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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: john101477 on July 19, 2010, 12:39:00 AM
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I quit
I have been chewing since i was a kid starting with bag stuff and quickly moving on to cope as a freshman in high school. I just want to stop. between the money and the health issues...
quitting sucks though. starting the 3rd day and my body and mind as going ape shit.
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I quit
I have been chewing since i was a kid starting with bag stuff and quickly moving on to cope as a freshman in high school. I just want to stop. between the money and the health issues...
quitting sucks though. starting the 3rd day and my body and mind as going ape shit.
Welcome John.
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I quit
I have been chewing since i was a kid starting with bag stuff and quickly moving on to cope as a freshman in high school. I just want to stop. between the money and the health issues...
quitting sucks though. starting the 3rd day and my body and mind as going ape shit.
Welcome John.
John - welcome to the quit. It gets better. Drink lots of water, read everything on this site, connect with people on here and post your word everyday to stay nic free for that day. Then keep your word. Lots of great advice on this site, listen to the vets - this works and you can do it.
Stay strong and I quit with John today
Rob
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thank you, been a decent morning so far. just kind of nervy. probably have to ask the wife to go to the store again today for some seeds.
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Welcome and congrats on your decision.
I see you are using the site as directed. Nice work!
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hey we are going family camping this weekend and i will not be able to post but I will not be having access to chew nor do I want start again. will not be able to post to roll call with no phone service. (yeah we will be out in the boonies) anyways - suggestions?
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hey we are going family camping this weekend and i will not be able to post but I will not be having access to chew nor do I want start again. will not be able to post to roll call with no phone service. (yeah we will be out in the boonies) anyways - suggestions?
I camp a lot also and it is rare to find a spot these days with zero phone service so try and text me your promise for the day and I will get you on roll call. I can only do this after you text me.
I sent you my number earlier.
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hey we are going family camping this weekend and i will not be able to post but I will not be having access to chew nor do I want start again. will not be able to post to roll call with no phone service. (yeah we will be out in the boonies) anyways - suggestions?
I camp a lot also and it is rare to find a spot these days with zero phone service so try and text me your promise for the day and I will get you on roll call. I can only do this after you text me.
I sent you my number earlier.
hahaha yeah that flat land might have cell service but I literally can loose it 30 minutes from my house lol. if I have service I will text it to you, if not then all i can do it pledge to not dip.
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hey we are going family camping this weekend and i will not be able to post but I will not be having access to chew nor do I want start again. will not be able to post to roll call with no phone service. (yeah we will be out in the boonies) anyways - suggestions?
I camp a lot also and it is rare to find a spot these days with zero phone service so try and text me your promise for the day and I will get you on roll call. I can only do this after you text me.
I sent you my number earlier.
hahaha yeah that flat land might have cell service but I literally can loose it 30 minutes from my house lol. if I have service I will text it to you, if not then all i can do it pledge to not dip.
Mike is right. Text someone. There is a story on here about a guy that was camping. Hiked 5 miles or something like that in the snow to the one place he could get cell reception and text in his promise. If you want to get your name on the roll call you will, simple as that.
And yes it IS that important. Up to you....
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hey we are going family camping this weekend and i will not be able to post but I will not be having access to chew nor do I want start again. will not be able to post to roll call with no phone service. (yeah we will be out in the boonies) anyways - suggestions?
I camp a lot also and it is rare to find a spot these days with zero phone service so try and text me your promise for the day and I will get you on roll call. I can only do this after you text me.
I sent you my number earlier.
hahaha yeah that flat land might have cell service but I literally can loose it 30 minutes from my house lol. if I have service I will text it to you, if not then all i can do it pledge to not dip.
Mike is right. Text someone. There is a story on here about a guy that was camping. Hiked 5 miles or something like that in the snow to the one place he could get cell reception and text in his promise. If you want to get your name on the roll call you will, simple as that.
And yes it IS that important. Up to you....
Posting roll is not optional. It is your word that you will not use nicotine for that day and that day only. I know this one simple fact has been the only thing that kept someone from caving. You find a fucking way to get it done. Accept nothing less from yourself, because we don't.
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You know there are good days and bad days but I can not see any good when your wife is bitchy at the same time you are. My wife has now figured out how to use my quit against me. Any time she is acting stupid and I get on to her I am the dick because of my quit. Bad thing was I was not even stressin. I simply told her how to put the child seat in the car cause she had it wrong and she some how turns it into I am a dick WTF...
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You know there are good days and bad days but I can not see any good when your wife is bitchy at the same time you are. My wife has now figured out how to use my quit against me. Any time she is acting stupid and I get on to her I am the dick because of my quit. Bad thing was I was not even stressin. I simply told her how to put the child seat in the car cause she had it wrong and she some how turns it into I am a dick WTF...
thats why I did not even tell my wife I had quit for the first 15 days. I still use the dip rage excuse here at day 207. Actually used it yesterday when I broke my daughter's i-pod and made the old lady go buy her a new one.
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You know there are good days and bad days but I can not see any good when your wife is bitchy at the same time you are. My wife has now figured out how to use my quit against me. Any time she is acting stupid and I get on to her I am the dick because of my quit. Bad thing was I was not even stressin. I simply told her how to put the child seat in the car cause she had it wrong and she some how turns it into I am a dick WTF...
John, that has nothing to do with quitting. We are always dicks, especially when we tell them they are doing something wrong...
My wife blames all of our fights on me - I'm being a jerk because I don't want to go back to work, etc. Her telling you that you're acting like a jerk because of your quit is just another way for her to push blame. So, in a round-about way, this is supportive of your quit - there are plenty of things you can do now without dipping, including getting in trouble with your wife! 'stick'
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Yeah she got back home and was all lovey. Sucks cause I knew I was not being a dick. I generally know when I am being a dick and just can not seem to stop when I am lol. I can be a major prick I know but damn for her to use it against me kinda ticks me off
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Ms brilliant did iit again. She just does not understand the crap I am going through with the quit. She signed us up to go to a fucking party where all the males will be 1 drinking and 2 chewing. What the fuck is she thinking. I swear she has figured out ways to piss me off every 20 minutes today. Fucking bullshit
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Ms brilliant did iit again. She just does not understand the crap I am going through with the quit. She signed us up to go to a fucking party where all the males will be 1 drinking and 2 chewing. What the fuck is she thinking. I swear she has figured out ways to piss me off every 20 minutes today. Fucking bullshit
John,
I was having similar problems with the wife. If you have not had her read the "spousal support: how you can help" article... That is a MUST read.
Spousal Support: how you can help (http://killthecan.org/community/spouse.asp)
My wife read that and there was a huge difference immediately. Of course she will slip or forget and bitch at me for something, but generally she is very supportive.
PS: CMay1 is a very wise man... pay attention to him, it will make life much easier.
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Ms brilliant did iit again. She just does not understand the crap I am going through with the quit. She signed us up to go to a fucking party where all the males will be 1 drinking and 2 chewing. What the fuck is she thinking. I swear she has figured out ways to piss me off every 20 minutes today. Fucking bullshit
You can always tell her you're not going - but I'd look at it as a challenge. If you can man up and make it through that mine field now, you'll always have that to hold on to for the rest of your quit. If you think something is difficult in the future you can think, "this isn't that bad - I went to the fucking party with my wife, completely raging at her for making me go, and still didn't drink (if that's what you need to do) and didn't take a pinch."
I would suggest avioding the alcohol at the partay.
Also, don't listen to Lost - I'm borderline retarded. 'Crazy'
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Avoiding triggers early on such as parties, drinking, and former dipping buddies early is certainly solid advice.
Look at it another way for a second. You are quit, you have MADE the decision to quit, you have posted roll. Its all about the decision my friend.....nothing can change that. You are quit, done, finished with it.
And if one of them sumbeeches hand you a can....gladly accept and dump on the ground. I guarantee they won't do it again.
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Like I told you, get at least 5 numbers of guys in your group and text them that night. We helped a quitter in our group, Phat Pauly, make it through a very similar evening. We just kept texting him and he made it through.
I still say don't go. Piss on her. 2 can play this game.
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Yeah I am still figuring stuff out. We are talking about not going. Funny one day she is like "not my problem" and the next she is all supportive. I did have her read the support article and she was pretty good to me for a few days after. Unexpected BJ's, leaving me the fuck alone when she could clearly see I was pissy or craving. Now all that has changed.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
Sorry, guess you missed the sarcasm. I was just jealous thats all.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.
:lol:
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.
:lol:
I thought this was appropriate:
A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:
'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'
A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:
'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'
'Y' ??? (my wife...)
'Finger' (me in response).
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.
:lol:
I thought this was appropriate:
A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:
'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'
A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:
'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'
'Y' ??? (my wife...)
'Finger' (me in response).
2 a week dude. I ain't ever listening to a story about that lovely lady you have as a wife ever again. She is awesome. All the crap you bitching about must be on you. HEHE
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh.
:lol:
I thought this was appropriate:
A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's:
'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj'
A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's:
'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point'
'Y' ??? (my wife...)
'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish
It works out pretty good
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
Weather the jew NEEDS it or not huh lol
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?
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John,
Thanks for putting the whole wife thing back into perspective for me...
Adam
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John,
Thanks for putting the whole wife thing back into perspective for me...
Adam
No problem buddy. Like I have said some days are good others suck and not in a good way
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?
At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?
At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after
I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:
I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....
'crackup'
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?
At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after
I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:
I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....
'crackup'
25 years and can't remember what a BJ is? Dude I am so so sorry lol you might wanna talk tpo the missus about that
Just tell her a BJ a day keeps the dip away
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John - is that your wife in your avatar?
6 years of marriage has banished any memory of a bj that I may have once had. 25 years of marriage might make me forget what the term even means...
Speaking of, my 6 year anniversary is coming up on the 7th of August - any inexpensive gift ideas that she would actually like?
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John - is that your wife in your avatar?
6 years of marriage has banished any memory of a bj that I may have once had. 25 years of marriage might make me forget what the term even means...
Speaking of, my 6 year anniversary is coming up on the 7th of August - any inexpensive gift ideas that she would actually like?
Yes that is my wife in my avatar. That was taken on our honeymoon in a theme room at a motel in lake tahoe. Funny we got married on cocoa beach in florida and instead of a cruise she wanted tahoe... go figure
As for the gift ideas. How much we talking? Usually if it plugs in, is use for cooking, cleaning, or chores it is a bad idea lol. 6 years deserves a little romance. Sitter for the kids, cheap diner (talking drive in cheap not mc donalds cheap) share a banana split or something, and then pop out a nice set of ear rings or a necklace. This always got my pecker washed and shined with my ex and with my current wife
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
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Unexpected BJ's,
I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't
what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.
Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7
I HATE YOU
That's not very nice.
What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:
I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).
If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.
You don't have kids do you?
Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good
Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'
I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard
Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.
I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer
My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.
My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."
but do they go ass to mouth (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTgneLluypg)
Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?
At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after
I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:
I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....
'crackup'
25 years and can't remember what a BJ is? Dude I am so so sorry lol you might wanna talk tpo the missus about that
Just tell her a BJ a day keeps the dip away
Well i hate to say this but your wives are pretty lame.. I have been getting 2 a day for the last 20 years. Monday through Friday at least..
Oh shit sorry, I thought the topic was PBJ's.. not BJ's
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
John -
My personal experience has been that the herbal stuff ended up becoming a trigger for me, so I am anti-fake. However, if I were going to that party, I'd take some with me. Shit, I'd put it in a cleaned out can of skoal or cope or put the skoal or cope lid on it so people would leave me the fuck alone. And use it or don't - maybe it'll be enough for your friends to see it in your back pocket, and they won't bother you.
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
Know what I like best about this whole thing? Aside from everyone remaining quit? It's seeing my term "Butt-hurt" being used!!!! Shit hot!!!
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
Know what I like best about this whole thing? Aside from everyone remaining quit? It's seeing my term "Butt-hurt" being used!!!! Shit hot!!!
That would have been alot better story if you won everyones money then they got mad and left except for the stoner chic who took you to the bedroom and balled your brains out for a couple of hours and when you woke up she was gone and you didnt even get her name....just sayin
MOA
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
Know what I like best about this whole thing? Aside from everyone remaining quit? It's seeing my term "Butt-hurt" being used!!!! Shit hot!!!
That would have been alot better story if you won everyones money then they got mad and left except for the stoner chic who took you to the bedroom and balled your brains out for a couple of hours and when you woke up she was gone and you didnt even get her name....just sayin
MOA
That's funny shit, I may not have won all the money but I did put my cousin out and also came in second. The females there where there all left for the old folks bar. Fortunatley these gals were well older than me and I am afraid to say they scared the shit out of me.
Also gotta know how the term butt hurt is someones term here? I been using that since highschool and I was no where neer the first to use it. I do like the term shit hot though first time I heard that was in the movie Stealth which is a bad ass movie
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
Know what I like best about this whole thing? Aside from everyone remaining quit? It's seeing my term "Butt-hurt" being used!!!! Shit hot!!!
That would have been alot better story if you won everyones money then they got mad and left except for the stoner chic who took you to the bedroom and balled your brains out for a couple of hours and when you woke up she was gone and you didnt even get her name....just sayin
MOA
That's funny shit, I may not have won all the money but I did put my cousin out and also came in second. The females there where there all left for the old folks bar. Fortunatley these gals were well older than me and I am afraid to say they scared the shit out of me.
Also gotta know how the term butt hurt is someones term here? I been using that since highschool and I was no where neer the first to use it. I do like the term shit hot though first time I heard that was in the movie Stealth which is a bad ass movie
Been using both butt-hurt and shit hot from military days....since 1991-92, at least...
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Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice
big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.
MOA
Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance
Then I say screw 'em...
Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.
Just my $.02
Agreed.
The truth is dippers are uncomfortable around quitters. They know you have done something they cannot and it makes them feel inferior. You will get stronger in your quit and you will be able to be around dippers.
Great idea to avoid that trigger. I did the same thing many times early in my quit. Better safe than re-posting a 1
Like these guys say, fuck 'em if they don't understand (I suspect they do, but like these guys say, your strength will make them uncomfortable about their weakness).
Bottom line, quitting is the most important thing you'll do today, the day of the party, etc. If that means your friends are going to be a little bent out of shape because you're protecting your young quit from a trigger, then so be it. Fake dip? Take it down if you need to. If you really want to stay quit, you have to make it priority number 1 for a while. Period. Not 2, not 1b, but numero uno.
Ask Skoalmonster about priorities (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=3379)
I sure wish I had gotten the chance to read this before last night. No worries I am still quit on day 15 or 16 lol gotta check. So yesterday was tough. Drove down to grizzley island with my cousin to check out some elk. He chews leaf but I was fine with my seeds all day.
That evening he talked me into going to a poker game. Of course we get there and some chick is smoking pot (which I can not stand the smell of) and all the guys are chewing. Had to make an emergency run to the store for seeds.
My cousin. Who I might add did not start chewing until he was 26-27 kept on with the "I don't know why you want to quit, you can get cancer by walking out your door" and "it won't last, my dad stopped chewing for 2 years and then had one". WTF? I just told hime it was my fucking choice and that I had my reasons for quitting.
All said and done I pulled a bone head move by going in the first place but I never took a drink and never took a dip.
Hope some new quitters read this and realize that leading yourself into temptation is never a good idea. As those before me have learned do what's right for the quit not what feels the best cause that feeling is only temporary.
Good job on stayin quit!
But you really did choose the hard way, didnt you? :D
Yeah it was pretty crazy the first game could not consentrate at all. The second game I had to really buckle down and I think it through the others for a loop cause I brought money home :D
Still though, the first 3 hours were pretty extreme and it is far better to just not put yourself into that situation
Nice work staying quit, and nice work coming to the realization that it just not be worth it to test yourself at this point. In time, you'll be able to do everything you did yesterday with no problems, but early on it's a small price to pay to forego things you "want" to do in order to protect your quit.
Know what I like best about this whole thing? Aside from everyone remaining quit? It's seeing my term "Butt-hurt" being used!!!! Shit hot!!!
That would have been alot better story if you won everyones money then they got mad and left except for the stoner chic who took you to the bedroom and balled your brains out for a couple of hours and when you woke up she was gone and you didnt even get her name....just sayin
MOA
That's funny shit, I may not have won all the money but I did put my cousin out and also came in second. The females there where there all left for the old folks bar. Fortunatley these gals were well older than me and I am afraid to say they scared the shit out of me.
Also gotta know how the term butt hurt is someones term here? I been using that since highschool and I was no where neer the first to use it. I do like the term shit hot though first time I heard that was in the movie Stealth which is a bad ass movie
Been using both butt-hurt and shit hot from military days....since 1991-92, at least...
Haha yeah you might have the shit hot but I been hearing butt hurt for a long long time.
It is pretty common kinda like "bass ackwards"
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K I have a cpl of issues going on here.
1 is my jaw hurts to much to chew seeds. Which is ok today as I have not had a craving all day
2 as is pretty usual for us I am off to the middle of nowhere this weekend. A few weekends ago I got lucky with service about 10 minutes drive up hill. This weekend we will be stending our time in the Lost Coast. Anyone know if there is signal along the south side at all? I do not have an issue back tracking a few miles but am not gonna spend to much time looking for signal and taking away from my wife and kid.
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you know those days when it seems like absolutley nothing can or will go your way? today has been like that for me. not gonna get into details but i need to vent a little anyways. the whole job thing is really getting to me on top of everything else. I swear if the wife does not let me play with 'boob' then she is liable to get told 'Finger' and get bent over for me to put in in her 'arse' 'arse' before I 'Remshot' someone
fucking A. has nothing to do with my quit and I am not even close to wanting a dip but I am really not in a great mood.