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Community => Introductions => Topic started by: jiujitsuDUDE on September 28, 2012, 11:07:00 PM
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hello everyone, Im happy I have stumbled across this sight and I hope you guys can help me on my journey to continue to be chew free!! A little about me: I was just recently married and a few days after I decided that that was it im sick of chew and its time to stop. I was a tin a day chewer and I have ben chew free for 2 weeks and it sucks. I want a damn chew or a cigar or a cig or something!! but im not going to I made a decition and im sticking to it but man its fucking hard. Im just takeing it day buy day and chewing gum like its my job haha. I found at times I have felt depressed and anxious. Its amazeing how much control this shit can have over you. DEATH TO BIG TOBACCO!
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Welcome and hang in there brother. Nothing you're going through is unusual, personally ive experienced the depressed and anxious feelings. Things will get better with time, I promise!!! Keep posting roll and turn to this site if you are struggling. Rage if you must, jump in chat, get some numbers and read as much as you can. Educate yourself on this shit. Get to know your enemy and what to expect from her. You can do this!!! Pm me anytime if you have any questions. Keep grinding!!!
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confused about roll call still help me out on how to post
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confused about roll call still help me out on how to post
for help with roll read: Roll Help (http://forum.killthecan.org/index.php?showtopic=50). Keep posting even if not done right! you will get it down! keep trying, keep quit!
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confused about roll call still help me out on how to post
You'll F%^k up posting roll. No doubt. But do it anyway. Someone will fix whatever mess you make. Like mich34 said: just post. That's your promise to us. If your word is good, you will have just taken the option to dip off the table. Everything else is about making that decision easier for you to deal with.
Stay close to this site. Read read read. PM me if you need anything.
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Hang in there jiujitsuDUDE. I know exactly how you feel. There were many times I caved after only two hours. Two weeks is way too far to cave in now. You have been through the worst of it. It gets better. I have been there so many times but this time it is different. I will not give in to the craves.
It is also different for you. You are starting a new tobacco free life with your lovely bride. Think about how you and your wife will celebrate your first wedding anniversary without that filthy worm dirt in your lip. Maybe put $3 in a pickle jar every day for an anniversary gift for the both of you.
Hang tough my friend, TheEngineer.
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Hang in there jiujitsuDUDE. I know exactly how you feel. There were many times I caved after only two hours. Two weeks is way too far to cave in now. You have been through the worst of it. It gets better. I have been there so many times but this time it is different. I will not give in to the craves.
It is also different for you. You are starting a new tobacco free life with your lovely bride. Think about how you and your wife will celebrate your first wedding anniversary without that filthy worm dirt in your lip. Maybe put $3 in a pickle jar every day for an anniversary gift for the both of you.
Hang tough my friend, TheEngineer.
Figure it out!! It's to easy to cave without a promise. I know!