, I began to see errors in my thought patterns that were really just rationalizations of an addict. I got angry. I got support. Some days were good and some bad but each new day was a little better. I had armed myself with the knowledge to beat the addiction. I had some weapons, I had men and women around me who knew what it feels like to argue out loud with yourself about getting a dip as you pass the gas station. We understand. Better than you could realize, my wife didn't get it, she still doesn't my friends didnt and co workers couldn't. But the people in here did.

I got help, I went to see my doc and got some meds to help keep me from killing everyone in sight. Not wellbutrin or Chantix, but an anti-anxiety deal that I could take when shit would get too intense. It helped. I ate em like mm's. I wasn't afraid to ask for it or too proud to say I needed it. I only cared about quitting and staying off nic. If that meant meds forever, than so be it. I wound up in counseling for a bit with a shrink as a condition of continued happy pills. Nothing big just monthly chats. I would have went daily if it meant I could stay quit. I would have and still would pay any price no matter how great to hold onto that quit. As shitty as I felt in the beginning, I was free.

Think of it this way, if you actually had cancer today, what would you do to save your life? Chemo? radiation ? surgery ? I bet your no pussy and you would fight like hell to try to beat cancer. I got news for you brother, your already in the ring with it and your losing. Why not start fighting for your life now? Don't wait until your against the ropes. Get mad, stay mad. Commit to ride your quit come hell or highwater, if I can do it then anybody can. All you have to do is set that copperheaded fuckbucket down and never pick it up again.


Skoal Monster - day 354 - you got this shit, just do it
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: redtrain14 on January 15, 2010, 08:45:00 AM
Don't focus on how many or how much. Its all relative to your situation whether its a can a week or a log a day, your hooked. You have an addiction that you can longer satisify no matter how much nicotine you pump in your body.

I am not here to tell you this is easy, because its not, its hard. But answer this for me....is not being able to satisfy your addiction easy?

We got your back, come on in.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: mule on January 15, 2010, 09:53:00 AM
Quote from: redtrain14
Don't focus on how many or how much. Its all relative to your situation whether its a can a week or a log a day, your hooked. You have an addiction that you can longer satisify no matter how much nicotine you pump in your body.

I am not here to tell you this is easy, because its not, its hard. But answer this for me....is not being able to satisfy your addiction easy?

We got your back, come on in.
Kool-aide is served.....we have all been there.


come on in and have a cup with us......everything and i mean EVERYTHING you need to succeed is here....

Take back from US Tobbacco and your addiction the one thing you gave up with that first dip......

control.....

You have a choice.....choose to quit.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: JonnyLaw on January 15, 2010, 11:33:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
i chew 3 tins a day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ? what should i do im lost in a world of chew every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser cant post if you fail any help would be graitfully appreciated
I was chewing two cans every day, easy, and on bad days, it was easy for me to make that third tin disappear.

If I had a dollar for every night I said, "I'm done with this shit," and then started up when I was showering the next morning, I'd be living a hell of a lot higher on the hog.

I HAVE BEEN NICOTINE FREE FOR THREE DAYS NOW.

I made a personal decision to fight the can of Skoal. I sat there and thought about all the reasons I wanted to quit, and then threw my can into the trash and moved on with my day. For me, it sucked the first day, sucked really bad the second day, and now it's sucking, just not as bad as it had. The people here on KTC are here to help you.

I am so damn glad I found Kill The Can and the forums. If I hadn't found them, I'd be back giving US Tobacco Company $10/day to feed my addiction.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: theo3wood on January 15, 2010, 11:58:00 AM
Quote from: JonnyLaw
Quote from: workinprogress
i  chew 3 tins a  day I KNOW THATS ALOT EVEN FOR THIS SITE myquestion is how can i quit this like all of you people have ?  what should i do  im lost in a world of chew  every night i say never again then the morning hits and im right back to it I want to post but i dont want to be a poser  cant post if you fail  any help would be graitfully  appreciated
I was chewing two cans every day, easy, and on bad days, it was easy for me to make that third tin disappear.

If I had a dollar for every night I said, "I'm done with this shit," and then started up when I was showering the next morning, I'd be living a hell of a lot higher on the hog.

I HAVE BEEN NICOTINE FREE FOR THREE DAYS NOW.

I made a personal decision to fight the can of Skoal. I sat there and thought about all the reasons I wanted to quit, and then threw my can into the trash and moved on with my day. For me, it sucked the first day, sucked really bad the second day, and now it's sucking, just not as bad as it had. The people here on KTC are here to help you.

I am so damn glad I found Kill The Can and the forums. If I hadn't found them, I'd be back giving US Tobacco Company $10/day to feed my addiction.
'worship' 'worship' 'worship'
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: SeattleCJ on January 15, 2010, 02:12:00 PM
Come on WIP. Where are you? Go post up in April now, and lets get this started. Start saving your life today. You are getting some great advice and support from some great quitters. Now make them proud and get in there and quit. All of us will be with you every step of the way.

Or if you already have and I am just blind just ignore my post.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: workinprogress on January 16, 2010, 12:30:00 AM
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE LOVE YOU ALL HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Smokeyg on January 16, 2010, 01:50:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE LOVE YOU ALL HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
See you when you're quit. Otherwise, post up in the cafe where the testicularly challenged hang out.

Or go to chat. Introduce yourself as a quitter next time you start a thread.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Skoal Monster on January 16, 2010, 02:26:00 AM
Quote from: Smokeyg
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt  SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING  THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO  BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO  GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU   IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO  I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME   I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE   LOVE YOU ALL  HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
See you when you're quit. Otherwise, post up in the cafe where the testicularly challenged hang out.

Or go to chat. Introduce yourself as a quitter next time you start a thread.
just because you sucked one dick instead of three doesn't mean your straight.

I dont need to hear about you planning your next dose , nor do I appreciate you shitting on my doorstep by dipping while you post anything in here. Thats disrespectful at the very least.

Hmmmmmnnn= cards or cancer ? tough call

Your not different, your not a bigger addict, your not some special case. YOu don't have it any worse than any of us here.

The only difference between you and a heroin addict is your choice of drugs.

Don't be a spineless jellytard get it done or go die somewhere else.

Skoal Monster ( Im not so great) but I still hope you quit
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: ChoosingIntegrity on January 16, 2010, 08:49:00 AM
Quote from: Skoal
Quote from: Smokeyg
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt  SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING  THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO  BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO  GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU   IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO  I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME   I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE   LOVE YOU ALL  HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
See you when you're quit. Otherwise, post up in the cafe where the testicularly challenged hang out.

Or go to chat. Introduce yourself as a quitter next time you start a thread.
just because you sucked one dick instead of three doesn't mean your straight.

I dont need to hear about you planning your next dose , nor do I appreciate you shitting on my doorstep by dipping while you post anything in here. Thats disrespectful at the very least.

Hmmmmmnnn= cards or cancer ? tough call

Your not different, your not a bigger addict, your not some special case. YOu don't have it any worse than any of us here.

The only difference between you and a heroin addict is your choice of drugs.

Don't be a spineless jellytard get it done or go die somewhere else.

Skoal Monster ( Im not so great) but I still hope you quit
Here's a thought --

Skip a card game and Start a QUIT

If you won't do it for your life, take a minute and think about how the mathematics make sense

I don't know where you are, but in New York I was paying upwards of $6/can
Let's say you're paying $5/can
That's $15/day on your 3 can/day habit
If you don't go play cards this week, and invest in your quit instead, by next week you'll have 7 X 15 = $105 to put towards your ante

And... dig this:
If you invest in your quit starting today, but skip cards next week also, you'll have 2 weeks of savings wrapped up ....... 14 Days X $15/day = $210

What if you quit a 3 can/day habit for one month. I see $440 in your near future.

What if you quit for one year? $440/month X 12 months = $5,280

Now, I'm a newbie (merely 43 Days) but I feel pretty safe in saying that I can guarantee you there are greater rewards to THE QUIT than keeping track of monies saved, but... looking at $440/month ain't such a bad place to start.

P.S. -- If your card buddies aren't man enough to support your quit, whether they're quitting with you or not, then you might consider asking yourself what the definition of friendship is and whether those folks have any place in it anymore.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: luv2ski on January 17, 2010, 01:12:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE LOVE YOU ALL HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
Or try this - be a pussy and die - don't quit your choice.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: ahfull on January 17, 2010, 03:17:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE LOVE YOU ALL HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
Please write legible sentences...god damn.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: JonnyLaw on January 17, 2010, 06:53:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
thank you tapa theos 3 wood johhny lasw mule retrain 14 skoal monster smokeyyg nkt  SKOALMONSTER YOU ARE MAKING  THINK I CAN DO THIS
I CANT LIE TO YOU I AM NOW CHEWING AS I WORITE THIS POSTEEE TONIGHT AND FEEL HORRI BLE TO SAY THAT BUT I WONT LIE !!!! I HAVE NOT POSTED YET BUT PROMISED SKOAL MONSTER I WOULD IN MY MIND IM ALREADYY PLANNING ANOTHER CHEW AT THE CARDS IM GOING TO  BE PLAYING ON SAT AND I DID DO  GOOD TODAY FOR ME CUT OUT 2 TINS I NORMALLYY DO 3 TINS THATS AMAZ
INGG FOR ME BUT IVE GOT TO TELL YOU   IM TEERRRIFIDE TO PLAN A QUIT D
AY AND GO TO PLAY CARDS SO  I WILL SIGN OFF THANKS TO EVERYBODY HELPING ME AND EVERYBODY ELSE HERE ON THIS WEBSTIE YOU ARE
AWESOME   I CANT BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SO MANY NICE PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ADDICTION I HAVE   LOVE YOU ALL  HOPE TO POST TOMMOROW THANKYOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT YOUR GREAT
Reading your message I thought I'd opened up some Nigerian spam mail.

If not for all that scam mail, two years in the Army Signal Corps, and my secret gibberish decoder ring I got from a box of Pansy Puffs I'd never have been able to decipher your message.

I think I've gotten the gist of what you are saying... you are being a tard by using tobacco while posting on this board, you are planning to use again, and you're scared of going to your card game without your tobacco.

Guess what? I see Skoal everywhere around me. I have family who use, my best friend uses, and eight outta ten of my coworkers use. I still have quit. You think the card game is going to trigger you to dip, skip a week or two until you are confident enough with your quit that you aren't going to THROW AWAY YOUR QUIT for a lousy game of cards.

If I was awake and not eating, getting laid or brushing my teeth I had Skoal in my lips. I would wake up and put dip in, watch some news, drink some coffee, fix breakfast, take the pinch out, eat, brush, put a pinch in as I showered, kiss the wife good morning, and get in the truck. At some point, either on my way to work or once I was there I would put another pinch in, and I would take one pinch out to put a fresh one in all day long, all afternoon long, and until I went to bed.

I was up to a minimum of two cans a day, sometimes I easily hit three cans. And while I may be leaning hard on this group, bitching about how the first four days of quit suck, I've still quit. YOU CAN QUIT TOO.

Going from three cans to one doesn't make you a quitter. Going from any cans to NO CANS makes you a quitter. What would be AMMMAZZZ INNG would be for you to quit.

In the end it's up to you... Make up your mind, you either quit or you don't. My wife can't quit for me; none of my buddies can quit for me; only I can quit. You are the only one who can made the decision to quit.

Rather than planning another chew, why don't you plan a day to quit?

As for you rubbing snuff while you're typing a message on this board... 'Finger' that's pretty damn disrespectful.
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]Well]index.php?showtopic=1360 (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=1360%5B/URL)]Well[/url], it really comes down to respect. We have men and women who are fighting a battle to kick this deadly habit to the ground and it really wouldnÂ’t be right or fair for someone with a lip full of dip to be posting with them. As one quitter put it, that would be like bringing a 6 pack to an AA meeting.
I hope you quit, I really do. But it ain't up to me.

Jonny Law
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: redtrain14 on January 17, 2010, 08:10:00 AM
WP

We were all terrified to plan a quit day. How the hell can we ever get through life without it? Well, let me tell you that its possible and better that you can imagine. Quit worrying about a year in the future, worry about today....or the period of time between 1:05pm and 1:06pm. Stop planning, the more you think and obsess about it, the worse it will get.

Sack up, toss your tin and post roll call. Until then, post out in the Quit Cafe, this area is for people that are quit.

Oh, and ease up on the beer a bit when you first quit.

RT 711


Also, your thread title says "i still need help", we can't help you until YOU make a decision. Ball is in your court......
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: mule on January 17, 2010, 10:28:00 AM
First....don't disrespect this site by posting with dip in your lip......

The following is the first post written by one of the admins on this site, LooT whose example and encouragement have been a major contribution to my quit over the past 746 days...he gave a shit and decided to help me and tons of other quitters here. I have met LooT and thanked him in person and am pleased to call him my friend. You should know, LooT is over 6' and honestly is the type of individual that ain't afraid of much.....the kinda guy you want on your side if the shit hits the fan....

Read this carefully, flush your can, go to April 10 and post day one....

LooT, me and a whole buncha other folks will be there to help you.


LooT's First Post


My name is JamesÂ…and IÂ’m scared. Like most of youÂ’d, IÂ’d never admit it to anyone in person, but I can freely admit it behind the anonymity of a keyboard. June 2nd Â’05 is my FIANL quit day. I had an endoscopy first thing on that Thursday morning. I have been having stomach problems for several years and the endoscopy was the latest effort to try and figure out what is wrong with me.

The last thing I told the doctor as I was laying on the table was “Check my esophagus real good. I’ve dipped a can or more of Copenhagen daily for 20 years. My uncle has half a face from dipping…my grandmother died of esophageal cancer from dipping. Look me over good…and biopsy anything that looks suspicious…please.”

I made myself a deal in the weeks prior to my procedure…”If you come out of the hospital with no signs of mouth/throat cancer, you’ll quit…forever this time and consider yourself damned lucky.” I didn’t get to talk to the doctor after the procedure, but he told my girlfriend everything looked good. He took several biopsies and I need to go back to see him in 2 weeks for those results. GERD, and a small hernia has caused my stomach problems. I also have an enflamed esophagus. The doc thinks that’s from the reflux.

So, everything seems to have worked out well. So why am I scared? One wordÂ…FAILURE. This has been the one thing in my life that I have been the worst at (and I suck at a lot of things). I lose every time. IÂ’ve used the same reasons to quit you guys have. My two beautiful sons, whom I love more than anything in this world, werenÂ’t reason enough to quit. My marriage, my family, none of it has been a good enough reason. Nothing ever works for long. Anyone else actually bite sores on the inside of your lip so you canÂ’t dip? I have and then IÂ’ve dealt with the stinging of Copenhagen on a fresh wound an hour later.

I’ve been down this road so many times. I once quit for 18 months. Yep…18 whole months and I thought I had it beaten. I had to make a 14 hour drive to Wisconsin in a Ryder truck with no radio, and I was alone. Out of boredom, I bought a can for the ride to “keep me awake”. That was one of the worst decisions I’ve ever made.

ItÂ’s been a 5 day roller coaster (on day 6)Â…but IÂ’m handling it pretty well. I know IÂ’m an addict and will be until the day I die. That has been my biggest revelation this week.

ItÂ’s time to give it up. Not for my kids, not for financial reasons, not for my girlfriendÂ…this time it will be for me because IÂ’m tired of being ruled by a damned can of CopenhagenÂ…and IÂ’m luckyÂ….very lucky. All the other things will be icing on the cake.

This time will be different. It has to be. Failure is not an option. This post has been somewhat therapeutic. Thanks for the opportunity.

My name is JamesÂ…and IÂ’m scared.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: workinprogress on January 17, 2010, 02:26:00 PM
Thanks to all the support on this site i finally posted today so just wanted to say Thankyou to every one and if you have any suggestions how to get through this 1st day I am open to any suggestions or tips im about 8 hours in and the withdrawal is driving me nuts
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: nkt on January 17, 2010, 02:42:00 PM
Quote from: workinprogress
Thanks to all the support on this site i finally posted today so just wanted to say Thankyou to every one and if you have any suggestions how to get through this 1st day I am open to any suggestions or tips im about 8 hours in and the withdrawal is driving me nuts
I noticed that it was the worst when I was trying to get away from it. There's really nothing to do during the first few days but wait it out. It's difficult, but try to think about other things and find other things to do.

Mostly, you just need to accept that you're going to be uncomfortable, and be ready to live with it. It won't hurt you, and it is temporary. You can do this!
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: JonnyLaw on January 17, 2010, 10:00:00 PM
Quote from: workinprogress
Thanks to all the support on this site i finally posted today so just wanted to say Thankyou to every one and if you have any suggestions how to get through this 1st day I am open to any suggestions or tips im about 8 hours in and the withdrawal is driving me nuts
I spent my first three days 'bang head' and 'Popcorn' like crazy. Don't cave in my man, I am on day five, and I tell you I thought everyone was full of shit when they told me it would get better... BUT IT DOES!
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: SeattleCJ on January 17, 2010, 11:52:00 PM
Quote from: JonnyLaw
Quote from: workinprogress
Thanks to all the support on this site i finally posted today so just wanted to say Thankyou to every one and if you have any suggestions how to get through this 1st day I am open to any suggestions or tips  im about 8 hours in and the withdrawal is driving me nuts
I spent my first three days 'bang head' and 'Popcorn' like crazy. Don't cave in my man, I am on day five, and I tell you I thought everyone was full of shit when they told me it would get better... BUT IT DOES!
WIP- The first few days are gonna suck bad. But you can do it. Get everything you are going to need to get through it. Stock up on seeds, gum, candy, straws, or anything else, besides nic, to help take the edge off.

Drink lots of fluids and don't sit around. Get up and be active. Take a long walk everytime you feel yourself going over the edge. I was very nervous and anxious that first week or so and I would pace back in forth in the living room in the middle of the night. That helped me...Plus I just couldn't sit still.

You can do this. Everyday gets a little bit better and with each day you will definitely feel an accomplishment. Use that to get through the next day.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: workinprogress on January 21, 2010, 11:20:00 PM
posted roll posted roll caved posted roll posted roll posted roll and fucking caved again i thought when i acuatlly figured out how to post correctly i had this nic bitch beat i was so confident this morning i said never again with a smug arrogance that nicotine had nothing on me I WAS WRONG I FAILED YOU GUYS AGAIN I JUST WANT FUCKING CHEW TO END SKOAL DONT GIVE ME SHIT SAYING I MAKING
A MOKERY OF THIS WEBSITE ITS THE OPPOSITE IM BEGGING FOR MORE HELP AND SUPPORT THIS SITE IS THE ONLY REASON I WAS ABLE TO GO 3 DAYS IN THE LAST 7 YEARS I KNOW ITS STILL SHITTY BUT ITS AMAZING!!!! FOR ME I FEEL IF I WORK HARDER WITH MY ADDICTION I CAN BEAT IT WITH YOU GUYS ITS OBVIOUS I CANT DO IT BY MYSELF I WILL POST AGAIN FOR THE 1ST TIME TOMMOROW AND AM GRATEFUL FOR ANY HELP
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: greg40 on January 21, 2010, 11:32:00 PM
Quote from: workinprogress
posted roll posted roll caved posted roll posted roll posted roll and fucking caved again i thought when i acuatlly figured out how to post correctly i had this nic bitch beat i was so confident this morning i said never again with a smug arrogance that nicotine had nothing on me I WAS WRONG I FAILED YOU GUYS AGAIN I JUST WANT FUCKING CHEW TO END SKOAL DONT GIVE ME SHIT SAYING I MAKING
A MOKERY OF THIS WEBSITE ITS THE OPPOSITE IM BEGGING FOR MORE HELP AND SUPPORT THIS SITE IS THE ONLY REASON I WAS ABLE TO GO 3 DAYS IN THE LAST 7 YEARS I KNOW ITS STILL SHITTY BUT ITS AMAZING!!!! FOR ME I FEEL IF I WORK HARDER WITH MY ADDICTION I CAN BEAT IT WITH YOU GUYS ITS OBVIOUS I CANT DO IT BY MYSELF I WILL POST AGAIN FOR THE 1ST TIME TOMMOROW AND AM GRATEFUL FOR ANY HELP
You are only making a mockery of yourself with your fucking pussy caving. Are you really ready to quit, or are you a fucking troll with too much time on your hands? If you really want to quit, we will help. Here's how you quit....minute to minute...don't put that shit in your mouth. Come on here...rant...go to chat and rage...just do not put that shit in your mouth. I chewed between 2 and 3 cans per day right before I quit. You're situation IS NOT UNIQUE!!! The only difference between you and all the successful quitters here is BALLS!!! Do you have any?
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: workinprogress on January 22, 2010, 12:24:00 AM
Quote from: greg40
Quote from: workinprogress
posted roll posted roll  caved posted roll posted roll posted roll and fucking caved again i thought when i acuatlly figured out how to post correctly i had this nic bitch beat i was so confident this morning i said never again with  a smug arrogance that nicotine had nothing on me I WAS WRONG I FAILED YOU GUYS AGAIN I JUST WANT FUCKING CHEW TO END    SKOAL DONT GIVE ME SHIT SAYING I MAKING
A MOKERY OF THIS WEBSITE ITS THE OPPOSITE IM BEGGING FOR MORE HELP AND SUPPORT THIS SITE IS THE ONLY REASON I WAS ABLE TO GO 3 DAYS IN THE LAST 7 YEARS  I KNOW ITS STILL SHITTY BUT ITS AMAZING!!!! FOR ME I FEEL IF I WORK HARDER WITH MY ADDICTION I CAN BEAT IT WITH YOU GUYS ITS OBVIOUS I CANT DO IT BY MYSELF    I WILL POST AGAIN FOR THE 1ST TIME TOMMOROW AND AM GRATEFUL FOR ANY HELP
You are only making a mockery of yourself with your fucking pussy caving. Are you really ready to quit, or are you a fucking troll with too much time on your hands? If you really want to quit, we will help. Here's how you quit....minute to minute...don't put that shit in your mouth. Come on here...rant...go to chat and rage...just do not put that shit in your mouth. I chewed between 2 and 3 cans per day right before I quit. You're situation IS NOT UNIQUE!!! The only difference between you and all the successful quitters here is BALLS!!! Do you have any?
YES I DO I WILL SHOW YOU TOMMOROW JUST WATCH ROLL CALL
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Rkymtnman on January 22, 2010, 12:48:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
Quote from: greg40
Quote from: workinprogress
posted roll posted roll  caved posted roll posted roll posted roll and fucking caved again i thought when i acuatlly figured out how to post correctly i had this nic bitch beat i was so confident this morning i said never again with  a smug arrogance that nicotine had nothing on me I WAS WRONG I FAILED YOU GUYS AGAIN I JUST WANT FUCKING CHEW TO END    SKOAL DONT GIVE ME SHIT SAYING I MAKING
A MOKERY OF THIS WEBSITE ITS THE OPPOSITE IM BEGGING FOR MORE HELP AND SUPPORT THIS SITE IS THE ONLY REASON I WAS ABLE TO GO 3 DAYS IN THE LAST 7 YEARS  I KNOW ITS STILL SHITTY BUT ITS AMAZING!!!! FOR ME I FEEL IF I WORK HARDER WITH MY ADDICTION I CAN BEAT IT WITH YOU GUYS ITS OBVIOUS I CANT DO IT BY MYSELF    I WILL POST AGAIN FOR THE 1ST TIME TOMMOROW AND AM GRATEFUL FOR ANY HELP
You are only making a mockery of yourself with your fucking pussy caving. Are you really ready to quit, or are you a fucking troll with too much time on your hands? If you really want to quit, we will help. Here's how you quit....minute to minute...don't put that shit in your mouth. Come on here...rant...go to chat and rage...just do not put that shit in your mouth. I chewed between 2 and 3 cans per day right before I quit. You're situation IS NOT UNIQUE!!! The only difference between you and all the successful quitters here is BALLS!!! Do you have any?
YES I DO I WILL SHOW YOU TOMMOROW JUST WATCH ROLL CALL
Done that already.

Twice.

Talk is cheap my friend.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Highway48 on January 22, 2010, 12:49:00 AM
Quote from: workinprogress
Quote from: greg40
Quote from: workinprogress
posted roll posted roll  caved posted roll posted roll posted roll and fucking caved again i thought when i acuatlly figured out how to post correctly i had this nic bitch beat i was so confident this morning i said never again with  a smug arrogance that nicotine had nothing on me I WAS WRONG I FAILED YOU GUYS AGAIN I JUST WANT FUCKING CHEW TO END    SKOAL DONT GIVE ME SHIT SAYING I MAKING
A MOKERY OF THIS WEBSITE ITS THE OPPOSITE IM BEGGING FOR MORE HELP AND SUPPORT THIS SITE IS THE ONLY REASON I WAS ABLE TO GO 3 DAYS IN THE LAST 7 YEARS  I KNOW ITS STILL SHITTY BUT ITS AMAZING!!!! FOR ME I FEEL IF I WORK HARDER WITH MY ADDICTION I CAN BEAT IT WITH YOU GUYS ITS OBVIOUS I CANT DO IT BY MYSELF    I WILL POST AGAIN FOR THE 1ST TIME TOMMOROW AND AM GRATEFUL FOR ANY HELP
You are only making a mockery of yourself with your fucking pussy caving. Are you really ready to quit, or are you a fucking troll with too much time on your hands? If you really want to quit, we will help. Here's how you quit....minute to minute...don't put that shit in your mouth. Come on here...rant...go to chat and rage...just do not put that shit in your mouth. I chewed between 2 and 3 cans per day right before I quit. You're situation IS NOT UNIQUE!!! The only difference between you and all the successful quitters here is BALLS!!! Do you have any?
YES I DO I WILL SHOW YOU TOMMOROW JUST WATCH ROLL CALL
its past midnight so it is tomorrow... if you had the balls you would commit for the whole 24 hours
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: redtrain14 on January 22, 2010, 08:47:00 AM
Your intro's have received as much attention as anyone. How much more support do you want? You come in here, post roll call, leave and then come back a day later and start a new intro thread saying you caved. What are people supposed to think?

Post your day 1, park your ass on this website, read everything you can, get into chat, if you have to stay logged in for 72hrs...so be it. At very least, get in here when times are unbearable to get some help. Get a phone number of one of your Apr '10 bro's.......something....anything.

Life is not going to be normal for a while, deal with it. We can only support you as much as you allow us. If you post roll then shove a dip in your mouth when times get tough, we can't help you.

You sound desparate my friend....time to take desparate measures.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: jbeee on January 22, 2010, 11:12:00 AM
You're kidding us, right? You mean to say that you can't defeat a habit that has been with you what?..7 years? And yet, here I am among others who have had this habit for more than 20 years, and we had the balls to say "Enough". Look around you, man.

There are guys here who have been quit for years..guys who have been quit for months..and guys like me, barely three weeks in and here we are..STRUGGLING..doing what we can to stay quit and here your pussy-ass comes in and whines about caving. Jesus, dude..spare us your crying about "I caved..waaaa..waaa..waaaaaa" I would almost bet you're one of those dudes who likes to talk about kicking somebodys ass..or how many women you've banged or some other asshole-ish shit like that, and you can't even turn your back on a can of dip?

So..here it is. I'll be quit with you as long as you spare me your crying ass bitch waaa waa waaa. Fuck, I'll even mail you a 3 pack of Trident gum, give you my phone number/email or whatever it takes as long as I don't have to come back here to see you caving AGAIN. You obviously want to quit or you wouldn't be here.
3 days dude...3 fucking days and the nic bitch is practically gone. It's that fucking easy. I dipped for 27 years..27! I am 19 days in and the thought of putting in a dip disgusts me. Yes, that can be you..

Focus dude..or get the hell out of here.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: bman50317 on January 22, 2010, 12:15:00 PM
Quote from: jbeee
You're kidding us, right? You mean to say that you can't defeat a habit that has been with you what?..7 years? And yet, here I am among others who have had this habit for more than 20 years, and we had the balls to say "Enough". Look around you, man.
come on jbeee.....obviously he is much more addicted than the rest of us.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: fourwide on January 22, 2010, 03:35:00 PM
You are a fucking queer
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: LaQuitter on January 22, 2010, 04:29:00 PM
You will receive all the support you need. Open your eyes, and look around you. Get involved.

But we cannot quit for you. Time to sack up. There are tools available here to ASSIST you. Use them. Ultimately, however, only you puts that shit into your mouth.

Just quit, and do whatever it takes to stay quit, one day at a time. 3 days, then it's all mind games.

Your move.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Rook on January 24, 2010, 05:43:00 PM
No Balls! Enjoy the Cave.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Rook on January 24, 2010, 05:44:00 PM
Quote from: jbeee
You're kidding us, right? You mean to say that you can't defeat a habit that has been with you what?..7 years? And yet, here I am among others who have had this habit for more than 20 years, and we had the balls to say "Enough". Look around you, man.

There are guys here who have been quit for years..guys who have been quit for months..and guys like me, barely three weeks in and here we are..STRUGGLING..doing what we can to stay quit and here your pussy-ass comes in and whines about caving. Jesus, dude..spare us your crying about "I caved..waaaa..waaa..waaaaaa" I would almost bet you're one of those dudes who likes to talk about kicking somebodys ass..or how many women you've banged or some other asshole-ish shit like that, and you can't even turn your back on a can of dip?

So..here it is. I'll be quit with you as long as you spare me your crying ass bitch waaa waa waaa. Fuck, I'll even mail you a 3 pack of Trident gum, give you my phone number/email or whatever it takes as long as I don't have to come back here to see you caving AGAIN. You obviously want to quit or you wouldn't be here.
3 days dude...3 fucking days and the nic bitch is practically gone. It's that fucking easy. I dipped for 27 years..27! I am 19 days in and the thought of putting in a dip disgusts me. Yes, that can be you..

Focus dude..or get the hell out of here.
This is a great post!
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: mule on January 24, 2010, 07:02:00 PM
Quote from: Rook
Quote from: jbeee
You're kidding us, right? You mean to say that you can't defeat a habit that has been with you what?..7 years? And yet, here I am among others who have had this habit for more than 20 years, and we had the balls to say "Enough". Look around you, man.

There are guys here who have been quit for years..guys who have been quit for months..and guys like me, barely three weeks in and here we are..STRUGGLING..doing what we can to stay quit and here your pussy-ass comes in and whines about caving. Jesus, dude..spare us your crying about "I caved..waaaa..waaa..waaaaaa" I would almost bet you're one of those dudes who likes to talk about kicking somebodys ass..or how many women you've banged or some other asshole-ish shit like that, and you can't even turn your back on a can of dip?

So..here it is. I'll be quit with you as long as you spare me your crying ass bitch waaa waa waaa. Fuck, I'll even mail you a 3 pack of Trident gum, give you my phone number/email or whatever it takes as long as I don't have to come back here to see you caving AGAIN. You obviously want to quit or you wouldn't be here.
3 days dude...3 fucking days and the nic bitch is practically gone. It's that fucking easy. I dipped for 27 years..27! I am 19 days in and the thought of putting in a dip disgusts me. Yes, that can be you..

Focus dude..or get the hell out of here.
This is a great post!
nice jbeee.....like you i dipped for almost 30 years.....I posted roll this morning first thing....before i do anything else, i log on and give my word that for Today....

I will not have any nicotine.....


same as the 753 days before today. You seem to get it already jbeee.

post roll with ole mule in April 08. We, same as you, take this shit very serious.

WIP....you doosh. quit or be gone....your call.....

yeah, it's tough at times......but so is deciding how much of your face you get to keep.
Title: Re: i need help
Post by: Phat Pauly on January 24, 2010, 09:55:00 PM
Quote from: mule21
Quote from: Rook
Quote from: jbeee
You're kidding us, right? You mean to say that you can't defeat a habit that has been with you what?..7 years? And yet, here I am among others who have had this habit for more than 20 years, and we had the balls to say "Enough". Look around you, man.

There are guys here who have been quit for years..guys who have been quit for months..and guys like me, barely three weeks in and here we are..STRUGGLING..doing what we can to stay quit and here your pussy-ass comes in and whines about caving. Jesus, dude..spare us your crying about "I caved..waaaa..waaa..waaaaaa" I would almost bet you're one of those dudes who likes to talk about kicking somebodys ass..or how many women you've banged or some other asshole-ish shit like that, and you can't even turn your back on a can of dip?

So..here it is. I'll be quit with you as long as you spare me your crying ass bitch waaa waa waaa. Fuck, I'll even mail you a 3 pack of Trident gum, give you my phone number/email or whatever it takes as long as I don't have to come back here to see you caving AGAIN. You obviously want to quit or you wouldn't be here.
3 days dude...3 fucking days and the nic bitch is practically gone. It's that fucking easy. I dipped for 27 years..27! I am 19 days in and the thought of putting in a dip disgusts me. Yes, that can be you..

Focus dude..or get the hell out of here.
This is a great post!
nice jbeee.....like you i dipped for almost 30 years.....I posted roll this morning first thing....before i do anything else, i log on and give my word that for Today....

I will not have any nicotine.....


same as the 753 days before today. You seem to get it already jbeee.

post roll with ole mule in April 08. We, same as you, take this shit very serious.

WIP....you doosh. quit or be gone....your call.....

yeah, it's tough at times......but so is deciding how much of your face you get to keep.
Uh fellas? I know I'm a fuckin new guy.... but I think this boy here is fuckin' around.

I don't think he's got any intent to quit. He's probably sittin there in a pair of mama's purty panties and jerking off giggling while we try and help.

Time to put up or shut up WIP. I've chewed for 23 yrs... you're goddam right it's hard to quit. The reason the guys that hang in there on this site don't cave is that they are committed... and more importantly MEN of their word.

If you can't (or don't intend to) keep your word, I (and I'm betting a lot of others) have absolutely zero time for you.

Quit, or don't quit. Just quit fucking around already!