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Offline 30yraddict

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #10 on: November 30, 2012, 07:33:00 PM »
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hey Stephen from Memphis,

Welcome. It is great to someone else who wants to take their life back!
You are in the right place.
Click on the Salmon colored "Welcome Center" button above left and read, read and read.

We post Roll every a.m....the earlier the better.
Posting roll means we are giving our word to ourselves and our brethren in Quit that we won't put the poison in our mouth TODAY.
We keep our word all day and night...doing seeds, water, exercise, hanging in the chat room, whatever it takes to get to bed clean.
We wake up and REPEAT.
We QUIT one Day at a time.
No NICOTINE allowed!!!!! No pussy cigars, no cancer sticks, no pussy patches, no NICOTINE at ALL!  Fake dip is allowed. Ranting in the chat room, running 5 miles, sunflower seeds, toothpicks are ALLOWED. Get the picture?
There are tools here for YOU to be QUIT.
Many perfect strangers are here to help YOU!
YOU can KILL the can!
I dipped 30 years, 24/7 1-2 cans per day. Lucky to be alive! I am 190 daze quit and never thought in a million years I could do THIS!
If I can, YOU can.
It gets waaaaaayyyyyyy better as you begin to WIN the WAR against the NIC Bitch!!!
Cheers and WELCOME to HELL!!!!
WE are here with you!
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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #9 on: November 30, 2012, 05:03:00 PM »
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hey Stephen from Memphis,

Welcome. It is great to someone else who wants to take their life back!
You are in the right place.
Click on the Salmon colored "Welcome Center" button above left and read, read and read.

We post Roll every a.m....the earlier the better.
Posting roll means we are giving our word to ourselves and our brethren in Quit that we won't put the poison in our mouth TODAY.
We keep our word all day and night...doing seeds, water, exercise, hanging in the chat room, whatever it takes to get to bed clean.
We wake up and REPEAT.
We QUIT one Day at a time.
No NICOTINE allowed!!!!! No pussy cigars, no cancer sticks, no pussy patches, no NICOTINE at ALL! Fake dip is allowed. Ranting in the chat room, running 5 miles, sunflower seeds, toothpicks are ALLOWED. Get the picture?
There are tools here for YOU to be QUIT.
Many perfect strangers are here to help YOU!
YOU can KILL the can!
I dipped 30 years, 24/7 1-2 cans per day. Lucky to be alive! I am 190 daze quit and never thought in a million years I could do THIS!
If I can, YOU can.
It gets waaaaaayyyyyyy better as you begin to WIN the WAR against the NIC Bitch!!!
Cheers and WELCOME to HELL!!!!
WE are here with you!
damn what a post

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #8 on: November 30, 2012, 04:32:00 PM »
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Hey steven. Welcome to KTC and congratulations on making a great decision to quit.  This site and the people here are fantastic and will help you along the way.  Just get on over to the March 13 quit group and post up your day 1, a lot of great quitters in that group as well.  Throw away any type of nicotine that you may have. Learn to hate tobacco!!  I quit with you today.  I'm also 27 and from the great state of Tennessee. I live about 20 miles from Knoxville.  If you need anything just pm me.
thanks man. 20 miles from knoxville....towards townsend by chance? i hang out in Walland and Townsend quite a bit.
In Loudon actually but either way still not to far away.
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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #7 on: November 30, 2012, 04:28:00 PM »
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Hey steven. Welcome to KTC and congratulations on making a great decision to quit. This site and the people here are fantastic and will help you along the way. Just get on over to the March 13 quit group and post up your day 1, a lot of great quitters in that group as well. Throw away any type of nicotine that you may have. Learn to hate tobacco!! I quit with you today. I'm also 27 and from the great state of Tennessee. I live about 20 miles from Knoxville. If you need anything just pm me.
thanks man. 20 miles from knoxville....towards townsend by chance? i hang out in Walland and Townsend quite a bit.
Quit Date: 11/30/12.

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #6 on: November 30, 2012, 04:25:00 PM »
thanks for all the welcomes and encouragement. i decided that "hopefully" is not my word anymore.

I posted my first roll call about 15 minutes ago or so in the march 13 group. immediately after tossed the remaining 1/2 can in the toilet at work.
Quit Date: 11/30/12.

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #5 on: November 30, 2012, 03:39:00 PM »
Hey steven. Welcome to KTC and congratulations on making a great decision to quit. This site and the people here are fantastic and will help you along the way. Just get on over to the March 13 quit group and post up your day 1, a lot of great quitters in that group as well. Throw away any type of nicotine that you may have. Learn to hate tobacco!! I quit with you today. I'm also 27 and from the great state of Tennessee. I live about 20 miles from Knoxville. If you need anything just pm me.
Experience is the name we give to our mistakes." Oscar Wilde

Roll call is not a daily attendance sheet, it is a daily pledge" - Boelker62

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #4 on: November 30, 2012, 03:36:00 PM »
hey Stephen from Memphis,

Welcome. It is great to someone else who wants to take their life back!
You are in the right place.
Click on the Salmon colored "Welcome Center" button above left and read, read and read.

We post Roll every a.m....the earlier the better.
Posting roll means we are giving our word to ourselves and our brethren in Quit that we won't put the poison in our mouth TODAY.
We keep our word all day and night...doing seeds, water, exercise, hanging in the chat room, whatever it takes to get to bed clean.
We wake up and REPEAT.
We QUIT one Day at a time.
No NICOTINE allowed!!!!! No pussy cigars, no cancer sticks, no pussy patches, no NICOTINE at ALL! Fake dip is allowed. Ranting in the chat room, running 5 miles, sunflower seeds, toothpicks are ALLOWED. Get the picture?
There are tools here for YOU to be QUIT.
Many perfect strangers are here to help YOU!
YOU can KILL the can!
I dipped 30 years, 24/7 1-2 cans per day. Lucky to be alive! I am 190 daze quit and never thought in a million years I could do THIS!
If I can, YOU can.
It gets waaaaaayyyyyyy better as you begin to WIN the WAR against the NIC Bitch!!!
Cheers and WELCOME to HELL!!!!
WE are here with you!
Keeping my jaw and tongue...I like them.
It's poison I tell ya, You wouldn't drink Liquid Drano, would ya?

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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #3 on: November 30, 2012, 03:25:00 PM »
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Hey everyone. I'm Stephen from Memphis, TN. 27 years old, been dipping for over 13 years. Started the second week of my freshman year of high school.

In the past I've talked about quitting, even doing "laser therapy" which i think is a crock of crap, but I tried. I've used e-cigs, bac-off, and nicorette. Tried chewing gum, hard candy, sunflower seeds, you name it.

I have managed to quit for a few weeks at a time, but something inevitably keeps me going back to the store. My "most successful" attempt lasted about 6 weeks. I was doing great, and then went fly fishing. I had never fished without a dip in my mouth, and it didn't feel right, so i left the river, went and got a can, and the rest is history. This was about 4 years ago now.

Currently I fluxuate between 1 and 2 cans a day of long cut grizzly wintergreen. And i HATE it. As I said previously, I've talked about quitting, and thought about it, but now I'm serious. I know you can't quit if you don't want to, but now I have a very strong, overwhelming desire to kill the can.

To give you a little about my current dipping habits...I'll put a dip in, and spit it out 10 minutes later. And then I'll miss the feeling of that wad between my cheek and receeding gums. So I'll do it again. Sometimes I'll even put a dip in, decide i don't really want it, and spit it out.

This time I'm so serious about quitting, I'd even consider going to an inpatient treatment facility if i could find one that dealt with tobacco. I can no longer keep this shit up.

I've been heavily addicted to other substances before (cocaine), and was able to quit cold turkey and not look back. The can has such a firm grasp on my life, I just can't do it alone. When I try to quit, my demeanor and attitude is so shitty and people hate being around me, that I always go back. Even I hate being around me when I'm not using.

Any advice, words of wisdom, local groups, and suggestions as far as things like accupuncture/hypnosis are GREATLY appreciated. Hopefully I'll post my Day 1 and roll call soon.

Thanks!

TL;DR: I'm Stephen from Memphis, 27 years old. Really want to quit. Can't do it alone. Please give advice.
Welcome - you are making a great first step. Go to the group page and find March 2012 and post up. Then post everyday that you will quit. Read everything you can on this site. Connect with fellow quitters. I dipped for 30 years. I missed that feeling. I always had a dip. When I quit I took up running and I got fake chew (mint). It helps with the need to "feel" it. I used it everyday for 100 days. then it slowly wasn't needed. BUT I still at day 901 post up everyday and keep a can of fake in the office. Haven't used it in a year.

You have to avoid triggers and be prepared when they hit. You have to quit for you, not wife, girlfriend, dog....

You will experience fog, rage, doubt, fear, and all around pissy moods. It comes and goes. Post up everyday that you will not dip. Are you a man of your word? If so - post up "I will not dip today". Then keep your word. Then do it again first thing in the morning. It's hard but it's not hard.

You can do this.
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Re: ready to quit
« Reply #2 on: November 30, 2012, 03:22:00 PM »
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In the past I've talked about quitting, even doing "laser therapy" which i think is a crock of crap, but I tried. I've used e-cigs, bac-off, and nicorette. Tried chewing gum, hard candy, sunflower seeds, you name it.
Quitting can't be done until you really want to do it. Sounds like you have finally got your head in the right place.
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To give you a little about my current dipping habits...I'll put a dip in, and spit it out 10 minutes later. And then I'll miss the feeling of that wad between my cheek and receeding gums. So I'll do it again. Sometimes I'll even put a dip in, decide i don't really want it, and spit it out.
Yep, that was me back in 2010. I would pack one as soon as I walked out the door (away from the kids), even if I was only running out for 2 minutes. I'd immediately wonder "WTH?". I got no enjoyment from it. Just a nasty addiction, plain and simple. That means you're ready.
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I've been heavily addicted to other substances before (cocaine), and was able to quit cold turkey and not look back. The can has such a firm grasp on my life, I just can't do it alone. When I try to quit, my demeanor and attitude is so shitty and people hate being around me, that I always go back. Even I hate being around me when I'm not using.
Nicotine is one of the very hardest to break, but it's simple to do, really.
1. Post roll. (Promise not to use nic for 24 hours)
2. Keep your word.
3. Repeat.
Not easy, but simple. Follow the plan here and you'll succeed.
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Any advice, words of wisdom, local groups, and suggestions as far as things like accupuncture/hypnosis are GREATLY appreciated. Hopefully I'll post my Day 1 and roll call soon.
Why are you waiting? Post roll right now. This is day one as long as you dump any remaining nic you have.

Remove the word "hopefully" from you vocabulary. There is no hope, try, or any such shit. There is "QUIT", and there is "NOT QUIT". Pick one. I know what my status is, and I'll be here tomorrow posting roll tomorrow.

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ready to quit
« on: November 30, 2012, 03:16:00 PM »
Hey everyone. I'm Stephen from Memphis, TN. 27 years old, been dipping for over 13 years. Started the second week of my freshman year of high school.

In the past I've talked about quitting, even doing "laser therapy" which i think is a crock of crap, but I tried. I've used e-cigs, bac-off, and nicorette. Tried chewing gum, hard candy, sunflower seeds, you name it.

I have managed to quit for a few weeks at a time, but something inevitably keeps me going back to the store. My "most successful" attempt lasted about 6 weeks. I was doing great, and then went fly fishing. I had never fished without a dip in my mouth, and it didn't feel right, so i left the river, went and got a can, and the rest is history. This was about 4 years ago now.

Currently I fluxuate between 1 and 2 cans a day of long cut grizzly wintergreen. And i HATE it. As I said previously, I've talked about quitting, and thought about it, but now I'm serious. I know you can't quit if you don't want to, but now I have a very strong, overwhelming desire to kill the can.

To give you a little about my current dipping habits...I'll put a dip in, and spit it out 10 minutes later. And then I'll miss the feeling of that wad between my cheek and receeding gums. So I'll do it again. Sometimes I'll even put a dip in, decide i don't really want it, and spit it out.

This time I'm so serious about quitting, I'd even consider going to an inpatient treatment facility if i could find one that dealt with tobacco. I can no longer keep this shit up.

I've been heavily addicted to other substances before (cocaine), and was able to quit cold turkey and not look back. The can has such a firm grasp on my life, I just can't do it alone. When I try to quit, my demeanor and attitude is so shitty and people hate being around me, that I always go back. Even I hate being around me when I'm not using.

Any advice, words of wisdom, local groups, and suggestions as far as things like accupuncture/hypnosis are GREATLY appreciated. Hopefully I'll post my Day 1 and roll call soon.

Thanks!

TL;DR: I'm Stephen from Memphis, 27 years old. Really want to quit. Can't do it alone. Please give advice.
Quit Date: 11/30/12.