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Offline Dundippin

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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #9 on: August 25, 2016, 08:57:00 AM »
JonM,

Congratulations on being done with the dip and just deciding to just quit.

I quit ten years ago for 9 months. I regretted caving and it took ten years to decide to quit for good. That was at the ripe age of 59.

My suggesting is to make sure you drink plenty of fruit juice during your quit. I prefer Orange Juice.

I read an article on this site that explained that when you use nicotine, your body releases sugars in the brain. This creates a feeling of pleasure when you dip. You lose this when you quit.

Drinking the fruit juice replaces those sugars and makes quitting a bit easier.

The other thing I recommend is to control what you focus on. If you keep thinking about what you are quitting, it will make the quit harder.

Distract your brain and focus on everything but the quit. Exercise when you get the jitters and the nagging muscle pain.

The quit will be hard but you are tough and you will fight through this.

I quit with you today.

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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #8 on: August 24, 2016, 11:17:00 AM »
You seem pissed at nicotine - which is good! I couldn't quit until I reached that point realizing a can and a corporation were running my life and killing me. Glad to have ya!
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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #7 on: August 24, 2016, 07:48:00 AM »
Welcome...lots of great advice above! It's really simple and it works. 25 plus years user clean for almost 3 years here! Post roll every damn day, get involved with your quit group, get into chat when you can, and keep your word. The truth is most people will fail at this, those that make it buy into the program and work at it every day
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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2016, 06:37:00 AM »
Welcome Jon! You just made one of the best decisions of your life to join KTC, post your promise and begin the quit journey one day at a time. Never forget that you are not alone. The nic bitch will try to seduce you back - but you are a man of your word and the promise you made to yourself and to us will sustain you. I failed many times like you before finding KTC. Welcome!
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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #5 on: August 23, 2016, 10:56:00 PM »
This place and the people are real. We've all been going through it together. Give it all you got. Don't leave anything on the table. Read all you can on this site. Read intros. Read HOF speeches. Glean all the knowledge you can. Give your number to others. Get the numbers of others. Text folks. Call folks. Build a network of support. Support others. Root yourself into KTC. Post roll first thing in the morning. Don't leave one moment of your day uncovered by your promise. You can do this. It's one day at a time.

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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #4 on: August 23, 2016, 06:45:00 PM »
It is very easy not to dip, just don't put a dip in your mouth.

If you want to learn how not to put a dip in your mouth then that is very hard and only a few can truly make it through the process. If you are serious, stay on here and read everything you can, learn how to keep your guard up and learn what your quit tools are and how to keep them close.

Everyone on here will help you if you are serious and in the fight for the long haul. Post roll each day and learn everything you can, reach out when you need help and get ready to drop to your knees and cry in pain. This is so very hard but it can be done. I will quit with you as I have quit every single day for the past 1,120+ days and I will quit again tomorrow.
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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2016, 11:18:00 PM »
You posted roll, and that's great. You've made your promise. Make it again tomorrow, and every day after. Make your promise very early in the morning, before you leave the house, so you don't give yourself the opportunity to buy a can. Honor your promise. Refuse to cave. Grab some digits from your quit brothers for an emergency, or just to exchange some encouragement. If you do all those things, you've got this thing beaten. My digits are just a PM away

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Re: Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2016, 09:37:00 PM »
Quote from: JonM
Good Evening,


Just wanted to through out an intro, and say I am glad to have found this site. Have tried numerous times in the past, and have tried quit programs offered by my state, but none of the "support groups" seemed like real people who have actually been through the hell of quitting. This will be the last time I try to quit, because I am just flat quitting period.

Jon M.
Jon, welcome to KTC

I hope you know what you are up against this is battle and you need to ensure you are prepared every way possible.
use seeds fake stuff anything to keep your mind from cravings, your body is fighting an internal battle against its loss of elevated levels of epinephrine (adrenaline which is why when you chew you get an elevated heart rate etc) also dopamine (which is a neurotransmitter for the brains pleasure center). Remember your body is filtering out all this and bringing itself off of its drug the bodies central nervous system perks up with the use of nicotine but it becomes physically stressed over time which is why we get cravings.

“When drugs like cocaine or nicotine activate the reward pathways, it reinforces your desire to use them again because it feels good. Nicotine also increases the level of other neurotransmitters and chemicals that modulate how your brain works. For example, your brain makes more endorphins in response to nicotine. Endorphins are small proteins that are often called the body's natural painkiller. It turns out that the chemical structure of endorphins is very similar to that of heavy-duty synthetic painkillers like morphine. Endorphins can lead to feelings of euphoria, and may explain nicotine's psychoactive and rewarding effects.” (national drug institute on drug abuse)

I think understanding exactly what you are up against will help you in your quit there is a reason why this is so hard to quit and this is way so many fail. You donÂ’t want to be another failure in quitting you want to be one who succeeds.

nicotine is addictive, as addictive as cocaine or heroin (and also difficult to quit) -- even if your body absorbs only a tenth of the amount of nicotine in every cigarette you smoke -- just 1 milligram out of the 10 an average cigarette contains -- it's enough to get you hooked [source: Balfour, MedicineNet] think about that compared to how long we would leave a chew in etc.

this is why quitting cold turkey is the only way and it sucks but remember the suck is temporary once you make it through this days you will never have to go through this again unless you cave. But you are here to win over this addiction. Post roll every day and use this place as your crutch and all of us to support you get fully involved. This is the most important thing 100 days is not that far if you do one day at a time (ODAAT) and everyday your climb gets easier the NIC will always be lurking but you will defeat it this place will not fail you, you will only fail yourself.

with that I am here for you now get in November quit group and post roll

-Seth
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Introduction - Day 2 Quitting After 20 Years
« on: August 22, 2016, 09:19:00 PM »
Good Evening,


Just wanted to through out an intro, and say I am glad to have found this site. Have tried numerous times in the past, and have tried quit programs offered by my state, but none of the "support groups" seemed like real people who have actually been through the hell of quitting. This will be the last time I try to quit, because I am just flat quitting period.

Jon M.