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Title: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: nrudy on June 15, 2012, 02:46:00 AM
Hey everyone, I'm 23 and I'm definetely addicted to dip. I've been dipping the past three years, and in the last year I think I've gone maybe one day without it. I first started before my first deployment to Afghanistan, and then just kept doing it. I think I have learned to associate it with pleasure and relaxation, and I told myself that I would stop once I got out. Well, I've been out of the military for almost a year, I'm going to college and I'm STILL doing it! I hate how I have to hide it from my girlfriend and my parents. I have tried many programs to ween myself off, but I always keep coming back. In fact, I have even been on this site before (but never registered) so I'm definately looking for some help (even if it's a verbal ass-kicking lol) and when I complete 100 days I will be glad to share insights.

I look forward to hearing from you guys!
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Bruce on June 15, 2012, 02:59:00 AM
Slow down high roller, a lot can happen in 100 days...let's start with day 1. This shit is literally killing you destroying your gums and teeth and makin you look like a doosh, so fuckin quit, now.

Once you've grown some balls and quit..

Take it one day at a time, start out by learning how to post roll in the welcome center. Use this newly found knowledge and go over to your new quit group September'12. Posting roll is giving your word to your quit brothers that you will not use any nicotine that day. Since your were in the military, can we assume your word means a shit? If not, move along you don't belong here.

This shit works, don't fuck with it, I've posted everyday in the past 208 days, after stopping many times before I am now quit. Drink the koolaide brother! Reach out and get numbers, jump into chat every once in a while, if you want my number shot me a pm
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Roadblock on June 15, 2012, 03:32:00 AM
Quote from: Bruce317
Slow down high roller, a lot can happen in 100 days...let's start with day 1. This shit is literally killing you destroying your gums and teeth and makin you look like a doosh, so fuckin quit, now.

Once you've grown some balls and quit..

Take it one day at a time, start out by learning how to post roll in the welcome center. Use this newly found knowledge and go over to your new quit group September'12. Posting roll is giving your word to your quit brothers that you will not use any nicotine that day. Since your were in the military, can we assume your word means a shit? If not, move along you don't belong here.

This shit works, don't fuck with it, I've posted everyday in the past 208 days, after stopping many times before I am now quit. Drink the koolaide brother! Reach out and get numbers, jump into chat every once in a while, if you want my number shot me a pm
First off brother-LISTEN TO BRUCE. He will help you in any way he can as will I and just about anybody on this site. Like he said, slow down and focus on 1 day at a time, or as I did 1 minute at a time. By focusing on what is in front of me every minute I have been able to get to day 39. I NEVER thought that it would be possible until I found this website and decided to quit. Period!

Posting roll is HUGE! Probaably the most important thing we do here at KTC! Like Bruce said, learn how to do it, ask questions if you have them and go from there.

I have a lot of phone numbers of my august quit brothers so ask for some numbers and if you want mine then PM me also.

Grab your nuts and quit being a personal bitch to the cunt known as nicotine! :D
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Wt57 on June 15, 2012, 08:57:00 AM
Bruce and roadblock are right on today's promise will lead to tomorrow. Integrity in your daily promise will pull you through. I'd also be glad to trade #'s if you want. Check your inbox I'll leave my story there for you.
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: FosterChild on June 15, 2012, 09:08:00 AM
Welcome to the rest of your life! I am glad that you have come to quit this nasty ass habit! There are a lot of cool guys around here who are more than happy to help you out with anything that you need. Hit me up with a pm if you'd like my number. Talk to all the guys and soak it all in ..... its well worth it!
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: bigeric74 on June 15, 2012, 11:32:00 AM
I'm 23 also man and I'm still very green to quitting, I'm only on day 4, and I'm not going to lie, these past few days have been tough, I also dipped for "pleasure and relaxation" and thought that I would be able to quit whenever I wanted to. I was lying to myself. I tried and failed numerous times, and that was because I never really wanted to quit. I feel that registering and joining the group will be one of the best decisions that I have every made when all is said and done, because I know that I can come here day and night if I'm even entertaining the thought of caving. So I look forward to seeing your name on roll, and be ready to fight, because it is going to suck for awhile.
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Branden on June 15, 2012, 11:45:00 AM
Quote from: FosterChild
Welcome to the rest of your life! I am glad that you have come to quit this nasty ass habit! There are a lot of cool guys around here who are more than happy to help you out with anything that you need. Hit me up with a pm if you'd like my number. Talk to all the guys and soak it all in ..... its well worth it!
Fosterchild nailed it. Day 12 here and it is not easy. Post roll, chew seeds/gum. It works, reach out if you need to.
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Jesserobz on June 15, 2012, 12:20:00 PM
Quote from: Branden
Quote from: FosterChild
Welcome to the rest of your life! I am glad that you have come to quit this nasty ass habit! There are a lot of cool guys around here who are more than happy to help you out with anything that you need. Hit me up with a pm if you'd like my number. Talk to all the guys and soak it all in ..... its well worth it!
Fosterchild nailed it. Day 12 here and it is not easy. Post roll, chew seeds/gum. It works, reach out if you need to.
Nrudy. First thank you for your service to our country. My name is Jesse and I am a 30+ year addict and only 18 days free. Every day I crave but every crave I refuse to give in. Posting roll is essential in this fight. I owe it to myself and these other quitters to be there for day 100 in September. I refuse to give my hard earned money to those bastards. Just quit. Surrender is not an option!!!
Title: Re: I Hate This Crutch!!
Post by: Cubsball13 on June 15, 2012, 07:47:00 PM
Welcome Rudy, Simple as roll call in the morning (something that should be somewhat fimilar to you) Thats your promise, all we ask is you reach out before you put that cancerous shit in your lip... Check you PM let me know if you have any questions or need help. Im sure you already know, but we dont take this lightly-be accountable to yourself and to us! (again something that shouldnt be new to you) No Nic, no tobacco, no BS. Welcome Bro!