Hello

[ParadigmDawg]

I am posting my own timeline as a reminder to myself of my quit and to keep my guard up.

Here is the time line I kept with me and it really helped to pull it out of my pocket when things got difficult.

It seems like just a few weeks ago when I posted my day 1 in the October 2013 roll call. I know that every minute feels like 1,000 hours to most of you right now and I'm not going to sugar coat it, this will suck and it will bring you to your knees but it can be done.

I dipped for 20 something years and I dipped every second I was awake. If I was successful at my quit, any one can do it.

Get deeply involved on this site and build a network of fellow quitters and keep them close. Also keep all you tools close to your side and keep your guard held high.

Here is a brief timeline on how my quit is going, I'm not sure if it's helpful or not but I made it for another new quitter and he seemed to like it.

Keep in mind, I am no expert and I am just going off of what I have experienced the past 3+ years. My "suck scale" looked something like this:

Day 1-3: bad fog, my brain didn't work at all. Very little sleep and couldn't take a dump to save my life. I wanted a dip every second of each day.

Day 4-10: Pretty much out of the fog but bad, bad cravings and headache every second of the day

Day 11-14: My cruise control days, I didn't think about dipping much and craves were few and far between. Sleeping good but too much.

Day 15-21 Starting to get my energy level back up. Craves about 2-4 per day and short. The first thing every morning, I started to get an empty and sick feeling in my stomach when I thought about not being able to dip. Started losing my temper easily.

Day 22-25 No real changes, cruising along but feeling a little depressed. I started learning how to hate my addiction and was really mad about it.

Day 26- 30: Wow, I was starting to gain a lot of weight. Weird how I replaced Cope with Ice Cream and cake. I don't even eat sweets but here I am 10 lbs heavier. I don't care, I'm not dipping and the craves are mild.

Day 31-38: Freaking fog was back, some nasty craves and my temper way out of control. WTF!


Day 39-60: The roller coaster days. Mod craves followed by no craves, bad temper and mild depression. A difficult time but I was not giving up at this point.


Day 61-73: The best days by far. Seldom think about dip, temper is way better, sleeping like a normal person and just feeling pretty darn good. I am stacking up these good days to recharge my batteries and prepare for the next round of fights".

Day 74- 85: Really good days. Strong cravings when I have too many drinks so I have been careful with drinking. Normal days are now 0-1 crave. My temper has been completely under control for 2 weeks now.

Day 86-99: Zero craves, zero dip dreams and temper under control. The strong craves when I drink are also gone. I am disgusted when I see someone dip. Proudly watching my group hit HOF one at a time; which is just how we quit, one day at a time. My guard is still held high as I know the fight is far from over.

Day 100-135: I am on a high as I have reached my first goal. My guard is held the highest it has ever been in because I will not disappoint all those who have helped me.

Day 136: Zero, I mean nadda, zip, nothing as far as craves go. My cardio recovery time is amazing on the bike now and I just donÃ,’t dip. I told my wife last night that this is the first time I have ever truly quit. Sure, I stopped for 262 days once but it didnÃ,’t feel like this.

Day 137: Rough patch at work this week. Just found out that we are closing our Sleep Division (I'm in Medical Sales). I make about 50% of my commission in sleep so I have no idea what I am going to do.

I took my wife to a nice dinner and explained it to her. We are both freaking out. I also drank about 6 Martinis and for about a 5 minute period, I told myself I was going to get a can on the way home. Who cares at this point...right?

I got up, went to the bathroom, got my tools in order and said fuck off Nic Bitch....I may be willing to screw myself right now but not everyone who has helped me. I put my big boy pants on and went home.

Minny and his 1+1= 2 theory kept ringing in my head.

Day 138-145: Guard held high and in for the long run. Weird dip dream last night. I just remember feeling panicky because I needed some SM and couldn't find any at any store. I woke up and was fine. It is funny as I haven't used SM since my first week of quit.

Day 146-344: Everything has gotten so much easier. Zero cravings but guard is still held high.

Day 1,119...wow... I never even think about dipping. I keep my support system near at all times and still keep my guard up.

[ParadigmDawg]

I actually agree with you guys but I am only human, I know it's hard to believe. I do have a great support system outside of here.

I just heard about Trauma, so sad and he was a lot of help along the way just like all of you.

[rdad]

3 years since I have quit, wow, it's difficult to believe but oh so awesome.

Super glad you're still rockin' the Quit but... (you knew this was coming even though you won't see it for months/years)...

Status updates are shit.

The percentage of dudes posting a "Day 1" because they abandoned the EDD mindset is not in your favor. We just had a dude that was waaaay ahead of you in #'s post up a "Day 1" because he thought he "had it down".

Nope.

Not so much.

We "hope" you stay quit.

Invest in your Quit, dude.

Agree 100%

I agree 110%. I hope you have support in real life cuz not many here give a shit for your semi annual updates.

[worktowin]

3 years since I have quit, wow, it's difficult to believe but oh so awesome.

Super glad you're still rockin' the Quit but... (you knew this was coming even though you won't see it for months/years)...

Status updates are shit.

The percentage of dudes posting a "Day 1" because they abandoned the EDD mindset is not in your favor. We just had a dude that was waaaay ahead of you in #'s post up a "Day 1" because he thought he "had it down".

Nope.

Not so much.

We "hope" you stay quit.

Invest in your Quit, dude.

Agree 100%

[AppleJack]

3 years since I have quit, wow, it's difficult to believe but oh so awesome.

Super glad you're still rockin' the Quit but... (you knew this was coming even though you won't see it for months/years)...

Status updates are shit.

The percentage of dudes posting a "Day 1" because they abandoned the EDD mindset is not in your favor. We just had a dude that was waaaay ahead of you in #'s post up a "Day 1" because he thought he "had it down".

Nope.

Not so much.

We "hope" you stay quit.

Invest in your Quit, dude.

[ParadigmDawg]

3 years since I have quit, wow, it's difficult to believe but oh so awesome.

[wastepanel]

914 days quit and $4944.74 saved!!!!!!

Glad you're quit but you're doing it the difficult way man. It's easy to forget. Trust me I've been there.

6 month updates are not the way to go.

[ParadigmDawg]

914 days quit and $4944.74 saved!!!!!!

[rdad]

How come you don't post roll anymore?

Yah! What the fuck dawg! Haven't heard from you in forever. Glad you are still quit. Stick around and be more active bro!

[dannyownz]

Hey Greg,
Im on my day 4 so Listen to my advice, Don't listen to the "dip dreams," or the cravings. I haven't had one nights sleep without a dream that isnt focused on or doesnt have it. Don't listen to it. You probably already know this because you quit once before. If you did it once, you can do it again.

Quitting with you, brother.

Danny,
day 4

[Grizzlyhasclaws]

How come you don't post roll anymore?

[ParadigmDawg]

Well, well, well...I punched that little bitch square in the face two years ago today. Those of you who are new and struggling, just fight through this, it is worth it and the fight gets so much easier.

Maybe once every 4-6 months that little bitch will try to whisper to me and I just say " get the fuck out of here you idiot" and as quickly as it entered my mind, it exits.

I know I am not active on here anymore but all you guys and this site helped many so many times as I was crawling on the floor and thinking I was dying. I will always hold you in a special place in my heart.

My guard is still held high and I am quit.

Greg

[foothillsco]

Congrats. I read pages 1,2 and 17, skipping everything in between.

I play soccer and after a game, we sit around and crack a few beers. I enjoyed sitting in my chair, finishing those beers and popping in a chew. I get what you were doing and I'm changing some shit in my life like you.

[ParadigmDawg]

I had a dip dream a few nights ago, first time I had even thought about dipping in months.

I was like shut the fuck up and sit down bitch, I still hate you.

ParadigmDawg day 670

[Derk40]

1 year and 1 day....my freedom was hard fought and well worth it.

Thanks to all that helped me.

My guard is still held high each day.

Well Done and congrats on the year. That is badass Sir!!!

Greg, I"m sorry im not here more. Congrats on a year. We toasted to you today going down the blue slide at Schlitterbahn. Awesomeness my friend.

I already told you congrats but I will again; one year of freedom under the belt.

P Dawg! You da man! Well done brother!

My brother! Congratulations on the milestone!

Well done PDawG!