Hello everyone. New to the site and it's forums. My wife found Kill the Can and pointed me in your direction. I have been chewing for 18 years, 1 to 2 can a day habbit, and have been through a bunch of crap because of it. Lying, stealing, manipulating and the list goes on, and all for the next chew. It almost destroyed my marriage and family. Luckily, my wife is VERY loving and more forgiving than I deserve. I am here to finally quit. Day 12 today. I meant to register my first day and start the process with some help. My life has been very busy the last couple weeks. Moving across, and driving across the country. Shipping our house hold goods and receiving them at the other end. Retiring from the military. I have been constantly moving and constantly with my wife. Being busy and especially being with my wife has been a great help. Our life has slowed down now though and I am struggling to deal with the anxiety and mental fogginess alone. I can only eat so many sunflower seeds and chew so much gum. Otherwise I feel guilty that I am spending just as much money trying to quit as I was actually chewing. Anyone have a good substitute for the oral fixation that is cheap but fulfilling? I can and will do this but I do miss the chew. Thank you all for your support and inspiration.