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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Minor on July 19, 2014, 03:46:00 PM
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
That is awesome Minor! We're going to quit with you one day at a time. If you were a wrestler, i know you know how to be disciplined and faithful. Be true to yourself, keep your word. Use the resources on here and get involved. The more involved you are, the stronger your quit will be.
The first few days will suck. No way around it, but just drink lots of water and get on chat, text, call whatever to keep that crap out of your mouth. It'll all be ok after a bit.
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Minor,
Think it is absolutely fantastic that you're quitting now....God knows I wish I had been as smart as you when I was your age. Stick close to this site. Read everything you can, because for the next few days/weeks, your life is going to SUCK. Exercise, water, water, gum, candy, seeds, fake....whatever you need to keep nicotine out of your system. Just remember, even though it may feel like it when the crave hits, nicotine withdrawal has NEVER killed anyone. Oral cancer, on the other hand, has killed far too many.
Stick with it...one day at a time, posting roll, honoring your post, building a network. You've just made one helluva intelligent choice; break free and stay free. With you all the way.
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Welcome Minor. One of the best decisions of your life. The place and its methods work if used as intended.
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
That is awesome Minor! We're going to quit with you one day at a time. If you were a wrestler, i know you know how to be disciplined and faithful. Be true to yourself, keep your word. Use the resources on here and get involved. The more involved you are, the stronger your quit will be.
The first few days will suck. No way around it, but just drink lots of water and get on chat, text, call whatever to keep that crap out of your mouth. It'll all be ok after a bit.
Welcome Minor,
so your reason for quitting is the fear of your family finding out?
That reason won't last long.
You didn't dip for them, so quitting for them isn't the answer.
you dipped because you're an addict of nicotine.
Quit for the addict in the mirror...no getting around it.
keep reading up in here and you'll find the tools to "be quit" ODAAT brother.
You can do this, but you have to reeeeeeaaalllllyyyy want it.
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
That is awesome Minor! We're going to quit with you one day at a time. If you were a wrestler, i know you know how to be disciplined and faithful. Be true to yourself, keep your word. Use the resources on here and get involved. The more involved you are, the stronger your quit will be.
The first few days will suck. No way around it, but just drink lots of water and get on chat, text, call whatever to keep that crap out of your mouth. It'll all be ok after a bit.
Welcome Minor,
so your reason for quitting is the fear of your family finding out?
That reason won't last long.
You didn't dip for them, so quitting for them isn't the answer.
you dipped because you're an addict of nicotine.
Quit for the addict in the mirror...no getting around it.
keep reading up in here and you'll find the tools to "be quit" ODAAT brother.
You can do this, but you have to reeeeeeaaalllllyyyy want it.
I do believe I'm ready quit I know it's stupid while I'm doin it
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
That is awesome Minor! We're going to quit with you one day at a time. If you were a wrestler, i know you know how to be disciplined and faithful. Be true to yourself, keep your word. Use the resources on here and get involved. The more involved you are, the stronger your quit will be.
The first few days will suck. No way around it, but just drink lots of water and get on chat, text, call whatever to keep that crap out of your mouth. It'll all be ok after a bit.
Welcome Minor,
so your reason for quitting is the fear of your family finding out?
That reason won't last long.
You didn't dip for them, so quitting for them isn't the answer.
you dipped because you're an addict of nicotine.
Quit for the addict in the mirror...no getting around it.
keep reading up in here and you'll find the tools to "be quit" ODAAT brother.
You can do this, but you have to reeeeeeaaalllllyyyy want it.
I do believe I'm ready quit I know it's stupid while I'm doin it
Get selfish with your quit. Do it for you. Because you'll be healthier. You'll add years to your life. You don't want to die young. You want high quality of life. You don't want to be a slave. You don't want cancer. You don't want your jaw bone replaced with part of your leg bone. Or your tongue replaced with part of your calf muscle. Get fucking slefish as shit about this quit. This quit is for you. Nobody else. Nicotine/tobacco never did shit for you. It held you back from your full potential. Realize your potential. Be a quitter.
I quit with you today. And the way we do it here is by quitting one day at a time. One day a time brother. You can do this.
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
That is awesome Minor! We're going to quit with you one day at a time. If you were a wrestler, i know you know how to be disciplined and faithful. Be true to yourself, keep your word. Use the resources on here and get involved. The more involved you are, the stronger your quit will be.
The first few days will suck. No way around it, but just drink lots of water and get on chat, text, call whatever to keep that crap out of your mouth. It'll all be ok after a bit.
Welcome Minor,
so your reason for quitting is the fear of your family finding out?
That reason won't last long.
You didn't dip for them, so quitting for them isn't the answer.
you dipped because you're an addict of nicotine.
Quit for the addict in the mirror...no getting around it.
keep reading up in here and you'll find the tools to "be quit" ODAAT brother.
You can do this, but you have to reeeeeeaaalllllyyyy want it.
I do believe I'm ready quit I know it's stupid while I'm doin it
Get selfish with your quit. Do it for you. Because you'll be healthier. You'll add years to your life. You don't want to die young. You want high quality of life. You don't want to be a slave. You don't want cancer. You don't want your jaw bone replaced with part of your leg bone. Or your tongue replaced with part of your calf muscle. Get fucking slefish as shit about this quit. This quit is for you. Nobody else. Nicotine/tobacco never did shit for you. It held you back from your full potential. Realize your potential. Be a quitter.
I quit with you today. And the way we do it here is by quitting one day at a time. One day a time brother. You can do this.
Welcome Minor, you've received some great advice above ... Pay attention to it, implement it, quit.
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Hi fellow dippers an quitters my name is minor I've been dipping Copenhagen since I was 14 I got sucked into the habit on the wrestling team in highschool it was weird some people puke there first time not me I instantly loved it and everything about it. The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit and I'm gonna kick this habit before I'm one of the guys on here that have been dipping for 20+ years so that's my story and reason behind my decision to quit
Congrats on your decision to quit. This site is a great resource. Make sure that you are quitting because you truly want to. Believe me, I tried to quit many times before I finally decided I wanted to quit for me.
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The majority of us have been liars and have used "ninja style' for years. It only works if you quit for you. It's nice to have your family feeding your drive to quit, but ultimately, it is about you saving your life......for you......and then by being around, you can give to, love, be with, live for them.....
So, go ahead and get selfish. I will quit with you, but for me.
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The reason I'm here quitting today is I can't bring myself to tell my family I dip I've been lying to them for a long time and it's either time to fess up or quit
All these quitters above nailed it my friend. ^^^^^ will only get you so far. You have to get real with one of the most addictive drugs known to man. Get selfish!
Warning; A lot of great quitters are here that were ninja dippers themselves. Just one observation that i've made. You might think it's hard telling them your a user, but wait until your a few days quit and you can't tell them your quit. Quitting is no joke. It will be one of the hardest things you are going to do. The mental game is hard, eventually you will have some rough times and your family will not be able to help you if they don't know what your going through. Telling them is up to you, but highly recommended.
Read, read and read. Start arming yourself with some knowledge. How bad do you really want it friend?
I do believe I'm ready quit I know it's stupid while I'm doin it
This ^^^^^^ will only get you through a day or two...... Take off the first three words and then it sounds more like we have some determination and drive. Jump in, I mean all the way brother. We're here to help. Need anything give a shout.
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Sage advice from some wise individuals who've been blazing this trail for a while. I do want to stress one thing. Tell your family. It would be best to tell them why you are about to be a raging dickhead than try to explain it all after the fact. This is not easy, and while this site is a major resource, having family around who are supportive makes all the difference. Tell them. I am reasonably sure that they will not cut off your hands, stone you, put you in the stockades, take away your phone, or burn you at the stake.
And chances are, they already know! Time to man up young buck. Take some accountability.
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Sage advice from some wise individuals who've been blazing this trail for a while. I do want to stress one thing. Tell your family. It would be best to tell them why you are about to be a raging dickhead than try to explain it all after the fact. This is not easy, and while this site is a major resource, having family around who are supportive makes all the difference. Tell them. I am reasonably sure that they will not cut off your hands, stone you, put you in the stockades, take away your phone, or burn you at the stake.
And chances are, they already know! Time to man up young buck. Take some accountability.
Very good advice here! Accountability is often discussed here on KTC, usually with your brothers of quit. There is NO greater accountability than all of those close to you, family ... Friends ... Loved ones. Tell them all, ask them to hold you accountable ... to help you stay quit. Then come here and do the same thing with the Titans in October. I truly believe accountability starts at home ... quit with you.
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Sage advice from some wise individuals who've been blazing this trail for a while. I do want to stress one thing. Tell your family. It would be best to tell them why you are about to be a raging dickhead than try to explain it all after the fact. This is not easy, and while this site is a major resource, having family around who are supportive makes all the difference. Tell them. I am reasonably sure that they will not cut off your hands, stone you, put you in the stockades, take away your phone, or burn you at the stake.
And chances are, they already know! Time to man up young buck. Take some accountability.
Very good advice here! Accountability is often discussed here on KTC, usually with your brothers of quit. There is NO greater accountability than all of those close to you, family ... Friends ... Loved ones. Tell them all, ask them to hold you accountable ... to help you stay quit. Then come here and do the same thing with the Titans in October. I truly believe accountability starts at home ... quit with you.
Minor, don't see your name on roll. Are you going to take this quit to the next level? Post roll and join are band of merry men?
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Minor,
How's it going today, man? Saw where you posted and got bumped....don't worry...happens all the time. Like they say, only way to really F up the roll is to not be on it...
You doing okay? Holler if you need to. Proud to be quit with you today.
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Thanks everybody you all are some badass quitters Forsure glad to be quit with all you brothers happy to find a place where people understand
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wanted all you good peoples time
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
You're an addict.
You've lied to and stolen time from everybody that you've loved. Being an addict means that you put that drug...that small little tin...above all others in this world.
Don't apologize to us, and don't give me that pity party.
You wanted to quit? Well, guess what? You know what it's like to fail now. Fucking pick yourself up and do it right. Don't lie there whining. You're better than that. You can be quit, but you have to stand up and want to be.
You can be pathetic, or you can be a god.
Your choice.
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Minor, let me list a few things that I don't care about....
1. Soccer
2. Romantic Comedies (Except Hitch)
3. Ultra Progressive Liberals
4. Reality TV
Those are just a few examples of things I could give a shit less about. Throwing out some "I simply don't care enough about myself" bushleague bullshit just doesn't cut it. I know your family factored in at some point, were you just to scared to tell them and caved? If your scared, say your scared. I understand that you are young 18 year old kid. You have to understand that fact does not elicit one bit of empathy from me or just about anyone else in here. Most of us were starting our lives the hard way at 18. You are at a true crossroads in your life. Choose a path. If you want to make an impression, go against the grain. Don't be one of these lay about pussies who take the next 8-10 years to "find themselves". The only thing they find are the best places to jerk off in their parents basement. Reach down, pull up your boot straps, be accountable, answer for your mistakes, ask forgiveness, then man the fuck up and post roll.
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Minor, let me list a few things that I don't care about....
1. Soccer
2. Romantic Comedies (Except Hitch)
3. Ultra Progressive Liberals
4. Reality TV
Those are just a few examples of things I could give a shit less about. Throwing out some "I simply don't care enough about myself" bushleague bullshit just doesn't cut it. I know your family factored in at some point, were you just to scared to tell them and caved? If your scared, say your scared. I understand that you are young 18 year old kid. You have to understand that fact does not elicit one bit of empathy from me or just about anyone else in here. Most of us were starting our lives the hard way at 18. You are at a true crossroads in your life. Choose a path. If you want to make an impression, go against the grain. Don't be one of these lay about pussies who take the next 8-10 years to "find themselves". The only thing they find are the best places to jerk off in their parents basement. Reach down, pull up your boot straps, be accountable, answer for your mistakes, ask forgiveness, then man the fuck up and post roll.
Said he started when he was 14 and has been dipping 20+ years. Not a teenage we are dealing with here. This is a grown ass man. A very scared one....
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Minor, let me list a few things that I don't care about....
1. Soccer
2. Romantic Comedies (Except Hitch)
3. Ultra Progressive Liberals
4. Reality TV
Those are just a few examples of things I could give a shit less about. Throwing out some "I simply don't care enough about myself" bushleague bullshit just doesn't cut it. I know your family factored in at some point, were you just to scared to tell them and caved? If your scared, say your scared. I understand that you are young 18 year old kid. You have to understand that fact does not elicit one bit of empathy from me or just about anyone else in here. Most of us were starting our lives the hard way at 18. You are at a true crossroads in your life. Choose a path. If you want to make an impression, go against the grain. Don't be one of these lay about pussies who take the next 8-10 years to "find themselves". The only thing they find are the best places to jerk off in their parents basement. Reach down, pull up your boot straps, be accountable, answer for your mistakes, ask forgiveness, then man the fuck up and post roll.
Said he started when he was 14 and has been dipping 20+ years. Not a teenage we are dealing with here. This is a grown ass man. A very scared one....
No, he said he didn't want to end up like us 20+ year losers. He posted in another forum that he was 18. Whether he's 18 or 38, still makes bad decisions!
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Minor, let me list a few things that I don't care about....
1. Soccer
2. Romantic Comedies (Except Hitch)
3. Ultra Progressive Liberals
4. Reality TV
Those are just a few examples of things I could give a shit less about. Throwing out some "I simply don't care enough about myself" bushleague bullshit just doesn't cut it. I know your family factored in at some point, were you just to scared to tell them and caved? If your scared, say your scared. I understand that you are young 18 year old kid. You have to understand that fact does not elicit one bit of empathy from me or just about anyone else in here. Most of us were starting our lives the hard way at 18. You are at a true crossroads in your life. Choose a path. If you want to make an impression, go against the grain. Don't be one of these lay about pussies who take the next 8-10 years to "find themselves". The only thing they find are the best places to jerk off in their parents basement. Reach down, pull up your boot straps, be accountable, answer for your mistakes, ask forgiveness, then man the fuck up and post roll.
Said he started when he was 14 and has been dipping 20+ years. Not a teenage we are dealing with here. This is a grown ass man. A very scared one....
No, he said he didn't want to end up like us 20+ year losers. He posted in another forum that he was 18. Whether he's 18 or 38, still makes bad decisions!
I only wish that when I was 18 or any age younger than I was one year ago that I had the brains to follow people with true wisdom and that people then would be willing to share their wisdom freely with me. If only that would have happened (the stars all aligned) I wouldn't have been one of those idiotic addicts for over 24 years.
None the less, I am a grown man and I quit after I learned the KTC way and opened my mind and ears to all the veterans here who enlightened me in my quit journey.
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Minor, let me list a few things that I don't care about....
1. Soccer
2. Romantic Comedies (Except Hitch)
3. Ultra Progressive Liberals
4. Reality TV
Those are just a few examples of things I could give a shit less about. Throwing out some "I simply don't care enough about myself" bushleague bullshit just doesn't cut it. I know your family factored in at some point, were you just to scared to tell them and caved? If your scared, say your scared. I understand that you are young 18 year old kid. You have to understand that fact does not elicit one bit of empathy from me or just about anyone else in here. Most of us were starting our lives the hard way at 18. You are at a true crossroads in your life. Choose a path. If you want to make an impression, go against the grain. Don't be one of these lay about pussies who take the next 8-10 years to "find themselves". The only thing they find are the best places to jerk off in their parents basement. Reach down, pull up your boot straps, be accountable, answer for your mistakes, ask forgiveness, then man the fuck up and post roll.
Said he started when he was 14 and has been dipping 20+ years. Not a teenage we are dealing with here. This is a grown ass man. A very scared one....
No, he said he didn't want to end up like us 20+ year losers. He posted in another forum that he was 18. Whether he's 18 or 38, still makes bad decisions!
My bad. His first post had like one period in it so I was a bit confused.
Smart enough to know he should quit, but too weak to do it.
Pretty much sums up the youth of America...and addicts.
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Minor, I used for 17 years. This weekend I had a wonderful mini vacation with relatives I don't see often, and it came up "not to chew" in the guest apartment we were using. So of course I was more than proud to tell them I was over 100 days quit. I received praise of course, but then for the next 5 minutes I had to hear how gross it was, and then stories of how after I would leave that their kids would find spit bottles and how the garbage would stink like chew.........I hope you get the picture.
My point is that while overall folks are happy I quit, I still have a reputation. I was mortified hearing those stories, and had to endure them with a smile on my face, all while wanting to hide. Don't be "the guy that chews", get back onto roll and quit today.
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
You're an addict.
You've lied to and stolen time from everybody that you've loved. Being an addict means that you put that drug...that small little tin...above all others in this world.
Don't apologize to us, and don't give me that pity party.
You wanted to quit? Well, guess what? You know what it's like to fail now. Fucking pick yourself up and do it right. Don't lie there whining. You're better than that. You can be quit, but you have to stand up and want to be.
You can be pathetic, or you can be a god.
Your choice.
Diesel and Waste nailed it. Just sad and pathetic. As 30 says, cavers find a way to cave, quitters find a way to quit. We can throw a rope, but he's gotta be man enough to grab it. A quitter just texted me and asked what it's like to be over three years quit and whether I ever have urges and thoughts of caving. I told him that I rarely have any real urge and when I do it doesn't even interrupt my day for two minutes. It pops in my head and gets immediately crushed. I think it's because I've talked so much trash here that it's impossible for me to cave and I'm still here posting daily. Whatever it is, I'm on a gravy train with biscuit wheels. I fought to get here and I CAN'T go back. I bet "just one" and I would never even have the courage to quit again.
So glad this place is here. So glad I accepted the rope. So glad I continue to be here accepting the rope and making my quit a priority.
Thanks to minor, I am reminded of how weak I used to allow myself to be. I'm not special. I'm not stronger than minor. I just WANTED to quit and stopped making excuses for being weak and pathetic and actually did something about it.
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
You're an addict.
You've lied to and stolen time from everybody that you've loved. Being an addict means that you put that drug...that small little tin...above all others in this world.
Don't apologize to us, and don't give me that pity party.
You wanted to quit? Well, guess what? You know what it's like to fail now. Fucking pick yourself up and do it right. Don't lie there whining. You're better than that. You can be quit, but you have to stand up and want to be.
You can be pathetic, or you can be a god.
Your choice.
Diesel and Waste nailed it. Just sad and pathetic. As 30 says, cavers find a way to cave, quitters find a way to quit. We can throw a rope, but he's gotta be man enough to grab it. A quitter just texted me and asked what it's like to be over three years quit and whether I ever have urges and thoughts of caving. I told him that I rarely have any real urge and when I do it doesn't even interrupt my day for two minutes. It pops in my head and gets immediately crushed. I think it's because I've talked so much trash here that it's impossible for me to cave and I'm still here posting daily. Whatever it is, I'm on a gravy train with biscuit wheels. I fought to get here and I CAN'T go back. I bet "just one" and I would never even have the courage to quit again.
So glad this place is here. So glad I accepted the rope. So glad I continue to be here accepting the rope and making my quit a priority.
Thanks to minor, I am reminded of how weak I used to allow myself to be. I'm not special. I'm not stronger than minor. I just WANTED to quit and stopped making excuses for being weak and pathetic and actually did something about it.
This ^^^^ ... just killed it. That made my quit stronger! Plus on top of the wisdom here ... I like biscuits and gravy, thanks G!
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
You're an addict.
You've lied to and stolen time from everybody that you've loved. Being an addict means that you put that drug...that small little tin...above all others in this world.
Don't apologize to us, and don't give me that pity party.
You wanted to quit? Well, guess what? You know what it's like to fail now. Fucking pick yourself up and do it right. Don't lie there whining. You're better than that. You can be quit, but you have to stand up and want to be.
You can be pathetic, or you can be a god.
Your choice.
Diesel and Waste nailed it. Just sad and pathetic. As 30 says, cavers find a way to cave, quitters find a way to quit. We can throw a rope, but he's gotta be man enough to grab it. A quitter just texted me and asked what it's like to be over three years quit and whether I ever have urges and thoughts of caving. I told him that I rarely have any real urge and when I do it doesn't even interrupt my day for two minutes. It pops in my head and gets immediately crushed. I think it's because I've talked so much trash here that it's impossible for me to cave and I'm still here posting daily. Whatever it is, I'm on a gravy train with biscuit wheels. I fought to get here and I CAN'T go back. I bet "just one" and I would never even have the courage to quit again.
So glad this place is here. So glad I accepted the rope. So glad I continue to be here accepting the rope and making my quit a priority.
Thanks to minor, I am reminded of how weak I used to allow myself to be. I'm not special. I'm not stronger than minor. I just WANTED to quit and stopped making excuses for being weak and pathetic and actually did something about it.
That's good stuff to read right there.
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I think there is a tale that needs to be revealed here....
'finger point'
Your right SD I'm not ready to quit I simply don't care about myself enough is sorry I wasted all you good peoples time
Just like that eh? Throwing in the towel and having yourself a pity party, too.
"...I simply don't care about myself..."
Don't think there's a more pathetic phrase one can utter.
We care about you and we don't know you from a hole in the ground.
I'd scream, yell, and call you names if I thought it would make a difference.
You sound like a loser. There's no place for losers here. You want to win and be surrounded by other winners, come on back.
I hope you enjoy stuffing your lip full of poison and spitting into a bottle. Still can't believe you love that more than you love yourself.
I pray you don't get cancer and die.
Good luck to you.
^^^^^^^^^EXACTLY RIGHT^^^^^^^^
You're an addict.
You've lied to and stolen time from everybody that you've loved. Being an addict means that you put that drug...that small little tin...above all others in this world.
Don't apologize to us, and don't give me that pity party.
You wanted to quit? Well, guess what? You know what it's like to fail now. Fucking pick yourself up and do it right. Don't lie there whining. You're better than that. You can be quit, but you have to stand up and want to be.
You can be pathetic, or you can be a god.
Your choice.
Diesel and Waste nailed it. Just sad and pathetic. As 30 says, cavers find a way to cave, quitters find a way to quit. We can throw a rope, but he's gotta be man enough to grab it. A quitter just texted me and asked what it's like to be over three years quit and whether I ever have urges and thoughts of caving. I told him that I rarely have any real urge and when I do it doesn't even interrupt my day for two minutes. It pops in my head and gets immediately crushed. I think it's because I've talked so much trash here that it's impossible for me to cave and I'm still here posting daily. Whatever it is, I'm on a gravy train with biscuit wheels. I fought to get here and I CAN'T go back. I bet "just one" and I would never even have the courage to quit again.
So glad this place is here. So glad I accepted the rope. So glad I continue to be here accepting the rope and making my quit a priority.
Thanks to minor, I am reminded of how weak I used to allow myself to be. I'm not special. I'm not stronger than minor. I just WANTED to quit and stopped making excuses for being weak and pathetic and actually did something about it.
That's good stuff to read right there.
My words haunt me
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My words haunt me
So ... don't let them! They'll be just a distant memory ... come on in and quit, it's in you ... or else you wouldn't still be hanging around. Reach down, hike the drawers up and be quit, and we'll be quit with you.
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My words haunt me
So ... don't let them! They'll be just a distant memory ... come on in and quit, it's in you ... or else you wouldn't still be hanging around. Reach down, hike the drawers up and be quit, and we'll be quit with you.
You gonna ba a bitch your whole life?
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Alright I know I'm finally ready to quit. This time it's for me not so my parents don't find out (which I learned recently they've known for awhile). This suprised me cause they never confronted me on it both of them smoke so maybe they thought it hypocritical but that's when I knew nobody will make me quit except myself that was about 3 weeks ago I continued dipping until yesterday at 4 pm when I swallowed a dip an puked my guys out for 15 min that was my Last draw I'm done now for good. Not to mention my raw gums. So I'm back on the Forums to take my punches
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Alright I know I'm finally ready to quit. This time it's for me not so my parents don't find out (which I learned recently they've known for awhile). This suprised me cause they never confronted me on it both of them smoke so maybe they thought it hypocritical but that's when I knew nobody will make me quit except myself that was about 3 weeks ago I continued dipping until yesterday at 4 pm when I swallowed a dip an puked my guys out for 15 min that was my Last draw I'm done now for good. Not to mention my raw gums. So I'm back on the Forums to take my punches
Glad you finally made that decision, as that is the absolute necessity that will drive your quit each day.
Just keep that up, make the promise each and every day, and then honor it.
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Alright I know I'm finally ready to quit. This time it's for me not so my parents don't find out (which I learned recently they've known for awhile). This suprised me cause they never confronted me on it both of them smoke so maybe they thought it hypocritical but that's when I knew nobody will make me quit except myself that was about 3 weeks ago I continued dipping until yesterday at 4 pm when I swallowed a dip an puked my guys out for 15 min that was my Last draw I'm done now for good. Not to mention my raw gums. So I'm back on the Forums to take my punches
Punch #1 - We do NOT tolerate E-cigs here, dickhead!
Fail!
Grow a spine, ditch the shit or GTFO.
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.
You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.
However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?
If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.
You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.
However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?
If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.
No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.
You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.
However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?
If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.
No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though
Good deal..
I see you posted a day 1 over in December. Congratulations on a fantastic decision.
This isn't going to be easy at first, remember these first few days... and know that you never have to go through them again.
Make your daily promise not to use nicotine for 24 hours... honor that promise, repeat.
The more you read, the more you get involved, the more you exchange numbers with people, the stronger your quit will be.
welcome to the freakshow!
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.
You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.
However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?
If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.
No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though
Good deal..
I see you posted a day 1 over in December. Congratulations on a fantastic decision.
This isn't going to be easy at first, remember these first few days... and know that you never have to go through them again.
Make your daily promise not to use nicotine for 24 hours... honor that promise, repeat.
The more you read, the more you get involved, the more you exchange numbers with people, the stronger your quit will be.
welcome to the freakshow!
This thread is a train wreck.
Minor, get your shit together. Being 18 does not necessarily make you stupid. I was a fucking genius when I was 18 compared to the way you come off. Don't use youth as an excuse to fail or an excuse to act like failure is not your fault.
I wish I had found this place when I was 18. Unfortunately, that was back before "the internet" was around.
If you give a shit, act like it. If you don't, come back when you're 10 years older, $20,000 poorer, and 1000% more likely to die of cancer.
Answer the three questions you bitched out without answering two months ago.
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Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know
Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.
You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.
However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?
If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.
No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though
Good deal..
I see you posted a day 1 over in December. Congratulations on a fantastic decision.
This isn't going to be easy at first, remember these first few days... and know that you never have to go through them again.
Make your daily promise not to use nicotine for 24 hours... honor that promise, repeat.
The more you read, the more you get involved, the more you exchange numbers with people, the stronger your quit will be.
welcome to the freakshow!
This thread is a train wreck.
Minor, get your shit together. Being 18 does not necessarily make you stupid. I was a fucking genius when I was 18 compared to the way you come off. Don't use youth as an excuse to fail or an excuse to act like failure is not your fault.
I wish I had found this place when I was 18. Unfortunately, that was back before "the internet" was around.
If you give a shit, act like it. If you don't, come back when you're 10 years older, $20,000 poorer, and 1000% more likely to die of cancer.
Answer the three questions you bitched out without answering two months ago.
shit... I thought that since you didn't know an ecig wasn't permitted you were new here!!!
Get your shit together and make up your mind that you want to do this.
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ANSWER THE THREE QUESTIONS OR get the F out of here!
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ANSWER THE THREE QUESTIONS OR get the F out of here!
What are the questions ?
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WTF I just finished that whole Introduction and all I heard was CAVE! Im also pissed because Smeds had to brings biscuits and gravy knowing its not breakfast time. Now I want some bg more than I want a dip. If im a little late on my roll call tomorrow its because I had to make an emergency stop to Bojangles!!!
Minor - I hope you make it. I'm 12 days into my quit. At some point someone stated that my quit sounded like something that just fell in my lap and they were not too far off with that assessment. Regardless this group, this site, and this system works. Without it, you will fail. My day 3 was so bad I had cave written all over me, but I went on this site and started reading and didn't stop until the panic feeling of not having a dip finally left me. Everyone is different, but I bet the vast majority would agree that day 1 is by far the hardest day. Making that decision and sticking to it for that first day takes balls. Get past the first three days and it gets a lot easier from there.
So here is the plan, go to Walmart tomorrow pick up some Smokey Mountain (Fake DIP) if they have it. Also, pick up some twizzlers, hot tamales, gum, hard candy or whatever you want to chew on. Then go home and start chewing one of these products and go on this site and start reading everything. You are pretty wishy washy at this point and there is a whole bunch of guys saying to you or to themselves that this son of a bitch is not ready to quit. So grow a pair and prove them wrong. Get past the next three days and stay on this site and read and ask questions and start meeting people and you will make it. Post Roll Call early tomorrow. Trust me, everyone on this site wants to see you on roll call tomorrow with a 2 beside your name. Don't let us down, but more importantly don't let yourself down.
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
I caved and am leaving the roll call
This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
I caved and am leaving the roll call
This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?
I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
I caved and am leaving the roll call
This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?
I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit
I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.
You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
I caved and am leaving the roll call
This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?
I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit
I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.
You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.
Dude...you're 30? Start acting like it.
You sound weak. Do you walk upright or do you just kind of slosh about like a glob of shit, due to your lack of having a spine? Seriously, GROW A PAIR.
You might want to lay off the booze as well, slick. It may in fact NOT be a good idea to get wasted with your budfie, as you know there's a high probability of "the tins coming out".
Gotta be honest...I'd be absolutely floored if your bitch ass made it to the hof. I'll be here in 100 to see if have to eat my words, will you?
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It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:
1) What happened?
2) Why did it happen?
3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?
Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.
1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready
I caved and am leaving the roll call
This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?
I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit
I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.
You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.
Dude...you're 30? Start acting like it.
You sound weak. Do you walk upright or do you just kind of slosh about like a glob of shit, due to your lack of having a spine? Seriously, GROW A PAIR.
You might want to lay off the booze as well, slick. It may in fact NOT be a good idea to get wasted with your budfie, as you know there's a high probability of "the tins coming out".
Gotta be honest...I'd be absolutely floored if your bitch ass made it to the hof. I'll be here in 100 to see if have to eat my words, will you?
Minor is 18. He was responding to 30yraddict.
Minor regardless of your age, the only way a quit will work is if you own your quit. What that means is you take responsibilities for your actions, you recognize that you are addicted to nicotine and you and only you can make the decision to not put that poison in your mouth. Look in the mirror- that is the person responsible for your addiction and that is the person that is responsible for your quit.
We can support you, we can help, we can give advice but you have to want it more than anything else you've wanted. Never again for any reason. You can do this if you want it bad enough. Wanting something and action are two different things. It's only through our actions that we can succeed.
Post roll early and be a man of your word. One day at a time.
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I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies
Wasn't such a good idea was it? Think you learned something about drinking?
It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is
Do you have a better grasp of this or is your head still in your ass?
it was my first time ever trying
We don't try or hope here. We quit!
I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me
To what leangths are you willing to go to break the chains?
I want to be QUIT
Then you better put on your big boy pants!
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I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies
Wasn't such a good idea was it? Think you learned something about drinking?
It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is
Do you have a better grasp of this or is your head still in your ass?
it was my first time ever trying
We don't try or hope here. We quit!
I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me
To what leangths are you willing to go to break the chains?
I want to be QUIT
Then you better put on your big boy pants!
Solid advice from a bad ass quitter above Minor!!! Now its time to come clean with your family with the dirty laundry while you are at it!!! It will add a layer of accountability and assure that you won't make the mistake again of shoving that shit in your pie hole. You may be surprised that by coming clean and admitting your mistakes from the past, your relationship with your family will grow. I too was a ninja with my family and while it was tough coming clean, I have no regrets now.
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Where the fuck are you? You're one of the youngest guys here and you've got a chance to beat this thing before it wrecks your life unlike the majority of the people on this site. A lot of people spent a lot of time making sure you weren't going to give up. It had better not have been for nothing.