Why didn't you either call or text me before you shoved that shit in your mouth? I sent you my number the very first night you signed up...as well as Praddy's information for you to contact. Remember him, the other new guy also from India that sent you the PM at my request? Praddy told me last night he had not heard back from you either. I have to assume by your cave that you did not read any information on the site nor put any thought into WHY Paddy and I sent you our telephone numbers. Until you work this program with the tools it provides, you are destined for continued failure. Go post your new Day 1 in February 2014.
Damn it!
Fuck! Everyone reading this. You post roll. If you can't keep your word that day, you are required to call a brother or sister and ask for permission to cave before you can.
Some of you are too prideful to admit you are weak. Don't you think we get it yet? We have been weak before too. I didn't make it 615 days without calling for permission to cave.
Oh you don't want to call because you know the answer? So what? You still can cave even if the answer is, "no". You would have caved without the call so the call is not that big of deal to make if you want to cave but it is honorable to at least call for support before you act on impulse.
Offering advice - Wise people don't need it and fools won't heed it!
Here and now quitters. No one uses nicotine when they post roll. If you are planning to cave, or going back on your word, you can't do it until you make the call and ask for permission!
I had a battle with thinking a glass of wine would hurt. Just one and no one would be around to see it. I DIDN'T DRINK because I didn't get permission to cave.
Make the call or hate yourself for going back into the jail cell of addiction!
Ajay, you are new to this game so I am chalking this up to being too prideful to call for support. If you break your word to us again, Shame on you. YOU ARE WORTH IT and YOU DESERVE TO BE FREE FROM THIS! You surrender to nicotine again, I will come unglued because you are not following the plan.
People, if you follow the plan....you will not lose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ajay - I think people should use proper sentences...hurting someone's feelings may not always provide better support. I thought this site is full of supporters....but I can't carry on with this kind of support....so I am leaving this site ...thanks for your support till now.
Ajay - I don't want you to leave. However, reproving your actions is to strengthen your resolve.
We can fight addiction by being accountable! If you cave and we say, "Nice try, better luck this time." Then the accountability is a sham!
You promised to quit and you didn't. Plain and simple. If I wasn't trying in practice because I just didn't feel like practicing that day, my coach said some really hard things to me but I loved my coach because he was teaching me things not only in wrestling but how to be in life.
My coach. I once walked on the mat and was wrestling an "easy" match. I expected to win without trying. I walked off the mat and the coach said, "Thomas, you could have been a hero but instead you're and asshole." I deserved it because I didn't try I just thought wrestling was easy.
You have the plan and you can't fail if you follow it. You missed an assignment and your coaches are telling you to get your head in the game. Not because we are mean but because we see a part of you in us and that means, I love you, I care about your quit and I want you to win.
Please get back in the game and quit. Don't take offense or use this as an excuse to remain a bitch to nicotine and US tobacco.
I really am sorry for you if you leave. However, if you need an excuse to bow out and hump a can, that's on you. I didn't make you quit, I didn't make you cave and I didn't make you surrender. ADDICTS MAKE EXCUSES to Surrender or justify chewing.
In short, I care about you and don't want you to go. However, if you want a hug when you fail, I wont. I hug when someone follows the plan and reprove when they fuck up! YOU FUCKED UP and need to own it so you don't repeat the mistake.
I would expect you to do the same to me if I screw up.