To Toddy, my July-quit brother,
I'm going to lean on you, man. I need you to succeed. I need you to be nicotine-free every day. Yeah, it's selfish, but whatever. Fuck it. If you can quit, I can quit. That's my attitude. You're 10 years older than me and have 10 more years of habit in your blood and in your conscience. If you can quit and stay quit, I have absolutely no fucking excuses. And I find a lot of value in that, bro. A lot.
For what it's worth, you can lean on me, too.
But I will warn you: I am certainly a pervert, and I will nibble on your asshole if you lean TOO close.