Hello! I just registered on this forum today (December 1, 2015), but I've been lurking and taking in suggestions for 3 or 4 months now.
I chewed for 20 years here in suburban Detroit, through college (Cornell University in NY) and beyond. It probably didn't help that I played hockey all the way through college, and everyone chewed. I don't swallow, but I became so "good" at dipping, that I could go on a 3 hour car ride with my girlfriend, and she wouldn't know I was chewing. Just emptied out a coke bottle about halfway, and pretended I was drinking. I think a lot of us have learned things like this.
Over the course of these years, I needed a dip to take a shower, to get on the computer, after a meal, after a jog, after a beer, after the girlfriend goes to sleep for my pre-sleep dip, and of course, the 1st dip in the morning. I mean, I was really dependent on this stuff to do a lot of things. Grizzley was my dip of choice when it came out.
I've tried all kinds of things. Smaller pinches, moving it around from the left side of my mouth, front, right side of my mouth, and trying not to have it in one place all the time. At times, the inside of my lip would burn so badly I'd have to move it to the other side. I've even gone to extremes like putting the dip on the top of my mouth, although it's quite difficult to do.
I'm an avid sports fan, and seeing people like Tony Gwynn die of mouth cancer and Curt Schilling come down with mouth cancer ... I don't wanna die of mouth cancer, and although I'm healthy, I'm afraid if I kept going, that's what would happen.
In late August or early September (I didn't record the date), I quit cold turkey. I developed anxiety issues. It wasn't so much that I wasn't getting a buzz off nicotine; the only time I ever got a slight buzz was the 1st dip after waking up. It was mostly a hand-to-mouth / oral fixation thing. I struggled, but I didn't dip. Even after a couple months without a dip, I was still struggling when I found this website.
There are tons of Meijers here in suburban Detroit, and I noticed that you could get Smokey Mountain chew (no tobacco). I decided to give it a go, since I felt the oral fixation was causing the anxiety. It's been working out well. The outlet that sells Jake's Mint Chew is a bit further away, and thus far, Smokey Mountain is really helping the anxiety out, as well as the boredom.
My personal opinion is that it all comes down to retraining your brain so you start thinking that you don't need a dip when waking up, taking a shower, after a meal, going on the computer, etc., etc., and realizing you can relax and be just fine without chewing.
Anyway, brevity isn't my specialty, so if you made it this far, thanks for reading. I look forward to engaging in the community. I just had one question: what is this magical "100 days" thing that I've seen some type about? After 100 days, the urges should begin subsiding?
Thanks!