Okay Lax. You've got a couple weeks down and that's tremendous. From here on out, you ride the bus with us. The approach here is pretty straight forward. If you are serious about staying quit and are a man of your word, this place works. Here are the secrets:
1. HIT THE PINK. Click on the 'Welcome Center' in the upper left. There you will get the lay of the land.
2. We do a little thing here called Roll Call. This is you putting down your word. You a man of your word Lax? You put down your word that you will not consume nicotine for 24 hours. That it. Not a year. Not a month. Not a week. One day. That's how we do it. One day at a time. Don't fuck with the program. We post roll every day. First thing. As soon as you put on your bunny slippers, you better be making a B-line to the computer to put down your word. Can't get to a computer? Text a quit brother or sister. Don't got numbers? Get some.
This is where you post roll:
March 2012This is how you post roll:
How to Post Roll3. Read. In this site you will find more information than you can imagine. You read about craves and ways to beat them. You read about dip dreams. You read about the struggle that is facing addiction daily. All this and MORE! The more you are educated, the safer your quit. And that's what we want...to protect your quit.
4. Get involved. You can drop by every day and put down your 'JoeBlowALoot +1', keep your word and come back in 24 hours. Sure. That's one approach. But if you are hell bent on keeping that cancer candy out of your mouth you get involved. You get to know the folks here. They'll have your back on those days when shit is hitting the fan and you need someone who knows EXACTLY how fucking hard it is to fight. And if you want them to come running day or night, you better get to know them.
5. Reach out. Know that you are not alone. Know that there are a number of men and women here that you can call day or night...me included if you need someone to talk you off the ledge.
There is no good reason to consume nicotine. None. Lastly I leave you with this don't use these words again: try, hope, wish, luck, cave.
We make our own path, each of us. We do this with purpose and conviction. You have quit so there is no "try" as this is not an attempt. YOU HAVE QUIT. Wish? Wish for what? You are quit. You got what you wanted. Luck? Fuck luck. I've got balls and I'm guessing so do you. Hope? Hope is a fat chick from high school. And lastly cave does not exist.
Welcome. Fight. Plan. Protect. That's all.