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Title: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Maverick705 on November 01, 2016, 05:18:00 PM
Hello everyone. I've been dipping for the last 10 years. I've been on and off the last 2 years though. I would love to quit as I'm afraid of cancer and the nicotine causes a lot of anxiety. I know I would feel so much better mentally if I could stay quit. I thought I was strong enough to do this alone but I've finally realized that I need help. I read an article on this site about someone getting mouth cancer and it scared the crap out of me. Just tossed all my cans and I don't plan on going back. I sincerely plan on staying off of the dip and I'm excited to join this community and kick the can for good!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: eyehatecope on November 01, 2016, 05:28:00 PM
Quote from: Maverick705
Hello everyone. I've been dipping for the last 10 years. I've been on and off the last 2 years though. I would love to quit as I'm afraid of cancer and the nicotine causes a lot of anxiety. I know I would feel so much better mentally if I could stay quit. I thought I was strong enough to do this alone but I've finally realized that I need help. I read an article on this site about someone getting mouth cancer and it scared the crap out of me. Just tossed all my cans and I don't plan on going back. I sincerely plan on staying off of the dip and I'm excited to join this community and kick the can for good!
Read the link on my profile. Jenny and Tom Kern. If that doesn't bring tears to your eyes and give you motivation. I'm afraid nothing will. Go to the February 17 quit group and begin posting roll. I will be proud to support you. Let me retrieve that link for you.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: eyehatecope on November 01, 2016, 05:29:00 PM
February 17  (http://forum.killthecan.org/topic/30053935/24/)

go here and post roll.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: eyehatecope on November 01, 2016, 05:32:00 PM
I promise this is the way to officially kick the can/habit. Accountability, friendship/brother/sisterhood. It's real.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Maverick705 on November 01, 2016, 06:50:00 PM
Thank you. I just read the post. That was a hard read but honestly it's what I needed. You never think that could happen to you and I'm scared to death that it could happen even after quitting, but at least I know that by quitting, things can only get better. I posted roll as well. I appreciate your help and your support!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: pab1964 on November 01, 2016, 09:39:00 PM
Quote from: Maverick705
Thank you. I just read the post. That was a hard read but honestly it's what I needed. You never think that could happen to you and I'm scared to death that it could happen even after quitting, but at least I know that by quitting, things can only get better. I posted roll as well. I appreciate your help and your support!
Best decision you ever made when you posted roll! I quit with you today!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: pab1964 on November 01, 2016, 09:40:00 PM
Quote from: eyehatecope
I promise this is the way to officially kick the can/habit. Accountability, friendship/brother/sisterhood. It's real.
Way to stay after him eyehatecope!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Rawls on November 01, 2016, 10:23:00 PM
Quote from: pab1964
Quote from: Maverick705
Thank you. I just read the post. That was a hard read but honestly it's what I needed. You never think that could happen to you and I'm scared to death that it could happen even after quitting, but at least I know that by quitting, things can only get better. I posted roll as well. I appreciate your help and your support!
Best decision you ever made when you posted roll! I quit with you today!
Gutsiest move I ever saw man!
Would be Proud to be your wing man.
Keep posting roll.
I Quit with you today.
Rawls 715
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: eyehatecope on November 02, 2016, 07:19:00 AM
Quote from: Maverick705
Thank you. I just read the post. That was a hard read but honestly it's what I needed. You never think that could happen to you and I'm scared to death that it could happen even after quitting, but at least I know that by quitting, things can only get better. I posted roll as well. I appreciate your help and your support!
I'm on my way to Feb 17 for you and Bokie. Glad to help!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: daneman2009 on November 02, 2016, 07:28:00 AM
Quote from: Maverick705
Hello everyone. I've been dipping for the last 10 years. I've been on and off the last 2 years though. I would love to quit as I'm afraid of cancer and the nicotine causes a lot of anxiety. I know I would feel so much better mentally if I could stay quit. I thought I was strong enough to do this alone but I've finally realized that I need help. I read an article on this site about someone getting mouth cancer and it scared the crap out of me. Just tossed all my cans and I don't plan on going back. I sincerely plan on staying off of the dip and I'm excited to join this community and kick the can for good!
Welcome Mav. Glad to have you!
Stay Quit, post roll, get on chat. See you there.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: rdad on November 02, 2016, 09:50:00 AM
I'll quit by you today Mav. I see you posted roll. It is such a simple thing but its the foundation of why this place works. Welcome to KTC!
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: brettlees on November 02, 2016, 10:28:00 AM
Quote from: rdad
I'll quit by you today Mav. I see you posted roll. It is such a simple thing but its the foundation of why this place works. Welcome to KTC!
I'm with you too- nice work so far. Keep reading to learn what you are really fighting- it will help in the long run.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Cope30 on November 02, 2016, 02:06:00 PM
Quitting will be the best decision you have ever made. After a few days/weeks you will think you made a bad decision to quit, don't let your emotions run your mind. If you don't understand now, you will later.
I post and ghost a lot, dealing with life after dip and it gets better. 30+ year dipper myself. Trying to get myself more involved again with KTC because if it had not been for complete strangers, who now I call "BROTHERS" I would have caved a long time ago.

We are all NIC addicts here and no one will ever be cured, we are treating the addiction by way of accountability!
This site will help you succeed if you use the resources available here.

If you need someone to talk to about anything, HMU, I think I've been through it all and the other side is looking beautiful.

PM me if you need to chat

Cope30 - 445
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Maverick705 on November 02, 2016, 06:36:00 PM
Thanks everyone! Funny thing, I've always thought that I would be strong enough on my own to quit. Turns out, I wasn't. I can already see that joining this community was an excellent decision as you all have been fighting the same fight, and seem very supportive and friendly. I know I can stay quit with your support.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: Viking on November 02, 2016, 09:31:00 PM
I'm not strong enough on my own either. I was too macho about 4 days ago to admit it.

My wife has never had an addiction so there is no real great way for her to understand what I'm going through. As much as she has been there for me through thick and thin, I think this one may be beyond her skill set. Not her fault. My fault.

We'll do this together. Can't expect anyone else to understand. Others here have done it, so why can't we. 97 days to go until HOF. 1 day to go til day 4. 3 hours until exactly 72 hours nicotine free.

Rock on February 17 HOFs.
Title: Re: Kicking the can for good
Post by: pab1964 on November 02, 2016, 10:39:00 PM
Quote from: Maverick705
Thanks everyone! Funny thing, I've always thought that I would be strong enough on my own to quit. Turns out, I wasn't. I can already see that joining this community was an excellent decision as you all have been fighting the same fight, and seem very supportive and friendly. I know I can stay quit with your support.
Thought i was strong enough to do it on my own for 38 years! And almost 2 years later I've got all the help I could ever need!