Glad to have you Diesel. There are plenty of women on this site that either dipped or smoked and I"m sure that you will find plenty of support from both the male and female contingent.
Pinched laid it out for you. Read, read read. Understand you are an addict and that you need accountability; accountability that we can provide, but it's up to you to be here to use it.
POST ROLL EVERYDAY. There is no excuse to miss roll. When you do post roll, don't just post and leave. Stick around for five or ten minutes and read what your quit breatheren in June are going through. We use many examples from passed mistakes and great choices from those before you to help strengthen your resolve.
Stick around, post roll, participate, read, and spread the knowledge you learn to the new quitters after you. Pass it on.