Diesel and Evil nailed it. There will be a time to pay it forward, but all I suggest right now is to get and stay closely connected to your group. All of them? In a way, yes. But if you can saddle up with four of five guys, communicate early and often, you'll have that IMMEDIATE ring of support for each other. I will tell you, that was what got me, lcwb96, Dr. Dirt, mfkuss, The Dali and diplessinjax to the HoF. We still communicate via text and email, almost all day, every day. We just locked arms and took that bitch on day after day and today.
Reach out for you, and the help will be mutually felt.