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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: linesofcope on October 10, 2011, 05:05:00 PM
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Hey ya'll nice little site goin on here. Im a dipper. Been doin this shit since i was 15. Now i'm 65. 3 cans a day for the past 40 years. I know its pretty shitty. Wana quit before i die. I don't wana die a damn dipper. :blink: My mouth looks pretty damn awful. I tried to quit once back 20 years ago. Lasted an hour. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Hey ya'll nice little site goin on here. Im a dipper. Been doin this shit since i was 15. Now i'm 65. 3 cans a day for the past 40 years. I know its pretty shitty. Wana quit before i die. I don't wana die a damn dipper. :blink: My mouth looks pretty damn awful. I tried to quit once back 20 years ago. Lasted an hour. Any advice would be appreciated.
My advice is: Your in the right fucking place.
What we do here is quit. Simple as that. You will be placed in the January 2012 group (this is the day you reach the hall of fame). From this point, You will take it one day at a time. You post each day, this is a promise to your group that you will not cave. This is how this site works, and its extremely effective.
Caving is for pussies. You've taken the first step in saying I don't want to die a fucking dipper. Don't ruin it all with a pussy cave.
Today, I quit with you. 6 days strong.
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Hey ya'll nice little site goin on here. Im a dipper. Been doin this shit since i was 15. Now i'm 65. 3 cans a day for the past 40 years. I know its pretty shitty. Wana quit before i die. I don't wana die a damn dipper. :blink: My mouth looks pretty damn awful. I tried to quit once back 20 years ago. Lasted an hour. Any advice would be appreciated.
Welcome to the madness.
First things first, go to the Welcome Center (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showforum=13) and learn about posting roll. When you're ready to quit and join us take every bit of stuff that you have with nicotine in it and flush it down the toilet. Come back to the January Quit Group (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=5270) and post your Day 1.
We have a simple method for quitting around here:
1) Post roll with your quit group first thing in the morning. That's your promise to everyone (especially to yourself) that you WILL NOT use any kind of nicotine today...just for today.
2) Keep your word. In this online world the only thing you have is your word. Do the honorable thing.
3) Come back tomorrow morning and do it all over again.
The process is simple, but it's not easy. Step up to the line and quit with us and you'll have 9500+ quitters to back you up. Every one of us here has been where you are today...and we know the way out. Quit for today, just today. Tomorrow will take care of itself. Glad to have you with us if you decide to make that choice...and that's the bottom line...the choice is yours and yours alone. But, if you decide to quit you'll find that you have more support here than you could have ever imagined. I hope you make the right choice...I'll be glad to quit with you today. Shoot me a message if I can help. 'archer'
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Hey lines,
I see you have not posted roll yet. Look trust me i know its not easy, but you have to take the first step. No one can make you QUIT only you can.Now get a set of balls step up to the plate spit the bitch out, dump your other shit out and QUIT today. You, your life, your family depend on it. Its not easy to quit. So its been fifty years so lets not wait another minute. Post Roll now lets QUIT this shit today!!
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Come on LoC...
Please post back in. I would love to see you get quit with us. I am only 26 but imagine if you could get quit and in turn help people my age save their lives.
Also I have to mention that if you have ever wanted to act like a teenager again you will fit in here nicely. I do believe some of our oldest members are by far the most immature.
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OK LoC - you posted your message over five hours ago. Got a couple of replies. No word from you though. You want help or no? You ask for advice, you came to the right place. There are some badass motherfuckers on this site that can give you all the advice you can handle (I ain't one of 'em, but they're here).
You posted and went dark. I know you've been out there today lurking. Don't say this is a "nice little site" and then disappear. We're all here to help. You just gotta want to accept the help. You might think most of us are too damn young to offer you anything. Don't let that stop you. I got the best support I needed on this site from someone nearly half my age.
Fifty years. Shit. Swear to God man in April I was looking at myself thinking "am I still gonna be doing this shit when I'm 50?" - forget 65.
Don't quit before you die. Quit before it kills you. Haven't you heard? 65 is the new 40!
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No doubt it is tough to get started on this endeavor that seems impossible (that is the addiction talking). I felt that way 77 days ago. Jump in, drink the koolaid, and before you know it, you will have a whole bunch of days of freedom under your belt.
One day at a time. The system here is genius and WILL work for you if you utilize the tools. That is a 100% guarantee.
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
Hold on a damn minute there gramps...You are setting yourself up for failure. You are allowing the nic bitch to make you think like.....an ADDICT! It is not that damn difficult. You simply decide that you want to quit. Then nut up and get to Quitting! I dipped 24 years and have been nicotene free for 500 days tomorrow! You can too. Simplyy decide that you are done!
MOA
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
You can't hurt my quit. This place helps people help themselves.
50 years is no different than 5 years. An addict is an addict. I know, I was more than 38 years dipping until 42 days ago. I actually think the longer time dippers have an advantage because we have that many more years of hating it.
Please let us know when you are ready to quit. Not ready to try or attempt, just frickin done with it. I got my inspiration when a dipping buddy told me he has stomach cancer 42 days ago. The damn Tobacco companies are murderers. Dipping is no longer an option in my life. Those fuckers owe me 38 years and $50,000. I am willing to suffer forever if it prevents me from feeding those criminals.
Spit it out, flush your shit, and never look back. It can be done!
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I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would.
You would ONLY fail if you DECIDE to fail. If you DECIDE you are going to QUIT, then you QUIT. Just quit for TODAY...then worry about what you are going to do tomorrow when you get out of bed in the morning. If you were my grandpa, I would want you to QUIT!! So, what are you waiting for? Your next dip may be the one that puts your grandchildren in tears leaning over your casket. Please QUIT....today....
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
Yikes man, what do you think your grandchildren would say to that? Lead by example, you have people looking up to you. Don't just do it for them, do it for yourself... You want a giant lump cheek when they put you in the coffin?
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Neat username. Did you snort the stuff?
Listen, I don't care if you've dipping for one year or fifty. You are an addict. You have made the decision to stop by this site and sign up. You don't want to die a dipper? That's a great first step.
It's simple: throw out all you dip related items, if they exist. Then post roll here everyday. Go to bed at night, get up the next day and do it again. Then repeat, pretty much forever.
It's fucking that easy.
The first few days are sheer misery. Everyone of us will tell you that. Get names/numbers of people in you pre-HOF group. and reach out when the craves hit. That is why we are here. I regularly reach out to the brothers when the nic bith is tugging at me. Believe me. We have all been there. If we can do it, so can you! Drink a ton of water, too. Your system will be flushed out in a few days. (Though at 3 cans/day, it may take a bit onger.)
PM me if you need to. You CAN do this!!
Cmon and quit with me, huh?
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Sir,
"Two roads diverged in the woods--I have taken the one less traveled by and that has made all the difference."
I see you FREE! A living testament to your loved ones of TRUE courage, bravery and pride--finally beating back the demon. I see you helping newbies in the future--overcome this addiction. I see you facing your fears and defeating them finally to claim your right to be FREE.
Be Free with us----we are here to help you on this journey. The human spirit is stronger than this chemical!
POST ROLL NOW!!!!
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
There is your proof boys, you can still be a pussy at 65.
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Life or death. Your doubt is addict speak for fear. That fear has you looking at a terrible death. Your life is worth living. You have something to offer. If you don't, you wouldn't have logged on and signed up.
The thing to realize is regardless of the number of years you put cancer candy in your mouth, there is a man who has been living in the framework of an addict. You're just like the rest of us. We know that existence and we know what its like when that framework is broken down and you start living as you again. May be you don't even remember that guy. Hell, I had to learn how to be married without nicotine. Learn how to be a dad without nicotine. Learn how to go to sleep without nicotine. Learn how to sit on the toilet without nicotine. All those things can be done without nicotine. I know they can. And when I see all those things that I can do without nicotine, I realize that I have a life and I'm important to me.
Now, dump that shit out of your mouth. You put a fucking poison in mouth consciously for 50 years pop. Its not going to be easy. Hell no. But if those shriveled up raisins of yours still produce any "man juice", you can dig deep and fight. Fight for who you know you are. A clean man looking towards tomorrow and not knowingly contributing to an early death. You better read this thread over a few times. You tell me. You think all these folks are lying? You think they/we are the special ones...the only ones that could do it?
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i might get involved here but i dont know. 50 years is a long time boys... that pretty much means i been married to it. Now i want a divorce. I would fail shit i just have a feeling i would. Don't want to hurt anyone elses damn quit. we'll see what happens
I know how you feel brother...My only quit in 25 years was Basic Training and because I was forced to stop. The first thing I did at my tech school was buy a can and start again. I have tried numerous quits with nicotine patches and the rest of that shit just led me right back to dip again. But here I am, on 42 Days nic free and without my bitch of a can controlling me and let me tell you bro, it feels good. I feel like shit every once in awhile but its a small price to pay without having death hang over my head. Think about it and PM if you need some help.
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Shit or get off the pot, kind sir. Join us and try to salvage whatever time you have left, or go down with a tin and wonder "What if?"
Stand up and be counted by posting roll or don't waste our time.
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3 cans a day for 14,610 days (365 x 40 + 10 leap days) x $3 a can (my estimated, average cost of a can, factoring inflation).
$131,400
That is how much money you ha\/e gi\/en U.S. smokeless tobaccoo. Do not gi\/e those basterds another penny.
What the hell have they given you. Receiding gums; bad breath, yellow teeth, increased odds of oral caner, ect.
You have lived a life in which you are dependent on nicotine. It will not be easy to adjust. But it is possible. The first day is scary as hell. The next couple days are horrible. But around day five you start to get a feeling of freedom. Not being held hostage to the nicotine bitch.
And brother, the freedom is a great feeling. You need to dump that shit and post day one.
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Oh come on man, don't get caught up in the number of years you have dipped. When it gets down to it, it doesn't really matter. That was one of the lies that the nic bitch whispered in my ear "You been dipping for 30 years, there is no way you can quit now". I kicked that excuse in the butt 109 days ago. Once I decided to quit, I quit. You can too!
I, just like everyone else on this site, gave my word that I would not use nicotine for 24 hours. I posted roll and made a promise to myself and to everyone on this site that I would stay quit for one day. We can do anything or not do anything for 24 hrs! Then we get up the next day and do it all again. We do this together, one day at a time.
Quitting is a choice, you either choose to dip or you don't, it' that simple!
I sincerly hope you make the right choice and join us!
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Come on Lines, quit your frickin lurking and post roll call. Reach deeeep down in your gut and pull out that quit!
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It's been over two days now since the esteemed Mr. Cope submitted his original post.
I would submit that this horse is dead. I suggest we stop beating it until it shows signs of life.
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It's been over two days now since the esteemed Mr. Cope submitted his original post.
I would submit that this horse is dead. I suggest we stop beating it until it shows signs of life.
I second that!!!
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It's been over two days now since the esteemed Mr. Cope submitted his original post.
I would submit that this horse is dead. I suggest we stop beating it until it shows signs of life.
I second that!!!
Where is the "closed due to failure" button on this thing?
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50 fucking years. What a waste.
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Damn shame. Hasn't even lurked since noon yesterday. What a fucking shame.
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Damn shame. Hasn't even lurked since noon yesterday. What a fucking shame.
Just goes to show you have to want it. You can't convince someone to quit. No matter how much to defile their manhood online or scare them with cancer stories and jaw removal, if a man don't want it, he ain't going to quit.
Which leads me to the simplest, most solid advice that I have ever been given on this site:
Welcome to the battle. Try to help as many as you can but remember you cannot make someone quit.Â
Protect your quit at all costs. Glad to have you with us...
Never again
Greg
That is reality right there.
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65, and a pussy.
I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off. All of these people have put so much attention into their quits and you ask for their attention. Because of the compassion in this forum, they have given it to you.
You throw it right back in their faces with this bullshit. Honestly, if you have been doing it for 50 years and you aren't ready to quit yet, you are all kinds of fucked. You should of man'd up a long time ago. Come back when you've found your balls, until then don't waste our time.
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
What if I just get to the point of "pre-gasm". Is that considered jerking off?
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
What if I just get to the point of "pre-gasm". Is that considered jerking off?
If it is in your hand, you be jerkinman
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
What if I just get to the point of "pre-gasm". Is that considered jerking off?
If it is in your hand, you be jerkinman
Does that include washing it in the shower ?
'crackup'
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
What if I just get to the point of "pre-gasm". Is that considered jerking off?
If it is in your hand, you be jerkinman
Does that include washing it in the shower ?
'crackup'
It is your soap and your dick so you get to wash it as fast as you want.
*(still qualifies as jerking it)*
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I find it extremely disrespectful to come in here and jerk off.
Well, if my jerking off is making you uncomfortable,
stop watching :ph43r:
What if I just get to the point of "pre-gasm". Is that considered jerking off?
If it is in your hand, you be jerkinman
Does that include washing it in the shower ?
'crackup'
It is your soap and your dick so you get to wash it as fast as you want.
*(still qualifies as jerking it)*
So if there is a loofa in my hand, I'm in the clear as there is no schlong palm party going on.
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50 years???? holy fuck. How do you not have cancer? Consider yourself lucky and post roll and quit this shit. I don't know why you dissapeared all the sudden but if you read this pleasee quit! Join us in the fight against this disease
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Sorry for the delay to get back with you guys but my wife found a site similar to this that i kinda liked better. Its http://www.quitsmokeless.org/ (http://www.quitsmokeless.org/) This is a nice website as well just kinda like the other one's style better. So far, i've gone a damn 3 days. It's been pretty bad boys. I hope everyone's doin well with their quit, thanks for the feedback.
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Sorry for the delay to get back with you guys but my wife found a site similar to this that i kinda liked better. Its http://www.quitsmokeless.org/ (http://www.quitsmokeless.org/) This is a nice website as well just kinda like the other one's style better. So far, i've gone a damn 3 days. It's been pretty bad boys. I hope everyone's doin well with their quit, thanks for the feedback.
Hey man, glad to see you've gone 3 days. I haven't been to that site, but I have heard/read a lot about it on here from various people. All that matters is it works for you and you're staying nicotine free.
50 years is a hell of a habit. Never too late to stop. Enjoy the rest of your life nic free. I sure as hell know I'll be there. All done one day at a time.
Also, 3 days is huge. We have all been there at one point. We all know the suck you're going through. If you ever need anything feel free to PM me.
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yea man it's nearly my whole life i been dippin! i honestly dont remember what it was like not bein an addict. Congrats on your quit man i'll be sure to holler when i need some advice
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Sorry for the delay to get back with you guys but my wife found a site similar to this that i kinda liked better. Its http://www.quitsmokeless.org/ (http://www.quitsmokeless.org/) This is a nice website as well just kinda like the other one's style better. So far, i've gone a damn 3 days. It's been pretty bad boys. I hope everyone's doin well with their quit, thanks for the feedback.
I also have never been to that website. Curious on what you like better there?
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i read some great articles on some of the peoples quits when i was on there one day, met some of the people when i signed up and just went with it. damn i'm sure you all got some good stories as well. I was a little taken a back by some comments that a few guys left me on here. Talkin shit to someone they don't know? I didnt get that. But i'm sure most of yall are good fuckin dudes
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i read some great articles on some of the peoples quits when i was on there one day, met some of the people when i signed up and just went with it. damn i'm sure you all got some good stories as well. I was a little taken a back by some comments that a few guys left me on here. Talkin shit to someone they don't know? I didnt get that. But i'm sure most of yall are good fuckin dudes
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i am curious though, which one came first? Kill the can or Quit smokeless? bunch of similarities
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i read some great articles on some of the peoples quits when i was on there one day, met some of the people when i signed up and just went with it. damn i'm sure you all got some good stories as well. I was a little taken a back by some comments that a few guys left me on here. Talkin shit to someone they don't know? I didnt get that. But i'm sure most of yall are good fuckin dudes
Don't take the attacks personally man. They're only looking out for you. Our habit and addiction is a death sentence for us and we treat it as such. If being like that helps somebody realize that very fact, then we've all won as we get somebody else on board to help us.
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We are rough because we have to be. We don't mean anything personal but a quit is something you don't beat around with a feather. The nic bitch is a tough one and only a metal baseball bat will suffice.
Good luck with your quit. I hope smokelesstobacco.com offers some sort of accountability like KTC.org does. It is truly one of the most powerful tools to combat this addiction.
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I for one support whatever helps a man quit. With that said, the site that you referenced is referred to as "Quit Lite" here at KTC we are "extreme". I know myself well enouogh that if I cave after making my daily promise, and when I went back and told my group they coddled my nads and said "its OK...we understand...this is hard...I caved too". Then I would not be terribly motivated to quit. On the other hand if I made a promise to a bunch of extreme sons a bitches that didnt give me a pass and held my ass accountible....well, I would respond to that. Anyway, I am glad that you have decided to quit. I wish you well and our door is always open to you.
MOA
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I for one support whatever helps a man quit. With that said, the site that you referenced is referred to as "Quit Lite" here at KTC we are "extreme". I know myself well enouogh that if I cave after making my daily promise, and when I went back and told my group they coddled my nads and said "its OK...we understand...this is hard...I caved too". Then I would not be terribly motivated to quit. On the other hand if I made a promise to a bunch of extreme sons a bitches that didnt give me a pass and held my ass accountible....well, I would respond to that. Anyway, I am glad that you have decided to quit. I wish you well and our door is always open to you.
MOA
If you come from the culture where there are winners and losers, you belong on KTC. If you believe every little boy and girl deserves a participation ribbon, Quit Lite will serve you better.
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I for one support whatever helps a man quit. With that said, the site that you referenced is referred to as "Quit Lite" here at KTC we are "extreme". I know myself well enouogh that if I cave after making my daily promise, and when I went back and told my group they coddled my nads and said "its OK...we understand...this is hard...I caved too". Then I would not be terribly motivated to quit. On the other hand if I made a promise to a bunch of extreme sons a bitches that didnt give me a pass and held my ass accountible....well, I would respond to that. Anyway, I am glad that you have decided to quit. I wish you well and our door is always open to you.
MOA
If you come from the culture where there are winners and losers, you belong on KTC. If you believe every little boy and girl deserves a participation ribbon, Quit Lite will serve you better.
that rite there is gold man.
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I for one support whatever helps a man quit. With that said, the site that you referenced is referred to as "Quit Lite" here at KTC we are "extreme". I know myself well enouogh that if I cave after making my daily promise, and when I went back and told my group they coddled my nads and said "its OK...we understand...this is hard...I caved too". Then I would not be terribly motivated to quit. On the other hand if I made a promise to a bunch of extreme sons a bitches that didnt give me a pass and held my ass accountible....well, I would respond to that. Anyway, I am glad that you have decided to quit. I wish you well and our door is always open to you.
MOA
If you come from the culture where there are winners and losers, you belong on KTC. If you believe every little boy and girl deserves a participation ribbon, Quit Lite will serve you better.
that rite there is gold man.
PURE GOLD!!!!!