Welcome Rob. Glad to have you aboard. I'm in your quit group (day 8 for me today). Your story is pretty similar and you will find many others that have ones just as similar. Didn't want my wife and kids to see the dip so I also would spend 20 minutes or so in the bathroom to get one while moronically dodging my family. Glad to say that after only 8 days, I already know that it's not necessarily that I'm a jerk (although there's probably some truth to that too), I'm an ADDICT. That's a really hard realization to come to, especially when you take so much pride in being in control of your life, shape, athletics too (wrestler here as well). However, once you get there, the power you take back from nicotine is amazing.
There's a PM in your box from me. Use it any time you need to. Don't even think about returning to slavery until you convince at least two of your quit brothers or sisters that it's a good idea. You're making an awesome decision to take your life back before it's too late. The first few days will suck, but take it out on us on the site. We can take it, and we remember that fog the first couple days.
Glad to have you here, and let's kick some nicotine ass bro.
J2thaZ