KillTheCan.org Accountability Forum
Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Jt2285 on December 31, 2015, 04:59:00 AM
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Hi my name is JT. It is really late, I appologoize if things get random, but it is time to speak my mind. I just came across this website, my wife asked me to set a date for quitting, I've done this a handful of times but have never made it past a few days, hours, even minutes. I told her New Year's Eve would be my last day. Fate, has a weird way of working. I wasn't even looking to quit, nor had any intention of following through with what I told my wife. Yet, here I am, after reading articles from this site, and posts from all of you. I flushed my remaining tins and more than ever want to never put the nasty stuff in my mouth. I will be in the April quit month group. The reason I put help on the topic line is because I might need one or a few or many of your support for these first few days. I seriously am afraid of the withdrawals and symptom stage but I need to fight this awful addiction. Good night. Pm me, or however you want to communicate please let me know. Take care, thanks for reading
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Hi my name is JT. It is really late, I appologoize if things get random, but it is time to speak my mind. I just came across this website, my wife asked me to set a date for quitting, I've done this a handful of times but have never made it past a few days, hours, even minutes. I told her New Year's Eve would be my last day. Fate, has a weird way of working. I wasn't even looking to quit, nor had any intention of following through with what I told my wife. Yet, here I am, after reading articles from this site, and posts from all of you. I flushed my remaining tins and more than ever want to never put the nasty stuff in my mouth. I will be in the April quit month group. The reason I put help on the topic line is because I might need one or a few or many of your support for these first few days. I seriously am afraid of the withdrawals and symptom stage but I need to fight this awful addiction. Good night. Pm me, or however you want to communicate please let me know. Take care, thanks for reading
Good morning sir. You have just made one of the best decisions of your life.
My name is Michael, and I'm an addict. Joining Ktc and following the plan here allows me to win every day at something that I lost at daily for 9,000 days. If you follow the plan, you'll win too.
Brotherhood (making contacts/sending texts/building a team of fellow quitters) + accountability (posting roll every day in your April group as soon as your eyes open ) = success!
I see that you posted something in April. Go back and type your name and "day 1". It will feel so liberating. And it lifts a weight off your shoulders. Because today, unlike the attempts you've made in the past, you quit. Putting your name down means, as a man of your word, today is in the books.
My number is in your pm. Ill watch for a text from you today. And today I quit with you. You can do this.
-w2w
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Great decision. Posting your Jt and a day 1 in April will feel good as Worktowin points out. Putting your Jt and Day 2 in April will feel better.
Drink lots of water, exercise, read more of the Words of Wisdom and Hall of Fame speeches here. You might want to get hard candy or (nicotine free) gum or fake chew to ease craves for a while. (Don't worry, you will not want these so much later on).
Reach out to your group, or on CHAT... especially aim any quit rage here and not at your family (we can take it). Takes a while, but it will get better.
I quit with you today.
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JT,
You have all the help you are willing to accept here. Everyone on this site is here to help you! Having a bad day.......post something here. Having a good day.........post something here. Have the urge to vent.....do it here.
We all know where your coming from and we can take it. When you feel lost in the fog of your quit, reach out and someone will pull you through if your willing.
Drink the KTC Kool-aide man! Its the best descision you can make!
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And one more thing........your quit date. Whats this "i'm hoping this is my last day" crap. Make the descision that 12/31/15 IS the last day.
PM heading your way. Check you inbox..
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Thanks for the replies. I will get to the pm's as soon as I can. I love the support system, you people rock!
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First thing first go HERE (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/11465559/36/#new) and make your promise that you will not use nicotine today.
Or let me know here and i will get you on their for today.
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Jt-
The help is here, Do your part and the KTC brothers will do theirs!
Check your Pm for Digits
Quittolive
P.s. Read, Read, and Read more- it will save your Life
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Lots of good stuff already JT. Stick to the plan, keep your promise, and quit your ass off today. Start taking back your life, it's within your grasp right this second.
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Lots of good stuff already JT. Stick to the plan, keep your promise, and quit your ass off today. Start taking back your life, it's within your grasp right this second.
Never go back. Embrace the suck, you only gonna do this day once.
Stay connected. Be on roll every day early.
Be a man of your word.
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JT here is the links i was talking about on posting Roll.
This is WHY (http://www.killthecan.org/community/roll-call-why-we-do-it/)
This is HOW (http://www.killthecan.org/community/how-to-post-roll-call-roll-call-instructions/)
This is the WELCOME CENTER (http://www.killthecan.org/community/welcome-center/) with the above info and more.
This is WHAT TO EXPECT (http://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/what-to-expect-when-you-quit-dipping/) symptom wise any way.
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JT here is the links i was talking about on posting Roll.
This is WHY (http://www.killthecan.org/community/roll-call-why-we-do-it/)
This is HOW (http://www.killthecan.org/community/how-to-post-roll-call-roll-call-instructions/)
This is the WELCOME CENTER (http://www.killthecan.org/community/welcome-center/) with the above info and more.
This is WHAT TO EXPECT (http://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/what-to-expect-when-you-quit-dipping/) symptom wise any way.
Hi JT!
You made it past the first day! Be sure to post roll today bit is the cornerstone of success here. You've got this!
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Its Jan. 1st and day 2 for you Jt! Hope to see you on roll today.
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Jt great job posting your promise! Post early, every damn day (Edd) one day at a time (one day at a time) Damn proud of you! Quit with you today!