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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: Big Ben on June 26, 2014, 07:43:00 PM

Title: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: Big Ben on June 26, 2014, 07:43:00 PM
My name is Ben. I'm 25. I'm currently not had a dip for 24 hours. I need serious help with site to talk. I can't focus shaking.
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: KDLforever on June 26, 2014, 07:59:00 PM
check your PM, you have my #. im in souther california so unless you are in hawaii, you are ahead of me time zone wise. Regardless, you can call or text anytime. Im 31 days quit so I have and am going through what you are going through. I will drop what i am doing to talk text you.
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: SirDerek on June 26, 2014, 08:00:00 PM
Quote from: Big
My name is Ben. I'm 25. I'm currently not had a dip for 24 hours. I need serious help with site to talk. I can't focus shaking.
Ben -

you got this and can do this. what you are feeling we have all been there and it is normal. saw you bounce in and our of chat, come on back in to talk as there are a few of us there
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: Grizzlyhasclaws on June 26, 2014, 08:12:00 PM
Quote from: SirDerek
Quote from: Big
My name is Ben. I'm 25. I'm currently not had a dip for 24 hours. I need serious help with site to talk. I can't focus shaking.
Ben -

you got this and can do this. what you are feeling we have all been there and it is normal. saw you bounce in and our of chat, come on back in to talk as there are a few of us there
Fight Ben. Drink tons of water. Go for a walk/jog. Take a shower. Go to bed early. Wake up tomorrow and put your name on roll call.

You can do this. I quit with you today.
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: RES17CUE on June 26, 2014, 08:16:00 PM
I know your pain Ben. I was there a week ago. You'll get through it. Drink water, post roll, and embrace the suck. This is a helluva support network. Don't let the recent drama deter you. Stick to your quit and ask for help if you need it. Hit me up in a pm if you need a phone number. I'm always available brother. QLF
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: wastepanel on June 26, 2014, 08:43:00 PM
What can I do for you Ben?

(I won't be going anywhere near a bathroom with you though.)
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: Bombero on June 27, 2014, 02:52:00 PM
You've got this. Just quit for the next ________ (Day, Hour, Minute, Second) and post roll. Yell, cuss, play solitaire, chat - just stay quit. It will get better, but until it doesn't suck, just keep quitting
Title: Re: bigben day 1feel terrible need help with this site
Post by: Radman on June 27, 2014, 03:10:00 PM
Welcome. These quitters have offered some advice.

I'll offer some honestly: it's gonna suck for a while. No two ways about it. We all cope differently. However, we all quit the same..... one day at a time.

Don't think about long-term quit. There is no way I can get my wrapped around that, but I guaran-damn-tee that I can quit for 24 hours. I can endure almost anything for one day.

Come back here tomorrow and renegotiate.