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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #14 on: September 12, 2012, 03:09:00 PM »
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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #13 on: September 12, 2012, 03:00:00 PM »
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My apologies for not posting roll. I had computer troubles, got busy and dealing with life and just didn't post. But I will.
do you have a phone to let someone know that you were quit, that works if the computer doesn't. Not trying to be an ass, just looking for some real reason. We all get busy, we all have computer trouble occasionally. Just remember, door swings both ways around here

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #12 on: September 12, 2012, 02:54:00 PM »
My apologies for not posting roll. I had computer troubles, got busy and dealing with life and just didn't post. But I will.

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2012, 02:50:00 PM »
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls.  I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Just a question between October Brothers:

Where ya been?

you say a combat vet, you say you are sending friends here to quit...

then why haven't you been here?

a battle tested SOB who cares.....would have been a great asset to the group.

Just would have thought it would have helped.....being around and being there for others...
Posting you promise/Roll is the backbone of this site. You have caught a lot of shit because you have only 6 posts. This is an internet quit site so don't take it personally. Folks tend to be more blunt in a group like this. If you become more active and share what is happening in your world of quit, it will become personal. You might even make a friend or two along the way if you use this site as directed. Congrats on 70 days quit!!!!!

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #10 on: September 12, 2012, 02:44:00 PM »
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Real character? Really, you want to throw around the vet card as justification that you haven't posted roll since God knows when and then call me out on character? Did you not read the info in the Welcome Center when you signed on and posted roll the first time? Did you not think posting roll was serious enough for you and the rest of us that it could just be skipped? I am in no way disrespecting your service to our country, you don't see me or any other vet throwing our weight around in that manner. I am asking where the fuck you've been and why you show us no respect by not posting your commitment to us as we have to each other every day.

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #9 on: September 12, 2012, 02:43:00 PM »
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I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.
Just a question between October Brothers:

Where ya been?

you say a combat vet, you say you are sending friends here to quit...

then why haven't you been here?

a battle tested SOB who cares.....would have been a great asset to the group.

Just would have thought it would have helped.....being around and being there for others...

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #8 on: September 12, 2012, 02:38:00 PM »
I've not caved on dipping. And I have sent several friends that are stuggling and wanting to quit dipping to the website. I ask a sincere question and I get all is insults. No balls. I am a combat vet and you want to talk to me like that. Thanks for showing your real character.

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #7 on: September 12, 2012, 02:34:00 PM »
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping.  I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping.  I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom.  I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.

BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.

Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...


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Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.

1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?

We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!

Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.

Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!
Is the issue because you quit dipping? Or because you have no balls?
Time to Fess up to your old group!!! Sounds like you need to go buy some Viagra.

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #6 on: September 12, 2012, 02:12:00 PM »
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Quote from: dales
Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping.  I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping.  I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom.  I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.

BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.

Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...


How to post roll

Where to post roll
Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.

1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?

We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!

Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.

Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!
Is the issue because you quit dipping? Or because you have no balls?

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #5 on: September 12, 2012, 01:55:00 PM »
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Quote from: dales
Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping.  I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping.  I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom.  I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.

BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.

Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...


How to post roll

Where to post roll
Nice of you to finally show up there Dales. I've got an idea, how about YOU answer a couple questions and then we'll see if we've got time to get to yours.

1. What happened?
2. Why did it happen?
3. What are you going to do differently this time to prevent a re-occurrence?

We all know you fucking caved long ago and didn't have the balls to come back and own up to it. Now you want answers or advice from us? This isn't a fucking soup kitchen asshole!

Kind of ironic I say you have no balls and yours don't seem to be working right. I call that karma.

Answer the questions then we'll talk. You owe the group at least that much!

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2012, 12:20:00 PM »
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping.  I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping.  I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom.  I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.

BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.
First of all...no sexual problems here, you may want to see a doctor.

Second, you joined in July and you have 6 post? I just learned that you're suppose to be in October'12? Where the fuck are you man? We post roll every day, no excuses what so fucking ever. So why don't you go post roll, and then continue to sack up and stay quit and that sexual problem will probably just take care of its self...


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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2012, 11:23:00 AM »
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping.  I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping.  I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom.  I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
I'm with WT on this one. Had opposite affect you are seeing.

BUT... you are probably going through a LOT of anxiety and that will affect the libido a lot. Give yourself some time for things to rewire. It may take a while.

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Re: sex after quit dipping
« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2012, 11:07:00 AM »
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Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.
I can't speak for others but I had the opposite experience, sex was ok before I quit but after I had more time (wasn't seeing my whore anymore) and even at day 165 our intimacy is still better than ever. I still don't sleep but I never did.
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sex after quit dipping
« on: September 12, 2012, 10:55:00 AM »
Has anybody had problems in the bedroom after quiting dipping. I ve been skoal free for 70 days (after dipping for 38 years) and still have problems sleeping. I don't have to bad cravings but am having some problems in the bedroom. I don't know if its stress or what. Just wondering if anybody else has had the same problem since quiting.