Telling your wife about the quitting (and by association the former ninja dipping) is a huge step. Of course she was pissed right? As a former ninja myself, I know it involves all kinds of deception and dishonesty. In time she will understand and see you in a better way, becuase it will get so much better. But she will not be able to understand how difficult it is to quit. We do here though, so lean on your quit brothers and with your newfound integrity, make that promise on roll every day! Quit with you EDD.
CJ