Intro quittin day 1

[CastleHusky]

Where the fuck are you? You're one of the youngest guys here and you've got a chance to beat this thing before it wrecks your life unlike the majority of the people on this site. A lot of people spent a lot of time making sure you weren't going to give up. It had better not have been for nothing.

[Kdip]

I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies

Wasn't such a good idea was it? Think you learned something about drinking?

It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is

Do you have a better grasp of this or is your head still in your ass?

it was my first time ever trying

We don't try or hope here. We quit!

I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me

To what leangths are you willing to go to break the chains?

I want to be QUIT

Then you better put on your big boy pants!

Solid advice from a bad ass quitter above Minor!!! Now its time to come clean with your family with the dirty laundry while you are at it!!! It will add a layer of accountability and assure that you won't make the mistake again of shoving that shit in your pie hole. You may be surprised that by coming clean and admitting your mistakes from the past, your relationship with your family will grow. I too was a ninja with my family and while it was tough coming clean, I have no regrets now.

[RAZD611]

I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies

Wasn't such a good idea was it? Think you learned something about drinking?

It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is

Do you have a better grasp of this or is your head still in your ass?

it was my first time ever trying

We don't try or hope here. We quit!

I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me

To what leangths are you willing to go to break the chains?

I want to be QUIT

Then you better put on your big boy pants!

[FMBM707]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

I caved and am leaving the roll call

This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?

I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit

I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.

You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.

Dude...you're 30? Start acting like it.

You sound weak. Do you walk upright or do you just kind of slosh about like a glob of shit, due to your lack of having a spine? Seriously, GROW A PAIR.

You might want to lay off the booze as well, slick. It may in fact NOT be a good idea to get wasted with your budfie, as you know there's a high probability of "the tins coming out".

Gotta be honest...I'd be absolutely floored if your bitch ass made it to the hof. I'll be here in 100 to see if have to eat my words, will you?

Minor is 18. He was responding to 30yraddict.

Minor regardless of your age, the only way a quit will work is if you own your quit. What that means is you take responsibilities for your actions, you recognize that you are addicted to nicotine and you and only you can make the decision to not put that poison in your mouth. Look in the mirror- that is the person responsible for your addiction and that is the person that is responsible for your quit.

We can support you, we can help, we can give advice but you have to want it more than anything else you've wanted. Never again for any reason. You can do this if you want it bad enough. Wanting something and action are two different things. It's only through our actions that we can succeed.

Post roll early and be a man of your word. One day at a time.

[Diesel2112]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

I caved and am leaving the roll call

This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?

I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit

I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.

You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.

Dude...you're 30? Start acting like it.

You sound weak. Do you walk upright or do you just kind of slosh about like a glob of shit, due to your lack of having a spine? Seriously, GROW A PAIR.

You might want to lay off the booze as well, slick. It may in fact NOT be a good idea to get wasted with your budfie, as you know there's a high probability of "the tins coming out".

Gotta be honest...I'd be absolutely floored if your bitch ass made it to the hof. I'll be here in 100 to see if have to eat my words, will you?

[Tuco]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

I caved and am leaving the roll call

This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?

I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit

I honestly doubt that. On one hand, you're babbling about how scared you are of your addiction, and previously of your parents finding out you dip. On the other hand, you suddenly have all of this quitting shit figured out and have said all you need to say. You don't and you haven't. Not yet.

You are an addict. You will be an addict for the rest of your life. Until you acknowledge that, embrace it as the irrefutable truth, and use it as the guiding force behind the decisions you make each day, you will inevitably fail.

[Minor]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

I caved and am leaving the roll call

This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?

I've said all I need too now time will prove my quit

[Southpaw32]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

I caved and am leaving the roll call

This is how you reacted in October, with not a shred of remorse. You took a dump in October why should anyone believe you won't do it in December?

[Minor]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

1) It was day 2 at around 10pm and I thought it would be a good idea to go get wasted with my buddies. And about 4 or 5 shots in out come the tins at first I said no but by the end of the night I dipped
2)It happened because I didn't know how sensitive the quit really is it was my first time ever trying and I didn't know how strong the crave really would be
3)Everything I'm Scared of being addicted to dip but it still got it's grasp on me and I want to end this now it's substance abuse I can't even talk to people in the morning without a dip and I'm scared of the addiction not of quiting and what's different this time I'll be ready I've been reading on here nonstop and the more I read the better and now my parents know about my quit so they will support me a ton(both smoke cigs and can relate)all my freinds know and I want to be QUIT it disgusts me an I'm ready

[Tuco]

It's not clear to me if you ever actually quit in the first place and then caved, but assuming you did, here are the 3 questions:

1) What happened?

2) Why did it happen?

3) What are you going to do in the future so that it never happens again?

Fair warning: These are all very basic questions that demand, thorough well-thought out answers. Saying, "geez, I don't know..." or "I guess I fucked up" is the equivalent of shrugging your shoulders and telling the world that you are incapable of any kind of introspection, and in all likelihood a half-wit. Please don't do that. Take some time and really think about your answers to each of those questions carefully. Remember, they are for you, not for us.

[djhuft]

WTF I just finished that whole Introduction and all I heard was CAVE! Im also pissed because Smeds had to brings biscuits and gravy knowing its not breakfast time. Now I want some bg more than I want a dip. If im a little late on my roll call tomorrow its because I had to make an emergency stop to Bojangles!!!

Minor - I hope you make it. I'm 12 days into my quit. At some point someone stated that my quit sounded like something that just fell in my lap and they were not too far off with that assessment. Regardless this group, this site, and this system works. Without it, you will fail. My day 3 was so bad I had cave written all over me, but I went on this site and started reading and didn't stop until the panic feeling of not having a dip finally left me. Everyone is different, but I bet the vast majority would agree that day 1 is by far the hardest day. Making that decision and sticking to it for that first day takes balls. Get past the first three days and it gets a lot easier from there.

So here is the plan, go to Walmart tomorrow pick up some Smokey Mountain (Fake DIP) if they have it. Also, pick up some twizzlers, hot tamales, gum, hard candy or whatever you want to chew on. Then go home and start chewing one of these products and go on this site and start reading everything. You are pretty wishy washy at this point and there is a whole bunch of guys saying to you or to themselves that this son of a bitch is not ready to quit. So grow a pair and prove them wrong. Get past the next three days and stay on this site and read and ask questions and start meeting people and you will make it. Post Roll Call early tomorrow. Trust me, everyone on this site wants to see you on roll call tomorrow with a 2 beside your name. Don't let us down, but more importantly don't let yourself down.

[Minor]

ANSWER THE THREE QUESTIONS OR get the F out of here!

What are the questions ?

[Quitforsoj]

ANSWER THE THREE QUESTIONS OR get the F out of here!

[30yraddict]

Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know

Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.

You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.

However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?

If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.

No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though

Good deal..

I see you posted a day 1 over in December. Congratulations on a fantastic decision.

This isn't going to be easy at first, remember these first few days... and know that you never have to go through them again.

Make your daily promise not to use nicotine for 24 hours... honor that promise, repeat.

The more you read, the more you get involved, the more you exchange numbers with people, the stronger your quit will be.

welcome to the freakshow!

This thread is a train wreck.
Minor, get your shit together. Being 18 does not necessarily make you stupid. I was a fucking genius when I was 18 compared to the way you come off. Don't use youth as an excuse to fail or an excuse to act like failure is not your fault.
I wish I had found this place when I was 18. Unfortunately, that was back before "the internet" was around.
If you give a shit, act like it. If you don't, come back when you're 10 years older, $20,000 poorer, and 1000% more likely to die of cancer.
Answer the three questions you bitched out without answering two months ago.

shit... I thought that since you didn't know an ecig wasn't permitted you were new here!!!

Get your shit together and make up your mind that you want to do this.

[Lipizzaner]

Nolaq I did an I'm less dickhead more Dumbass sorry I didn't know

Nicotine is the substance that you are addicted to. The delivery vehicle does not matter.

You do not need to be a slave to nicotine. Thousands of people here have learned how to break the chains of active addiction. I am one of those people... and if I can do it, you can too. Get rid of the ecig, and join in. Visit our welcome center to learn about roll call and what it means.

However, before you begin, I am curious as to your user name and the reference to your parents... does "minor" mean that you are not 18 yet?

If that is the case, I regret to inform you that you can't participate on this board until your 18th birthday.

No 30 actually Minor is my name an I'm 18 can definitely see the confusion though

Good deal..

I see you posted a day 1 over in December. Congratulations on a fantastic decision.

This isn't going to be easy at first, remember these first few days... and know that you never have to go through them again.

Make your daily promise not to use nicotine for 24 hours... honor that promise, repeat.

The more you read, the more you get involved, the more you exchange numbers with people, the stronger your quit will be.

welcome to the freakshow!

This thread is a train wreck.
Minor, get your shit together. Being 18 does not necessarily make you stupid. I was a fucking genius when I was 18 compared to the way you come off. Don't use youth as an excuse to fail or an excuse to act like failure is not your fault.
I wish I had found this place when I was 18. Unfortunately, that was back before "the internet" was around.
If you give a shit, act like it. If you don't, come back when you're 10 years older, $20,000 poorer, and 1000% more likely to die of cancer.
Answer the three questions you bitched out without answering two months ago.