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Offline SirDerek

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Re: I love my family, I love myself, I quit...forever
« Reply #17 on: May 28, 2013, 09:41:00 PM »
I applaud you as I see you have stepped up and posted in the Sept group.

remember that this is you, this is your quit and only your quit.

and if you ever have any doubts, look in the mirror, take a good look and continue to see someone who is and will be clean for that day. Just 1 day is all I do, and is all we can ask for.

And if you ever feel like wavering, speak up and post in in your intro, post in in the Sept thread. And just wait for the replies to help.

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« Reply #16 on: May 28, 2013, 12:37:00 PM »
No activity in a couple days..... Does anyone have this mans number? You can lead a horse to the water... But hell! Coming clean about the nic gum and then falling off the site is def the wrong move. Guess he didn't like cold turkey!

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Re: I love my family, I love myself, I quit...forever
« Reply #15 on: May 27, 2013, 11:21:00 PM »
Itsmylife first you screwed up if this is this case you either failed to read the rules or openly lied. Either way..... Not good! Now go post with September and get your quit on. Leave all the nicotine out, use no form of it what so ever. And go by and post in August under the leper colony and apologize to us for shitting all over our quits by not following the rules. I even posted for you a few of those days when you text me too. I am not quit with you until you fix this and begin to post roll constantly.
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Re: I love my family, I love myself, I quit...forever
« Reply #14 on: May 27, 2013, 04:52:00 PM »
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Quote from: kana
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Sorry bro, but you need to take your butt to September, not August.  Posting roll for 20 days while chewing on nic tacs is not quitting.  Its actually being pretty dishonest.  If I were in August I might be breaking a foot off in your ass. 

I GUESS...you weren't chewing, but still you were suckling in the teet of the nic bitch while posting.  Unacceptable.

You need to apologize to all the champs of August, pack your shit and and move to September AND STAY QUIT....OF ALL FORMS OF NICOTINE.

You're off the gum, time to move to Sept and start piling up the +1's. 

You got this.
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Bro, just cause your called out for posting roll while not being quit, doesn't mean we don't want you to post roll today. Please don't fall out over pride! We support you today!
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« Reply #13 on: May 27, 2013, 04:37:00 PM »
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Sorry bro, but you need to take your butt to September, not August.  Posting roll for 20 days while chewing on nic tacs is not quitting.  Its actually being pretty dishonest.  If I were in August I might be breaking a foot off in your ass. 

I GUESS...you weren't chewing, but still you were suckling in the teet of the nic bitch while posting.  Unacceptable.

You need to apologize to all the champs of August, pack your shit and and move to September AND STAY QUIT....OF ALL FORMS OF NICOTINE.

You're off the gum, time to move to Sept and start piling up the +1's. 

You got this.
This will be an interesting one to watch... 'Popcorn'
clean can I join you... 'Popcorn'
Bro, just cause your called out for posting roll while not being quit, doesn't mean we don't want you to post roll today. Please don't fall out over pride! We support you today!

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« Reply #12 on: May 27, 2013, 10:45:00 AM »
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Sorry bro, but you need to take your butt to September, not August.  Posting roll for 20 days while chewing on nic tacs is not quitting.  Its actually being pretty dishonest.  If I were in August I might be breaking a foot off in your ass. 

I GUESS...you weren't chewing, but still you were suckling in the teet of the nic bitch while posting.  Unacceptable.

You need to apologize to all the champs of August, pack your shit and and move to September AND STAY QUIT....OF ALL FORMS OF NICOTINE.

You're off the gum, time to move to Sept and start piling up the +1's. 

You got this.
This will be an interesting one to watch... 'Popcorn'
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« Reply #11 on: May 27, 2013, 10:18:00 AM »
There are many reasons this is a problem, but I'll speak to one I know well. When a new guy reads that you use nic gum, and they themselves are struggling with there quit, they see a possible way around chewing while still getting a nic fix! It can weaken a new guys resolve, and lead them back into the nic bitches trap! I fell into that trap in the past and don't want you to think it's ok or a new guy to think it's ok. It is still nicotine and still holds you as a slave. Not to mention prolonging withdrawal. I'm glad you are off it now. Post roll with Sept. Good luck. You can do it!

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« Reply #10 on: May 27, 2013, 09:30:00 AM »
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Sorry bro, but you need to take your butt to September, not August. Posting roll for 20 days while chewing on nic tacs is not quitting. Its actually being pretty dishonest. If I were in August I might be breaking a foot off in your ass.

I GUESS...you weren't chewing, but still you were suckling in the teet of the nic bitch while posting. Unacceptable.

You need to apologize to all the champs of August, pack your shit and and move to September AND STAY QUIT....OF ALL FORMS OF NICOTINE.

You're off the gum, time to move to Sept and start piling up the +1's.

You got this.
This will be an interesting one to watch... 'Popcorn'
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« Reply #9 on: May 27, 2013, 12:17:00 AM »
Sorry bro, but you need to take your butt to September, not August. Posting roll for 20 days while chewing on nic tacs is not quitting. Its actually being pretty dishonest. If I were in August I might be breaking a foot off in your ass.

I GUESS...you weren't chewing, but still you were suckling in the teet of the nic bitch while posting. Unacceptable.

You need to apologize to all the champs of August, pack your shit and and move to September AND STAY QUIT....OF ALL FORMS OF NICOTINE.

You're off the gum, time to move to Sept and start piling up the +1's.

You got this.
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« Reply #8 on: May 26, 2013, 11:04:00 PM »
Can you explain to me how you have been posting roll in August that you have been clean for 20 days while using nicorette for 18 of those days? We are clear about bieng a nicotene free site! Period. No posting roll while using! I am unable to see how you could have missed that! Of course in 20 days you have posted 16 times total so maybe your lack of involvement has something to do with it.....??? Do I sound harsh? People like Scott and I have had to man up to mistakes we have made and take our lashings and Here I read today that you are posting in my group while using!!!! Fuck! I have to stop typing before I say something rude. You want to explain this to August?

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« Reply #7 on: May 07, 2013, 09:41:00 AM »
Sounds like you want this. Only advice is want it today, forever is to much to ask for. Today is hard enough, tommorow will get a bit easier and so forth. Only time I fear that nic can win is the day I am stupid enough to think I've won. I need to quit everyday, I think you might need to as well. KTC can help you it is helping save my life everyday.

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« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2013, 12:00:00 AM »
My only quit advice to add:

Read your intro every single day. It was organic and true, It was YOU. I don't know you, but I know where that intro came from. Don't search for answers. You just answered all of them. Read your own words every fucking day. You said all you needed to say to get you through today. Tomorrow, read it again. You said enough to stay quit. Actually, you gave a BUNCH of reasons to stay quit. You got this.

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Re: I love my family, I love myself, I quit...forever
« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2013, 10:33:00 PM »
Welcome to freedom bro!
Remember... this quit is for you. YOU. Everything and everyone else can be great incentives but in the end you have to quit for you. You've got some great starting advice... follow it and get into the groove. We're with you man! I quit with you today, too! Rock it...
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« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2013, 08:04:00 PM »
Hey man go post roll and join us. So many folks here are ready to help. They also have so much advice that helps although candid and tough to hear at times. Post roll and be in August with me. I will quit with you brother!
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« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2013, 07:34:00 PM »
Quote from: itsmylife
I have chewed on and off for at least 15 years. even as I write it, it is hard to accept that it has been that long. I understand that all this time I have been operating under the delusion that I can quit anytime, and that I am too young to worry about it now. But, now I'm 44, and I am fully resolved to quit, forever.

I read the story of Randy, and also of Tom, and I started crying uncontrollably, for them, their families and the thought that one day, that could be me. I have a wonderful girlfriend, 3 brothers, two sisters, nieces, nephews, a mother, stepmother, aunts and uncles. I love them all. For them, for me and for my new brothers and sisters in this community, I quit, now, forever.
Don't worry about forever, that is a really, really long time. Besides, you just have to quit until you die.

Seriously, just worry about quitting today. You can get your arms around a longer time period in a few weeks after you've gotten over the early withdrawals and challenges.

Post roll making your promise not to use nicotine in any form today.
Keep your word because you are a man of integrity.
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