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Title: Help -fading fast
Post by: texasex04 on December 25, 2010, 06:59:00 PM
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props. I hate life right now.
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Smokeyg on December 25, 2010, 07:33:00 PM
Quote from: texasex04
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props. I hate life right now.
No, you are not doing this alone. We are with you.

You will make it through day one. You are stronger than your addiction. You deserve freedom.
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Cancrusher on December 25, 2010, 07:38:00 PM
Quote from: Smokeyg
Quote from: texasex04
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props.  I hate life right now.
No, you are not doing this alone. We are with you.

You will make it through day one. You are stronger than your addiction. You deserve freedom.
Texas,

You are NOT alone! That is what this site is all about. You posted roll. Now all you have to worry about is keeping your promise to us. You can do this any number of ways. Early on, I prefer the old minute to minute approach. Every minute that passes without that shit in your mouth is a battle won.

Trust me, a roll that has been posted is not a promise you want to break. I don't know you but I'll go ahead and guess that your word means something to you. If it does, you will understand why you must keep this promise. Your word is all you've got around here...Keep it perfect!

You got my digits in email and PM..

CC
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Cancrusher on December 25, 2010, 07:46:00 PM
TexaSex,

I got a challenge for you tonight:

1. Come up with a Quit plan tonight. (Here's a hint, #1 should be Post Roll)...you can add to it from here.

2. Please read THIS! (http://www.killthecan.org/facts/jennykern.asp)

3. Look at THESE! (http://www.killthecan.org/pics/)

4. Read THIS! (http://www.killthecan.org/yourquit/what.asp)

...This should keep you busy for a bit :)

CC
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: minuteofangle on December 25, 2010, 07:55:00 PM
Alright bud, you got some fine quitters in your corner now. Take their help and listen to what they are telling you. We have all been where you are now and we survived.....you will too. Grab those big hairy monkey nuts and man the hell up for a day or two....IT GETS BETTER!

MOA
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: ncgolfer on December 25, 2010, 08:24:00 PM
Texas, You've made the first step by posting roll. All the shit your dealing with will pass, but it wont be easy. Come over to March and talk with a few of us. I'm only 9 days quit, so I was at day 1 only a week ago. Embrace the suck ( and it does suck). It was about 4 days for me, longer for others. Go one day at a time, one hour, one minute if needed, just Honor your promise today. It will be the best Christmas present you could ever give yourself.
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Show on December 25, 2010, 09:27:00 PM
Quote from: texasex04
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props.  I hate life right now.
White knuckle it. Take it minute by minute if you have to. Grab some straws, toothpicks, hard candies, gum, sunflower seeds, anything that is not nicotine. Go for a run, bike ride, cross country ski, or any other exercise. Drink lots of water. Distract yourself. Get back in here tomorrow and post roll. You will find that normally there will be dozens of people on here at any given time to give you all the support you need. Hang in there. You can do this. We were all where you are now.
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Sadjr111 on December 25, 2010, 09:37:00 PM
Quote from: texasex04
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props. I hate life right now.
Tex, like the others have said, you are not alone. There are thousands of us that have been through the same shit you are going through. One other thing, you better not be fading fast man. You posted roll, so you can't dip today. Do that again tomorrow, and keep your word. One day at a time man. If you need another number send me a pm.
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Buckeye64 on December 25, 2010, 09:41:00 PM
Come and get it T-sex....welcome to the rest of your life. Cancrusher laid down some powerful reasons. Don't die a 90 lb weekling with bad breath and half a face. If you wanna die grab a rifle and die for something. Spit the shit out, search your vehicles and personal stashes and get rid of the worm dirt. Thanks for stepping up and posting your struggle. Your quit strengthens mine.


Buck
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: kms on December 25, 2010, 09:53:00 PM
That is exactly how I felt on day 1, day 2,  day 3! It won't get easier the next couple of days but, you can suck it up for 3 days to have the rest of your life back. I almost caved on day 3  didn't post roll until the afternoon so I could cave. But, for once in my life I stood up for myself with the support from the people on this site  made it to day 4. Big difference at that point. Your life is worth more than being dependent on nicotine. Use the people  resources on this site. Don't think right now because the fog  nic are guiding you - just following the advice of those that really care. Call or text me if you need to talk 575.621.1671
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: rock642 on December 25, 2010, 11:27:00 PM
Quote from: Cancrusher
Quote from: Smokeyg
Quote from: texasex04
So I am doing this alone and trying to make it through day 1. You peeps that have finished before me, mad props.  I hate life right now.
No, you are not doing this alone. We are with you.

You will make it through day one. You are stronger than your addiction. You deserve freedom.
Texas,

You are NOT alone! That is what this site is all about. You posted roll. Now all you have to worry about is keeping your promise to us. You can do this any number of ways. Early on, I prefer the old minute to minute approach. Every minute that passes without that shit in your mouth is a battle won.

Trust me, a roll that has been posted is not a promise you want to break. I don't know you but I'll go ahead and guess that your word means something to you. If it does, you will understand why you must keep this promise. Your word is all you've got around here...Keep it perfect!

You got my digits in email and PM..

CC
That's it right there!!
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: minuteofangle on December 26, 2010, 09:00:00 AM
Quote from: kms
That is exactly how I felt on day 1, day 2,  day 3! It won't get easier the next couple of days but, you can suck it up for 3 days to have the rest of your life back. I almost caved on day 3  didn't post roll until the afternoon so I could cave. But, for once in my life I stood up for myself with the support from the people on this site  made it to day 4. Big difference at that point. Your life is worth more than being dependent on nicotine. Use the people  resources on this site. Don't think right now because the fog  nic are guiding you - just following the advice of those that really care. Call or text me if you need to talk 575.621.1671
PS-Tsex...if youve had a boob job we expect to see them too when you make the HOF! 'boob' 'boob' :P
MOA
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: kms on December 26, 2010, 10:31:00 AM
Quote from: kms
That is exactly how I felt on day 1, day 2,  day 3!  It won't get easier the next couple of days but, you can suck it up for 3 days to have the rest of your life back.  I almost caved on day 3  didn't post roll until the afternoon so I could cave.  But, for once in my life I stood up for myself with the support from the people on this site  made it to day 4.  Big difference at that point.  Your life is worth more than being dependent on nicotine.  Use the people  resources on this site.  Don't think right now because the fog  nic are guiding you - just following the advice of those that really care.  Call or text me if you need to talk 575.621.1671
PS-Tsex...if youve had a boob job we expect to see them too when you make the HOF! 'boob' 'boob' :P
MOA

Only 83 more days to go 'finger point'
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: Bean on December 26, 2010, 09:08:00 PM
Remember why you're quitting. Remember the Kern family story. You have the strength to make a difference in your own life. Don't let nic control your life. Do you really think a few more minutes with nic is worth the disfiguring surgeries, the medical rehab, learning to make do without a tounge or jaw...or the pain nic inflicts on all those who love you.

You got a bunch of folks counting on YOU. We have been where you are. Nobody said this was easy, but everyone would tell you it is worth doing!!!

Stay strong and stay quit. And, if you got a great rack, let's see 'em. But most importantly, stay quit!!!
Title: Re: Help -fading fast
Post by: davenc on December 28, 2010, 07:55:00 AM
You've got a world of quitters in your corner waiting on you to unleash the fury. No Quitter Left Behind....