Hey Guys - I appreciate the posts and PM's very much.
I agree 100% that the quit has to be yours, cannot be linked to anyone else...with the exception of God. My quit is for God, Family and Self. But the effort, pain and discomfort are mine and the anger and frustration during the process are shared primarily with God and you guys. (my family thanks you)
That being said one of the guys stated it so well when he said.."I want the whole world to quit and it ticks me off when someone doesn't, it messes with my quota"
This site is as close to a silver bullet as exist in the world of quitting nic and there is no one in the world I would rather share it with then my brother. So thanks again for the help in giving him a taste of what this community is like. Not sure he will quit now...but the effort is always worth it, the results are out of our hands.