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Offline Mike1966

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #8 on: June 25, 2016, 10:34:00 AM »
Quote from: jlud007
Quote from: Jbuck2016
I'm ready to take this stroll to victory lane. (knowingly knowing that it's not going to be easy) but going to take it one day at a time and push through.

Just throw this mentality right out of the July '16 quit bus...

There is no stroll into victory lane, there is no finish line, there is only today.

This thing is a beast waiting to claw back into your life at any moment be it day 1 or day 1,000 or day 10,000. Other than learning about just how horrible tobacco and nicotine are for your physical and mental health (which will cultivate the hatred required), the knowledge that after the first few days, then after the fog this becomes a 100% psychological battle is vital to success in my opinion. Understand that you are embarking on an unbelievable journey that will change your life forever and be ok with the fact that you will never be cured, you will never "arrive" or be "finished". Addiction is a wound that never fully heals but we all battle together everyday here and that my friend is where the magic resides. Simple, but not easy.

Post roll everyday, get involved and get to know your quit group brothers. Reach out to a few veterans that you like what you read, they can be a great resource when you really struggle.
Post roll everyday, when you struggle (and you will) keep your promise. Reach out and ask for help. Be a man of your word. Integrity.
Post roll everyday, hold one another accountable. Accountability builds the brotherhood.
Read and soak up as much as you can on the site, read intros, post in older quit groups, read HOF speeches and words of wisdom.
It will suck until it doesn't but and no one can tell you exactly when it clicks but when it does you will feel something deep and meaningful. Infinitely more rewarding than sucking on a wad of some poisonous weed. You need another number PM me.
Jlud007
This post is soooo true. From the very 1st sentence down the last. This ought to be copied and pasted in to every new members intro.
Just one and you will be back where you started.
And where you started was desperately wishing
you were where you are right now.

Offline Jlud007

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #7 on: April 20, 2016, 10:53:00 AM »
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I'm ready to take this stroll to victory lane. (knowingly knowing that it's not going to be easy) but going to take it one day at a time and push through.

Just throw this mentality right out of the July '16 quit bus...

There is no stroll into victory lane, there is no finish line, there is only today.

This thing is a beast waiting to claw back into your life at any moment be it day 1 or day 1,000 or day 10,000. Other than learning about just how horrible tobacco and nicotine are for your physical and mental health (which will cultivate the hatred required), the knowledge that after the first few days, then after the fog this becomes a 100% psychological battle is vital to success in my opinion. Understand that you are embarking on an unbelievable journey that will change your life forever and be ok with the fact that you will never be cured, you will never "arrive" or be "finished". Addiction is a wound that never fully heals but we all battle together everyday here and that my friend is where the magic resides. Simple, but not easy.

Post roll everyday, get involved and get to know your quit group brothers. Reach out to a few veterans that you like what you read, they can be a great resource when you really struggle.
Post roll everyday, when you struggle (and you will) keep your promise. Reach out and ask for help. Be a man of your word. Integrity.
Post roll everyday, hold one another accountable. Accountability builds the brotherhood.
Read and soak up as much as you can on the site, read intros, post in older quit groups, read HOF speeches and words of wisdom.
It will suck until it doesn't but and no one can tell you exactly when it clicks but when it does you will feel something deep and meaningful. Infinitely more rewarding than sucking on a wad of some poisonous weed. You need another number PM me.

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #6 on: April 20, 2016, 10:44:00 AM »
Well it dang sure doesn't get any easier on the second day. I've already wanted to fire every motherF that walked past me today at work and doesn't help while you're in on a conference other employees want to bet that you'll cave.. FO dipstick. Gotta keep keepin' on.

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #5 on: April 19, 2016, 10:14:00 PM »
Make your promise every day. Keep your word.

In addition to that, ask every question you have about how to approach the myriad situations that will arise. One of us has faced the same thing and dealt with it without throwing cancer in our lip...and so can you.

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Do or do not. There is no try.
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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #4 on: April 19, 2016, 09:56:00 PM »
Jbuck if you want to be happily quit read the book "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking" by Allen Carr. It works like magic because you will be convinced (because it's true) that you don't even want a dip. Then post roll here every day.

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #3 on: April 19, 2016, 09:46:00 PM »
Welcome jbuck,

Pretty much, post roll every single day, as early as you can, before you leave the house.

Fortify your quit before you have a chance to buy a can.

Make your promise, and keep it.

Get contact digits from your quit mates. Use them in an emergency.

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Re: Quitting Now.
« Reply #2 on: April 19, 2016, 08:58:00 PM »
Welcome my friend.

It is simple we quit one day at a time, one hour or one minute if needed. I see you found July, we post our promise to quit each day, then honor your word.

Quit with you.

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Quitting Now.
« on: April 19, 2016, 07:41:00 PM »
What's up guys, a lot of things have been weighing me down lately and thinking on a long term perspective. TODAY, I've quit. I've flushed all three of my cans down the toilet and walked away. I've been on the NIC for 10 years now and never wanted (for myself) to quit. Maybe for my wife or for my daughter but not for me. Last night, I brought it up to my wife and she said "you're the only one that can make that decision" and it hit me. I'm ready to take this stroll to victory lane. (knowingly knowing that it's not going to be easy) but going to take it one day at a time and push through.

That's all I had!

I'm all up for any ideas or what ever ya'll might have that you've come across on this journey.

"The man upstairs wouldn't put an obstacle in front of you if he had any doubt you wouldn't make it".