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Offline Souliman

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2011, 07:50:00 PM »
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
Man up. Face the music. Fight for it.
Fess Up!----- before I send Soul on an investigation. You can run but you can't hide from the Souliman.

Who are you and what group do you belong to... You owe your former group an explanation...

We are waiting....
Still no response.....still not serious.
I believe this was cleared up...he is actually Gooch901 formerly of Sept. 2011. He posted in Sept and Feb today.
He reached out to me as well and conveyed his resolve to face this head on.

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #10 on: November 01, 2011, 07:46:00 PM »
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
Man up. Face the music. Fight for it.
Fess Up!----- before I send Soul on an investigation. You can run but you can't hide from the Souliman.

Who are you and what group do you belong to... You owe your former group an explanation...

We are waiting....
Still no response.....still not serious.
I believe this was cleared up...he is actually Gooch901 formerly of Sept. 2011. He posted in Sept and Feb today.

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #9 on: November 01, 2011, 06:52:00 PM »
Quote from: LLCope
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Quote from: Steve1357
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
Man up. Face the music. Fight for it.
Fess Up!----- before I send Soul on an investigation. You can run but you can't hide from the Souliman.

Who are you and what group do you belong to... You owe your former group an explanation...

We are waiting....
Still no response.....still not serious.
"We shall not fail or falter; we shall not weaken or tire...Give us the tools and we will finish the job." - Sir Winston Churchill

"Not using gets much easier as time goes by, but the consequences of "just one" never lessen." - Me

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #8 on: November 01, 2011, 06:42:00 AM »
Quote from: Souliman
Quote from: redyota
Quote from: Steve1357
Quote from: FROMTHEASHES
Quote from: FROMTHEASHES
Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
Man up. Face the music. Fight for it.
Fess Up!----- before I send Soul on an investigation. You can run but you can't hide from the Souliman.

Who are you and what group do you belong to... You owe your former group an explanation...

We are waiting....
"A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can do without" HD Thoreau

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #7 on: October 31, 2011, 08:16:00 PM »
Quote from: redyota
Quote from: Steve1357
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Quote from: FROMTHEASHES
Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
Man up. Face the music. Fight for it.

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #6 on: October 31, 2011, 04:30:00 PM »
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve
He's scared to face the music. I would imagine that cancer is scarier, but he'd rather play games with this site and his life.
"We shall not fail or falter; we shall not weaken or tire...Give us the tools and we will finish the job." - Sir Winston Churchill

"Not using gets much easier as time goes by, but the consequences of "just one" never lessen." - Me

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #5 on: October 31, 2011, 03:45:00 PM »
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
Brandon,

1. You should be using the same username as your first attempt. Two usernames is a big no-no here.

2. You need to go to you original group and explain why you caved.

3. As far as your plan, I will give you advice on how I have stayed quit (I am not a vet by any means, but this approach has worked for 99 days)

-As you pointed out you stopped posting roll call. This needs to be done daily, first thing. I post roll first thing, before I eat breakfast. And I do this EVERYDAY. I have also exchanged #'s with about 10 guys from my quit group. I am certain that if my name is missing from roll call, I will get multiple messages of people looking for me.

Early on in your quit you should always have substitues handy. Seeds, jerky, gum, hard candy, fake chew, straws, ect., ect. Let all your chewing coworkers and friends know that you are quit. When you get hit with a tough crave you should have a plan on how to deal with it. Go run, jump on chat, eat an apple, what ever it takes. But have your plan and be ready. When the crave hits you, you need to be confident that you have tools handy to smack it away.

Shoot me a pm if need anything.

Steve

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #4 on: October 31, 2011, 03:39:00 PM »
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Quote from: FROMTHEASHES
Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.
What was your original Quit name? Have you ever posted roll before and with which group?

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2011, 03:24:00 PM »
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Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

yes i was but i decided i didnt need help nemore and i stopped posting and low and behold...i caved in. i caved cuz of stress? i guess im not sure really i was unemployed when i quit and i work construction and everybody around me dips and i caved not long after i went back to work. I dont have a plan and idk how it will be different but i need to draw the somewhere brother. so please help me.

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Re: 2nd time quitting this year
« Reply #2 on: October 31, 2011, 03:13:00 PM »
Quote from: FROMTHEASHES
Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon
Brandon,

Congrats on quitting and posting day 1. You were not quit for six months, you were only taking a break.

Have you been on this site before your cave?

What happened and why did you cave after six months? What is your plan and how will this be different?

Steve

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2nd time quitting this year
« on: October 31, 2011, 03:02:00 PM »
Hello my name is Brandon, i have failed myself and everybody around me. i was quit for six months and i fucking caved. so i am here now because i need help from my brothers. so please help me become the man i need to be.
Brandon