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Offline Rick Jr

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Re: Day 15
« Reply #5 on: April 22, 2019, 09:37:41 PM »
Hey Brother, Proud to be quit with you. You are doing a fantastic job and I am proud to call you a Brother in Mayhem!

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Re: Day 15
« Reply #4 on: March 02, 2019, 01:48:02 PM »
Welcome James, and welcome to the May group. Nice work on the quit so far. I’m also in the May group so I’m going through many of the same things you are right now. Day 22 for me.  My first name is Jon.  The resources to stay quit are all right hear, but it has to be your decision every day when you wake up to quit for that day.

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Re: Day 15
« Reply #3 on: March 02, 2019, 09:45:33 AM »
On February 15th after 19 years of using nicotine, I am now free for 15 days.
 I make no assumptions that it will be easier as I make it deeper into the day count.
 I do know that dip controlled my life, thinking about how to sneak around to get one in even if it was 10mins. How I would rather stay home and dip then maintain friendships because I couldn't do it around others.
 I found this site a year or two ago and it made me prepare.  I set the date,  threw away all my cans, went on vacation and I am back with a vengeance to stay vigilant understand my triggers, find the will to power through my mind.
 My habit cost me and my family $250 dollars or more a month. This is a tremendous financial burden to bear. I will not go back I owe it to my wife, daughter and son on the way. I am stealing money from them to support my self destruction.
   
 
Welcome James. Good job posting roll today. We are both still new in this quit. Rely on your May group. Lots of great guys and tons of support. Send a PM if you need any digits. We are proud to be quit with you!!

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Re: Day 15
« Reply #2 on: March 02, 2019, 09:32:33 AM »
James1981


Welcome to the group. Here are some words of wisdom I like to share:

The main way to be successful is to just decide that you have quit. Once you stop the negotiating in your head as to whether you will do one more or not the rest becomes far more simple.

The next important thing is to learn how to distract your attention. When you get those thoughts about dipping, switch your attention and think about something else. Anything else that you like. This ability to change your focus will guarantee your success and make your quit that much easier.

When you place a dip in your mouth, your brain releases sugars. Well, those sugars are now going to be gone.

However, you can replace them with OJ or other fruit juices with sugar. This will provide some comfort, especially on your initial quit days.

Make sure to exercise with weights and cardio when you feel that nagging tension in your muscles, you feel that rage, when you can not sleep and when you cannot focus. Exercise really helps.

Here is one that most people overlook. Get at least 3 square meals a day. Hunger can really bring on those urges so squash those urges before they come. Eat full healthy meals and do not let yourself get excessively hungry. You will see this helps a great deal.

I waited until I was 59 quit after using tobacco for 40 years. You are wise to quit now.

I quit with you today.

Dundippin day 1265

Offline james1981

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Day 15
« on: March 02, 2019, 07:39:49 AM »
 On February 15th after 19 years of using nicotine, I am now free for 15 days.
 I make no assumptions that it will be easier as I make it deeper into the day count.
 I do know that dip controlled my life, thinking about how to sneak around to get one in even if it was 10mins. How I would rather stay home and dip then maintain friendships because I couldn't do it around others.
 I found this site a year or two ago and it made me prepare.  I set the date,  threw away all my cans, went on vacation and I am back with a vengeance to stay vigilant understand my triggers, find the will to power through my mind.
 My habit cost me and my family $250 dollars or more a month. This is a tremendous financial burden to bear. I will not go back I owe it to my wife, daughter and son on the way. I am stealing money from them to support my self destruction.