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Offline Ribz

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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #19 on: October 27, 2012, 10:13:00 AM »
Lol sorry I was not trying to insult anyone who had kids over 30.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #18 on: October 27, 2012, 01:36:00 AM »
Hey. I had my FIRST kid at 30! Thats not too late! Lol. Glad u are here fighting the bitch man. Hang in there 'winker'
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #17 on: October 27, 2012, 01:20:00 AM »
That's awesome man I hope I feel that good at 145.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #16 on: October 27, 2012, 01:02:00 AM »
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Quote from: Ribz
I wasn't exactly saying that no nic would turn my life around, I did however think more that it would maybe change my outlook...I read somewhere on this site about Someones depression getting better after they had quit nic but I can't remember who it was. I was kindof hoping it would be the same for me... But not as of yet... Maybe further into my quit.
Everyone is different. Me personally I was the happiest guy on the planet til I quit. Once I quit I became depressed and filled with anxiety...had to see a shrink and got put on AD and AA meds.

Not saying that will happen to you but like you said, give it some time and hang tough man!
Oh, by the way I am 146 days quit now and have never felt better in my life.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #15 on: October 27, 2012, 01:00:00 AM »
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I wasn't exactly saying that no nic would turn my life around, I did however think more that it would maybe change my outlook...I read somewhere on this site about Someones depression getting better after they had quit nic but I can't remember who it was. I was kindof hoping it would be the same for me... But not as of yet... Maybe further into my quit.
Everyone is different. Me personally I was the happiest guy on the planet til I quit. Once I quit I became depressed and filled with anxiety...had to see a shrink and got put on AD and AA meds.

Not saying that will happen to you but like you said, give it some time and hang tough man!
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"Celebrate the moment as it turns into one more"..
"You can fight without ever winning, but never ever win, win without a fight".
"Onion rings...funyons. A connection? Yeah. I fucking think so."
"Honest Abe had a fake jaw".
"In a world that seems so small, I can't stop thinking big"
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The act of a noble warrior. Who lost the will to fight."

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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #14 on: October 27, 2012, 12:53:00 AM »
I wasn't exactly saying that no nic would turn my life around, I did however think more that it would maybe change my outlook...I read somewhere on this site about Someones depression getting better after they had quit nic but I can't remember who it was. I was kindof hoping it would be the same for me... But not as of yet... Maybe further into my quit.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #13 on: October 27, 2012, 12:31:00 AM »
Hang in there Ribz. I don't know you but am pulling for you. Hate to hear anyone say that not one day goes by where they aren't glad to be alive. That's sad bro...and to me a bunch of fucking bullshit. Your daughter alone should put a smile on your face every morning you wake up.

I get life can be depressing and sounds like its kicking your ass a bit right now. Question is what are you gonna do about it? We quit nicotine around here not life.

Not sure why you thought quitting nic would turn yourself around. It controls your brain not good or bad breaks in life. Life is life with or without a cancer turd in your lip. I will say that if you can kick this shit with all these bad things going on around you, you are definately a man with some balls and a strong will to live and improve your life. I can tell you "care". If you didn't you wouldn't be trying to quit, wouldn't be on this site, and wouldn't be reaching out by telling your story.

Sounds like you acknowledge that you had a hand in some of the bad shit that's happened to you in the past. You cant blame everything on "bad luck". They say luck is when preperation meets oppurtunity. Might be time to get out there and start making your own "luck".

You WANT a normal life...then get out there and GET it. You're 30 not 60. Its not too late.

Anytime you feel like coming on here to vent, do it!!! We will offer advice and support in force. You have some friends now bro and we are all pulling for you in your quit and in your life.









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"Celebrate the moment as it turns into one more"..
"You can fight without ever winning, but never ever win, win without a fight".
"Onion rings...funyons. A connection? Yeah. I fucking think so."
"Honest Abe had a fake jaw".
"In a world that seems so small, I can't stop thinking big"
"Someone set a bad example. Made surrender seem all right
The act of a noble warrior. Who lost the will to fight."

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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #12 on: October 26, 2012, 11:13:00 PM »
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One day at a time.

In everything we do.

I'm very proud of you.
Awesome Goss!!!!! I'm with ya brotha!!! Like everyone says one day at a time, you quit today and then tomorrow you can make the choice again. It's all in your mind no bullshit.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #11 on: October 26, 2012, 05:57:00 PM »
One day at a time.

In everything we do.

I'm very proud of you.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #10 on: October 26, 2012, 05:02:00 PM »
I fuckin' love this- came on here to bitch and helped someone else decide to kick nic to the curb! Sorry to hear about the negative shit you have going on Ribz, from what I've seen only 1 person has the power to change your life for the better - not saying it's easy but you can make change, you've already proved that by being here man! keep up the good work and keep reaching out here and to your brothers in your quit group! pm me if I can help or even just listen (or read!)
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #9 on: October 26, 2012, 04:26:00 PM »
Made the commitment today.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #8 on: October 26, 2012, 03:59:00 PM »
Thanks goss, I can only speak for me I was just fuckin sick of it threw my can out and done...I do use the fake still, about 2 cans a week or so but it's better than 7+ of the debol (waterboy)...my advice throw er out now brotha...shit takes balls...but I'd rather a fuckin company not make money off poisoning me to death... I'll be quit right along side ya when you ready
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #7 on: October 26, 2012, 02:42:00 PM »
Congrats Ribz. I am trying to work up the nerve to quit...

Good luck!
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #6 on: October 26, 2012, 02:34:00 PM »
Just need to vent somewhere.

I'm depressed about life, all of it, not one day goes by where I'm like hey I'm glad to be alive...my life has been a complete series of failures, I have quit prolly over 30-40 jobs in my life from stupidity or health reasons, have lost a family that I loved, live with my fucking parents at 30, work at Pizza Hut part time, have no money for anything, have sold numerous things to keep my head above water, lost my nice apartment, am gonna lose my car. Had to leave a 60-70k a year job due to injury/ laziness... Have not had a gf in 3 years, I understand why I don't have one now because I live with my parents and don't have a good job, but what about when I did have those things? I don't do drugs or drink so that's not the problem... I thought quitting was maybe the answer, maybe it was affecting my attitude towards life, WRONG!!!! Life just gets shittier and it's pissing me off on why I just can't have a normal life, wife...kids...job...car...house...and most of all happiness. I do have a daughter that is the world to me...however I wanted more kids than just one and 30 is a bit over the hill to be having kids to me....I've been hearing the same fucking story that shit happens for a reason and things will get better...BULLSHIT!!!! Oh and did I forget to mention that I have absolutely no friends and that is not an over stated fact... There are two people who call me my mom and my ex gf if there is an issue with my daughter that's it...getting more and more bitter and pissed off about life and just needed to vent because there is no one to listen. Furthermore I do understand that chew does not fix any of these problems (thanks sM) but my brain tells me it will. I am still quit for today

Please excuse the jumping all around in this post I do have ADHD and just kindof type what is going through my head.
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Re: New CO quitter
« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2012, 05:08:00 PM »
Sorry for the double post
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