Any advice on how to quit?
I've read the board for a few months, it seems that all of the quitters are able to do so out of nowhere.
I've gone cold turkey before, just didn't stick. I've also weened myself off of the can with a mint snuff/skoal mixture, I gradually decreased my nicotine levels until I was off of it. That worked for a year, 12 months without before life kicked my ass and I instantly put myself back where I started. I hate the social stigma that my disgusting habit puts me in. If that's not enough, my doctor recently told me that my habit has put my blood pressure levels far above what should be expected, scary thing to hear at the age of 26.
In your experience, how does one go about handling the initial endeavor? Quit slowly or abruptly?
Chewie hit the nail on the head... there are so many different ways to quit.
For me, it took several failed attempts, some self loathing (for allowing this to control me), and finally coming to the realization that if I didn't quit when I did, I would be a dead man. This stuff is killing you as we speak (err... type).
It still has control over me. I'm coming up on a year and there are still times when I get a crave. The difference is now they are far and few between, and aren't much of a fight anymore. Plus this place keeps me on the straight and narrow.
I've seen success stories from both sides of the coin (weaning off vs cold turkey). I did it cold turkey. My suggestion for your quit? Accountability. Make some friends here that are willing to fight it out with you. Give yourself no room for rationalizations. Our group decided early on that we weren't allowed to cave unless we got permission from another quit member. Wanna guess how many of us gave that permission? There are a lot of people here who have my number, and they all know they're more than welcome to use it any time. I give that much because it also helps keep me accountable. Who would want to talk to a guy who can't stay clean himself?
Whatever whenever and however you decide to quit is entirely up to you. I just pray that it's not too late when you realize how important it is.