@jMcKay - I never officially joined a group or traded phone number with anyone. That still doesn't mean I didn't get TONS of help and insight from this forum and its members, I do credit this site for my success and I have shown it to many others. I don't like to share my personal issues with total strangers, I don't mean to be rude but I am old school when it comes to making friends on the Internet, I don't do it. I make and have friends in real life and maybe then I will communicate, share with them via the Internet. I know some may get mad at me or call me an asshole but, it worked for me and I have stayed quit for over 6 years now, isn't that all that matters, staying quit...
Now, I came on everyday, just like roll-call except I didn't post (I did post 1 time but that was it...), after that 1 post I would just read and reflect. I stayed on this site daily for over a year, then less frequently after that. Not everyone needs to follow the directive to be successful. Hell, I saw tons of people who posted roll-call daily for months then disappear... They were following the directive to the max and they faltered, I knew what I needed to do to be nicotine free.
If there are any other "Lurkers" out there, I know you can make it too, stay strong and shoot me a pm if you need any support from a fellow former Lurker, Best Wishes to All and Free yourselves from the BEAST!
