It has been a rough week, Not Nic wise I have had no cravings had a little funk to start, Monday but thats nothing new when you are driving 86 miles to work and back everyday.
Then came Tuesday, I Have been with my wife for 8 years and I have been drug through hell with her. She has been homesick, regretful of marrying me, regretful of staying for so long. It has been a struggle lately with her, I have stuck with a women who hasn't wanted to be with me since 2010. A women who utilizes me as the convenient person who will not leave, She has her "friends" that are their for her emotionally and she has left me on the back burner for most things.
This all changed the last 4 days and it has been rough, Basically the women I married has hidden alot of her life from me and never has she wanted to or told me about it. She finally came clean (she hasnt been cheating at least Physically) she has been using people in her facebook world to replace me emotionally and to be the one she talks to when times are rough. She came clean about her families past and how hard it has been and how emotionally wrecked she is and the way she was treated for years by her mom and step dad. She threatened to leave, she has threatened everything at me the last couple days, but here I sit.
this has probably been some of the roughest days within my quit, She is seeking therapy and she is working on figuring out how to commit to me but damn it has been hard and the part that is a win is I have not craved at all during this time.