Hello Everyone,
It would be great if you could give me some advice on this subject. I myself have never had any addictions. Now my fiance has been chewing since he was a teen. He has quit a few different times I guess. He called me up one day last Nov and told me he was going to try to quit, well I was very happy because I never liked it but I wanted it to be his decision.
I asked him than why he was doing it, first he said for himself, than he said that was bull it was for me, because he loved me and wanted to be better for me and for us and he wanted to be around for me. Well I had always told him if your going to do it at least tell me don't lie. Through out the months I did question him from time to time because I thought I may have seen remanients. But he adamently swore no he wasn't doing it so I took him at his word. Well this past Saturday, I seen it and had for a few days so I asked and he said he took a dip from his brothers can, than from someone at work to.
Well I was very hurt because here he had been doing it for almost a month and just was going to let me believe and go on being proud of him. I feel decieved. He tells me he doesn't want to be a chewer and he's not addicted because he hasn't went out and purchased his own can. I myself think it's BS!! I'm having a very hard time with this. He said he feels terrible for hurting me. I just don't know what to think about the whole deal, any thoughts or insight would be great.
Thanks in advance.
babyk