Hello. I am on day one and need encouragement. My spouse doesn't think I can do it and is very negative about it. Help!
Hang in there. Everyone responding is right this is about you. I'm on day 12 and this quit is really different than the past for a couple of reasons. This fourum and posting roll call everyday has been a God send for me. It might seem silly but i really look forward to it everyday. I draw energy and fraternity from it. Also, I am making myself number 1 during this ordeal. I have wife, kids, and all the responsibilities that everyone else has and I'm doing my responsibilities but when I have a crave, whatever I need to do to get through, I'm doing. If I need to run, work out, go to the store, or just crawl in bed and sleep though the crave, I'm doing it. God will make sure you have time for all your responsibilities. Come do this quit with me. It truely is one day at a time. We are worth it. P.S. My wife was very skeptical about my quit. She knew in the past quits I could become mean. I am walking away from situations when I feel "mean" this time. There is a page for spouse on this web sight that I printed off for her.