Need Help

[Thumblewort]

poof, NM, found it.

[Thumblewort]

I read this 4 page intro........wow this dude doesn't even come close to getting it. I mean like what's the point CPA? Where is the disconnect (as if you will even read this)?

"I caved 3-4 times, but don't lecture me" - why are some of the latest cavers so determined on making up the rules as they go?

[basshaug]

Oh boy here we go again. I think this is the 4th, maybe 5th day 1 for you. We don't fuck around here. This is a place for quitting. You havent shown anybody that you have one ounce of quit in you.

[Thumblewort]

What always gets me on these merges is the quitters I have never heard of.....I hope they still post roll and are quit.

You've never heard of him because he's been here for almost a complete year, and has 30 posts. He posts a request for help in a new intro thread, and then leaves, probably for months before he'll come back here again, open ANOTHER fucking intro with a request for help, which is going to waste another 45 fucking minutes of my life trying to track THIS fuckin intro down, so I can merge it...again...

...then he'll disappear for another 4 months...

'bang head'

I was referring to some of the other folks in his intro, not him.

[Nolaq]

What always gets me on these merges is the quitters I have never heard of.....I hope they still post roll and are quit.

You've never heard of him because he's been here for almost a complete year, and has 30 posts. He posts a request for help in a new intro thread, and then leaves, probably for months before he'll come back here again, open ANOTHER fucking intro with a request for help, which is going to waste another 45 fucking minutes of my life trying to track THIS fuckin intro down, so I can merge it...again...

...then he'll disappear for another 4 months...

'bang head'

[Thumblewort]

What always gets me on these merges is the quitters I have never heard of.....I hope they still post roll and are quit.

[Nolaq]

IF he ever comes back - I merged your two intros into this one. You should read it all. As well as everyother thing posted here, because, well...you don't get it bud.

[Nolaq]

Bump for the Merge.

[Idaho Spuds]

Crickets..... hasn't been on since yesterday

[FMBM707]

Hey man, there is only one person that can make you quit and keep you quit and that is YOU. You have to want this, you have to earn it, you have to make the decisions every day to keep that shit out of your mouth.

I hope the doctor gives you a clean bill of health. It's like a second chance. Don't fuck it up by thinking you can keep getting away with putting poison in your lip.

Quit while the quitting is good because when it's too late, well, it's too late. There's no restart button or do over. Quitting sucks at times but it's nothing compared to the alternative.

Quit on.

[Ginet]

Are you really ready to quit, or are you just worried about mouth sores and will go back to dipping if you get the all clear?

If you want to quit, do some reading like you give a crap and figure out which group you will be in now and go post roll call. Then explain to your new group and your old group why this time will be different for you and why they should invest time and effort in you.

....what gmann said.....

Can't invest time if you aren't sure......positive......definite on doing this. Let us know....

I'm just gonna hang here and quit like a girl until I hear from you.......and for your benefit, I wouldn't keep a lady waiting too long.

[G]

Are you really ready to quit, or are you just worried about mouth sores and will go back to dipping if you get the all clear?

If you want to quit, do some reading like you give a crap and figure out which group you will be in now and go post roll call. Then explain to your new group and your old group why this time will be different for you and why they should invest time and effort in you.

[Landdon]

You can start with a new group, but yes you need to answer those, and then be committed to this, or why waste your time. Are you in or out? You have to follow this program or it's not going to work for you. So, ask yourself if you are willing to follow the guidelines. Post roll? form a cave plan? You have to commit full-time, which by the way isn't very difficult to do, but still requires your attention and dedication. If you can't stay with this program maybe consider another program.

[enav]

I was wondering how I could rejoin a quit group from last year, or do I need to start over with the latest group? I was quit for 2 months, and then failed, stop posting. Any information would be helpful. Ready to make this final and stop this madness.

Thanks

Answer the three questions! if you threw out your stash this morning so you have quit. I read on FMB's into that you threw it out this morning. If your not dipping anymore there is not time better than the now. But you need to answer these questions so we can all learn and you can stare it in the face and learn. Lets go - get out of slavery

[starr_78]

There is no rejoining a group. You left and failed now you have to answer these 3 questions to both your old group and your new group to possibly gain forgiveness and admittance to a new group. That is if they will have you in their group. I suggest that you take a good long hard look at the questions and take a lot of time answering them. I don't want any clique answers in this. It better be heartfelt and make people think you are here for the long haul. We don't cave at KTC so this is your only shot at re-admittance and even then I am feeling really nice today.

1. What happened?

2. Why did it happen?

3. What are you going to do differently this time?

Also post the answers here so that we can all see what you have to say.