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Title: Chew and my sex life
Post by: foothillsco on May 22, 2015, 01:10:00 PM
Hi there.

I'm a skoal addict, one can per day since 1985.

I'm a lucky man in that I have many great things in my life. One of them is I have a beautiful 5-year old girl. I want to grow old watching her.

Another is my girlfriend.

My girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We used to have sex 3x a day for the first few years and it's slowly tapered down to 1x or 2x per day. We are year 6 and still hitting it. No matter what shit is happening in our lives, we always have our sex life.

Every now and then I would start to have erection problems. The solution was quit my Skoal. Quitting for a few days is easy. Staying quit is my problem and why I'm here. When I would quit, things would return to normal and then some. It was a mighty force to behold at day 14. Then something would stress me out, or I'd lie to myself and grab a can just to do this road trip for work, or just chew for this movie, damn, that tree branch needs cutting, guess ill get out my chainsaw and oh yeah, buy a can of skoal because it only runs on oil, gas and some dip in my mouth...

So I've gone back and forth and my addiction was so bad that I've even secretly taken Cialias so I can keep chewing and screwing.

Fellas (and ladies if your here), how stupid am I? I have a woman that just loves me. She loves just me. She has this sex drive that is off the charts and wants me to satisfy her constantly. Did I mention she is beautiful? And here I am sabotaging it for some poor excuses. So I can gross everyone out and have people make false assumptions about what I'm really like? By chewing, I'm saying no thanks, I'd rather not have sex this morning or again this evening.

Last week, I embarrassed myself in bed. She was cool, it's not always like that but we both knew what was happening.

Not anymore. I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want without taking a pill.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Grievous Angel on May 22, 2015, 03:31:00 PM
Quote from: foothillsco
Hi there.

I'm a skoal addict, one can per day since 1985.

I'm a lucky man in that I have many great things in my life. One of them is I have a beautiful 5-year old girl. I want to grow old watching her.

Another is my girlfriend.

My girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We used to have sex 3x a day for the first few years and it's slowly tapered down to 1x or 2x per day. We are year 6 and still hitting it. No matter what shit is happening in our lives, we always have our sex life.

Every now and then I would start to have erection problems. The solution was quit my Skoal. Quitting for a few days is easy. Staying quit is my problem and why I'm here. When I would quit, things would return to normal and then some. It was a mighty force to behold at day 14. Then something would stress me out, or I'd lie to myself and grab a can just to do this road trip for work, or just chew for this movie, damn, that tree branch needs cutting, guess ill get out my chainsaw and oh yeah, buy a can of skoal because it only runs on oil, gas and some dip in my mouth...

So I've gone back and forth and my addiction was so bad that I've even secretly taken Cialias so I can keep chewing and screwing.

Fellas (and ladies if your here), how stupid am I? I have a woman that just loves me. She loves just me. She has this sex drive that is off the charts and wants me to satisfy her constantly. Did I mention she is beautiful? And here I am sabotaging it for some poor excuses. So I can gross everyone out and have people make false assumptions about what I'm really like? By chewing, I'm saying no thanks, I'd rather not have sex this morning or again this evening.

Last week, I embarrassed myself in bed. She was cool, it's not always like that but we both knew what was happening.

Not anymore. I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want without taking a pill.
So if I'm reading you right, you want to quit for

1) the boner,
2) the boner,
3) the boner,
4) his 5 year old girl
5) the boner


I dunno man. That's a first for me. Most people want to quit for themselves, to take back control over their lives. They wan their freedom. They are tired of being an addict, scheduling their lives around their next dip, etc.

They feel responsible for their families and want to be around for them--not be disfigured (and maybe killed) though a horrific battle with oral cancer.

Are you ready to quit?
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: JKEdwards on May 22, 2015, 03:37:00 PM
Quote from: GrievousAngel
Quote from: foothillsco
Hi there.

I'm a skoal addict, one can per day since 1985.

I'm a lucky man in that I have many great things in my life. One of them is I have a beautiful 5-year old girl. I want to grow old watching her.

Another is my girlfriend.

My girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We used to have sex 3x a day for the first few years and it's slowly tapered down to 1x or 2x per day. We are year 6 and still hitting it. No matter what shit is happening in our lives, we always have our sex life.

Every now and then I would start to have erection problems. The solution was quit my Skoal. Quitting for a few days is easy. Staying quit is my problem and why I'm here. When I would quit, things would return to normal and then some. It was a mighty force to behold at day 14. Then something would stress me out, or I'd lie to myself and grab a can just to do this road trip for work, or just chew for this movie, damn, that tree branch needs cutting, guess ill get out my chainsaw and oh yeah, buy a can of skoal because it only runs on oil, gas and some dip in my mouth...

So I've gone back and forth and my addiction was so bad that I've even secretly taken Cialias so I can keep chewing and screwing.

Fellas (and ladies if your here), how stupid am I? I have a woman that just loves me. She loves just me. She has this sex drive that is off the charts and wants me to satisfy her constantly. Did I mention she is beautiful? And here I am sabotaging it for some poor excuses. So I can gross everyone out and have people make false assumptions about what I'm really like? By chewing, I'm saying no thanks, I'd rather not have sex this morning or again this evening.

Last week, I embarrassed myself in bed. She was cool, it's not always like that but we both knew what was happening.

Not anymore. I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want without taking a pill.
So if I'm reading you right, you want to quit for

1) the boner,
2) the boner,
3) the boner,
4) his 5 year old girl
5) the boner


I dunno man. That's a first for me. Most people want to quit for themselves, to take back control over their lives. They wan their freedom. They are tired of being an addict, scheduling their lives around their next dip, etc.

They feel responsible for their families and want to be around for them--not be disfigured (and maybe killed) though a horrific battle with oral cancer.

Are you ready to quit?
I second GA. It's a well known fact throughout these halls that the people who don't quit for the right reasons, don't stay quit. You are the only person that can keep dip out of your mouth. If you are only quitting so you can please your gf, then you are quitting for her ultimately.

Btw, catchy intro. Sex is good marketing, you might get some extra people in here because of that. I clicked the thing expecting to see "I accidentally went down on my gf with a dip in and got tobacco juice in her vagina. I need to quit this shit before she has a nicotine baby."
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Landdon on May 22, 2015, 04:01:00 PM
Quote from: JKEdwards
Quote from: GrievousAngel
Quote from: foothillsco
Hi there.

I'm a skoal addict, one can per day since 1985.

I'm a lucky man in that I have many great things in my life. One of them is I have a beautiful 5-year old girl. I want to grow old watching her.

Another is my girlfriend.

My girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We used to have sex 3x a day for the first few years and it's slowly tapered down to 1x or 2x per day. We are year 6 and still hitting it. No matter what shit is happening in our lives, we always have our sex life.

Every now and then I would start to have erection problems. The solution was quit my Skoal. Quitting for a few days is easy. Staying quit is my problem and why I'm here. When I would quit, things would return to normal and then some. It was a mighty force to behold at day 14. Then something would stress me out, or I'd lie to myself and grab a can just to do this road trip for work, or just chew for this movie, damn, that tree branch needs cutting, guess ill get out my chainsaw and oh yeah, buy a can of skoal because it only runs on oil, gas and some dip in my mouth...

So I've gone back and forth and my addiction was so bad that I've even secretly taken Cialias so I can keep chewing and screwing.

Fellas (and ladies if your here), how stupid am I? I have a woman that just loves me. She loves just me. She has this sex drive that is off the charts and wants me to satisfy her constantly. Did I mention she is beautiful? And here I am sabotaging it for some poor excuses. So I can gross everyone out and have people make false assumptions about what I'm really like? By chewing, I'm saying no thanks, I'd rather not have sex this morning or again this evening.

Last week, I embarrassed myself in bed. She was cool, it's not always like that but we both knew what was happening.

Not anymore. I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want without taking a pill.
So if I'm reading you right, you want to quit for

1) the boner,
2) the boner,
3) the boner,
4) his 5 year old girl
5) the boner


I dunno man. That's a first for me. Most people want to quit for themselves, to take back control over their lives. They wan their freedom. They are tired of being an addict, scheduling their lives around their next dip, etc.

They feel responsible for their families and want to be around for them--not be disfigured (and maybe killed) though a horrific battle with oral cancer.

Are you ready to quit?
I second GA. It's a well known fact throughout these halls that the people who don't quit for the right reasons, don't stay quit. You are the only person that can keep dip out of your mouth. If you are only quitting so you can please your gf, then you are quitting for her ultimately.

Btw, catchy intro. Sex is good marketing, you might get some extra people in here because of that. I clicked the thing expecting to see "I accidentally went down on my gf with a dip in and got tobacco juice in her vagina. I need to quit this shit before she has a nicotine baby."
No words can I add to this except wow. Lol
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: TLOC81 on May 22, 2015, 04:07:00 PM
Quote from: JKEdwards
Quote from: GrievousAngel
Quote from: foothillsco
Hi there.

I'm a skoal addict, one can per day since 1985.

I'm a lucky man in that I have many great things in my life. One of them is I have a beautiful 5-year old girl. I want to grow old watching her.

Another is my girlfriend.

My girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We used to have sex 3x a day for the first few years and it's slowly tapered down to 1x or 2x per day. We are year 6 and still hitting it. No matter what shit is happening in our lives, we always have our sex life.

Every now and then I would start to have erection problems. The solution was quit my Skoal. Quitting for a few days is easy. Staying quit is my problem and why I'm here. When I would quit, things would return to normal and then some. It was a mighty force to behold at day 14. Then something would stress me out, or I'd lie to myself and grab a can just to do this road trip for work, or just chew for this movie, damn, that tree branch needs cutting, guess ill get out my chainsaw and oh yeah, buy a can of skoal because it only runs on oil, gas and some dip in my mouth...

So I've gone back and forth and my addiction was so bad that I've even secretly taken Cialias so I can keep chewing and screwing.

Fellas (and ladies if your here), how stupid am I? I have a woman that just loves me. She loves just me. She has this sex drive that is off the charts and wants me to satisfy her constantly. Did I mention she is beautiful? And here I am sabotaging it for some poor excuses. So I can gross everyone out and have people make false assumptions about what I'm really like? By chewing, I'm saying no thanks, I'd rather not have sex this morning or again this evening.

Last week, I embarrassed myself in bed. She was cool, it's not always like that but we both knew what was happening.

Not anymore. I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want without taking a pill.
So if I'm reading you right, you want to quit for

1) the boner,
2) the boner,
3) the boner,
4) his 5 year old girl
5) the boner


I dunno man. That's a first for me. Most people want to quit for themselves, to take back control over their lives. They wan their freedom. They are tired of being an addict, scheduling their lives around their next dip, etc.

They feel responsible for their families and want to be around for them--not be disfigured (and maybe killed) though a horrific battle with oral cancer.

Are you ready to quit?
I second GA. It's a well known fact throughout these halls that the people who don't quit for the right reasons, don't stay quit. You are the only person that can keep dip out of your mouth. If you are only quitting so you can please your gf, then you are quitting for her ultimately.

Btw, catchy intro. Sex is good marketing, you might get some extra people in here because of that. I clicked the thing expecting to see "I accidentally went down on my gf with a dip in and got tobacco juice in her vagina. I need to quit this shit before she has a nicotine baby."
Hey Foot, your intro is really informative. I'm sorry to hear that your erectile dysfunction is limiting you and your gf to sex just 2x per day. I hope you get that figured out. I'm sure your doctor is hard at work getting to the bottom of your issue.

More importantly it's great that you're trying to quit dip. If you stop and think about it, there are probably much better reasons than limp dick to quit (which would actually be more likely related to age than dip).

If you post every day and keep your promise you stand a good chance of staying quit.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: I'm done with chew on May 22, 2015, 04:43:00 PM
Your intro just made my day. Thanks for the laugh. Seriously though, glad to see your quit. Wish I had the problem of sex EVERY day. As you already know, it's easy to stop dipping. Hard as hell to stay Quit. I suggest reading as much as you can here and really committing to a life of freedom. It's tough but the days add up and it becomes easier. Quit on bro.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: foothillsco on May 22, 2015, 05:17:00 PM
Quote from: foothillsco
I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want
Hey there,

I'm sincere in that I want to quit.

I'm not trying to draw attention to myself. If you read my blurb, it's not exactly flattering to say you can't get an erection.

I am saying to those that quit tho, your sex life really improves and it improves within a two weeks.

I feel no shame saying I want to have a great sex life in addition to no getting cancer, long life, disfigurement etc.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: pab1964 on May 22, 2015, 09:56:00 PM
Quote from: foothillsco
Quote from: foothillsco
I want to quit so I don't get cancer, so I live a long time, so I can fuck the living shit out of my girlfriend anytime I want
Hey there,

I'm sincere in that I want to quit.

I'm not trying to draw attention to myself. If you read my blurb, it's not exactly flattering to say you can't get an erection.

I am saying to those that quit tho, your sex life really improves and it improves within a two weeks.

I feel no shame saying I want to have a great sex life in addition to no getting cancer, long life, disfigurement etc.
Well let's see I was having erection problems right before my heart attack. Little did I know my blood pressure was off charts everytime I put that disgusting shit in my mouth! As far as having sex 3 times a week is awesome, so you my friend are a freak! Lol! Seriously get checked out. When you start thinking with right head post roll and let's get you some badass quit going! I quit with you today!
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: copingwithoutcopen on May 23, 2015, 08:27:00 AM
There's some science about this you can really get behind. 'BanDog'
Turns out Nicotine's a vasodilator meaning it constricts your blood vessels and consequently, blood flow. It's why your pressure gets thrown out of whack. It's why your erection is chiseled from marble after you quit.

Three a dayz is some collegiate Performance.
'worship'

I've read a lot of reasons why folks quit, their health, money, family, career and now for marathon sex. A successful quit seems to be about you but we each define what it is to be us. Whatever the motivation, this is right place to 'do it'

Welcome aboard! You made my day.
Post roll every morning, Preferably before but most definitely after the first money shot.

FML
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Grizzlyhasclaws on May 23, 2015, 09:28:00 AM
Great intro. Way to make a splash. Now don't be a selfish chump and let yourself down. Read everything here about addiction and quitting.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: foothillsco on May 23, 2015, 11:50:00 AM
frustrated with post roll...not working correctly, can't click "post reply"

(edit) fixed, not sure what I did to fix it but it done now, posted roll 2 days in a row

getting psyched (or trying to seem that way) to pour some concrete!!!
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: pab1964 on May 23, 2015, 08:29:00 PM
Quote from: foothillsco
frustrated with post roll...not working correctly, can't click "post reply"

(edit) fixed, not sure what I did to fix it but it done now, posted roll 2 days in a row

getting psyched (or trying to seem that way) to pour some concrete!!!
Post roll my friend. Don't worry about screwing it up, somebody will fix it till you learn how. We all want you quit! As long as your names on Roll we have your promise and that's what matters! Damn proud to be quit with you!
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Mogul on May 24, 2015, 12:42:00 AM
I'm pretty sure that is the best introduction since, well, mine. Now I'm horny and my wife is out of town. damn. Quit with ya.

Mogul
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: foothillsco on May 24, 2015, 11:07:00 AM
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: foothillsco
frustrated with post roll...not working correctly, can't click "post reply"

(edit) fixed, not sure what I did to fix it but it done now, posted roll 2 days in a row

getting psyched (or trying to seem that way) to pour some concrete!!!
Post roll my friend. Don't worry about screwing it up, somebody will fix it till you learn how. We all want you quit! As long as your names on Roll we have your promise and that's what matters! Damn proud to be quit with you!
Not sure why but the first time I try to post roll, I can't click on the radio button but the second time I can.

I saw a guy chewing yesterday. Without speaking to him, I felt some reactions to him: He looked ignorant, he was spitting in a cup and it was gross and other people around him were conscious of it and avoiding him. When he talked, you could see it and it was unsightly. When he wasn't talking, his dip bulged out his front lip just giving an unflattering look.

The guy could be some rocket scientist who donates his time and money to the poor and my snap judgements of him were all negative.

That was me last week.
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Diesel2112 on May 24, 2015, 11:32:00 AM
Quote from: foothillsco
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: foothillsco
frustrated with post roll...not working correctly, can't click "post reply"

(edit) fixed, not sure what I did to fix it but it done now, posted roll 2 days in a row

getting psyched (or trying to seem that way) to pour some concrete!!!
Post roll my friend. Don't worry about screwing it up, somebody will fix it till you learn how. We all want you quit! As long as your names on Roll we have your promise and that's what matters! Damn proud to be quit with you!
Not sure why but the first time I try to post roll, I can't click on the radio button but the second time I can.

I saw a guy chewing yesterday. Without speaking to him, I felt some reactions to him: He looked ignorant, he was spitting in a cup and it was gross and other people around him were conscious of it and avoiding him. When he talked, you could see it and it was unsightly. When he wasn't talking, his dip bulged out his front lip just giving an unflattering look.

The guy could be some rocket scientist who donates his time and money to the poor and my snap judgements of him were all negative.

That was me last week.
Spitting brown slime into a bottle, cup, can or just lugging on the ground is fucking disgusting. Unless...you are a nicotine addict, then the problem is not you. It's all the pussies that have a problem with you spitting that nasty shit all over the place.

Not sure about you but I grew tired of being that slob walking around with a festering bottle of sewage. I got tired of the whole process, in fact. It was time for me to grow up. Looks like you're coming to the same realization. It's 100% the right move, bro. Trust me.

Quit on...
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Thumblewort on May 25, 2015, 12:09:00 PM
Yo, Ron Jeremy, we get a roll post today, or are you too busy banging?
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Element on May 25, 2015, 02:34:00 PM
just make sure you commitment to stay quit is motivated by somethind beyond her sex-drive (fickle) or a breakup with said nympho (possible). :)
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: pab1964 on May 25, 2015, 07:15:00 PM
Knock knock! Don't forget your promise young man! Going a day without posting is like having sex by yourself!
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: jpetmpls on May 26, 2015, 04:07:00 PM
I'm so glad I found this thread. Thanks for making my day, everyone! Great start followed up by some fantastic replies. Quit on, my man!
Title: Re: Chew and my sex life
Post by: Idaho Spuds on May 28, 2015, 07:41:00 PM
Post roll!!!! You will get a lot less sexy time without a jaw...